STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
TROUBLE LOOMING AHEAD
I recently met my husbands older brother who visited from abroad and it was our first time of meeting but i have been married for 5 years and we are trying to conceive....
He spent time with us and even though he was lodged in a hotel initially, my husband persuaded him to move to our house which is big enough and has enough rooms...
My husband is doing very well financially and so is his brother...They are the only two children of their rich parents and they are best of friends...Their friendship would make you go envious.. They are too close and it gives their mum Joy to watch them together, you will see the pride in her small eyes... She caught me watching her look at them lots of times....
The problem is that my husbands brother met me and fell in love and was making silently dangerous passes at me before he left...I did my best to escape being alone with him but his eyes followed me everywhere and burned through my body and he told me things that vibrated through my body..... He excited me and brought out a feeling i have never felt...I am scared and angry that he is this disrespectful towards me and his brother....
He travelled back and i refused to take his calls but he is smart and not sending me any kind of messages that will implicate him but my husband has been upset that i dont want to talk with his best friend and brother and I am scared that telling him will scatter the family and end my marriage...
Note that he told me he wants me and that since i dont have a kid yet for my husband he wants me to visit him and stay on if i want....He also says my hubby and him have an understanding that i wont understand...
I have been having sleepless nights trying to pürocess everything..
What should i do?
Note that he is also married but his wife lives in the UK and they also do not have kids and she is planning to relocate to the US.....
WOW.......I am short of words to tell you right now so i beg to read advice from others...
WOW.......I am short of words to tell you right now so i beg to read advice from others...
Wait, you said his words and behaviour excited you? Ahewo dey your blood.
Are u a whore?
ReplyDeleteSame question I wanted to ask 🤧
DeleteShe like the brother dieeeeeee!!! Dieeeee! Dead die!
Delete"Are you a whore" kwa?? "You are a whore". I have corrected your comment.
Only one advice for you. PRAY for your deliverance against Self destruct.
DeleteSincere question, What you wrote out does it make common sense to you?
Speak to the yeye brother via your hubby's phone in his plain sight on speaker only. Bible clearly told us to Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
RESIST this Devil please
He's married and his wife is yet to get pregnant. He brought out feelings in you that you never knew existed. They share deep understanding, right. The understanding in this case meaning prior to them getting married.
DeleteYou stayed awake trying to process the whole thing, meaning you might have fantasized about it with him and you doing it and you getting pregnant since "it's his brother" so it may not matter so much.
The devil is knocking on your door and you know who's knocking. The issue here is that you're torn between opening and not opening the door. If he's that good a sperm donor, let him get his wife pregnant.
Kill whatever thoughts you have about him and face your life. He thinks he's smart not to send any messages but his calls could be recorded and you two might be found out.
Sometimes, we the devil will be just looking at one's direction and gets waved at to come in.
You try to play smart in future by traveling to see his family. You come back pregnant. You give your husband the pregnancy. He tells his brother as per the they have understanding. What do you think might happen?
Fly away from him. They're siblings and will remain so no matter the aggro.
I have a feeling they both agreed on this. Don't think this is a secret his brother is keeping with you. I am sure your husband knows all his brother is doing with you. Probably, they are considering checking if he (hubby's brother) can get you pregnant.
DeleteDon't bottle up things but use wisdom to inform your husband. Chat with him normally don't say anything 'foolish' or encourage 'foolish talk'; be platonic. Whatever he says to you, relate it to your husband. You may be shocked at your husband's response!
E.g. if he says ''come and visit me in UK, i want you to stay with me', relay this normally to your hubby by saying 'he says I can even visit him; my husband when are we going to UK'.
Your husband and his brother are wiser than you think. Men generally aren't that bothered about their wife speaking to their brother. If your husband is this emotional, there may be something you aren't aware of.
Remove your mind from romance. He isn't interested in that. He most probably has a plan.
