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It's just a matter of time. The only thing that worries me is the death of that innocent boy. I wish that boy did not die😥
ReplyDeleteI hope na May send this one message because her quiet and calm stance was winning people over.
DeleteMay God in heaven forbid myself&anyone in my family to encounter such a heartless mangy hound.
Anyway this matter for many of us is just to comment and move to the next post.
For Jul: am sorry to say but it seems some naija men dont deeply love their children, they just live for secks, segs sex. So he can continue focus on gbenshing all styles in all ways since its food for him. Acting like he has no other reason in life. No he is not jazzed so keel that gist. He knows what he is do.ing and will understand the results of the full package in due course.
for June, it's her hoe& troll phase that makes her head swell & feel spechul. She should gear up for the many other women who has segs to offer Jul as no be only oha he go chop for life and its the codedness of his gbensh that he likes. When it comes public, he moves to the next coded cumbucket
But for May it's not a news headline its her real life. She is not even 40 yet and doesn't need this pressure. Or maybe she is used to public eye as wife of a star? Pipu are now asking what she did for him to be this wicked. Omg,Wtf? For her sake, I hope she sticks to prayers, fasting as a mum, then healthy eating, light exercise, attend to major issues, sleep well.prioritising mental health, etc etc
June will obviously keep baiting as long as ppl respond.
May should remain focus,and at appropriate time, she can then open various social media outlets for her dedicated fans and harness that love +goodwill she freely gets.
May you have a lot of exciting things to come that will propel you to the next level.
Sky is your limit.
Keep your head up dear!
This May matter has made me question myself, if i really , truly love my husband. Cos if my husband did what Yul has done, God Knows that by now he wont even be seeing my back! i would have divorced him and moved on so fast he will be left spinning. What the hell is this nonsense that May is putting up with? From all indications, she has her own money so it cant because of lack of funds to survive on her own. Is it love? How can she still a love a man who has brought her so much pain and shame? Is it because of her children? Her children are not so small anymore, they can see and understand what is going on. Her first daughter has even dropped the Edochie name and that speaks volumes. Why cant May do the same and save herself from all this drama and pain? Does she not like her peace of mind or what. I know this cant be me anyway. I wish her all the best.
DeleteI be Anon 10. 40
DeleteI vex come forget their names na
May
Judy
Yul.
Vex make me call dem
May
June
July
Abi wetin I write
Nor vex sdk
I been wonder who u dey talk about
Delete🤣🤣 18:59 honestly.
DeleteI don’t know but this doesn’t sit well with me.
ReplyDeleteIn all I wish May the very best
Fan Emmanuel
hahahaha..... okay mouthpiece
ReplyDeleteThanks for updating us, ma'am. I wish May the very best & pray that God gives her the fortitude to bear the loss of her son.
ReplyDeleteSmh.... "queen may believes any spell that was cast on the husband of her youth will expire one-day " let her continue enduring rubbish while waiting,mtshwww
ReplyDeleteNo spell.
DeleteJust lack of discipline.
Youthful exuberance, devil may care ultraselfish attitude and entitlement.
Like a fly on a dead carcass, Indulging in all sorts, making him prone to miss his true glory.
No jazz, no spell, no remote control, no kayamata
It's well with her.
ReplyDeleteIf Yul married Judy traditionally as required by the laws and culture of the land, then I see nothing wrong with their marriage. All I found wrong with Yul is not bringing it to the notice of his wife before doing so. Probably, she wouldn't have consented and I guess that could be his reason. Still I will fault him on that, for keeping it on the dark.
ReplyDeletePeople should stop making polygamy look like a plague or crime. It didn't start today and won't end with Yul either.
Brother Teejay, 2 can play the game, therefore, I WISH YOUR WIFE WILL MARRY ANOTHER MAN WHILE LEGALLY MARRIED TO YOU AND CROWN IT BY BIRTHING ANOTHER MAN’S CHILD UNDER YOUR ROOF. AMEN!!
DeleteFan Emmanuel
You won’t see anything wrong with a man that kept cheating on his wife until he led to an unwanted pregnancy. You can’t see it na
DeleteWould you like to marry a second wife? If no, what are your fears. Do not endorse what you cannot do.
DeleteOga try marry two wives and update us after ten years ok?
DeletePolygamy is not a crime, the question here is; can you put up with the consequences?
