On air personality Dotun cried out that he hasn't seen his kids in 10 months.
He said
“Today marks a whole year since they sent me that video, and it has been 10 months since I last saw you. I miss you so much. No amount of lies, games, deceit, or slow legal processes can break me. Fife and Fiore, Daddy just wants his time with you, as he deserves it, but they deny it; they disobey the law because they are scared, cowards, and immature.
“No one should use kids as bait or weapons in a fight. Once again, they picked the wrong one this time. Every effort has been made to prevent me from exercising my rights as a father, but I won’t give in or break. I will keep fighting the right way, even though some believe they have the monopoly on madness and breaking the law. I simply don’t want to play that game just because of these wonderful kids. I am law-abiding, but I am not a fool.
“If you are a father out there, for the sake of posterity and goodwill, fight for your place and your right to be in their lives. Every child needs their father just as much as they need their mother. No one should use children as a means of power or to substitute their emotions.”
''No one should use children as a means of power or to substitute their emotions.”
ReplyDeleteI don't know what really happened but those words above are nothing but the truth.
Omo.. it's well o
ReplyDeleteWow... Didn't know he has kids oh.
ReplyDeleteThings dey happen oh
That means you’re new to this amebowork.
DeleteAs you saw him for to be a husband. Don’t change now oo.
Let him be a father to his kids
Wasn't he married to Dbanj's sister? I didn't know they were separated oh, Oyebanjo family, abeg allow this father see his children except if he is a threat to them.
DeleteDbanj’s sister or olamide’s sister.
DeleteThis is really sad.
ReplyDeleteThose children didn't ask for this sort of experience in life but sick parents do these things to their kids and expect them to grow into well rounded adults.
They will secretly hate you for exposing them to unforetold hardship. It's just a matter of time.
Why is she doing this ?
ReplyDeleteI need to hear her own story too
Women are wicked ..I keep saying it.wicked!it makes no sense to deny the children their father regardless of the beef you both have
ReplyDeleteNa your type dem dey deny. You know yourself.
DeleteNo evidence and you're here spewing thrash
DeleteI always enjoy watching his TikTok videos with his kids. It’s obvious they are fond of their dad.
ReplyDeleteI wish them peace for the sake of the children.
D'banj family oh 🤦🤦🤦.
ReplyDeleteHe married D'banj's younger sister. Rest assured the fight is a long one.
Dotun, please respect yourself and watch your words. Kids are involved. Both of you caused the crack in your relationship. If one of you was more responsible the marriage will last. Those of us that chose to stay don’t have it perfect but decided to stick in and give the kids good life.
ReplyDeletePlease go back and read again!
DeleteYou chose to stay. Well done! Allow others make their own choices in Peace.
However , irrespective of the ish going on, parents should stop using their children as bullets and bullet proofs!!
Never knew that he has marital wahala. He is married to Dbanj sister.
ReplyDeleteWhen did they break up? 🤷♀️
I'm shocked.
I wonder why any parent will use the kids as weapon against the other parent, it's not cool at all, unfortunately, it's still the children that all these will affect most.
ReplyDeleteYou see! Today's parents need to grow up in every sense. Stop being negatively work. If a marriage or relationship ends and there are kids involved, both parties must be allowed access to the kids. Women should do better. I am a woman and I hate this card women play most times.
ReplyDeleteSome women are pure demons, just like the one my bro married.
ReplyDeleteLol. On this blog, all women are saints. Men are all demons 😡
DeleteYou're actually the demon
DeleteNot only you at 20:53, even mine own brother as well, heavy jezebel! We had to pray her out of my brother's life! She now wanted use children as tools to operate! My brother cut the chicken off as well, when he saw the role the mother wanted to use them for. It is well.
DeleteHow did your family and bro do it please. I need help. @ 10:31
Delete@12:37,our own case was very challenging as well! I had to stand in the gap, with my sisters, because my brother had a glorious destiny! Born again! After sending her and the children abroad for a better life! She showed her true color she refused to file my brother;then my brother didn't even bother! Very evil woman.
DeleteShe started sleeping around,thinking that we will not hear! My brother gets visas to travel, so he was not interested in going abroad! As a child of God! He stayed away from women completely! We kept on praying and God brought another man to marry her! We even celebrated the marriage in our family! The next thing she resumed battle with children!
So my brother disconnected himself completely! Her eyes is still in our parent's wealth, because of the trust fund our parents left for us. The man she went to marry does not have anything. So she is still looking for how to use her Children emotionally. My brother removed their names from his company and directorship.
My brother is a very principled person. So my dear,let your brother stay in the place of prayer and cut contact completely,especially when she wants to still use the children as point of contact to perpetuate 😈evil .