God gave you a good home that is financially stable in this shitty economy and you want to destroy it with your restless puna. So when you visit him and he knacks you what happens? He will send his wife packing, quarrel with his brother and hate his family? Cuz your puna is laced with gold and diamond? I pity you girl. I really do. Have you paused for a moment and ask yourself if his brother sent him to test your integrity? I hope you fall into this trap so a more deserving woman can replace you. Ashewo ten kobo
DeletePoster, just understand that no matter the issues that arise, family members stand by each other, talk more of best friends and close siblings as you describe. If anything goes wrong, you are the one that will be iced out so you need to be smart and stop catching nonsense feelings. It sounds like there's a family secret, maybe your husband is sterile and they all know and they all agreed to this, behind your back.
DeleteYou can't go wrong when you stand for what is right, tell your husband you aren't comfortable with the way his brother acted towards you and he needs to understand boundaries, also drop hints that you are open to alternative modes of conception, you guys can afford it, let it be made clear that you are not a party to whatever perversion they may have in mind and they'll all let you be.
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DeleteMan wey neva impregnate him wife wan impregnate him broda wife?
If describe wetin do IVF and other methods?
Poster, you better face your marriage. Maybe the brothers plan this to see if you are even a faithful wife.
ReplyDeleteI thought of this too
DeleteI am more concerned about him saying he and his brother have an understanding
DeleteDo they sleep with each other’s women?
Please keep avoiding him, no need to scatter whatever their mother think they have, so she doesn’t accuse you of being someone trying to put asunder.
Please block him if you must
The way the whole world is perverted enh, many things are running through my mind
Push up (original)
poster, please let your eyes be clear and wide open.... if the brothers are as close as you say they are, they probably have an understanding and have planned this. Wisdom is profitable to direct, any phone call with the elder brother have it in front of your hubby on loud speaker, everything else ignore him and stay away from him.
DeleteMadam, flew away like a bird. He wants your honeypot and it won't end well for you.
ReplyDeleteBrothers will remain siblings, you are the stranger here.
It's not difficult to ignore his passes if you are serious.. Call him before your husband presence and speak cordially to him. Block him on whatsapp and look front.
Another thing, tell him to desist from making passess at you because he won't like what you will do. Avoid him like a plague 😑
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, she wants to do. But can't because it is too close to home. So she can't do what you advised.
DeleteAtink you understand. If no understand look for the song "shakara" and listen to am
Exactly. A firm NO would have solved this. But instead she's enabling him. I think she has decided to do it, she just needs validation
Delete@18:01,
DeleteIt is because she knows she can get such validation from some Bvs like the one who said under Saturday's chronicles that she is getting tired of teaching married women on how to cheat with married men without being caught.
What does he mean by he and his brother have an understanding, like they share women or what?
ReplyDeletePlease don't involve yourself in such filth, give him a very stern warning and stay very far away from him.
I highly suspect that l, who even knows if they engage in threesome and orgies
DeleteI think when people become so rich that money isn’t a problem they start looking for useless ways to satisfy themselves.
Poster, don’t fall o, it could also be a set up.
Whatever it is, you don’t want to be caught in the middle of the shit storm.
Push up (original)
You have already fallen for him from your narration. "he tells you things that vibrates your body"
ReplyDeletePlease don't be deceive by those words...if you really love your husband, tell him the truth.
Maybe they both planned to set you up. Poster don’t tell your husband anything, just keep ignoring both when your brother in-law is tired of disturbing you and your husband is also tired of asking you why you can’t relate with his brother they will all rest.
ReplyDeleteAs for you be careful in that family, ask questions. Who knows why both brothers are still looking for fruit of the womb. They all including their mom may know something they’re not telling you
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Gbam! This isn't in any way the romance she is imagining for sure. There is a plan she isn't aware of.
DeleteI don't even think the plan is to set her up. But I believe it is to involve her in a certain lifestyle or agreement.
I can't help but wonder what her husband is saying to his brother's wife.
Poster, please check well.
@Wait, you said his words and behaviour excited you? Ahewo dey your blood.
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣 This really made me laugh 😂.
Kai Stella 😁.
