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CONFUSING 8 YEAR RELATIONSHIP
Good afternoon I need some advice please
Good afternoon I need some advice please
I am in a 8years relationship. My girlfriend is catholic and I'm pentecostal ;
I unequally yoked?
Secondly I'm the one who visits her church at times and when I ask her to support me she has an issue in coming to church with me.
she told me she is not leaving her faith to come to my church. we built our house last year and there the problems started in which I didn't really have a say in my own place as her family was always involved, I tried having a conversation with her and always ended in an argument, so I just laid back and let them build as they feel cause I didn't want any arguments.
When she noticed I wasn't having any input she called me little boy and said I am not showing interest. she always does things with her family and we never get to spend quality time neither does she visit my family.
I know the Bible says that a man should leave his his parents house and and hold fast to his wife and the two shall become one but it never said to abandon your parents. My dad is an elderly person who lives alone and not well. I asked my girlfriend when we marry if I can build an extention to the house separate from us for my dad in which she replied no.
he has three daughters why they can't see about him or why he can't go there and stay. lately I am thinking if I should stay in this relationship I'm not perfect I have faults and I did tell her hurtful things but its only because of how she treated me for the past four years ...
I am a person like kettle, I take and take and when I reach my boiling point I get angry,even to communicate is a problem with her .
I recommended counseling for us she said no please.
I need some advice.
DONT MARRY HER...END IT RIGHT NOW!!!!
Marry her and forget all these trivial stuff about my church or your church
ReplyDeleteMarry weti? You're seeing red flag everywhere and you said they should marry. These two aren't compatible.
DeletePoster run run 🏃♀️
Red flags everywhere
DeleteThis relationship should end already
It seems draining
Lord! Don’t marry her. But why are you building house with your girlfriend? That’s just complicating issues
DeleteShe rejected counselling too?
DeletePls I'm a woman and I have daughters but I would advice you to end that relationship now.
Why do you allow it bro longer for this long when you noticed her nonsense since four years ago?
Pls it is not too late, end it.
Meanwhile, hope you have not made her to abort for you several times and damage her womb? If that is the case, you must marry her. If not, any curse she places on you will catch you.
You are building house with girlfriend?
DeleteGirlfriend?
Me I can't even invest in an ordinary business with boyfriend, talk less of building.
Please do whatever you please.
You never see wife o, you never see wife at all, ha! You want to bullied for the rest of your life?
ReplyDeleteAbort mission osiso or get ready to send in more chronicles.
This house you guys are building together, who has the land? Is it just on you or you guys are both pooling resources.
See enh
DeleteHow many times have I said it, adulthood has its own problems, you see all the signs but what to change people.
Dear poster, things like picking the right partner shouldn’t be so difficult especially because you know what you want. If someone is not giving it, please bounce
Don’t manage any situation then suffer more in marriage
Have an adult conversation
If conversations are leading to arguments, type it as a message or write her a letter and let her know you’d really want a response
Let her know you are not doing it to be malicious or to complain but to just explain how you feel.
Let her know all that bothers you and also let her know her response decides if you guys will go forward or not. It doesn’t have to be a fight.
Secondly, if she’s so close knit with her family, speak to her mother and lay your complaints
Wo, whatever you decide, never manage a spouse… marriage is the longest institution.
Push up (original)
Also her not wanting to change her church, most Catholics will never leave their church… so if you cannot stay please go
DeleteHow did you date someone for 8years and just suddenly realize their church is a problem ?
Push up (original)
Honestly..what was he thinking all these years?all of a sudden he is now assertive? Oga, the only thing is that if you break up with her (which you should if you want a happy and fulfilled life), the story we would hear is that after 8 years you dumped her and 2 months later married another. What in the freaking whatever made you start building a house with a girlfriend? Haba guy. You for just build by yourself and then maybe she supplies the furnitures. At least when you break off the relationship, you can seperate and everone carry their thing. Now see this. Both of you own the house. How will you untangle this now?who will agree to buy out or forfeit the house amongst you now?
DeleteHe should just sell the house and settle her and they go their separate ways
DeleteCrazy that one person will make compromise coming to your church, why can't you go to his own church too as he does your? Very selfish!
ReplyDeleteSo many red flags it's showing blood zone. Look well poster!
