Hailings.....
Hello everyone...Has today been good to you?
Send in your Chronicles if you have any or drop in the comment section...
If you notice that my ood has been down or that I am agreesive somehow please bear with me....... Thank you
Enjoy the rest of the day my people....
I will start replying comments next week...still not in the mood... Kisses to you all..
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PINKYS CORNER
Men are what again?
I hail una oooo and job well done to those who stood by our dear GWR breaker. The love was massive.. Make I no waste una time jare.
There is this young man in my area, who owns a satchet water company, infact, we buy often from him. This man stays in his family house with his three wives. Where he uses for the satchet water making company Is his property (He bought the house and turned it to a company but stays in a family house).
One of his wife uses one of the shop attached to his pure water company and she sells beverages, biscuits etc. Recently, I noticed, the wife hasn't been opening the shop but I thought she traveled until someone told me today when I asked her that the husband stopped her from opening the shop and told her never to come outside except when she wants to take her children to school or she wants to go pick them up then I asked why?
The person said, about three weeks ago, very early in the morning, the wife went to fight a lady who stays very close to her shop because the lady was dating her husband (who does that?, You wey u be the third wife of the said man dey fight side chick). Has she forgotten she also got married to someone elses husband
I'm not supporting what the husband did but going to the extent of taking her friend along side to beat the lady at home is not just good at all.
That was the reason, the husband stopped her from opening the shop when he got to know.How did he get to know? The lady in question reported the case to the man and that was how everything turn to yam pepper scatter scatter. If she doesn't open the shop at all week then it becomes a month now that the goods in the shop has been locked up by her husband.
Hmmmm, if you see this man ehn, he has a gentle and innocent face but you will never know he is IDAN master.
It's a pity he had to lock up the shop, I think there are better options to resolve such issue than asking your wife to stay indoors while you lock up her shop. wait oooo, I need someone to enlighten me.
What are the benefits of having more than one wife?
JAMB QUESTION....Lol
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FROM TUESDAY SPONTANEOUS POST
''Please is anyome working in a sleep related hospital in Abuja. Yours faithfully has been having crazy dreams and restless nights. I have not been able to stay asleep for more than 3 hours for months now. Gone to three hospitals, done chest X-RAY. MRI and CT scan and all came out fine yet the restlessness especially at night is still there. I seem to process everything that happened in the day during my sleep and wake up tired.
I am not under any form of stress currently.''
Drink a glass of red wine in the evening and thank me now... You will sleep like a baby and its healthy and will relax you.... Red wine not champagne
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INTRODUCING NEW COLUMN
SOPHIES SKINCARE CORNER
SUNSCREEN FOR MELANIN RICH SKIN-
Some of my melanin sisters would say they don't need sunscreen because they are darkskinned and do not get sunburns. If you're amongst this school of thought, clear that from your thoughts asap because you're wrong. Melanin skin gets sunburned and needs sunscreen.
Sunscreen is a product that protects your skin from the sun's harmful rays. It's important to wear sunscreen because it can prevent premature aging, wrinkles and even skin cancer.
If you have dark skin, there are certain factors that make finding the right sunscreen even more challenging than it might be for someone with fair or medium-toned skin.
If you don't know how to choose the proper sunscreen for your complexion, here is a guide that can help you enjoy being outside without worrying about damaging your health in the process!
-What to Look for in Sunscreen for Dark Skin
When choosing a sunscreen, you should look for the following...
* Ingredients. The best sunscreens have ingredients that protect against both UVA and UVB rays. These include avobenzone (also known as Parsol 1789), ecamsule (also known as Mexoryl SX), titanium dioxide and zinc oxide. They also contain antioxidants like vitamin E or green tea extract to help prevent free radical damage caused by the sun's rays.
* SPF level. The higher the SPF, the more protection you'll get from UVB rays--but don't go overboard! If your skin is sensitive to chemicals or has an allergy history, stick with an SPF 30 or lower; if not...go ahead and use something higher! Just remember that any sunscreen over 50 isn't really adding much extra protection beyond what 40 would give you anyway so don't waste money on something unnecessary just because it says "50+" on its label (which doesn't mean anything anyway).
