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I just gave birth 3 weeks ago. My tummy is flat but dark and wrinkled. Pls how do I make it light and smooth?
ReplyDeleteAhhhh 3 weeks!!! Aunty be calming down abeg ooo. Let your body heal naturally before you start looking for ways to panel beat it ejor.
DeleteIt will clear with time,you can rub Shea butter too.The wrinkle is due to the expansion.congratulations.
DeleteLight and smooth for what? Something that was stretched for 9 months you are already thinking of lightness 3 weeks later?
DeleteUse original Sheabutter, with time it will smoothen out. It's like you used very hot water to massage your tummy after childbirth. That things shrinks the skin. I only used very hot water for sitz bath. Nobi me go burn my skin because I born pikin 😀
DeleteIt'll clear off soon. Na so my neck don black finish
DeletePlease is it healthy for one to see her period twice a month???
DeleteLike heavy flow
Lol
DeleteJazmine
My neck,face and armpit is black as if I apply charcoal.
Just 6 month gone
Pray to get to my due date soon.
Safe delivery to all of us
And blessings to all soon to testify mum.
Mrs A. A...check for uterine fibroids. Go see a doctor.
DeleteNo panic they're harmless.
🤣🤣🤣 na real panel beat, 14 years after my last child, still panel beating, abeg rest jor and leave ur body, when u are stronger, start exercising and love ur body for the stress it has gone tro to bing a beautiful one to earth.
DeleteMrs. A.A. if you rule out fibroid as suggested by XP. It's possible if your circle is 28 days or below. Imagine if your circle is 28 days and you saw your menses on the 1st or 2nd day of the month. You will definitely see it again at the end of same month.
DeletePlease, is it late to start the Palm oil Bulk business?
DeletePlease can someone put me through?
How much is needed to start?
When to buy?
When to sell?
Where to sell?
Who to sell to?
How much to sell?Thanks
Palm oil is expensive now. Edo people get good palm oil, start from there. Try and do your feasibility study offline
DeleteMy wife gave birth to twins but my mum couldn't come for omugwo cos my dad was very sick so she had to stay and take care of him.
ReplyDeleteMy wife had to go and stay with her parents so they can help out with the twins.
I want to visit them this weekend, what gifts can I buy for my mother in law and father in law to appreciate them?
I want to buy different gifts for them.
You can gift them with money but if it's material gift,you can buy nice wristwatch or wine for the father,then, beautiful material or slippersfor the mother.
DeleteCongratulations.
I don't know but any time I see I genuinely thoughtful man I stop and say: well done.
DeleteCongrats on your twins baba Ibeji.
DeleteFoodstuffs
DeleteWrappers
Nice shoes et al
Congrats. They will need foodstuffs.
DeleteI thought it's the mother of the woman that goes for omugwo if she's alive and healthy? Or is it done differently according to tradition and custom? Just asking.
DeleteWrappers, food stuff and drinks as you may afford.
Baltika, for the Yorubas, the mother in law is the one that comes for omugwo
DeleteWhile you get wrappers for your MIL you can also get senator material for your FIL also in addition to wine
DeleteBaltika, in Yoruba land, its the mother in law that comes for omugwo.
DeleteYou can also ask her if they'll prefer cash, explain that you are not sure what to buy, being liquid is very important in this economy right now.
DeleteCongratulations
DeleteYou can add cash to it
Congratulations on your twins
DeleteCongratulations on the twinnies.
DeleteGod bless the newborns.
The way Nigeria is, just get them items of comfort and or providing happy hours.
Buy according to your pocket;
30,000 or 40,000 Oraimo Power Banks. No light for naija.
2. DP LED black rechargeable Torchlight make dem dey see road for night first.
3. BML or KOLEER or Bixwax sound system for their radio access.
4. Quality hair clippers for both or any.
Before you talk wine ,wrapper and money or sorts.
Tension too much there.
My own be say, don't sleep over .
DeleteLodge in a hotel if you can't go back that day.