Why
DeleteAttending church is not a matter of compromise for everyone
He can go to hers but this do it back for me life is not healthy
15:33, if she attends the man’s church once in a while, will her name change? Is life not about making sacrifices for the people we love?
DeleteSluttychic.
16:16 y’all should rest with the church thing
DeleteImagine dumping 8 years cause of church
Church that if you get in trouble they will not even save you most times
So in eight years, she never came to his church???
DeleteAnd he didn't notice?
Or he promised her that he will become a Catholic?
Was she not attending church in eight years?
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Catholics don't attend other churches. I'm sure he knows this but kept tagging along.
DeleteNow that he has realised he needs a peaceful life, let him end things now and settle her.
22:27, I am a catholic and I attend other churches sometimes. What kind of lie is this?
DeleteSluttychic.
22:27, I am a catholic and I attend other churches sometimes. kind of lie is this? Some of you feel superior cos you are Catholics.
DeleteSluttychic.
Toxic relationship, end it!!
ReplyDeleteShe is a selfish/self centered woman. What is wrong in building an extension for your dad?
Marry does not mean you should forget the people that brought you to this life. I can bet you she won’t say NO when it comes to her own parents.
Oga, you never see wife o.
Sluttychic.
Selfish woman will build a house with a boyfriend.
DeleteOne disagreement makes her selfish.
Maybe there is actually something in the air or Slutty has reverted to default settings.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Walk away from that one sided relationship now that you still have all the time to. She might do the most when married.
ReplyDeleteA relationship that is not giving you peace now cannot give you peace in the long run. Take a break now and pray for God’s leading.
ReplyDeleteThe both of you are very difficult individuals. You are both incompatible with each other. You two have no business getting married. Unboard this ship now before it is late.
ReplyDeleteAnother part of me is even thinking maybe he is looking for a reason to end an 8year relationship
DeleteCus I don’t understand why the issue of their churches is just springing up
As much as I think no relationship should be this difficult, I wish I could hear her side of the story
But poster if it’s as you have stated
Abeg abort mission
There are billions of women out there
Pick one
Push up (original)
@Push-up
DeleteEven if I hear her side of the story, my advice will still remain same. I can tell from this write up that the man is not as easygoing as he tries to paint himself but neither is the woman. So, it is best they go their separate ways. If the man is looking for a way to dump the woman after 8 years the woman can't force him to marry her so, why should she waste her time waiting to get married to him.
Honestly, they are both not good for each other.
Push Up
DeleteThat is why I always look forward to your comment.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Dead already...Don't force yourself in order not to regret your actions
ReplyDeleteBoth of you built house together as boyfriend and girlfriend without being married?
ReplyDeleteNa that one I still dey look. Two Christians are fighting over which church to attend? Go and ask Tinubu and other Muslims that married Christians and allowed them to continue their religion. Poster, just make sure you refund her the money she put into the house or leave the house for her. I'm not buying this chronicle after she built the house. You could hire someone to care for your dad but you want to build an extension and move him in with your family. Will you not hire help then or will you send another chronicle of how your wife did not give him breakfast? The people advising you do not live with their in laws but are quick to tell you to leave her. You know if she adds value to you or not, no one here can advise you on how to choose a partner. You knew she is Catholic, she told you she will continue being a Catholic but you stayed with her until she finished building the house.
DeleteAnon 16:51. That is what i dont get. Building house is it beans? Who does this kind of nonsense? Building house without been married? You have been so passive. What made you all of a sudden become assertive?you have found another wife material right? Your co-builder will now start crying you want to dump her after using her
DeleteStella has spoken. Both of you are not meant to be. Her family will continue to have a say in your marriage and she's not yet matured mentally for the marriage
ReplyDeleteBuilding a house with your unmarried girlfriend. Una two dey play each other. But na she go win. She don kuku call you boy. You go soon know say you no bi boy but small tata.
ReplyDeletesmall time she will ask for half of his money when him talk say i no do again.
DeleteExcited Courtesy, when is your time and you build a house with a man, walk away with nothing, ok.
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
You are not married and you built a house together. Which kain thing be that?
ReplyDeleteNa juju 🤣
DeleteMy dear
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
You never see wife,that is all I want to tell you. Continue searching
ReplyDeleteI can say the same for your partner if this is what he is going out with.
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
1. There is nothing like I attended her church and asked her to support me by attending mine. It may work in relationship but marriage is a different ball game. Both of you must decide what church to attend in marriage. Only few couples can make a marriage work while attending different denominations. Of course you must respect everyone's faith, but discuss to see if both of you have an agreement before marriage...