Just because polygamy has been there for long does not mean it must continue,what happens to reviewing our lives and doing away with what is not profitable,what benefits does polygamy brings to the table order than satisfying the sexual need of an a man that lacks self control. Take a look at the disadvantages and you will know it's more than the advantages, maybe you don't know that because you probably haven't tasted it, I am from a polygamous home, I have siblings that we have not spoken for over a year,we live our lives in secrecy because of the fear of what the other can do, do you think I want to live this kind of life, today my father is very lonely,the large family he was looking for has all deserted him, it is to your tent oh Israel from his wives,if you see him, I believe you will detest polygamy. Yul married as a Christian and Christianity does not support polygamy, even the Muslims are doing away with it because of its many problems.
DeleteTell him o, you never marry 2 wives but always jumping to support polygamy, we wey come from polygamy setting know that it’s no a walk in the park.
DeleteBiko try your best marry 2 women first
What are your thoughts on his actions even when his son is still warm in the ground?
DeleteAs a son, would you be happy in your dad's behaviour after such an unexpected loss of your sibling?
Anon 10:09,
DeletePls can you tell me the consequences? Regina Daniel married a polygamous man and you all applauded her here. Is there also any consequence on her action?
@ Dehorine,
Marrying a second wife is an African thing and you should know that very well. The fact I will choose to be in a monogamous marriage, doesn't mean I'm better than those who are polygamous. I've no fear about polygamy. It's all about people's choice.
EkaJoy,
You sound so funny sometimes. So it's no longer the polygamy to you anymore but cheating? Well like I said in my comment above, the only ground I faulted Yul is not bringing his wife into his plan of a second wife.
Eka Joy, both men and women cheat and so don't make it look like Yul is the only cheat in this life. What would you have want him do when he found out he has already impregnated Judy? Tell her to abort the foetus? Throw her away or accept the baby and throw the mother away?
The deed has been done and all what should be looked into now is on how to cohabit with his two wives in peace and harmony. It doesn't mean they will all live under the same roof. He can get both of them separate houses.
Last last, this marriage thing we go die leave am go face judgment and either end up in heaven or hell if ever there's such a place.
@Teejay, as u Don blow, i hope you dey toast 3 or more quality orobos practising celibacy, all in hopes of marrying them in holy polygamy. Remember orobos cost more maintain o!
DeleteHope u informed them more are likely, being that its to inform that you have issue with. Practice what you preach o.
@Eka I think the church society don't preach to the bachelors as seriously as dey preach to spinsters about marriage bcos some talks shock me.
Lady who was barely getting by on 110k nairaa month with a small self contained apartment and worn out car took marriage preaching very seriously, also believed her bf promises and they got married. Her hubby made plenty fake promises& LIES
Reality nko, promises faded and the Man has no job or business, nothing coming in. He moved into her small place and she is now managing her 110k for herself, himself, his parents, his siblings, inlaws, rent, bills, living expenses and all. Nothing for her parents o. She has changed drastically but still took the marriage preaching of forever, very seriously.
Maybe that man go dey support polygamy in his boxers at home when his mates and wife are out pursuing the bacon & bread.
I don't know how wickedness and selfushness has helped Nigerians or even Africans
At anon 11:55 : Am telling you. A LOT OF NIGERIAN MEN LACK EMPATHY. It's so sad. 20years and you just behave like it's not worth it.
DeleteSelfishness everyday, everywhere.
Anon 10:48,
DeleteGet me right here. I won't support Yul's action. He was married and having an extra marital affair was a huge disappointment I must admit. It wasn't a good one on his person and image. But then, the deed has been done and all what anyone should be talking about now is how they can sort all this out amicably.
If Yul hadn't married Judy, I would have said he should put an end to their affair but considering the fact she's his wife now traditionally, he can't drive her away and not to talk when a child is even involved.
All those suggesting divorce by May are doing so without considering some other factors. I want to ask you guys, has May suffer any violence or attack from her marriage? What are your grounds asking her to leave her home and husband of over 20years? Because he married a second wife. Has Yul given the impression he can't take good care of both women?
Some of you saying she should leave Yul and sue for divorce have suffered worse in your marriages and you haven't left yet but quick to drop an unsolicited advice on what you can't do yourself.
Fan Emmanuel,
Sister Mi, any woman who is married to a man and decided to get married to another man has chosen her path in life. You're from Enugu and you know our traditional and custom. If the man who took her in didn't persuade her and her people to return the bride price I paid, I hope you know the consequences of such act. I don't need to spell it out to you.
Less I forget, polyandry isn't African thing but polygamy.
Teejay I think you deliberately missed Eka's point.