Anyway, you better flee from Satan, and leave your slippers while at it😤
Biko...both brothers have an understanding? Abi dem dey allow Ekware between both spouses?
ReplyDeleteSome family dey sha.
Some of you women always want to play the victim card. You are scared and angry that he is this disrespectful to you and his brother indeed. Nor be you tell You am you nor deserve any respect?
ReplyDeleteWhen he first started those advances, you should have outrightly told your husband about it but instead, you were enjoying feelings you haven’t felt before. Who will you tell this story now that will not blame you? He might even accuse you of seducing him and who do you think your husband and mum in-law would believe?
He says himself and your hubby have an understanding, is it what I’m thinking? You are not smart at all. E dey your body.
Sluttychic.
Abi they share wives. Wo poster you cannot commit adultery, It is not allowed at all. Please face your marriage if you want the blessings of marriage to elude you. Don't scatter your home. Flee from all appearances of evil. You are treading dangerously. Flee with the help of the Holy spirit else you will fall #God's Child
ReplyDeleteHmmm this is risky..... It seems to me that both brother might have been earlier sharing same woman when they were much younger.
ReplyDeleteMy advice is that you flew from his temptations, no need of reporting him to the family you're an adult and obviously know what to do, if you talk to him sincerely he will let you be.
You and the brother inlaw no well.
ReplyDeleteYou see the joy in your mother in-laws face when the two brothers are together. You want to change it to sadness.
Kill the rubbish feeling and face your home. By the time your accomplice knows you are not in for the nonsense. He will move on.
If you try any rubbish it won’t end well for you .
Jesus Jesus Jesus 😬😬😬.
ReplyDeleteDe play oh 😂
ReplyDeleteTheres something strange about that family. Just avoid the guy and i dont think its necessary to tell your husband.. maybe your husband knows sef. Something is really wrong with your husband's family.
ReplyDeleteI think so too. Poster, this is not the romance you are looking for.
DeleteI once had a toaster that was married based in Naija. The man now told me we should visit the UK together for us to commit adultery. I was shocked omo I fled o. Serious flee. Thank God I didn't bulge. It just sounded weird, me that I was praying for my own husband somebody has wife wants to spoil my own life.
ReplyDeleteBudge, not bulge
DeleteEnglish is a borrowed langauge.
DeleteIn this case I support bulge because her head and other regions would have expanded from the attention. Even poster was "bulging" from the attention. The fear of bulging is the beginning of wisdom o.
Delete@anon 20:04, kuku Kee me with this your explanation 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteMadam please dont allow any thought of your husband's brother cross your mind again. If its possible, block his number. when he wants to reach out to you, let him do it through your husbands phone and it should be on speak-out when conversing with him.
ReplyDeleteThis may also be a trap since he told you he have an understanding with his brother. Use your brain o
The bible says Flee................
Yes I'll spoil that relationship between the brothers and free myself. If he decides to be on his brother's side, so be it.
ReplyDeleteBut first, I'll make sure the truth is revealed before he cast me to the swines.
Sis you don't know men. He'll will chop your kpomo, then come and form innocent before his brother and family.
Next thing, your name and image is rubbished.
She said they are rich, very rich. You missed that? Would you still spoil the relationship and possibly miss out on the dough?
DeleteThe kind of stories i have been seeing here for the past few days ehn
ReplyDeleteNawa o
Steer clear of him and focus on your focus (marriage) abeg
What's so special about his elder brother? Na abroad dey enter your eyes ni?
Hmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteNa wa o!
ReplyDeletePlease keep ignoring him, keep giving him that cold treatment, maybe he'll get tired one day and face his marriage.
I hope you won't give him the chance to implicate you one day, this one you said he did something that excited you.
First off they are brothers from a family of two children and they are best friends. The only person who has anything to lose is you. Don’t let any talks vibrating in your body reach your brain for you to lose sense. Use wisdom in everything. Rebuke this man and tell him to stop all communication with you, in fact block him everywhere.
