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Ruby posted
“Happy Father’s day to me! It hasn’t been easy world, but in all we give thanks to the Almighty. Thank You Jesus Christ for everything. Her Royal Majesty"
This did not sit well with her colleague, Jnr Pope who chided her in the comment section
He posted "Ruby (father) ??? Anyways you are doing a great job. You can only be her mother never her father, someday she will be united with her father. There is a difference between a father and a parent.
Feel free to look it up. He is not a parent because he did not partake in raising her, but he is still her father and still very much alive ( his sp#rm). Let's not be too quick to copy the white man."
Feel free to look it up. He is not a parent because he did not partake in raising her, but he is still her father and still very much alive ( his sp#rm). Let's not be too quick to copy the white man."
Ruby responded with “How can you of all people that knows everything I went through and still going through drop this disgusting comment? I will never do it to you and you know it. I’m trying to hold my patience but it’s obvious you know exactly what u’re doing. Now I know nobody likes me because if you that I respect so much will drop this devilish comment here, it means I’m no longer safe, like how can you even dare? Oga na you wan unite them? Please, get out of my page.”
There's so much anger and bitterness in her response to Jnr. Pope.
ReplyDeletePope was right and picky with his words. I think her heart needs to heal completely. She is so engrossed with bitterness that anything/anyone that doesn't support her opinion is completely not acceptable to her
DeleteAsin, so much better and anger.
DeleteNawahh!🤨
Anon 10.18 - Typical attitude of an Obidient!
DeleteJnr Pope didn't say anything bad naaaa but of curse you know some women don't think properly but too emotional than being intelligent.
ReplyDeleteShe just showed how shallow her reasoning is.
He did not say anything wrong, until he became insensitive by saying one day the child will reunite with the father. She said he knows everything (assuming her pains) so he should be sensitive enough not to tell her the child will reunite with a father that is probably never been in her life. He was wrong to say that
DeleteAnon 08:50,
DeleteDoes that write him off as the father? Whether you like it or not, he will always and forever be the father. No two ways about it.
who asked for his opinion?
DeleteAs close friends, he doesn’t need permission. (At least from her reply it shows they are close) so you too hush and stop being pained unnecessarily.
DeleteWhoever wants to be treated nicely in a public space, should as a matter of fact behave very well in public.
DeleteIf you don't wanna celebrate your ex, can't you celebrate your father or even brothers that are married with families?
Why una dey like drag everything for this life? Even just one day given to men, you still wanna take it from them..
Na waaa oo
Jnr Pope is so apt abeg, women cannot be fathers, they should stop already. Father father father everywhere haba. Women don't produce Sperm
ReplyDeleteSo a"father" is simply someone who produced sperm, hmmm. Even if he doesn't take care of the child?
DeleteFemilicious, whether we like it or not, that is who a father is.
DeleteEven women who want children without marriage must look for a man directly or go to a sp@rm bank to buy. And when buying, they vet the men.
There are 3 or 4 separate days women/motherhood is celebrated. But the only 1 for fatherhood is the one some women like to celebrate for themselves. Meanwhile, men don't drag the days for women/mothers with them.
You can only be a super mum but never a mother and father. Women and drama. This thing happens every Father’s Day, but you will never hear a single father claiming mother on Mother’s Day.
ReplyDeleteFan Emmanuel
You won't hear father claiming mothers day because it is believed that females are weak and not as important as men. It's like how the title of King is regarded as much more pow erful than a Queen so women who identify as Kings wants that power. This is not the same for men/queen.
DeleteEven if you consider people like bobtisky, he still alludes to having a rich and powerful boyfriend as bragging rights because men are regarded as high value and powerful when compared to women.
10:26 thank you. In Nigerian menstrual tiny mind ,everything women is despicable until it's time to fake or where ill fitting dress and clown them.
Delete13.43, I am 10.26 and I agree with you.
DeleteHonestly such thoughts should be outdated but here we are.
I hate this act of women wishing themselves "happy Father's day" what for??
ReplyDeleteStupid man
ReplyDeleteOga mind your business.
ReplyDeleteI agree,since they are so close and obviously in the know of her story then he shouldn't have made his response public. I feel it was a tad insensitive.
DeleteExactly castle he should have minded his business..
DeleteIt was unthinking and insensitive male entitlement to say the child will reconcile with the father
DeleteHe was not intelligent in saying that
But he didn't say anything wrong nah. He only stated the obvious truth.
ReplyDeleteHe didn't lie cos the definition of father and taking care of your child as a single parent is never the same. She should have laughed over it and move in, no need trying to justify anything. Las las dey will be alright.
ReplyDeleteI hope if it was you, you would laugh it off just like that??
DeleteOfcourse na pickmeaye be dat na @9:13
DeleteSome women tagged themselves king,single mother and father just to drive home the point that they are doing it alone.
ReplyDeleteI know it's not a walk in the park,but let's tone it down with dragging father's day with a man that might not even see the post.
How about calling yourself an Amazing mum,super mum or Queen.
All da best!
Once you correct them like this, instead of taking correction, they'll start playing the victim card.. which one is everyone hates you just because you were corrected.. you'll prefer they lie to you bah? That's the fake love you want..
ReplyDeleteNext thing, it's to call the guy a woman hater.. e no dey hard them..
Nonsense
I swear.
DeleteThat's their last line of defence. ''He's a woman hater.'' They do that even here on the blog when they run out of what to say next.
He should mind his business abeg
ReplyDeleteHe wanted to correct her but did it with immaturity
DeleteMinding your business is the best key to life.