* White Cast. Also, some sunscreens tend to leave white casts or residue after application, so before buying read labels, packaging or check reviews to ensure that it doesn't do that. Your aim should be a sunscreen that blends into your skin leaving no white cast or finish.
* Finally, you have to consider your preferred finished look. Do you prefer oily or matte finishing? Personally, I prefer a matte finish- I have oily skin, hence I am team no too much oil. If you're like me, matte is the best look. If your skin is dry, then going for one that would give a creamy, dewy or oily look might be your best bet.
Until next time when I bring another jolly topic, remain beautiful.
Nice one...Thank you
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FROM MONDAY CHRONICLE POSTER
Thanks Stella for posting
I am the poster
My son is 5yrs old
We both agreed that he should stay with my sister but my husband went and took the child away from my sister when he went to Naija
Yes he has travelling documents and he goes home often to see him
They stopped me from talking to my son,the last time I heard from him was June last year,my mum asked that they let the boy come spend some time with her but my SIL said she won’t release the boy
I can appear in court but I dunno when it would be best to go home
I am very confused and SAD
My husband stated it in his petition that our son should remain with his sister
I’m very sure he doesn’t have any relocation plans for the boy because he can’t even take care of the boy himself,he’s a big FLIRT and all he does is jump from one woman to another
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One of the worst things that can happen to anyone, is getting married to the wrong person. It will mess you up psychologically, spiritually, financially, socially and emotionally.....
ReplyDeleteMarriage is HEAVEN with the right person, and HELL with the wrong one.
This may sound clichè, but it is far better to be single and happy, than married, and absolutely frustrated!
Biko, if you're married already, and the marriage dey choke you, run o! Na you wear the shoe. You know exactly where e dey pinch you. Use your head!
For the singles who desire marriage, may God help you marry right! π
Una Gud Afternoon...#ALiSpeaks
amen to your prayers for singles.
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DeleteSo on point !
DeleteOne pastor said,if you marry the wrong troublesome spouse,just know that satan has settled that person,he won't bother them cos he already has a representative
DeleteMay God help us all
DeleteAmen π π to your prayer.
DeleteHusband called wife on phone and said "today no need to cook, i will bring dinner from the second wife".
ReplyDeleteWife opened the door and that's the only thing husband remembered.
Husband is now in ICU. Whereas second wife is a name of a particular restaurant.
Be slow to anger
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Good afternoon everyoneππ❤πππππππππ
Belated happy birthday to you Bv OsundiπππΎπΎππππππ
the man did not explain to his wife, he should have told her the name of the place and add restaurant. May his soul rest in peace lol
DeleteHe got what,he was looking for.
DeleteGood afternoon everyone π₯°π₯°π₯°
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon sweetheart
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DeleteGood afternoon
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon dear
DeleteLife no suppose hard, na you dey over pass your strength.
ReplyDeleteLife na jeje.
Una good afternoon.
My dear,life na jeje o. You trouble yourself when you decide to make it hard.In life,we must learn to overlook many things and pretend not to notice.
DeleteYou don talk am finish o
DeleteNo weapon formed against us , shall prosper and any tongue, that shall rise against us in judgment thou shall condemn .
ReplyDeleteThis is the heritage of the servants of the Lord and their righteousness is of me, saith the lord . Isaiah 54:17.
GOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY
Amen ππ
DeleteGood afternoon
DeleteAmen
DeleteAmen π
DeleteThank you Sophie's Skin corner. Keep it coming, God bless you.π
ReplyDeleteBlessed day guys.
Good afternoon, lovelies
ReplyDeleteEnjoy!
You must be above your wife with THREE things
ReplyDelete1. KNOWLEDGE
2. CASH &
3.AGE
Your wife too must be above you with FIVE things.
1. PATIENCE
2.NEATNESS
3.LOVE
4.PLANNING &
5.PRAYER
And you should be equal on three things:
1.UNDERSTANDING
2.TOLERANCE &
3. RESPECT...
Do you believe this?π️π️π€
those things you mentioned for a man to be above his wife, i always pray about it. I don't want to have more money than my husband. God should help me to have those quality before my husband. Future hubby do not worry you will have money more than me.