ReplyDeleteIf your husband believed in brothers sharing wives with each other, you would have known this a long time ago. Remember, you are the only person who has anything to lose if you let temptation overrule you. When Satan uses ppl to try to destroy you, it is up to you to fight for your values and what you know is right. Don’t let anyone bring you low. If he becomes relentless, which is a method satan will use, bombardment in trying to tired you out and make you give in. Block and change your telephone number if you need to. Put a wall of protection around you from all evil and rebuke the brother and his intentions.
Only if she really wants to.
DeleteYou probably must have seduced him even though the man is shameless. How were you dressing around the house during his stay. The problem here is that you are already falling for whatever things he has been telling you and the advice you will get here might not even convince you enough. you are the one to advice yourself because "see you, see end of marriage". Put yourself in his wife's shoes and think of how it will break your mother inlaw
ReplyDeleteShe may even get advice on how to eat the food offered without being caught.
DeleteAfter all, a Bv advised that Poster who gets hers from the gateman on how to go about extra marital s@x with married men, get paid, and don't get caught. And she justified it on basis of equalising men and women.
Next time pick his call in the presence of your husband and put it on speaker,any time he calls and your husband is not there don't pick his call but call him back when your husband is around and tell him u missed his calls , one day the devil pushing him will push him to the extent of saying it to your husband's hearing. Make sure ur phone is always on speaker when speaking to him
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DeleteBest comment ever.....
DeleteWanted to say your husband is aware of his advances as per say as he can't get you pregnant, his brother should do it codedly without even you knowing the plans till I read his wife is also TTC. The issue here is that you have already fallen for the guy from your description of how his words and eyes makes you feel. This is not a difficult issue at all. Don't tell your husband of his advances as you don't have evidence. Apologize to your husband on how he feels about your actions towards his brother. Ask him to give you phone when next his brother calls so that you can speak with him on his phone. make sure while talking to him your husband's phone is on speaker maybe God will expose him through phone. In all you do please remember blood is thicker than water. Be careful because you might loose your husband if you don't trade carefully.
ReplyDeleteNah!!!!! You are weak spiritually and the devil wants to use you to destroy your husband peaceful home or you eye has never stayed one place. Side chick or abi second wife? Which do you want to be known as? Meanwhile I’m single and can help you husband heal.
ReplyDeleteMadam respect yourself and block him. Who him be sef? Nothing more than peace of mind in marriage.
DeleteIf you allow him touch you but let me remind you don't blame anyone
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DeleteWhat is this biko?😂😂😂
DeleteStella come an carry your bv
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ReplyDeleteNa Stella dey make me laugh oh, not the chronicle.
Ok Madam Poster. Hmmmm... This is dicey. But I believe you gave him that long hand which is why he still had the temerity to repeat whatever he is saying even after leaving... You should have shunned him vehemently at the first approach.
Calm down. When next he calls, record the call secretly, and warn him that if he repeates that nonsens, his brother will hear about it. Don't tell him you recorded the call.
If he repeats, let your husband know about everything with evidence .
Also, have you done tests with your husband to ascertain the cause of infertility? My mind is telling me something...
Meanwhile, kill those feelings, they are not real, just the devil trying to ruin you. WATCH AND PRAY!
You are doing very well by ignoring him but you have to do more by not thinking of it/him, take him out of your head.period.
ReplyDeleteposter so you want to cheat on your husband with his blood brother abi i did not read well? Really ahewo dey your eyes. I ask again what do women really want in this life cos from your narration your husband is doing very well like his brother. Not like your husband is poor while his brother is rich to say that is the reason why you want to cheat on him.
ReplyDeleteHis brother will tell him when you fall for this rubbish joke. He will show him proof that you are cheap. You should pick his calls and warn him off that if he continues you will report him to his brother. Make sure you have a recording from your conversation or chat and keep them as evidence that you can use to report him to his brother and mother. If you do not have evidence please keep shut and avoid him.
He is a married man for crying out loud. You should focus on your marriage and how to make babies than looking for a man who said ordinary words that don't hold water. If you fall for this guy your marriage will be over in short time.
