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Friday, May 26, 2023
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My husband is annoying me my mum came to the abroad and he hasn’t called to say hello to her. I’ve not spoken to him for two weeks now and I don’t intend to till he does the right thing. I just feel he doesn’t like my mum which he doesn’t like me too. I’ve checked out of the marriage emotionally and mentally na physically remain
ReplyDeleteNa physically remain?
DeleteGet at it, ma'am
He obviously isn't you two
Shit happens at times
Madam, pick your phone and call your husband. Why are you checking out without making efforts to bridge the gap in communication. E never reach like that except there are other issues.
DeleteHmmmmm.
DeleteAs silly as it may sound, please don’t add more fight as a result of an existing fight. Tackle only existing fights. New fights don’t resolve existing ones, they simply add to the number of fights.
Since you aren’t so bothered about the marriage working out, please adopt this approach:
1. If he acts or does something you don’t like, be very direct and ask him why he acted like A instead of B. Not combative but be very direct. No need to keep locking up.
2. If you want something (unrelated to fight) ask directly. Not in a negative or begging tone. Just be very direct and ask.
3. If you are a Christian, as the Holy Spirit on what you are to do about your marriage.
It is hard to be in an unhappy marriage but my dear, it is also time to change the order of things.
You never want to look back with regret after all said an done. (Especially after divorce)
Good luck.
Don't let pride take away your husband or marriage. I'd your husband didn't call what is stopping you from calling him? After all is a two way things, there is no where it is written that the man has to call his wife first.
DeleteCall him to break this silent, speak to him to confirm why he hasn't call than assuming things in your head.
Anon me and you both. I'm emotionally out of this marriage. My hubby has been keeping malice with my mom for almost 3yrs now. I've stop calling his mum too. You can't hate my mum and expect me to treat urs like gold.
DeleteMarriage sha, it is well. Please be patient enough to call him and let him know you are not happy with him.
DeleteInto*
DeleteAnon 21:16, if his mum did nothing to you, do you think it’s fair to keep malice with his mum.
DeleteHis actions aren’t right but, in all things get and apply wisdom.
Somethings someone in marriage has to keep things right.
Two people shouldn’t be wrong at same time.
Marriage is overrated, until u enter u go understand
Delete8:12, I tell you
DeleteSome are crying for a man like the anon far down below. They think marriage is a bed of roses like the fake smiles and loved up pictures they post on social media.
Marriage that it's only about 20% that is smooth and happy?
My relationship with my parents, siblings and extended family is more of toxic “user/used” ATM relationship so all human relationships are not perfect. The “20% of marriages” you quoted has no statistical basis so it’s very biased especially as happy or contented couples don’t flaunt as they have nothing to prove. I know a lot of contented married folks. When you stop expecting a human being to be your Jehovah Jireh, you become contented. The commenter who hasn’t heard from the husband needs to check up on him. What if he isn’t ok and needs her? I don’t get the understanding many have if relationships and marriage. If you don’t hear from a loved one or they are avoiding talking, they could be going through stuff. It’s selfish to think it’s always about “me”! One thing that destroys a marriage fast is selfishness & lack of contentment from either side. My husband’s relationship with my family does not determine how I treat his or anyone as my love is not vengeful or retaliatory. No offense. I just think with decades of experience we need to mentor younger folks to redeem marriages that CAN be rescued. A lot of regrets go on in the minds of some divorced folks that they will never share.
DeleteHere to relax.. had a hectic day.. good evening everyone
ReplyDeleteSo sorry dear. Have some rest and you will be fine.
DeleteThanks tee.. surely will do that
Delete🤗🤗🤗🤗
DeleteGood evening dear, please do have enough rest.
DeleteThanks Anne and Candy.. surely do o
DeleteA little bit story time. It's a love story and a sweet one too.