DeleteI disagree on 1,2,3 and 1,2,3,4,5 but I am doing something now. I will be back
DeleteI disagree though, the word "must" shouldn't be there. Its okay for a woman to have more money, also, the man more prayerful.
DeleteNot must concerning money about the husband .
DeleteMake I no talk sha
DeleteMen and women should both be very prayerful that’s how God ordained it
DeleteZendaya
Imagine living a life forever shrinking yourself, ensuring you never reach your full potential because of 'man'.
DeleteImagine!
Man who will fling you away like a used piece of tissue in a heartbeat.
Somethings I hear leave me 'gobsmacked'.
Escalator drama with my mum πππ.
ReplyDeleteAll I can say is that she says she’s never going to the mall again π
she will get use to it, try to tell her the fun and always hold her hands next time.
DeleteLol
DeleteHahahahahahahaha... There's a mall close to Oroazi that I avoid because of escalator. Gimme stairs ooo I will climbπ
DeleteElevator*
DeleteAnon, escalator pls π
DeleteBlackberry, that was me in Nigeria, you’d kill me first before I climb those things but when u see how high up the stairs here go ehn, you will have to learn and news flash, it’s not even hard oh
DeleteExcited courtesy, holding hands will even make it harder, make both of us no go fall
That thing dey fear person jare π
DeleteI'll rather climb 1 billion steps πͺ
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DeleteLol , I no fit laugh abeg, Same with my sisters they prefer to climb uncountable stairs
DeleteMummy Anthony-Clever
Lol
DeleteStella you be fine, life happens at times. You are human. Hugs.
ReplyDeletePinky, they will all be alright las las but na second and the rest number of wives can be troublesome and jealous. Don't know why?
Skin care routine nice column.
Pride destroys alot. No room to learn from others.
Greetings everyone.
Greetings π
DeleteGreetings π
DeleteGreetings. Hello Paree♥️♥️
DeleteOh Lord, please come through for me. Amen.π
ReplyDeleteAmen π
DeleteHe will and Amen to that
DeleteToday's sign out post is a "food for thought". Good afternoon people. How go de go?
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon sweetheart.. hope mama is waxing strong
DeletePoster, fight with everything you’ve got for ur boy. Fight with everything. Make sure to document every process just incase you do not win. You don’t want ur ex to have her child and you still took the child and kept with ur own sister and the nitwit that is a woman also agreed to keep someone’s child with her.
ReplyDeleteI hope Karma meets her in front.
Take nothing personally and save yourself from 99% of mental problems.
ReplyDeletePinky the man want to punish his wife, he feels the shop is what is giving his wife the liver to do such a thing. My gender should know better ways to handle issues than going to fight side chick.
ReplyDeleteThe side chicks are not your problem but your dogs at home. You leave your dogs unchained but will fight someone who you don't know what the man has told her. You are even the third wife but has liver to fight another babe. Know it that oga will still add more wives after you, just get used to reality. I love that her husband is dealing with her, giving her the attention she is looking for.
Having more than one wife is a way of saying i do not want to have side chicks outside. Instead of side chicks let them come home and be my wives but still is not working.
From SP post please can you try to drink plenty of water, take alcohol a little to see if you can catch some sleep. Above all try and find out why your body cannot accept sleep, me that is once my body touches anything called bed i am off to my village.
Hello everyone.
ReplyDeleteTo God be the Glory,great things he has done.
ReplyDeleteIt's my daughter's 3rd birthday today. Can't believe it's 3 years already since the Lord gave me victory over childlessness. I'm forever grateful my Lord
Good afternoon lovelies
Happy birthday to her
DeleteHappy birthday to your princess π₯³πππ God bless and keep her
DeleteHappy birthday to your beautiful daughter π₯³
DeleteHappy birthday to your baby girl!
DeleteHappy 3rd birthday princess
DeleteAwww God bless your lil angel❤️
DeleteHappy birthday to your angel π... She will definitely make you proud and happy..
DeleteHbd to her
DeleteHappy Birthday to your Angel
DeleteHappy birthday to your cutie. God bless her.