Haha.
DeleteChike is a bad Daddy.
Reminds me of a phone conversation.
Mummy in law...Chief when are you coming down to Lagos? then we leave together.
Father in-law...nekwanu nwanyi a nginwa when are you coming to Lagos?O bu so lagos, ka umuazia welu anyasim melu choir practice.
Haha.
Meaning he's not coming for any omugwo, the twins will turn his night sleep to screaming choir time. He will gladly dodge. Men! 😂🙆
I'm yoruba but my mum came for my omugwo and was with me for 8months, followed by my MIL for another 2 months, nothing is cast in stones especially in yoruba land, we do these things as we see fit.
DeleteJust FYI for the above comments.
Please go with money and foodstuff, its needed with this current day economy.
However, if they are very well to do and you know foodstuff/money is not the problem, stylishly ask your wife what she thinks her parent will like as gifts and let her guide you.
@Chike Telfon, in a family that the son in-law has become a son, there is no big deal in sleeping in your in-laws house.
DeleteHow can one enjoy sex when you are menopausal?
ReplyDeleteMore lubricants and aphrodisiac. Also invest in unsweetened Greek yoghurt.
DeleteI heard gorontula helps
DeleteSometimes, I do go to my man's place over the weekend to prepare soup and stew for him that'd last him for the week.
ReplyDeleteSo, one day, two of his friends came around whilst I was preparing okasi soup....
They joined him to eat. Since that day one of them always tell him to call me to come over and prepare soup for them.
In all honesty, I don't have a problem preparing a nice food for my man but with the way his friend is going about it as if I'm obligated to be preparing something for them to eat.
Pls bvs, how do I politely give my man the message that I'm tired of doing the duty of his wife?
Tell him with the lowest of tones and absolute politeness that you can't be doing all of that anymore
DeleteHe won't beat you
My dear busy yourself.
DeleteBusy yourself very well.
What becomes common is rarely valued.
If you are busy, you won't have time to be doing mobile cook upandan.
Anon 14:09 apt especially ..what becomes common is rarely valued..' 🔥
DeleteWhy buy the cow. When he can get the milk for free ?
DeleteLet them pay you. Seriously. You don’t owe them free labour
DeleteAnony 14:09... You're right to an extent.
DeleteShe could as well make the soup at her convenience in her own apartment and have him come over to take them but strictly for her main squeeze,the rest should go find a wife.
When he starts imagining you frying and making soup wearing his oversized shirt and bum shorts in his kitchen,he'll quicken the process of wifing you.
Gbania malu ife!
Try get sense,no be curse😁
In 2023 you’re still cooking for a man you’re not married to claiming you don’t mind . And now his friends have joined because you made yourself available for nonsense.
DeleteAlso if you can’t tell the man you’re dating what you’re not comfortable with in relation to him or his friends then you don’t have any business dating him.
You’re afraid to open your mouth?! Better be single oo because what’s this ?
Forget about the friend for now, that your guy no value you. I’m sure he’s told The friends that you’re his cook at best.
DeleteStart giving excuses as to why you won't come at weekends and cook. You can say you started a weekend course that takes your time or that the weekend cooking is affecting your health and you need rest at weekends now.
DeleteWatch his reaction. If he behaves well, you can breeze in on Sunday evenings and you guys can go eat outside. If he starts giving you attitude because of cooking, then sit in your house, he only wants you for a chef.
Since he already knows that you can cook, enough is enough!
Good day bvs. Please, former ttc women, what supplements, drugs or herbs or even foods or behaviors that helped you conceived? Pls help a sister Biko. God bless you all.
ReplyDeleteI too vit D n folic acid daily . I also took drink green tea 3times a week. Apple cider first thing in the morning not all mornings sha. Cut down on carbs. Like rice,eba, semo. I eat them but in small quantity with plenty of vegetable soup. Just make sure you cook with enough veg. Drink lots of water. Have sex regularly. Give your hubby yogurts, vit c( 1000mg). No more junks,fries, alcohol. And finally Pray Pray . Relax n have sex. Baby dust to you.