ReplyDelete2. How do you both build a house without being married? In Nigeria abi in the abroad? Whose name is the house in? There are legal angles to home ownership oh...
3. So many critical communication issues 8years into a relationship is not a good sign. Why on earth are you still dating for 8years sef? How old are you both? Maybe she's fr
You ended up saying a bunch of nothing
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
@king, lol, I no finish the comment before it posted. I made sense jor. First point was me saying that do-it-back-for-me syndrome with church will not work in marriage. They must decide which church to attend together or to attend individually. Second point was me expressing shock that a couple built a house withoutbeing married. My last point - I wanted to say maybe the girl was frustrated by the 8years wait which is understandable, why date for 8years without marriage or plans for that?
DeleteYou both don't agree on a lot of things, I think you should slow down on this and think about everything again.
ReplyDeleteNice one
DeleteBelieve me, I can't believe you can give fairly good advise.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Abi o..king xoxo. She and her usual goody two shoes comments..
Delete8yrs relationship!. That’s bachelor’s degree, MSC n PhD inclusive.
ReplyDeleteRun for your life now, forever is a long time to be ds miserable.
😀😀😀😀😀😀@ Msc etc
Deletehahhahahha
DeleteSheep
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
Poster, you got comfortable and lazy. Either she is amazing in other areas why you are still there or it’s a relationship from when you were teenagers, because you really do not sound at peace in your spirit. A catholic and a non-catholic should have been the first red flag. If only one person is getting what they want all the time how can that be a relationship. You will have to decide how much you can take and the real value of peace and contentment in your life.
ReplyDeleteCatholic and Non Catholic don't marry.
DeleteYou people really need to focus on raising children with love, children that loves Jesus and not just focused on buildings and doctrine.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
You can't change her periodt!
ReplyDeletePull and put yourself together and end it now.
Her type is somewhere waiting for her.
Including you Mama Nnukwu ?
DeleteIs there something in the air that is making most of you to be thinking one sided?
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Stella abeg o no talk that one. It’s not easy as you think o , if not this poster wouldn’t have sent this chronicle.
ReplyDeletePoster After eight years na now your eyes 👀 open, don’t even think about separation because you’ll so miss her nonsense lol, do you know why? Ask me!
That’s because you have put up with her smelly attitude from day one also for the last 4 years making 8 years and counting. Now you want to leave just like that.
Abeg relax jor , who are you leaving her for? God fit don prepare you as her caretaker .
What you guys need is sections with a relationship expert/therapist and you both are good to go before Marriage and bringing kids .
Mummy Anthony- Clever
Trust me, she will be the one to miss him. Except he's a weakling, else that toxicity is nothing to miss.
DeleteIf u marry this lady, just know u will abandon ur family and focus on hers..
ReplyDeleteShe is a very selfish person...
8 years kwanu, I feel she is frustrated and taking out the anger on you. Tell her all what you wrote here and see if there's changes but if not let her go and find someone that'll marry her. I don't think you're ready for this thing called marriage sef because how can you be dating her for 8years, a whole 8years fah
ReplyDeleteE reach to scream
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
Don't continue please
ReplyDeleteFirst red flag-8 years relationship. Didn't you see all these signs before now? What were you waiting for before marrying her? Is she the richer one? Is it now you're seeing that she's toxic? Why can't you talk to her and be firm about your decisions? I ask again, is she the bread winner?
ReplyDeleteI dated my hubby for 8 years. The length shouldn't be a red flag please
DeleteAbeg marry her amd stop looking for excuses
ReplyDeleteIt’s time to marry now she has become the devil
Must she go to your church. My parents go to different churches and meet back at home. Not everyone likes the same thing. Go to your own and leave her be
She discussed house with her family but did she stop you from saying your own
You’ve taken 8 years of someone’s child’s live bode now you want to call her Satan so you can dump her
Thank you Anonymous, wait I don't get all these women saying he should dump her. They have built house together, her sweat is in that house, when other ladies were hiding their funds, this one foolishlishly used it to build house with man. Now suddenly after 8 years he wants to leave her. I feel for him because she will show him shege. You have met your match.You guys didn't hear he said he also says hurtful things to her.