DeleteHappy Birthday baby girl.
DeleteHappy birthday to your daughter
DeleteBest wishes to your adorable baby girl.
DeleteHappy birthday to you baby girl
DeleteHappy birthday to ur princess.God bless u both.
DeleteHappy birthday babygirl.
DeleteGod protect her always.
Stella you say till next week before comment section giveaway? Watch as the comments here reduce to 90. I trust our bvs π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£
ReplyDeleteReally? There have been so many days of no giveaway, yet, comments were over 100. 200 sef. So, I don't get what you're on about.
DeleteTrue @anon, IHN comments will reduce greatly.
Delete@metoyou, on days that Stella announces on IHN that she will reply comments, comments hit 200.
You think most BVs comment because of giveaway?
DeleteThe richer bvs here re more than the ones that partake in giveaway. people love Stella and not here for what they can get from here.
DeleteComments like this make me avoid giveaway posts, God abegπ
DeleteWho's this one again?
DeleteComments used to get to 300+ without giveaway announcement then especially when there was drama, Comments reduced because Stella is censoring certain comments to prevent chaos , if she decides to release all the comments, nobody for even notice this your yeye comment sef. Make una dey try get sense at times
That your story is the reality of some married women in Nigeria, including some that do not have any co-wife.
ReplyDeleteTheir horsebands control their destiny. Some that opened business with their own money, horseband will go there and lock it up for one reason or the other, if they prove stubborn and open it, he will tell them to leave the house.
Na who dey fear to leave useless men that threat fit work for
DeleteAfternoon to you all.
ReplyDeletePinky this your story will bring out some missing Alfa mails, especially your opening comment π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£
ReplyDeleteYou people should let our resident king, the slayer of women, rest na π
DeleteHe's on sabbatical leave π€£π€£π€£ una go see shege promax when he comes back.
DeleteAfter we go ask for Stella's censorship of his comments.
DeleteA very beautiful afternoon to y'all
ReplyDelete#gratituesday#
#gratefulforthegiftoflife#
sophies skincare corner, nice one. Poster with a 5 years boy, please come down for your son.
ReplyDeleteJeweluchi Stella pele.
Una good afternoo
You're right. Greetings dear
DeleteThanks Sophie for this new column. I'm sure all skin questions would be answered here.
ReplyDeleteThis retinol I am using that is giving me fast action. Within days, all the pores for my face don dey become invisible. Should I be worried. I goggled how long before seeing results and ot says about 3 months. Why is this one within weeks. God abeg oo.
ReplyDeleteWelcome IHN.
Pls dorp the name abeg. The pores on my face, left by gigantic pimples of those days can contain one cup of water. You can enter my WhatsApp if SDK seizes the comment π
DeleteBetter look at the ingredients, anything oshaprapra is a BIG NO NO.
DeleteGood afternoon Jewelu and Bvs. You will be fine,Jewel π
ReplyDeleteImagine deflecting blame from the erring party onto a man that was just doing what his religion permitted him to do. Abegi
ReplyDeleteApart from the first wife, the man and the rest are all scums.
DeleteJob hunting in the city of port Harcourt no easy at all π©
ReplyDeleteBut I believe in God πͺ
May God come through for youπ
DeleteJob hunting in Nigeria as a whole isn't easy at all. It's only God that helps us
DeleteNothing wey dem never talk for my back. All my back just dey pain me anyhow π
ReplyDeleteHaha.
DeleteHad to read twice before I caught the joke.
They're talking behind your back because you're ahead of them.
BOLANLE PEPPER DEM O.
I'm planning to switch my whatsapp to my 2nd phone. Just want to find out if anybody has done it now that WhatsApp can be used on multiple devices? I don't want to lose very sensitive information.
ReplyDeleteYou won’t lose anything;I use mine on various devices including my laptop and everything is real time..
DeleteSo switch and enjoy,update your WhatsApp and at that point you are to put your mobile no,click the “three dots” at the top and select “link devices” then scan with your main WhatsApp and that’s all..
Hope this helps..
@MARTINS
Thanks Martin.
DeleteNice one @sophie skincare
ReplyDeleteGreetings to everyone π
Dear Poster, pls fight for your Child. Nobody can love him more. The fathers is just being Vengeful.