ReplyDeleteA couple of weeks ago, I got this lovely message from my woman that reads;
''Thank you for making life so wonderful. You are the one person I truly adore in this entire world. I appreciate your care and love. I am truly blessed for having you as a part of my life. Thank you for being my lover, my friend and my confidant. 😘😘😘😘''
I was so touched and happy knowing that I'm being loved and appreciated. I've shared a little intro here on how we met during that election period earlier this year and how we eventually clicked and fit into each other.
When you truly love someone or when someone truly loves you, definitely you will know by their actions.
When my ex left me and got married, I felt devastated for I thought I would never find love again like I did with her.
On two occasions I tried getting into love again, but it didn't work out.
So on February 25th, love find its way again to my heart. This time around, I prayed for a sign and looked out for it. I became so intentional on what I wanted and as God will perfect it, the sign I seek came out positive.
There's something about women that are last born. They are great lovers. I stand to be corrected if i'm wrong.
Again, there are people that comes into your life and then comes an open door and breakthrough. She's exceptional and one among the Angels on earth.
Tonight, we're hanging out for some good time and relaxation.
I'm glad our path met.
Finally, in a matter of months, God will perfect all we've started.
Looking forward to the bigger picture.
Goodnight Guys....
Love killi me I die🤤🤤🤤
DeleteCongratulations TJ 💙
Awww ...May your love stand the test of time.. may you keep loving and cherishing her.. truly love is a beautiful feeling... I wish you guys a smooth ride in your journey... We've got wedding to attend.. teejay nwanne invite us o.... Big congratulations dear
DeleteGood luck Tee-Jay,we last born are great lovers👍
DeleteCongratulations
DeleteAwww congratulations
DeleteTrue about last borns 🥰
Congratulations Teejay, love is a beautiful thing, I'm happy for you. You're right about the last born being a great lover, my sister is a typical example.
DeleteCongratulations to you TEE JAY for finding love. We all go find love someday too.
DeleteLove don carry Tj go faraway. Nna enjoy your love. It's a beautiful feeling. Congratulations in advance bcos I know that in a few months time, something huge will happen.
DeleteCongrats Ezege. Wishing you both all the best.
DeleteCongratulations but I hope she knows your take on polygamy .
DeleteFidel: Arabanko...🥱😸
DeleteCongratulations,Ezege
DeleteCongratulations Teejay
DeleteKeep your plans close to your chest. Surprise is.
DeleteThanks guys!!! I appreciate you all.
DeleteCongratulations Tee
DeleteLove nwantinti😉
DeleteEzege is in love 🤣
Congratulations, Bro. 🥂🥂🥂
Congrats. You had a serious relationship and was gushing over the tomatoes seller?
DeleteWhy can't you be happy for once for Teejay. Haba why are you like this???? Na wah oo.
DeleteThis girl know say u dey Skd like this?
DeleteTeejay, it's better you let her know in this early part of your relationship that you will marry more than one wife and that you are a half Christian and half traditionalist
DeleteLMFAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Delete@polygamist and traditionalist
You could have said this under anonymous. Somehow somehow do not believe the writer and the writee. I'm not bitter but don't know why
DeleteGood evening to each and everyone of you chilling here at this time.
ReplyDeleteHope you are having a blast (not bomb blast) already?
I watched "a simple lie" and it wasn't bad at all.
Being allergic to lies comes to mind right about now no cap.
I can't even remember the last time i hung out but its all good.
Public holiday,is that you?
Goodnight!
A simple lie was as simple as they come. A simple plot, but the cast did justice. I want to see Kiekie in a different character. In most of the movies and skits I've seen her, she's just her usual loud self.
DeleteWhat a hectic week but happy that today is Friday. Next week will be hectic also, lord give me the strength to always deliver.
ReplyDeleteHome and my guys just restored light 💃💃💃💃💃 who prepared fresh cat fish pepper soup 😂😂 kindly share with a sister.
My tired is tired... Have a great rest
DeleteThank you so much
DeleteI have been thinking, checked google but still not understanding this civil marriage. Please is civil marriage same with court marriage?.