Was really hoping you see my comment. Thanks a lot. We're praying too. Just like your family overcame, my bro will surely overcome too. So happy for you and I tap into your testimony and happiness. Amen.🙏
Delete@18:16 you are welcome! If your family can just ignore her and 😈 evil ways! One of my brother's strategy was no contact! We his family members can discuss only within, but never spoke about her anywhere; because they always plant insiders to give them info! Once my brother is talking to his kids, and she tries to come into the conversation, he terminates the call.I understand your plight, because I bore the burden mostly of my brother's anger at first,because I was closest to him! These evil narcissistic partners always go for Godly people, because they are satanic agents and our family did not carry out proper due diligence on her background, because she used pregnancy; which was a faulty marriage foundation for my brother, who grew up in Cburch. We never engaged her physically! She was going everywhere blackmailing my brother, but he never responded! Just let her be invisible to you guys! Never engage or explain anything to her! Just blank her and anyone you identify as her flying monkeys. You have victory in Jesus Mighty Name. Amen! I will also have your brother in my prayers, as there is no distance in spirit. Shalom
DeleteYou know right. My brother is a member of the catholic charismatic and in the praying team. Very responsible kind guy with a heart of gold. Don't just understand how he got entangled with a monster. Nothing he ever does is fine by the witch. She nags,curses, insults and humiliates that innocent man like almost every day. This is a witch that my bro sends abroad to deliver her two kids, buys her expensive gifts does literally everything but still,witch is never happy. My siblings and I are advising him to look into divorcing her but he's still indifferent. Just tired because he's actually my favorite sibling. And it's not like I can't kill the witch with my bare hands, just sparing her witchcraft because of my bro. It is well. Thank sis. I say a big Amen to your prayers.💞💝
DeleteSeparating or divorcing a spouse doesn't mean they divorced children. Honestly the way naija men shirk their responsibilities to their wards, all becos they fell out with their girlfriend, side chick, mistresses, one night stand and wife is becoming too rampant haba.
ReplyDeleteIt should be a very close bond between a child and a parent. Those kids came from your balls&sp@rm, so 'divorcing' your kids should be like divorcing yourself.
The reason behind so many female single parent consistently wishing themselves happy fathers is because they play dual role of parents to the child(ren). Some men can be so petty, they want their ex <>
Well there should be hard indisputable evidence that the daddies fought for their children and want to be part of their lives. That feeling that my father fought for me can't be replaced with material things.
I focused on men because its a man's world.
As for this topic, dotun please apply more pressure to see ur kids. Ignore pride or ego for them. Do the male equivalent of what precious snow white did to be with the kids. If necessary kuku do the Clean boxers, war room, kneel down to beg and all. Stoop to conquer bcos ur blood choldr3n. E go pepper and pai you if ur children grow up and claim that some other man was their father figure when u r still alive.
And you know generation alpha kuku get sharp mouth as they get quickly exposed to topics or situations very very.early in their development
Guy, Apply pressure for ur kids bro
Listen to yourself. Beg to see your own kids because partners are separated. Its different if the man doesn't want to connect with the child. But holding the child/den back and telling the man to beg. Really?
DeleteHe should do all that and more if he is serious to see his kids and be part of their life! When he is tired of doing posts, he should go and beg and crawl afterall thats what snow white did! Otherwise they will just change their surnames. Women are not smiling these days
DeleteThis madness needs to stop..
ReplyDeleteNa S!MP men dey suffer am sha..
Me go come social media dey cry say dem no let me see my own pikin.. God forbid..
It'll rather be the other way around
Guy, just pray to not marry a wicked woman with tons of anger and bitterness. It's not by simping or whatever, just pray you dont make such mistake.
DeleteAnon, exactly!!! woman and her family that will be poisoning the children's minds against their father, I can never support this and I am a woman. Dotun, shout louder oh, be a simp for your children, let it be on record that you reached out to them. The SM backlash might even make them reconsider.
DeleteDante like anon up there said, pray you dont marry a Jezebel, no be gra gra ooo, a Jezebel will destroy your life before you see it coming. Women are highly manipulative beings!
DeleteDante, people like you become soft after marriage. You can only boast now until the wahala jam you, you will become a jellyfish.
DeletePeople will even attribute your softness to juju. I laugh in future tense.
Oji ọnụ egbu ojii
Hmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteBroken home 🏠 almost everywhere.
ReplyDeleteCame home and was told my neighbors wife move out (empty the house ) and left with her kids.
Are you sure it's not the mama twins gist of last week?
DeleteIt’s easier to cry than be a real dad.
ReplyDeleteWhy people don't consider their kids when doing things like this especially when the said parents don't pose a threat to the kids beats me.
ReplyDeleteYou enjoyed your parents but you don't want to give your kids that privilege cos you're angry. Na ment?
Meanwhile, some of u were blaming Snowwhite for going back to FaniKayode bcoz of her kids & u think sey na love? Look at Fred & Agatha Amaya’s only son’s traditional wedding over d weekend. She practically brought her two children up (80%), while Fred moved to other women, yet u see him vibing &attending their special occasions, despite d fact they’re separated. Why won’t there be peace? Except d guy is a threat to d kids, let him see his kids & see if his conscience will allow him not contribute to their welfare, no matter how little. Only Dotun & ex know why he’s being shielded from seeing d kids. Feel for him , though.
ReplyDeleteWhen you have seen inside life, there are some things you will not assume or take at face value.
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