Delete@18:34
DeleteIt is clear they are unequally yoked. One night in a bad marriage is more than a year in a bad courtship. Let them settle account of the building and net off with extra for inflation.
Anon 18:48
DeleteIf he doesn't want to marry her, then he should move out of that house. Or they seel the house and share the proceeds. I will advise her to go to court, she has a good case. Eight years is not a joke.
This is how they dump their long term partner, marry another person and still start begging their Ex.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Poster you don't need anybody to tell you that this girl/lady is not your wife.
ReplyDeleteShe doesn't love you.
She doesn't respect you.
She is so full of herself.
She is self righteous (I wonder why catholics feel they are better,they have no business dating anybody who isnt part of them)
She no rate you!
Poster move on and look for someone who will value and respect you.
Stop begging to be valued, odiro necessary, you deserve better!
Hear word now so you won't send chronicle from inside your marriage.
She is bad, evil, etc him but stuck with him for 8 years and he didn't know until they finished building a house together?
DeleteThank you Anonymuos
DeleteFor eight good years and until she finished building house with him, he suddenly noticed her bad character.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Poster you built a house with a girlfriend? All power belongs to you oo, why won't she show you pepper when you've built your whole existence around her.
ReplyDeleteBetter flee, run, Summerseat,fly out of that rubbish entanglement and let her find her type, else you will still cry blood.
You never see wife and she know say she never see her 'spec' husband. Your girlfriend's relatives are the ones dictating your building plan and you let them have their way because you borrowed money from them to buy land bah? She calls you names and you respond in kind; she doesn't follow you to church even when you follow her to hers sometimes because she already told you her stance on that matter or did she not? Kwantinu!
ReplyDeleteIt's obvious you are live-in-lovers but let it end there. You are not compatible at all and it's not just about Catholicism
or pentecostalism. I am Catholic and gladly married a man who wasn't until our second child was born. Don't waste each other's time longer than today. End that relationship NOW to avoid regrets after marriage on both sides. It's not her fault that she's an alpha-female; just don't be a simpleton. May God lead you both to the right partners soonest.
Danteeee! A brother needs you fast. Hope you are feeling much better Simp-slayer😁. I dey miss you bro💙.
Your own husband converted to being Catholic but you are here advising him to dump her. The poster is just looking for reasons to do what he already wants to do. Why a girlfriend will build a house with him without him giving her hope that they were meant to be is very suspect.
DeleteThanks Amebonawork. Been waiting for your comment and you didn't disappoint.
DeletePoster seems like a simp: onye eriri eri.
After 8years you are now seeing clearly? Sometimes you deserve the partner you get. She get big yansh? Someone wants you to abandon your old father and you're sending chronicle, instead of you to be a man and do your thing. Abeg gerrout, weakling
ReplyDelete😂😂😂 @she get big yash
DeletePoster on a serious note, do not abandon your dad bcos u want to please her. She holds her family in high esteem, enough to consult them for everything. Why not do same where your dad is concerned. You better man up! You want to be taken seriously, boldly air your concerns before her and family. They won't kill you
Is called see finish.
DeleteShe didn’t ask to abandon dad
DeleteShe said don’t move him in with them
What’s wrong with that
It’s a new marriage. Why bring your dad
Anon, the father ain't living with them in the same house, he said he gonna build an extension, so the old man won't be all alone. No worry you'd grow old too and live alone, nobody around, see if you'd like it.
DeleteBB we all know dad won’t stay in the extension. The end
DeleteBut it’s still you people that will say a young couple shouldn’t allow extended family in their homes
DeleteWhy will the dad not stay in the extension? Is it you who will go and move him from the extension?
DeleteMehn people are harsh oo, that is, your partner’s father can’t live in the extension, like not in the house with you oo, and some people here are supporting her, and this same lady will def have her own family members live with her with no qualms, I’m just happy life is a cycle, continue supporting rubbish, most of you here have brothers, sons, e go touch all of us.
DeletePoster
Delete'We' built a house together or
She built a house and you contributed little.
Or it was equal contribution.
Did you just realise she was Catholic after eight years together? Fucking tell that to the birds. Excuse, excuse, excuse.
Whatever you do, leave that house for her and move on with someone else in another place. Evil being. You waited patiently until she built a whole house with you.
Kitikpa na enweghi nne na nna pia gi.