DeleteOvacare
DeleteTook different things didn't work for me.
DeleteMight work for you
Our body is different.
We went for IVF. Was successful
Please if you can afford. Go for it
Eat more of fruits,
DeletePrayers
Aju
Folic acid
Try ginger tea and lemon, take with ur husband..
Cloves and okoro water.. visit the hospital,do HSG and other tests with ur husband..u will testify by God's grace
Mrs Sharon...got it.👌
DeleteThe last line.
After tests and HSG processes.
Prayer takes the lead.
Thanks everyone, I appreciate your responses.
DeleteBvs in human resources department please help me out, if your interview is successful and you are asked when you can start, what's the best response please,
ReplyDeleteThe organization knows that you work somewhere else but wants to move to their organization,
Is it advice able to tell them 1 or 2 weeks.
1 week should be okay na
DeleteTell them exactly what is written in your offer letter from your current company.
DeleteIf really want you, they will wait for you.
3 weeks to a month
DeleteGive two weeks notice at your current job and take a week or two off then start. You don’t get many breaks once you start working so I try to take a good between jobs
That said I’ve finished one job on Thursday and started next on Monday. It all depends on how I’m feeling
What is your current company notice period?
Deleteif it's one month inform your new company. If it's two weeks you have to inform your new company.
If there is no notice period, please inform the company two weeks.
Give your current company one week notice period and do a proper handover and report of your key tasks and what you are working on.
Use the second week to rest and prepare for your new company. (two weeks cloth, shoes, toiletries, neat hair, nails etc)
if they need you urgently tell them you will negotiate one week with your current employer. make sure you give your former employer a week notice period. To leave on Good terms
All the best Dear. Congratulations!!!
Congratulations.
DeleteRead the employment letter from your current job, the answer is right there.
Thank you all for the comments, I really appreciate.
DeletePlease suggest to a good baby bath soap, oil and cream. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteSeba med for children
DeleteBabymed or Angel
DeleteThanks guys...
DeleteHimalayan baby products or pigeon
Deleteplease the architectures in the house, what's the minimum an architect can charge for a plan?
ReplyDeleteThere are no benchmarks for Architects.
Deleteit all depend so the scope of work (The extent of work you want done)
You may want just preliminary drawings for a 50 bedroom , 20 bedroom or a 2 bedroom house .
The preliminary drawings are not usually detailed .
OR you may want working drawings which will include :
1, Site Plan
2. Roof Plan
3, All Elevations
4.SECTION PLAN
5. Aerial Views
6,Electrical, Mechanical Drawings
7.Structural Drawings
The working drawings are usually detailed with the exact measurements and its easy to move on to the construction stage on receipt of the working drawings
So depending on the scope of work some architects can charge you millions for just drawings.
There are no hard and fast rules.
Guys please what food and fruit can I give my toddler age 2 to make her skin look fresh and chubby?
ReplyDeleteOranges and fruits rich in vitamin c
DeleteFor fresh skin,Carrots
DeleteCut into bits, add it fresh like that to food like rice, yam, spaghetti, etc. You can also let him or her eat it like that.
Thank you all for the suggestions.
DeletePlease is it right for a lady to move in with her husband to be after introduction.
ReplyDeleteNope
DeleteWhy in a hurry?
Wait till everything is sorted to avoid stories that so touch
It is not right.
DeleteIt may delay him paying your bride price and doing the proper wedding.
Why don't you hasten the wedding so you can move in together ?
KING XOXO MYSTERY
No! Introduction is just knocking on the door,you can only move in when your bride price has been paid,that's like doing traditional marriage
DeleteNo. Some might just relax and not do the needful after you move in with them
DeleteYou'd carry belly and brideprice may enter voicemail.
DeleteNo
DeleteIntroduction is not marriage.
Don’t try it
It’s may delay him from doing the needful.