ReplyDeleteJunior Pope should have acted like a big bro and a friend to her by telling and explaining that to her privately especially considering that he's aware of her struggles and pains. Whatever that Ruby girl did to them to always receive humiliation and disrespect from her colleagues.
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteYou're very right.
DeleteBeing aware of what happened to Ruby, he shouldn't have said anything especially that part that says the child will reunite with his/her father. Guy, you never know the pain people go through.
ReplyDeleteWomen should also stop all these I'm the king, father, etc. It's father's day, leave am like that. When it's mother's day, you can eulogize yourself all you want cos you deserve it. All these I'm the father can even push the child to look for her father whether he's a deadbeat or not when people start talking.
Every father's day this kind of drama must happen,na wa oo
ReplyDeleteThere are a hundred Mother's day celebration in one year. You'll never see a man dragging it with women.
ReplyDeleteBut the one Father's day that we said let us manage, they will still want to collect it from us.
Women and drama!!
Even people like Tonto that denied the father access will still come and be causing drama. Some women deny their baby daddy access once the relationship fail. If you check now this Rubby drama queen is one of them, yet she will come to social media on Father’s Day to be constituting nuisance. Ndi isi nmebi
DeleteFan Emmanuel
Na wa for them
ReplyDeleteThey are supposed to be friends . He has her phone number . He did everything wrong !!
ReplyDeleteThank you!!! I will never do this to my friend, even if I know she is exaggerating online, never.
DeleteHe for go try am with tonto na, let that one drag him in the potopoto.
His response is insensitive,it shows lack of empathy
ReplyDeleteIt is not insensitive. He said the simple truth. She is not a Father. She is a Mother.
DeleteRuby is not a father.
DeleteWhen did we miss it?
Insensitive in the fact that he is in the know of all that happened,he should have DM her privately.
DeleteShe is not a man but she is playing the role of a father and a monther in the child's life so it's ok for her to praise herself for playing the role of both parents. Some parents will be unavailable in a child's life and decide to show up in the child's life when ever it pleases them. Such kind of persons, anyhow their partners decide to treat them when they eventually surface in the child's life, we shouldn't blame them
Delete"someday she will be united with her father" is an insensitive statement to make. Oga, mind the business that pays your bills.
ReplyDeleteGbam
DeleteI believe she was angry because it came from him, her "friend", her close pal cause she stated that he knows every every.
ReplyDeleteTo me, he said the truth.
Any private matter published in the public space is no longer private. It is open to public comments. Mind your business no longer applies in the matter. Only the legal rules of public comments apply.
ReplyDeleteAny woman who wants to be both father and mother to a child should self impregnate.
Any woman who does not want a man to claim fatherhood of a child born by her should go to a sp3rm bank and follow the processes for that.
Some fathers are shirking their duties and not behaving well as expected by their societies. But the mothers who try to spite them every fathers day are indirectly giving them too much attention and acknowledging their rights.
Oyibo wey some of us like to follow don pass all this kind drama. Some don go lower. Are we going to follow dem down too?
Sista T no dramatise dis year (abi she do sef?). Madam Ruby takeover.
Man no good. Woman no good. Yet una no gree stay alone.
Father's day service yesterday was lit in my church. I enjoyed it so much.
ReplyDeleteWe celebrated Fathers not ladies/women.
Jnr Pope didn't say anything bad.Rubby please be calming down
ReplyDeleteAbeg women need to stop all these happy father's day to themselves thing. We can play a mother and father role to our kid(s) but that doesn't stop you from being the kid's mum. You can be an extraordinary mum but you're still A MOTHER not a father
ReplyDeleteDMs, inbox, personal phone lines exist for a reason.
ReplyDeleteSome of you just rush your keypad to type how she should manage her traumatic experience. I don't know her story anyway, so I can't say for a fact what the issue is all about.
ReplyDeleteAll of you condemning her,you are not in her shoes so I see no reason why you should tell her how to react over issues like this.
Yes, I know some single parents make flimsy excuses as to why their child shouldn't be in the life of the other parents but that doesn't change the fact that some parents are very wicked to their baby dad or mama and anyhow the victim decides to handle it we should be considerate enough not to worsen their traumatic experience by making them look like the devil whereas most of you can't take half of what the victim went through in the hands of the partner.
The best you can do if you are friend to any of such person is to have a heart to heart conversation with the person, let him or her let out all his/her pain. If there is room for forgiveness, you teach the person how to heal. To some, they heal immediately after letting out the burden in their heart, some may take one year, some many years, and some may never let go of the pain. Whichever way, just know that everybody can't be you. If they check your life now there may some somewhere that you are not in talking terms with over a very little issue.
Go and test the exact life experience she had with her partner let's see how you will handle your emotions before you come and tell someone how to handle her's.
Folks should learn to see a post and mind their business.
ReplyDeleteShe is the kind that will come online to poison the mind of innocent girls so that they can join her misery. Why is she bitter if "men ain't shit"?
ReplyDeleteNa only (mostly divorced, separated, and never married) single women dey do this stuff yearly.
ReplyDeleteMarried women who are the real McCoy in their matrimonial homes do not do it. Even widows who are performing as father and mother in their children lives appear not to do it. Meanwhile, if at all, such widows should be the ones entitled to celebrate it.
Just wondering why single fathers who did or are doing both father and mother roles in their children lives do not celebrate all the secular and religious mother days.
Women celebrating fathers day is for spite. Dazz all.
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