ReplyDeleteLol @Pinky, Husband and Wife Matter dem no dey put mouth o.
Jewelu, E pele, don't mind whatever it is that's pissing you off.
IHN ekabo...
Cheers as the day progresses famz π
Good day lovelies.
ReplyDeleteBack on da beat, travelled for a training but me home now.
Ste...can you update your posts' container,my hands can't reach many. Thanks.
Your mood? Whatagwan?
Saw "just negodu" scrolled twice, can't see nothing or it's an error? Negodu what kwanu?
Bv Osundi and other celebrants. Belated happy birthday to you guys.
May lines fall in pleasant places for you.
Pinky...I read till last paragraph with the Ruth Kadiri's film Crazy Mathilda on my mind. Haha.
Locking the shop was humiliating,why go on a beating spree with friends though? Must she fight to resolve issues?
What's Idan in your context biko?
Ste...read the comment again,she's sought after many solutions yet nothing.
My advice: go "soak your self inside water in someplace" Ndia nogi nso( if you know what I mean)
And pleasssseee pack out of that house,even if you built it.
Parkkkkk!
E get why.
Red wine is good,yes,I'm an advocate for that, owing to the fact that it puts my yoriyori heart together, makes my teeth gbagam,skin popping and my hair envied but on this one? Na lie.
This is a Spiritual problem π‘
In Igboland, you do CHUBA NDI NA ACHUM(Father Lord, deal with those who stand on my head!π€―π₯Ί)
This one pass mmichalu. She isn't stressed.
Seek the face of God through deliverance.
Good luck!
Chau!
The mama herself
DeleteI see you Paprika.
DeleteMama is good here π€
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteTheres a man that rears Rams in my area. One of the Rams is being slaughtered right now because it's sick and is about to die. Makes me remember a family I once knew that reared chickens. They'd quickly slaughter any sick chicken before it died on its own. Then, they'd cook it and eat. Pardon my ignorance please. This sick ram they're killing now. Is it that cooking eliminates the sickness it carries and makes it safe to eat? Just like those sick chickens?
ReplyDeleteIt's to bleed the animal. Once it's dead it's dead. Bleeding the animal and burying the blood is giving the life back to God cos the life of any animal, or human, is in its blood.
DeletePlease don't partake in the eating.
DeleteHmmmm, thanks for the responses. Dem no give me choose sef. They probably know I would reject it (politely though). They once offered me cooked 'ibeji beans' (beans cooked by twins or on behalf of twins in Yoruba land). I don't know the real purpose of that practice but I know it's a traditional religious practice. I declined, with plenty apologies sef. I was just saying, "E ma binu ma, but mi o le je. Mi o je ri." (Don't be offended ma but I can't eat it. I've never eaten it before.) She was happy I rejected it instead of collecting it and throwing it away.
DeleteGood afternoon lovely people π
ReplyDeleteChronicle poster please do all you can to get your child back, your sis in-law can never treat him like his own mother no matter what.
ReplyDeleteThe sun dey vex for this area...wetin happen sef..It rained yesterday but the heat refused to disappear.
ReplyDeleteWe move
Asin eh Last night’s rain coupled with the massive breeze it came with pulled down a breadfruit tree and fell on a provision store just opposite the compound . Thank God the man who owns the shop wasn’t inside cos it would have being a different story all together, yet the sun today don dey shine like say dat heavy rain no fall yesternight.
DeleteBelated birthday blessings BV osundi and to all those celebrating... Busy day.. greetings beloved
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon, you'll be fine Stella, happy birthday to your baby @ omeh
ReplyDeleteWelcome ihn,hope everyone is fine? Nothing sweet pass when you be CEO oo,u go to work whenever u feel like,rest anytime u want ,and close when u want..where are the CEO here?
ReplyDeleteLollll, CEO get levels o!
DeleteSome pipu na CEO of joblessness.
Balancing running mouth like broken tap doing nothing.
Professional online, hungry lout offline.
It wii not be our loved one's portions in Jesus name.