Before you know you will birth all your kids without marriage.
Bride price first else you'll be sitting on a longggg thing.
DeleteIs introduction not Hi, Hello?
DeleteWhy are you moving into his house.
If the Hi turns to Bye, what will you do?
If you move in, the relationship may scatter or you may become a baby mama
DeleteWhat makes menstrual blood to have to much of thick clots and is it healthy or bad?
ReplyDeleteIt's bad dear, you need to see a good doctor, you probably have fibroid or a serious infection, go for check up and get treated ASAP pls.
DeleteBlood clots in period is normal but if it's more than before, seek medical attention, the most common cause is fibroids but you need to be sure. It is well.
Delete15:03 is wrong
DeleteThere’s nothing bad about it
Google and see
Anony 15:21... You're the wrong one.
DeleteWhat if she had fibroids and drank herbal tea?
Infections nko?
If the clots have been a part of your menstruation since, then no problem. If it just started recently, go for tests
DeleteIs primrose oil good for a young lady to be taking?
ReplyDeleteIs it Evening Primerose supplement?
DeleteDid your doctor advise you to take it?
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Yes, it's good, was recommended to me by a doctor.
DeleteWhat are the best supplements to take when you're trying to conceive?
ReplyDeleteWell woman
DeleteRoyal jelly
Ovunorm
Himalaya for ovulation
Woman's best friend, etc
Make okra water your liqueur occasionally.
Folic
DeleteBB is woman's best friend a supplement?
DeleteYes anon.
DeletePls someone that into freelance job, should coach me on how to get job as a freelance. I am a stay at home nursing mother. I just want to be making money to support my husband. My babies eat at lot. They finish their formula in two days and they're just 2 month old
ReplyDeleteWhat skills do you have?
DeleteYou must have a skill before you can talk about freelancing.
Discover what you are good at and build a skill around it.
I love writing so I decided to build my skills in that area.
I am a freelance writer. I get jobs from nairaland literature section/jobs and vacancy, upwork and fiver.
Writing is a part of me. I also do ghost writing.
The writing niche is getting saturated so I am currently learning Data Analysis by the side.
Phrizzles I have a copywriting course am about to learn. Problem is writing is oversaturated completely. On Upwork it's almost everyone that's a writer. Please which other skill can someone learn?
DeleteSo because everywhere is saturated you wanna quit? 🤨
DeleteRemember that everybody speaks and writes English until scripts are shared and dictations follow then you'll be shocked to see big guys spelling;
Privilege as previlenge
Bourgeois is bugeas
Rhythm is Rhinthm
Or appendage as appiendiage.
You didn't experience that in school?
Guy,brace up and face your struggles,don't mind the next line, keep on yours and you'll make a headway.
Thanks xp. I'll face my front and continue learning.
DeleteAny solution or tips for very dry lips? Please don't say lipgloss. This is not a cosmetic issue, I'm talking large chunks of dead wrinkly dry skin.
ReplyDeleteI started applying vaseline blue seal, not the ones with vit e and Co oo, the original blueseal and it worked for me,Apply every night without failure, it might work for you
DeleteExfoliate your lips too.
DeleteDo it often
Then drink enough water
Apply lip moisturiser.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Blue seal Vaseline. It softens heels and palms too.
DeleteShea butter also works, apply as regularly as possible to see results.
DeleteAll suggestions are right but I also advise you get BLISTEX daily moisturizing balm or the Hydrate Quenching balm.
DeleteIt leaves a good difference.
But wait o *whsipers*
Where you be dey put your mouth?
😂🏃
Dealing with endometriosis is hard, been having cramps all my life and thought it was normal, went to the general hospital, doctor says when you give birth, it will stop, relocated not up to 3 months,noticed i had shortness of breath, after biopsy, found at endo cells had spread to my lungs, I’ve had three thoracotomy and 1 thoracentesis, I’ve now been placed on a birth control pill till my lungs are better, then i can have a surgery to take out thr endo and fibroid,I’m still in severe pains, Please check that that cramps are normal, and if you come across this, say a word of prayer for me, it’s been extremely tiring especially in another man’s land
ReplyDeleteFirst thank God you relocated and got expert medical care.