ReplyDeleteHahaha, they are the same thing, na we dey call am court marriage, or you can still say registry marriage, you gerrit.
DeleteIt's the same o
DeleteAll civil means is non-religious.
DeleteHere asking, it been a long time.
ReplyDeletePlease is there public holiday on Monday
ReplyDeleteThis anon don really tire😂😂
DeleteThey answered you the other day na. Yes
Yes
DeleteNope
DeleteYes, without being told.
DeleteYes o.. exactly 😂 @anne
DeleteYes, there is.
DeleteIf there will be public holiday it will be for Children,as children's day will be on a weekend.
DeleteYes
DeleteWatching Mama Mia, here we go again!!!!.
ReplyDeleteAn oldie but a goodie. Never get tired of watching it. My daughter loves it too, we sing and dance. Super trouper is one of our faves.
Coming to America lined up
Special shout outs to Lepacious Sexy Mrs A and Delectable Olori Oriente on the arrival of their babies.
ReplyDeleteGod is Awesome.
Kisses to the newborns.
Will be a chillaxing weekend for us,the tension got over and we're smiling again.
Baby BEHOLD is sticking around my body and her twinny is playing a game with his Dad,the dogs well? 🐕
Na dem by themselves born full house so they're running around enjoying the sun, crazy bunch they are😂
Or should I say?
*whispers* ndi aramara(no translation!) Haha.
It's been 1 week and 3 days without light in "naturally ahead" I wonder when this light issue will be resolved. Rumour has it that the light bill is almost nine hundred and thirty five million or more.
ReplyDeleteBonsoir Blogfam! It a long weekend,hubby is not around, so iam just going to read....I have a plethora of old James Hardly Chase books,I am also going to watch Avatar's way of water,and Queen Charlotte a Bridgerton story over again. I have downloaded the book parce que I realised reading before watching gives you the graphic juice missing from the movie....this is becoming an obsession Lol....iam so in love with the classical violin and melancholic soundtrack
ReplyDeleteSounds like a wonderful weekend is in store for you.
DeleteReading before watching a movie is bae! They don't really depict the books very well in the movies, except for a few. Bridgerton movies didn't do justice to the books especially.
DeleteSupposed to spend this evening with my babe. We planned it together.
ReplyDeleteBooked a room for us but guess what she is nowhere to be found.
Her excuse now is she is hanging out with her friends (All guys).
Me I don give up for the relationship.. na to silently commot myself
Eya.... So sorry about that.. e dey pain sha
DeleteThis calls for you to show up at the spot she is going. Don’t take any bullshyt excuses. She is either in or out
DeleteEayah sorry.. breakfast loading
Delete21:22, show up at which spot? Which kyn stress on top relationship when nor be say na Beyonce she be
DeleteIs good you notice the sign
DeleteJust get a tough skin
@21:22. I showed up at the club where she went and called she didnot pick. After 15mins she called me to tell me she is in the hotel. The hotel is just 3mins drive from the club so I suspect she saw me and quickly left then called me when she got to the hotel.
DeleteMe I don leave my laptop open with one chat wey I get with one babe. I dey wait make I enter hotel room so we can serve ourselves breakfast..
Lol this will be fun!!!
Hmmm
DeleteNa lie. Una go knack and the story continues. Maybe you will mentally check out? Come and update us next week.
Delete🎶 Singing e don cast las las na everybody go chop breakfast.
Anon 22:07, you have to come back and gist us. Sometimes a man just have to show up. Let us know if breakfast was hot or lukewarm. I love this🤣
DeletePHCN has been doing wonders lately, I just hope the crazy estimated bill will not be overly crazy next month.
ReplyDeleteGood evening blog fam, it's going to be a long weekend.
Certainly not everyone is experiencing the holiday on 29 o... Sorry about that.. they took ours by 7pm since then we don't have and it's unlike phcn o
DeleteWhat childhood experience affects/affected you as an adult, positively or negatively?