αΉ’eun kΓ©kerΓ© αΊΉkΓΉn, Leave My husband alone before I summon your spirit.
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you tell your husband to leave her alone? Did she tie him to herself?
DeleteYou people will not face your dogbands, instead it is women that you will be pursuing, what if she leaves him and he goes after another one? Mtcheeeew
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DeletePrint her pictures if you have it and post everywhere with caption 'Seun ahewo leave my horseband alone'.
Deletecome thank me later for the resultsπππ
How many side chicks spirits would you summon if your husband has a problem with faithfulness in marriage?
DeleteBia Ste.
DeleteThis is wrong on all fronts.
If anony 16:55 wants to call out anyone let her use her name or blog ID.
Hmmm. I no dey house o.
It is well Stella Jewelchi π€π€
ReplyDeleteGod's strength πͺ π
Good afternoon the only and only SDK bloggers
ReplyDeleteHailing you guys from my ghetto
Good day everyone
ReplyDeleteChronicle poster, fight for the custody of your kid, prayerfully. I said prayerfully because some of these women are diabolic.
Do everything possible to take ur child from that wicked sister inlaw, she is probably using ur son to milk his brother, that is why she is holding unto that boy for her selfish gain
ReplyDeleteSee my sister, if u don't have tym for custody battle, use cunny way and get ur son back.
Start by sending money to her and ur mother inlaw, let them fall for ur tricks, keep calling ur sister inlaw, don't force her to give the phone to ur son, when u will know she has fallen yakata is when she willingly allow ur son to speak to u, call that wicked being often and keep promising her heaven and earth, she will turn u into a cash cow no problem just endure and send it, her greed and longer throat will make her let her guards down, while u on the other hand will get busy with preparing for u and ur son's exit. If u can afford to come back, take ur son to passport office, get his documents ready return him to her and wait for when u will strike, madam apply ur 36, if her weakness is money, use it to choke and decieve that wicked witch to get what u want and take ur son away
You think everybody is hungry for other people's money or everyone can betray their brother's trust.
DeleteAnd you think the SIL is the obstacle to her custody of the child.
Befriending the SIL to gain her trust should be to build bridges, to disabuse her mind, to make her convince her brother to seek peace. It should not be done to facilitate the stealing of the child as suggested.
Hmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteChronicle Poster, the courts can help you get custody of your son.
ReplyDeleteFirst person to sue does not always win a case.
Since your husband travels to see your son, it shows he loves him and he is interested in his welfare. How many times have you travelled to come see your son compared to your husband. A good Judge will look at this fact
You need a lawyer sound in matrimonial/custody cases and a slightly biased Judge to get what you seek.
But what you really need is a matured, grounded and neutral conciliator and mediator. Such person will help you both focus on your son and what is best for him. Such person will help you both drop your mutual desire to weaponise your son and zerolise each other.
If I am a Judge, I will be tempted to order only joint custody. But that's why I am not a Judge.
Reading your post, it is clear your husband has seen that once you take the child, he would lose him.
Once the man is sure that he would not lose his son, the case is half won on your side. If your State has the multi door Court House system as in Lagos State, try to work with them on this case.
Warm hugs to you all
ReplyDeleteBeautiful day
May God come.through for you chronicle poster. If you have the court summons for the divorce case, do as Hezekiah did, present it before the Lord in prayer and ask God to show You His mercy and favour with the court proceedings. Except you know clearly that your sister inlaw is maltreatment your son, wait for God to fight for you. The boy himself will look for you at the right time. Often it is the absentee parent that such children long for. Use prayer to win back your child but also be prepared not to use him as a weapon to punish your ex-husband no matter how bad things got between you both.
ReplyDeleteHi everyone
ReplyDeleteSDK take these warm hugs π€π€π€π€
We all get moody and our spirits downcasted every now and then, we will be fine.
Y'all should have a beautiful night rest.
#readingmodeactivated
Chronicle poster, they stopped you from talking to you done for almost a year now, what have you done about that? You guys should stop this unnecessary battle and try co-parenting this young boy. The fight to take him away from each other doesn't really make sense.
ReplyDeleteStella, may what time heal whatever is keeping you in a foul mood. Love and light ✌️