The excerpt said, “I had gone for a pregnancy test to confirm what becomes the most obvious conclusion for a sexually active young woman who misses her monthly flow. I was in the company of Karen. And when the test result was ready, I wasn’t strong enough to open it. She did and declared the verdict.
“Charlie, it dey there!” she exclaimed.
“On an ordinary day, I would have laughed out loud and that would trigger a string of jolly conversations and jokes. But this was no laughing matter. It was a grim piece of information that was capable of turning my world upside down. I wasn’t the only one responsible for the situation, so I called the man whose potent seed had germinated in me. His name is Michael Owusu Addo, a renowned Ghanaian musician who is better known as Sarkodie.
“Sarkodie was a budding musician with the potential to become one of the biggest artists in Ghana and beyond. At the time, however, the future looked uncertain, and his way through the maze of life still appeared too foggy to predict. Success was not guaranteed. He was still living with his mother and was not ready to carry a burden while he was being carried by his mother.
“I wouldn’t call what had developed between us a serious relationship. I gravitated toward people in the music industry. For the longest time in my life, music was my getaway from all the unpleasant things life threw at me. So, I liked his talent. We started talking and got close. Closer."
She also said she chose to terminate the pregnancy since the baby would have no father figure in its life, as she had none while growing up.
She said, “The first thing that hit me when he said no to keeping the pregnancy was my own life. I had grown up without a father in my life. I had often been reminded of how I had been borne by mistake.
“I was still wondering if the man whose name I bore was my father. How was I going to bring another human being into this world to live like me, someone whose father would reject him or her as Mr. Nelson had rejected me? If there was a way to spare someone else the trauma I was contending with, why would I reject that option."
“It is one of the most regrettable mistakes in my life. If the clock of life could be rewound to my younger self, I would keep it.”
From Dailypost
Una go dey write book dey disgrace unaselves. What the hell is this?
ReplyDeleteSluttychic.
See ehn, a lot of ppl have issues but our culture makes it seem that we alle are all perfect and righteous. Sharing about difficult and easy times helps to motivate many people going thru their own storms, not to give up on life.
DeleteWhat u call shame may be helping some other innocent girl not to fall for useless musicians etc etc
How did she disgrace herself?
DeleteI agree with you @Anon1107
Delete11.07
DeleteYou people would always support your gender in nonsense because you can't see beyond your nose..
Hope you'll understand when men too start writing books to tell it all on all the girls they have fvcked and mentioning their names because he wants closure..
Many of your are very dumb and lack common sense
Dante take am easy. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. She did not support any gender or anything. Everything is not about battle of the sexes. Anon 11: 07 thanks
DeleteNobody is talking about being righteous or a saint....I’m far from being one.
DeleteTelling the world stuff that’s meant to stay private is how people get healing?
These revelations will affect her negatively, so how will the healing take place?
Sluttychic.
Phoenix..
DeleteI no attack am..
Abeg I noticed maybe you're also dealing with male ISH lately from your bais comments.. I have been avoiding it cos I don't want to join issues with you.. please be ignoring my comments too until you resolve whatever ISH you're dealing with๐
11:07 What she wrote should help innocent girls and boys to close their legs and not about preventing them to fall for musicians. Or are musicians, not human beings first before being musicians? Are musicians the only ones that abandoned ladies they fornicate with after they get pregnant? With everything she has written, it would make sense for ladies engaging in fornication to retrace their steps and stop letting men use them as cum buckets but nobody is ready for that discussion. Some reading right now will still go and fornicate tomorrow and some out of those will still abort before the year runs out so what are they learning?
DeleteEven you, you did not get the message you feel she is trying to pass across in her book; Which is to flee fornication, Which is the whole genesis of everything she went through. see how you made it all about musicians. That should tell you that most people who read the book would learn nothing from her story but just entertain themselves with it.
Slutty is right!