How can you say her relatives control everything whereas you are the control freaks. You plus your relations. If you want to build an extension for your father, build one for her father too or is her own father not old. All the grandfathers should stay together. Tomorrow, if you want to add another extension for your ancestors, add for her own ancestors.
You want to cheat her out of that house by gradually bringing in your people one after the other.
You will bring in your father, then your relation to take care of your father, then another relation. Then your sisters will start.
Owu ya
You have tried
If she has sense, let her take you to court and take that house now, then find husband to marry.
People think you are a weakling. Most of them lack critical thinking skills. You are a deliberate manipulative mean man. A weakling cannot build a house with the girlfriend, string her along for 8 years and want to cheat her out of the house and dump her.
I see you for the wicked person you are.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
If you don’t find peace with the person you are presently with then you should never end up with them.
ReplyDeleteWait first, you mean you built a house with a girlfriend? Hmmm.. na wa o. Seems like she's in charge here and controlling.
ReplyDeleteLeave her you can't control her
ReplyDeletethis one will never be submissive to him. See finish don enter.
DeleteSubmissive keh to a boyfriend
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
What are you doing in a relationship for 8 years? If you want marry, marry. If you don't want to marry, move on. In my opinion, you are not compatible. Respect her faith and don't compel her to come to your church. If you cannot manage your religious differences, cancel that relationship ASAP. Based on what wrote, I will conclude that she is selfish and inconsiderate. The decision is yours.
ReplyDeleteyou are going to send more chronicles if you ever marry this lady. After 8 years both of you cannot communicate, you cannot spend time together, and she is refusing to join your church. Please abort the mission cos you will regret it. You both should attend same church when you finally get married but from the look of things this lady will never do that. I ask you a question is this what you want in a woman?
ReplyDeleteIf you cannot discuss with your gf, you cannot plan together, you cannot express yourself to each please tell me who you should do that with?
Nothing bad in building house together is just that faith issue is a big issue and tribe , knows that you will be the one to loose st the end of the day just stop the relationship
ReplyDeleteThere is a lot in a boyfriend and girlfriend building a house together.
DeleteThe worst part is that she has refused counselling. Is it that she can't see that things are not right with you two? She has refused every effort to make things get better
ReplyDeleteRefund her everything she paid for,add small interest and tell her it’s a thanks and for wasting her time..
ReplyDeleteLet there be a receipt for the refund,even if she increases it more than what she spent,reach an agreement and pay what was agreed on..
She is not perfect,no one is..but the foundation of this relationship is already faulty and lacks understanding,Tolerance,Love and Respect
No marriage can stand without the above,leave and find someone with same mindset as yours towards life,family and religion..
Broken relationships still better than a broken marriage..
Wishing you all the best..
@MARTINS
Refund her because she is a hungry girl or she is urgent 2k.
DeleteLet her refund him and give him extra money onto.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
She doesn't love you enough . She doesn't trust your sense of direction and leadership. Take a walk! She needs a better man while you need a better woman. If you force this marriage to happen, you both will end of bitter.
ReplyDeletePoster I beg you to pray very well before discussing marriage with this lady.someone who has refused counseling.i don't think she's ready.
ReplyDeletePlease don’t marry her! I’m in such a marriage where my husband and his family decides everything I’m so unhappy. It’s better you have seen it from the get-go it won’t get better you would be seen as the enemy. The best thing is for you to leave her for her family to marry as I want to leave mine for his sisters to marry please be break it off.
ReplyDeleteDon't marry her, someone that cannot accept your dad is not fit to be your wife.....this lady will choke you to death,u better leave her now o..... Josaria
ReplyDeletePlease follow who know road. Follow Stella's RED ink. Shalom
ReplyDeleteWhy did she reject counselling though?
ReplyDeleteBy the way, these faults you are noticing, how come it took you 8 years to notice them?
People needs to learn to speak up when they notice things, you can't just let everything pile up na and then you explode.
Poster pls end this situationship, asked for your contribution from the 🏠 House and take a walk ,infact run run run for your life, she isn't real at all, then pray to God for a good life partner.
ReplyDeleteSee you see your grave if you marry that lady. You are really a weakling a small boy no man will put up with this. That is why i like the hausas yes they take care of their wives and all but they make sure their women knows her place and boundaries and they cannot cross it, if not divorce straight them no dey waste time. Your lady is very domineering and selfish and that is not good for marriage she needs an alpha male not you this simp how can the woman you want to marry call you boy. No respect nothing and you allow it, she wants you to abandon your old father the man which loins you come from while she packs her entire family into your house and you here asking rubbish questions. Go ahead and marry that lady i swear you will regret your life and yes i am a woman but i don't support rubbish.