What if they both planned it....since he's telling you him and his brother has an understanding...
ReplyDeleteIf anybody dash me 100k, omo, i must save it for business.
ReplyDeleteMaybe in future, I can afford to buy 100k hair or more than that.
You’re a ho though because why are you even entertaining these thoughts from your bil? You want to screw him too why you’re allowing your hormones to dictate to you . Woman have some sense !!!
ReplyDeleteFirst thing you should have done was tell your husband with evidence but since you’re ho, you didn’t and entertaining him
Na trap they de set for u so if u like do Mumu fall no face ur marriage squarely, the very day u do mistake enter this trap ur marriage don end na this same man go say na u de toast am nothing fit separate the bond of siblings ooo make I tell u if u no no before! Come out boldly and warn him to leave u alone Nd face his family whether they have kids or not it’s non of ur business hmmm I tell u again if u fall na they u go see proper disgrace but if u refuse this scenario walahi he would forever respect u be wise like a serpent the Bible says! Ursef u no also think am say they wan test u madam reason am oo na bcos I wish u well I de tell you truth so
ReplyDeleteAnyin……
Madam Poster, please don't spoil the relationship between the brothers. Understand that whatever you might feel is pure LUST. There is no substance to it. So... do your best and ignore it. It will go away with time. It's because stolen waters is sweeter but it is a pit you can't come back out from. I know what you're feeling or what you might have felt. Handle it stealthily ad with grace. Make him know you are in no way interested and do your best to speak to him whenever your husband does to keep up appearances and maybe use his phone instead but honey... keep looking forward. Before you know it, it will pass. Or it may never really pass but either way, just ignore him. If you do not acknowledge him, he will kick it up notch but you can handle it...
ReplyDeleteI honestly hope you are not walking into an entrapment.
ReplyDeleteIt's like you married to a cursed family of infertility
ReplyDeleteSomething sinister about the family.
ReplyDeleteIts interesting that someone that is close to his brother is toasting the wife of his brother, clearly he has no morals, but such things should be nipped in the bud, im sure you have never warned him sternly
ReplyDeleteHow can she warn him when she's interested in the affair, poster l will advise you to go ahead, you are not the first person to do this. But remember that very soon ur hubby will be awear. So get ready to marry ur husband brother.
DeleteThis is abomination and there are repercussions for all this act.
Poster, please don't kill your husband because of his brother.
Yeye dey smell.
He is only lusting after you. Sleep with him and your eyes will clear... discipline yourself and be a good girl. You can choose to ride or dine with the devil though. It's UpTo you
ReplyDeleteMadam face front..
ReplyDeleteFace your marriage and hubby in peace..
What do you mean by what should you do? Madam if you don't respect the sanctity of marriage, At least respect yourself, I mean apply your dignity like pomade,So it can be intact. If you are tired of your marriage which is obvious, move out and move on. Don't betray your husband.
ReplyDeleteWahala dey sit down, person go find am. That's how one yeye boy in my office started forming advances on a married woman. I just warned the guy and avoided paths with him before it becomes an uncontrolled situation. Any body that is after a married woman doesn't have morals and sure from the devil
ReplyDeletePoster be warned, don't let what you have built scatter because of some mins of lust of the flesh, lust of the eye and pride of life.
Pls face your husband and leave his brother alone.Are you this cheap? Don't allow the devil ruin your life.if you are tired of your marriage, you better leave with pride than reduce yourself sleeping with two brothers. It's very wrong.
ReplyDeleteWhat do you mean by what should you do?
ReplyDeleteSimple
ReplyDeleteGo and read the post earlier today from Facebook. Learn from how the husband and his family ganged up against the wife though it was the husband's sister that stole the wife's money.
In all you do, don't report BIL to your husband. Speak to BIL when your husband is around and let BIL know his brother (your husband) is there so BIL will not misyarn. As a sensible man, BIL will eventually come to his senses and leave you alone.
Since you gave BIL most of the nails to make the cross by tingling your body and heart to the chime of his words, carry the cross alone.