She should have kept it to herself. Most people don't learn from their experience let alone from another person's own. Take the chronicles people send in here as an example, we keep advising them on here still people keep sending the same chronicles and keep making the same mistakes over and over again year in and year out.
She should have kept it private.
Anon1107 you’re not dumb
DeleteYour opinion matters
Dante Lol very funny. So you are now a wall gecko to know what is going on with me or not. Dante rest all these gragra you are doing is not worth it at all..You can make your comments in a respectful manner rather than being toxic and insulting. Did a girl really break your heart so much that you always coming with the gun to a karate fight.. It does not make you any better at all..
DeleteYou are cool in calling people out but when your excesses are called on, you call it BIAS. Lol you have your head in the clouds obviously..
My own na say it’s just sad that all this her open book attitude may not earn her a lot of profits as she hoped. Africa is not like the west where famous people expose their dirty linen like prince harry did and books will sell out. People go just laugh am and talk about am and forget. No profit. Your words have to be very expensive and Strategic especially as an African woman coming from a very judgemental patriarchal and misogynistic background. Where the men and the brainwashed pick me women will rubbish and insult you and u won’t get vindication
Delete. If she had released it then when she was a hot star, maybe people would have been raving. But half the gist in her book is common knowledge. Getting pregnant and aborting for a Ghanaian celeb (whose career is also not equally as popping) , not even a big Nigerian celeb, is something that random average girls do everyday and noone bats an eye. Sorry Yvonne but I think this will do more harm than good to your reputation
Yvonne is great but I don’t see any benefit in writing this book for HER. Sarkodie will get the pat on the back and she will get a few book sales and slut shamed. That’s the bone of contention for me
DeleteThere will be that one person who will learn. Even when God walked the earth, his following was about 300.
DeleteThere will be that one person who will learn. Even when God walked the earth, his following was about 300.
DeleteIt's like celebrities are allergic to condoms
ReplyDeleteWhy would anybody do kinikan kinikan with someone without protection?
What does she even want us to do with all of these exposรฉ sef?
Swear you've never had unprotected sex especially when you were young and naive. Perfect you
DeleteAnon, I doubt he has ever had sex with a woman
Delete@ shooter Gyal๐คฃ๐คฃ
DeleteYou're mean ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
Just wow! If recklessness was a person,how much is condom again? So both of you were jamming raw you didn't know it will result to pregnancy? Charlie you messed up paaaaaaa
ReplyDeleteY’all need to hold the hell up
DeleteThis is a woman that was of dating age and was sexually active, asides not using protection I do not get why she’s being dragged or slut shammed.
I will never support abortion cus I am pro life but she’s admitting her mistakes and realizing the reason behind every decision she made, she’s not gloating over it, in the book she said it’s a decision she regrets until date.
Now to those insulting her for dating people, point fingers all you want but ask yourself how many men you have dated? She wasn’t in a “runs relationship” with these men, they were in a full blown committed relationship with “breakfast in beds” and “tattoos” so why should she be shamed for trusting a man she loved?
Y’all give men the privilege they don’t deserve that’s why they never take accountability, also the moment she found out he was cheating she broke up with him.
Also to those saying “these celebs fuck each other” pray tell, who would they fuck? Celebs date themselves cus atleast they know and understand their fears, dating random people sometimes can be scary cus you don’t even know if they are with you for the right reasons.
I married at a young age but I am not even as judgmental as some of you who have been in multiple relationships.
We go dey alright, may God give us the strength.
Push up (original)
Pushup u got married at an early age and so? re U the only one on this blog that got married early. I got married as a virgin at 20 and so stop assuming everyone commenting ve had tmultiple partners apart frm u. Let people voice out their opinion without trying to gag anyone that's why it's called a blog gosh.
DeleteMadam push up, did you not read where Yvonne said she didn’t consider her relationship with sarkodi serious abi you just wan to write. A lot of these girls are just useless, without morals. They don’t ever learn.
