Saturday, May 13, 2023
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ReplyDeleteLet me be clear, a man telling me straight up we are doing 50/50 is very different from a man being a man and me supporting him.
Yes I fully support a man that knows how to be a man first by taking care of his responsibilities like I take care of mine not a boy telling me it’s 50/50 by force. If I’m already doing 100 alone which means I’m the man and woman myself which is not a problem for me as I look after myself real good then pray tell what’s the point of being in a relationship with a man that makes no differences to my life? I cannot drop my masculine energy I must continue to still be man and woman in a relationship makes no sense to me.
A woman is a helpmeet so let me do that in the relationship not the man dictating from jump it’s 50/50 y’all can keep that and drop me out.
Nobody should come under my comment and say oh but women want equality. I’m so sick of men twisting feminism and equality. Feminism and equality for women because only applies in THE WORKPLACE that women should have equal opportunities, equal rights and equal pay IN THE WORKPLACE it has NOTHING to do with relationships so please stop running with this false narrative about women wanting equality in relationships. Google is free.
Lastly let people have their preferences and run their relationship how they want to.
Nothing bad in that. Hubby still picks up the bill till date after 17yrs of marriage. Better state what you want from beginning.
DeleteI love you T baj.. if you want to split Bill's with your partner kindly go ahead and leave Tolani,girl sure knows what she wants and it's fine.
ReplyDeleteHer target men done hear, na their wives go........
DeleteIt’s hard being a woman in 2023. They bash women for saying they don’t want to be 50/50 partners financially but how dare a woman not wash her husbands clothes, clean up after these men, Make sure the house is sparkling clean. Have kids for these men to continue their legacy, take care of the kids, make sure you look good and be available to him sexually and also be a co provider?
DeleteOh please, if only married men had the pockets to take care of things, you won't be where you are.
DeleteNo it isn’t.
ReplyDeleteThere are actually men who prefers to be the sole provider.
And her choice is valid.
Dante! In 1,2,3..... 😂
ReplyDeleteIs ur towtow clean and worth it?? Ugh!
Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
He is too poor for her kind of babe
DeleteHe is too poor for her kind of babe
DeleteThat's her choice and it is valid
ReplyDeleteI have nothing against that Tolani. Just like BV Push up (original) said this morning, there is a man like that out there for you.
ReplyDeleteMy own be say , when the man pick up the entire tools to abuse you, please don't call all men scum, okwa maka ara igbachi gi nti.
Lol oga no be all men wey dey pick up Bill's bad..I've seen men that are stingy and still very wicked... There are good men that wants to take care of their partners 100%
DeletePoor people are the ones who keep a list of things they have done and then use it to harass those around them . How many people have Elon, bill gates or Jeff Bezos gone to harass for giving them one thing or the other? Focus and make something of yourself rather than fretting that a man in a station far higher than yours is unable to recognize the inside value of his shoe and accord her that respect.
DeleteHer prayer, if answered, will make it easier for you to find a woman looking to buy respect and who will also belittle you in the times of trial since that will be y'all's love language.
Poverty mentality is bad
DeleteKai
A responsible normal thinking man is not a slave owner , only wickedness twisted poverty mentality grinded clowns think that full responsibility is excuse for sbuse
Anty, e be like say na politicians you dey find.
ReplyDeleteShe wants what she wants and there are financially capable men who actually want women who want this. It's good that she is upfront about her financial expectations in a relationship/marriage so that those ones that want to split Amala and ogunfe bill with women at Tantalizers or Iya Basira's buka can keep looking for their spec. Everybody will find their own as long as they are patient.
ReplyDeleteShey na man wey use two years plus toast me before I gree wan begin tell me about splitting bills? Dem no dey follow babe who knows her onions discuss certain things until clap enter dance perhaps. If men are totally honest about their finances, a good woman will run the home without hitches or unreasonable expectations. For instance, If the total cost of running your home is 200k per month and you tell her upfront that you can provide 120k monthly which should make sense if your salary is 250k and hers is equally 250k as well. You do not need to mention adding 80k, she already knows she'll sort that because a responsible woman knows she must pull her weight at home without being told but don't make that a condition for dating or marriage especially if na you dey toast me. If a woman had the option between a bill-splitter and 100% provider, who do you think 99% would choose?
In fact, if someone asked me out on a movie date and mentioned that "rubbish", I'd go but we'd sit apart throughout the movie so that I can enjoy my money in peace. You cannot be holding my beautiful hands and famzing a babe like me at the cinema when I paid for my ticket and popcorn. I will not even review or discuss the movies with you afterwards. Go and review it with Dante or Caesar! (Yeee! Who slap me?)
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Dante, if you come for me ehn! Na that 2.9 million thunder and lightning wey dem forecast for the month of May I go send to your street🥱😡. Naija girlfriends who split bills with their Naija boyfriends in Nigeria particularly, una doh o. Here are your flowers 🌼 🌹🌺. The two oyinbos wey I go on date with for school then sef no even think am. I no even know how much wey dem pay but then, I did not eat like someone from a refugee camp,
I did not ask for takeouts and I did not invite hungry friends along. I support any dude whose date tries those three to demand that the bills be split. That's non.sense except the guy expressly asked you to and I still wouldn't though. I dey chop before you meet me and I don't have ebina friends.
Lol
DeleteMake people dey understand trends and fads from classic.
I dey reason if Chas dey split bill bcos CamCam don be full queen in 'equality'. If he hear am!
Or William go ask Kate to split bill. Kate go need therapy for life.
Even Biden Rishi, Putin, trump indian&chinco president/ prime minister no go sell out their masculine power just like that.
Oyamilenu
who doesnt't!!!
ReplyDeleteMe too,
ReplyDeleteAsk and you sha find. She is saying what she want, another man is saying I don't want my wife to assist me. Especially my people that have too much pride will not allow their women to add Kobo to avoid insults.
ReplyDeleteIt is poverty minded inferior men with zero self respect that don't even have anything that are looking for who to split bills with
ReplyDeleteEven in the bible, it is written that a woman is only a helpmate to the man, I blame globalization and civilization for all these misconceptions
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