Spare your MIL the heart break. The woman's revenge may make you regret for life any action that cause a fight between her sons.
Why are we advising you like we are firewood? This type of thing happens. Married people can get attracted to other people but it is how you handle it that matters. The best thing is to kill the attraction before it start.
ReplyDeleteWhen i was in the world but the world was not with me
I recall when I had two friends on my case, I couldn't even date the one I liked so I ditched them both. That ended their friendship.
Then on another occasion, I had two friends on my case, I dated one and the other one cried like a baby. That ended their friendship.
Then on another occasion, I had another two friends interested in me, I nipped it in the bud and continued with the one I liked. That ended their friendship.
Are you seeing the pattern? Maybe I am the destroyer of fake friendship.
Me self don forget wetin I wan advise you ooo.
The truth is, those two brothers were never really close. They compete with each other with "who has the best wife? and who has the best thing going on. If you investigate, you will find out there is a root to his brother's trauma. Maybe your husband snatched something from him or something. He has silent resentment for your husband and wants to rubbish him. I know stolen water can be so exciting and you are excited and feel seen. Sometimes women want 20 seconds of passion, excitement, that feeling but the best thing women should desire is a loving, faithful and steady partner. He may be boring but he is guaranteed to be by your side for life. Don't fuck it up. Don't ruin their mothers illusion. Some mothers are so blind with love and cannot see the decay happening between her two sons.
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Wow💪💪💪. Xoxo mystery and her take on life. 😌😌😌.
DeleteNever thought like this. Hmmn..... So there's a silent competition among the brothers. The best revenge will be to get close to the brother, steal what is dear to him. Blackmail him emotionally and the wife is kicked out.
DeleteExcept if the brother's Eyes are opened.
It might also be a BET... 'I can seduce your wife without much work' kindda setup!! Poster, be wise.
DeleteMs K
They are both experiencing Infertility at the same time? You should be more prayerful Ma, Something is amiss!!. I hope nothing funny is going on in that family
ReplyDeleteDon't mind her instead of her to intensify her prayer life so God can remember her and bless her with children is how to commit abomination that is in her head, allowing the devil to find space in her. You better don't allow the devil destroy your life patapata, everyone have advice you so i won't be saying much. Please try and be joining Nsppd 7a.m prayer and see how God comes through for you. Forget your brother inlaw and don't even entertain the thought for one second pls. Just ignore him. You have bigger problem on your hands if your husband and brother don't have children don't you think somthing is wrong somewhere and start praying it out what if hmm
DeleteThe way I'm wired ehh there are some things I don't even condone to get to that level, so your husband's older is in your house flirting and you dey vibrate na wa for you, that time he asked he had an understanding with his brother you ahold ve asked him what's that he shld explain, so two brothers will be doing pom pom with my mental state and I will condone it , odikwa egwu my serious self will start digging if they re into orgies, sharing of women and cult,
ReplyDeleteThe fact that the two co wives are ttc is even a red flag instead of digging to know and free yourself you re indulging him ,dig deeper bring the topic up ask your husband questions.
You see families when there is kasala they will always got each other back , and you that is in the center they will say bye to you in a bat of an eyelid, be wise .
My mama no train me to be doing mind games because I marry pple wey get different orientations
Demand money for Ivf you re there waiting for them to put your story on Twitter you go so trend, no be family try it and see how they will dump you
Lest I forget there is this this old Nollywood film involving Rmd as the older bro with fertile sperm, Desmond Elliot as sterile bro ,mum patience ozokwor, they all planned that Rmd as the bro will impregnate Stella since it's within the family o boy, when the kasala burst for Stella face na so Desmond hated her with passion, shame wan kill her ,names calling nko but as family shebi they ve decided to to that but it landed on the woman's face.
Extricate yourself from that nonsense web demand money and go for your Ivf you re there being there pawn rubbish rich family mtchewwweeew
You get it. Those brothers are into urges and partner sharing.
DeleteGod help us that we don't marry into the wrong family 😪😪