Delete"This is a woman that was of dating age and was sexually active, ASIDES NOT USING PROTECTION I do not get why she’s being dragged or slut slammed"
DeleteWhich means you understand why Paris and others would drag her for not using protection so why still go ahead to tell Paris to hold up when the only thing she is not in agreement with is the writer's lack of protection?
Well, I support every other thing you wrote like people trying to slutshame her are just being hypocritical. Those saying she dated and slept with musicians should remember she is also a celebrity so they are in proximity to each other. Non-celebs do date those they are familiar with and near to as well so why is it a problem she did the same? I guess because fornication was involved right? People now see the ills of fornication because she is a popular figure and the guys she dated are known faces as well. The issue I repeat is fornication and if all her relationships were devoid of it when she dated all those men those hypocrites who also fornicate won't castigate her.
Anon 13:34
DeleteIs she responding to your comment?
Yes she got married at an early age and is not judgemental, why is it paining you?
No Pushup slander will be tolerated on this blog or outside this blog. Find someone else and jog off.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
I have your time today.
DeleteI wasn’t even addressing Paris, or else I would have tagged her by name.
I am directing it at all those who have been slut shaming her from the previous post too.
You said you were a virgin and that’s good for you but even as a Christian virgin you shouldn’t in anyway slut shame anyone, even the Bible says correct with love and not judgment, it’s not about having an opinion, you can make an opinion without throwing insults or calling someone out their names.
Haba, she dated like any adult should, she dint stand on the road waiting for customers so why would anyone be calling her “ashawo” why?
Haven’t you read some comments? they are wicked.
If she was your daughter would you like it.
Yes she wrote a book, it’s even a road to self discovery, the main reason for the book is in its name.
Have a conscience
Push up (original)
Miss Xoxo.was Paris responding to her comment when she attacked Paris that's never involved in any chaos.i dn't ve time for a bitter feminist like u.jst go find a man to cure you of your sadness.
DeletePush up (original) is completely right!!!!
DeleteStop judging
DeleteYou guys should own your shit mbok and stop dragging your parents into your shit..you not having a father figure in your life and you having sex without condom does not relate at all..knowing what you went through you as a young girl should have taught you better that sleeping with a man without condom will definitely produce a baby
ReplyDeleteShe is owning it na. Shebi she said that she drifted into music world or so.
DeleteI think she is admitting to her f@ckups and all by publishing them in her book abi no be so?
Let those who lost their way and finding it out Breef
DeleteThat's exactly what she's doing.. owning up to her shit,she knew she messed up and she's taking responsibility for it.
DeleteThat’s what the book is actually about
DeleteOwning her damn shit, but y’all like to point fingers forgetting 4 others are pointing at you.
We are all a work in progress, we will still make mistakes.
She even blamed her mother for not being totally honest
And let me just tell you, childhood trauma is a thing, stop thinking it’s an excuse, a broken child will forever be a broken adult except they take out the time to recognize these traits and work on it.
I am personally looking for ways to build my character, it’s hard work to look in wards sometimes but we have to continue trying.
Push up (original)
Thank you push up. Even me as a man that's suffering from addiction and working with a recovery coach knows that the main principles to getting yourself again are;
Delete1. SLIPS ARE DATA.
2. PROGRESS OVER PERFECTION.
3. RECOVERY IS NOT PERFECT.
Hopefully she heals. Trauma is terrible
13.58: agreed. It goes something like God help me change what I can, accept what I cant change and wisdom to know the difference.
DeleteAlso Another path to recovery is retribution and the exercepts of her book come across like retribution especially the bit about the innocent man she thought was her absentee father as well as his family
Ok oooo
ReplyDeleteMen and sex ๐คฆ๐คฆ
ReplyDeleteShit.....this is becoming messy.
ReplyDeleteDem just dash some people embarrassment this morning.