ReplyDeleteI grew up with my aunt whose children were already adults when I started staying with them. They would always carry out their frustration on me even when I did nothing to earn it. I was relegated and my opinion would always be laughed at or getting relegated at the corner. They would always put me down at any given chance.
I was a very outspoken kid before I went to live with them but I left as a shy kid who had esteem and confidence issues. It took me more years again to rebuild that when I found out. In fact, I’m still working on it and I’m proud of my progress. I saw a shrink and it helped in the process.
Thing is, a lot of people are carrying a burden today which they picked from childhood. The earlier we realize and start working on it, the better. We should also try to be kind to the next person because we don’t know what they are fighting.
Now, what childhood experience affects/affected you as an adult, positively or negatively? Let’s talk.
TGIF 💃💃
ReplyDeleteSo this is it.
My roomie introduced to Les and we became partners thou I'm a virgin but we do the whole lez stuff . Few yrs ago she met a rich aunty who was spoiling her with money and all and she left me. Tent expired and I was broke to renew, landlord sent me packing.when I was wallowing in my poverty I met a rich money bag and he pick interest in me. He got me a place and furnished it. He was excited when he found out I'm a virgin.
I just found out that the rich aunty my ex left me for is my sugar daddy's wife. And he's now asking me to marry him. I'm thinking of agreeing just to pepper my ex and her lover. Make I tension them abi how una see it.
You are the type that says "a gay". Even basic fiction, you can't get right.
DeleteThe post is like tall tales from an eight year old. If this is the height of your imagination, the sky far above the floor mat these poorly strung words came from is still out of the picture.
😯
DeleteHow do I love a guy without him knowing I love him too much,so he won't take me for granted
ReplyDeleteGive him some space sometimes! don't like when my girl crowd me!
DeleteSome mother in-laws are from hell. So my husband's mum is supporting her son leaving his marriage and dating a woman almost her age because of money, infact the whole family is supporting the sugar mama cos of money, well I'll be here when karma visit them thank God she's got daughters
ReplyDeleteMy dear na poverty cause am, reasons I’m a bit sceptical about marrying ppl from a very poor background
DeleteMoney will always bring out the true character of a person. My dear, if he wants to leave you for money then let him go. Let them all go reap harvest they didn’t sow. Just pray for long life to see the end. Time is the master of all
DeleteHope you will not be waiting for him, wallowing in sadness and expecting "juju to clear from his eyes" so that he will come back to you?
DeleteMove on with your life, date, have fun, remarry if you want and don't ever take him back if he comes crawling back.
TGIF baby💃💃💃💃
ReplyDeleteNa yellow page Kubwa get me and my squad today.. Grilled fresh fish loading.. I'ma wash that down with Best. Who wants to join us??
ReplyDeleteObi for president
Wizkid FC
Proudly Tiv
.
Theirs is a grilled fresh fish that rocks
DeleteEnjoy!
Reading
ReplyDeleteThis weekend ehhhh, don't know if I should be excited or sad.
ReplyDeleteIt is what it is Sha 🤒
Just feeling so sad
ReplyDeleteWatching Tin and Tina on Netflix and these two kids make me not interested in meeting any new children😱
ReplyDeleteGod help me to remove this buden from my life. I am tired of being lonely 😭😭 l know you have been faithful to me in other areas of my life . l need a man l will call my own, someone who will love me. l need my own home as my sisters and friends have their own home. l am tried of this situation, I am hopeless and helpless. I keep meeting men who are married or engaged to another. You knew l want my own man. God help me and wipe away my tears 😭😭😭😭. How long will l suffer betrayal and disappoinment from the people l trust. How long will l cry to bed every night. I'm tied of life 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
ReplyDeleteIt shall end in praise remember it is written 'none shall not want her mate'
DeleteYou are tired of life because of man? SMH
DeleteDress well, be happy,love yourself and he will come like a dream. Am in The same situation too, with a daughter but am always happy n smiling at work n outside, cos I know I will remarry someday. I love u😊👍
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