ReplyDeleteThey divorce them you say
DeleteHausas actually have the best marriages and favors the women in the long run cus divorced women are not discriminated against
As a matter of fact better men scoop up the divorced women and wife them.
My friend who was married to a lecturer got divorced and is married to the man of her dreams
From a man who used to beat her up and divorced her thinking he did something great to a better man who takes her to different countries and worships the ground she walks on
Madam we are still saying the same thing. Yes they have one of the best marriages because their women are very calm and respectful towards their husband. I grew up in the north i was born in the north so i know them. Your friend had a bad marriage and she remarried it's is allowed in their religion to marry a divorcee. Now we are advising this man not to make a mistake because this union he wants to embark on will be a bad marriage.
DeleteSee you see your grave if you marry that lady. You are really a weakling a small boy no man will put up with this. That is why i like the hausas yes they take care of their wives and all but they make sure their women knows her place and boundaries and they cannot cross it, if not divorce straight them no dey waste time. Your lady is very domineering and selfish and that is not good for marriage she needs an alpha male not you this simp how can the woman you want to marry call you boy. No respect nothing and you allow it, she wants you to abandon your old father the man which loins you come from while she packs her entire family into your house and you here asking rubbish questions. Go ahead and marry that lady i swear you will regret your life and yes i am a woman but i don't support rubbish.
ReplyDeletePoster
ReplyDelete'We' built a house together or
She built a house and you contributed little.
Or it was equal contribution.
Did you just realise she was Catholic after eight years together? Fucking tell that to the birds. Excuse, excuse, excuse.
Whatever you do, leave that house for her and move on with someone else in another place. Evil being. You waited patiently until she built a whole house with you.
Kitikpa na enweghi nne na nna pia gi.
How can you say her relatives control everything whereas you are the control freaks. You plus your relations. If you want to build an extension for your father, build one for her father too or is her own father not old. All the grandfathers should stay together. Tomorrow, if you want to add another extension for your ancestors, add for her own ancestors.
You want to cheat her out of that house by gradually bringing in your people one after the other.
You will bring in your father, then your relation to take care of your father, then another relation. Then your sisters will start.
Owu ya
You have tried
If she has sense, let her take you to court and take that house now, then find husband to marry.
People think you are a weakling. Most of them lack critical thinking skills. You are a deliberate manipulative mean man. A weakling cannot build a house with the girlfriend, string her along for 8 years and want to cheat her out of the house and dump her.
I see you for the wicked person you are.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
@KING XOXO MYSTERY, I agree with you 💯. This poster is a manipulative, a user, and a mean human being. After manipulating the lady to build house with him, wasting 8 years of her life with the poster, he now wants to discard her based on church denomination and her not wanting to accommodate his dad. As if he just realising the lady is a Catholic and doesn't want to attend his church. Looking for cheap excuse to dump her
DeleteAnd I am sure her family got involved cause the lady had sensed that you want to scheme her out from the house ownership and probably marry a younger lady to replace her, that's why she got her family involved and around her for moral support and safety. Na the mumu lady I blame sha for agreeing to build a house with a mere boyfriend.
@poster, I put it to you that you are Yul Edochie's apprentice. Always trying to discard ladies who suffered and built together with them. Wicked lots!!
The poster even admitted he tells her hurtful things, that means you are being verbally abusive to her?
DeleteWho knows all manners of hurtful and mean words you must have hurled on her, why won't she then surround herself with her family?
Shebi one young lady don dey enter ur eyes abi? As u kukuma don milk dis your girlfriend financially and wasting her youthful age on you you.
After 8 years of building with you financially, you just dey realise her flaws? Na nau u just wake up from ur slumber?
It's the commenters that cant read through the lines I blame. I can never be f**led.
User Oshi!!
Yul's apprentice! 🤣
DeleteWhy now? Why after 8 years of being in a relationship with you and even building house with you? Abeg, you are just looking for excuse to end things with the woman
ReplyDeletepls read well,he didn't say they are building house together.
ReplyDeleteThis your story get very big book leg... you have said anything yet.... you are still dancing around the Bush....
ReplyDelete