I’m Telling you. Sarkodie is not one of those men a woman can say she proudly fukd and had an abortion for. It’s kind of stain on Yvonne’s rep. No offense. E get some guys wey you go straff and as a woman u take that to the grave. But the black
DeleteCommunity all over the world is always praising nasty looking men and treating beautiful African women like trash so…….๐คท๐พ♀️
Wow! What a revelation.
ReplyDeleteas e dey hott...
ReplyDeleteHeartless men. Take heart lady and move on because living a life of regret is the worse thing that ca happen to a person
ReplyDeleteShame dey catch me here.
ReplyDeleteOk Yvonne. May you make sales, abundantly. Being a child whose father rejected should be one of the reasons why you shouldn't have sex anyhow without protection. God be with you.
ReplyDeleteMay seem so but if u study psychology you will know that a kid will always crave what they lacked as a child well into adulthood. And that can lead to crappy decisions
DeleteOh lord Warris this?๐ค๐ค๐ค๐ค
ReplyDeleteImagine your ex writing a book, and then boom, your name pop up. That's when you have moved on from whatever. Rubbish
ReplyDeleteAnd sarkodi is married so you can just imagine. Make Una dey support nonsense all in the name of we are work in progress.
Deletein this case, the ex used her name in a hit.
DeleteApart from that, make peace with your ex, no be everything be fight
If he her ex treated her poorly,she can write whatever the hell she wants
DeleteTreat people well yo avoid call out
This information is not needed in public space, it was your private affair. I hope when Sarkodie comes out with his own side of the story it won't break tables??
ReplyDeletewhy are you worried?
Deleteyou think she isn't ready?
you cant call tonto out without being ready.
As for yeye inyanya, that year, said that he felt his maltreatment of Yvonne was part of why his subsequent works didn't blow.
Honestly, babe seems to know what she is doing. With naming precise names of famous people who may respond, her book go sell like peppered fried yam.
why are you worried?
Deleteyou think she isn't ready?
you cant call tonto out without being ready.
As for yeye inyanya, that year, said that he felt his maltreatment of Yvonne was part of why his subsequent works didn't blow.
Honestly, babe seems to know what she is doing. With naming precise names of famous people who may respond, her book go sell like peppered fried yam.
Honestly Sarkodie isn’t making any hits himself either. Most people forgot he existed until now. Harsh truth
DeleteIt is her book; and she has the right to present it the way she want..
ReplyDeleteOhh life!! You no just Ballance.
ReplyDeleteUpon as beautiful as she's ๐ฒ
Men Sha ๐ค
I had a teary eye reading this.๐ข
I Can't even fault you.๐๐
Some of the most beautiful women I f u see how men just smear shit on them ehn and how they allow it. You will know beauty isn’t everything. Self esteem is most important
DeleteOh, make one guy just write about his affair with women and mention my name. E go sweet me eh
ReplyDeleteWow. We see ppl and have no clue what they are suffering through. Life is really a school, and the lessons are really difficult. Some tests we pass with flying colours and some we fail dismally.
ReplyDeleteIt's okay, no one is perfect but I don't see the need for this tell-all
ReplyDeleteYvonne I hail your courage.
ReplyDeleteSome fine women for this life dey try sha. Sarkodie sha? Una no dey see better preeq fuq? As u present yourself so cheap to a man that’s what gave him guts to deny pregnancy. A man that if not for fame, he should be begging to sniff your used pants and pads. Tufia. Some beautiful women dey chop rubbish sha
ReplyDeleteSometimes I dey look my fellow woman like say we no be d same gender. So u allowed this thing to knack u? Haba. Same thing with the women competing over Portable๐ all this one na reason why west African guys no dey ever humble even the worwor ones wey no get shingbai
ReplyDeleteI swearrrr African women no get spec wallahii. Them no just dey get spec at all at all. The thing just dey annoy me. It’s the deep level of brainwashing for me. And most of you will never wake up because the society wants to make sure every random Tom dick and harry is promised at least one doting African wife without being worthy
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