DeleteThe ones here would have continued treating you for malaria/typhoid.
Pray you get healed permanently.
Oh dear, God will perfect his healing on you
Deleteoh dear, so sorry for the pains, God's healing hands.
DeleteDivine healing dear 🤗🤗
DeleteMy skin no longer have elasticity. Any small laughter everywhere will squeeze especially around the eye area. Please what can I use? I am 40 years old.
ReplyDeleteTry Vitamin E supplements but ask your doctor first (Too much is not advised)
DeleteUse sunscreen
Eat carrots, cucumber and drink water.
Chew gum
Use cream that adds volume to your skin.
Some will advise Collagen supplement but some said it may cause cancer.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Use retinol. Start mild and increase based on your skin’s tolerance
DeleteBrewer’s yeast. It taste like vomit, but it works. Mix in juice, 2 tablespoons each morning
DeleteAnon can you pls mention names of retinol one can use. I'm not the poster but I'm also on the ta upble. Thank you.
DeleteThey're called laugh lines or Crow's feet.
DeleteIn addition to King XOXO's and anony 15:43 suggestions,please get olive oil, coconut oil, avocado pear and oily fishes in your system. They help a lot.
And before bed time, a mixture of egg white and coconut oil,blend smoothly, leave it on for 30minutes then shower it off with cold water.
Name of retinol brand;
DeletePaula’s choice
Cerave
Ordinary
Zaron
Naturism.
1.Pls cream for cellulite thighs
ReplyDelete2.Cream for black spots, my face is not glowing at all, spots every where.
Good afternoon.
Go and buy sunscreen first.
DeleteEven if you use the best face cream without sunscreen, you’re wasting your time.
As for cellulite thighs, buy olay retinol body wash. Use only at night. Buy Cerave SA smoothing cream.
Come and thank me later 😊
Thank you Anon, but can I use the cerave smoothing cream for face and body too?
DeleteThis cellulite on the thighs and buttocks, I need solution too. Let me start wearing bikini too abeg.
Delete@17:10
DeleteNo don’t use on your face.
Depending on your skin type, get a good face wash. Cerave has different variants that wouldn’t disrupt your skin’s barrier.
After washing your face, use a face treatment that has actives like glycolic acid, alpha arbutin, kojic acid. These ingredients fight hyperpigmentation and dark spots.
Check Zaron cosmetics for these serums.
I have been have stomach pains for long. Lying on my stomach is painful. I pass loud farts and burp a lot. I have done all kind of tests including endoscopy and colonoscopy. They all didn't see anything. Most times I wake up with bloated stomach in the morning. What could be wrong with me pls?
ReplyDeleteAre you eating too much fiber
DeletePossibly a food allergy. Are you lactose intolerant?
DeleteMaybe you’re lactose intolerant
DeleteStay away from milk for now and see whether your condition will improve. If it does, then start taking only almond milk
Deletefrom past experience, i think this can help. Don't eat after 7pm. Don't overfeed.Stop taking carbonated drinks. stop consuming beans or milk. chew your food well before swallowing.
DeleteHave you done stomach scans? It is important you do it.
DeleteAlso check your allergy.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
I really need recommendations. Mineral sunscreens or chemical sunscreens which do you prefer. And which one have you used that left you super impressed without a white cast.
ReplyDeletehow do i view people's status on whatsapp? i have quite a nos of people on whatsapp like 100 contacts but i get to see about 5 status update, why?
ReplyDeletei have refreshed my WhatsApp settings but its still not working
Maybe they didn't save your contact, and their status has privacy of only my contacts can view
DeleteAnyone following any ayurveda channels? I love reading up on it.
ReplyDeleteNo, but oil pulling is one Ayurvedic practice that I swear by
DeleteReally? What oil do you pull with and what benefits have you seen so far?
DeletePlease what can I use to clear rasheson my 6 months old baby face and armpit
ReplyDeleteAsk a Seba Med distributor for Baby's Skin Healing Cream.
DeleteAnon15:30 you can use baby tribotan it is very good for babies
DeletePlease how do Customary court works for couples that did traditional marriage and no court marriage. The woman doesn't want to marry again but the man is trying to wickedly use delay tactics on her because he knows that she is about to travel out by September for her Masters. They have two kids together (girls: 1 year and 3 years
ReplyDeleteLet her people return the dowry to his village or traditional ruler. She doesn't have to be present. Include drinks as they go because you don't see village head empty handed. Let the dowry be put in an envelope.
DeletePlease BVs what good cream and soap can you recommend for a baby of about 2 years. She is light skin.
ReplyDeleteI don't think there is light and dark skinned baby cream, Just buy Sebamed products and give her good food and fruits, your baby would be fresh and healthy. Shikena.
DeleteThose travelling out,how you dey do am as per money? i want to borrow money ,how do we go about it as a family.
ReplyDeleteMy husband has travelled out once ,he's a certified nurse and a social worker (lecturing now), how do we relocate with funds. Na money be the koko
Go and borrow from your family and friends. Abi, you dey follow dem do 'awon one man mopol'.??? Ikwa kwa kwa kwa... Na nau una go see benefits of knowing people and building good relationships.
DeleteMy sister was on this table, she had option of microfinance Bank or loan app, she needed about 800k to supplement what she had. She didn't intend to tell the MFB she was travelling, her plan to to get there and pay back in installments as she already got a job before going.
DeleteAs a finance person, I advised her to get soft loans from family and friends as they'll be more understanding about repayment, MFB or loan app can mess up your credit record which will come up if your BVN is scanned, remember having a clean record is a requirement for jakpa.
I'll advise you the same, if you have no choice than MFB, pay back diligently before they escalate and cause problems for you and if family/friends borrow you, please don't betray their trust, pay back as agreed, let people not harden their hearts from helping others in future. All the best.
Since your husband is a registered nurse, he should try UK work visa route, there are some genuine agency dat offer loans to UK nurses who already have certificate of sponsorship
DeleteMy hands and legs are seriously itching me. When I scratch it, rashes usually appear on that part. What could be the problem? Could it be infection?
ReplyDeleteYes it is,unless you are reacting to water or any medication, if none of the above, it's an infection,Go and run test first to ascertain what you are reacting from.
DeleteIt could be allergy why do t you see a doctor
DeleteOkay. Thanks.
DeleteWill be going to hospital tomorrow
Pls i need books on how to build a successful marriage, I'm about to get married, and I'm so scared of messing it up. Kindly help me with recommendations, thank you and Good afternoon.
ReplyDeleteIf you are a Christian Make the word of God your standard . You see Proverbs 31: 10 - 31
Delete"Men are from Mars, women are from Venus" by John Gray
DeleteAs you're reading, let your intended read too. It takes two to tangle.
DeleteWhat is the best way to raise finance for a forex company that use robot and intend raising 2.5 million and has no friend or family to lean on pls it is urgent
ReplyDeleteTell your interviewer that Jesus is the author and finisher of your faith. Miracle no dey tire am.
DeleteBe careful this forex thing oo
DeleteGuys if you're asked to choose between Eucerin Advance repair lotion and Cerave SA smoothing cream which one would you go for? My aim is to fight aging skin as much as possible.
ReplyDeleteThe only who can give you unbiased feedback are people who have used BOTH lotions without supplementing with serums, oils and gwogwotigwo.
DeleteYou minimise aging skin first from within not without.
If cosmetics are the cure why do we keep buying year in year out?
I see tiny red dots on my skin occasionally please any idea what it could be ?
ReplyDeleteWhat the meaning of
ReplyDelete