DeleteIt’s always the useless traditions against women y’all like to defend and uphold
DeleteCome on! Eka tell me you're joking. How's polygamy against women? None of you complain when Regina Daniel married Ned or when the Ooni was going on marriage spree. You all didn't feel pity on the other wives and how they will feel. Or was it cos they weren't celebrities or known public face?
DeleteSuddenly, it has now become a tradition against women. So notable people in the Bible that got two or more wives did it against women? Or our ancestors who were polygamous did it against women?
Wonderful!!!
I'm learning new things here everyday.
Even women here that are side chick to married men are even throwing stones. It's okay.
I will never condemn polygamy but I will do on adultery and unfaithfulness.
Why na only regina you dey use do example? Do you live with regina and ned? do you know the dynamic or becos you see them smile on social media, then they are enjoying.
DeleteYou don’t know what you are saying, carry your leg go into polygamy first then i can take you serious
When someone is so dense and arguing senselessly, its irritating.
DeleteLike, respectfully, please get lost.
Even Regina's case was mostly frowned on, TJ is making it seem like everyone applauded her and Ned at the time. Her co-wife was cool with it, Ned and Laila did not "grow" together. Stop comparing apples and oranges.
DeleteBesides, your sense of logic is usually warped. Polygamy is supposedly African, but polyandry is not. Well, I'll just say this, there are at least 206 different cultures in Nigeria, God knows how many in the whole of Africa. One culture is not representative of Nigerian, much less African cultures.
May do what's best for you.
ReplyDeleteDon't listen to these people
It is well with her
ReplyDeleteRubbish! Why anyone would stay in a marriage, where your husband did not consult with you on bringing a second wife beats me, if May did not consent why is she still there ? I can never understand why Nigerian women always have to 'fight' for their home, absolving their men from any responsibilities and accountabilities.Well I guess the stigma on single, child-free and divorced women in their society is to blame. What a mess!
ReplyDeleteI know a woman whose husband left with 4kids and married another woman since 1996. They never divorced, she kept staying in the matrimonial home he left she and their kids. He was a rich man so he still took care of them. That was how she kept saying dis man is trapped and will return home one day even after having 2 kids with the other wife and living with her. she is the legal wife since he took her to church and court. She kept waiting till this man died last year. Was the wait worth it in the end ?
ReplyDeleteNa the people wey dey claim because you have kids for a man you must always be in his life” I blame. If a man wants to dump you if you like birth Jesus he go still leave you waka. I know of a lady that gave birth to a son to her boyfriend and the guy left her. She said she’s not going to marry another man that because it’s a son the man must come back. 13yrs later the man is married with kids. She got married 2yrs ago.
DeleteFan Emmanuel
To answer your question,no it was not worth it at all. May God forbid that for us and our loved ones abeg
DeleteIs only GOD that can deliver loyal wife.
DeleteMen that have side chics and eat their food enter many things they can't account for and most times the only way out is death of the man.
I once had a nanny that manipulates alot of married men with the help of alfa, she controls them.
Imagine a man will open an account, get ATM card for it, and gave it with pin code to side chic who withdraws money as she likes.
Not 1 man ooo, I mean men.
The day I found out, she thought I was asleep and was making calls with her group, gisting her every every.
They cook with their urine, shaved public hair in bitterleaf soup and even soak their pads and use the drained water to cook.
Once the man ,eats, the man is tied to them forever, he will even be ready to kill anyone that doesn't want him to love his woman.
Everything about him will revolve around the lady infact the story long.
Believe it, it happens to all these greedy men who sleep around, they will enter the hole and get hooked.
In as much as I want May to leave the marriage, I know it will not be easy to just leave after being married for close to 20 years, I pray that God will give May the strength and wisdom to make a good decision after mourning, my prayers are with you.
ReplyDeleteSome women are really strong. God abeg o make this kind thing no do me, I'm not that strong, I go tear race
ReplyDeletePlease someone, enlighten me. Who is Rita to Yul and May?
ReplyDeleteYuls Aunt by marriage
DeleteThey’re using una coconut head to cash out
ReplyDeleteI think at this point everybody should leave this family alone and face front. May is an adult and is capable of taking any decision she seems fit. My own is that she should not come and cry wolf on the internet if the decision of staying in this 'mirage' backfires
ReplyDeleteWe move!
Oh they are related?
ReplyDeleteI didn't know that Rita Edochie is related to Pete Edochie's family. I thought it is just coincidence of same name.
You can’t force a man to want you, or respect you. Even if you could, is that really the best for you? May, Yul is no prize, allow him wallow in the jazz they cooked for him and find your own way. I wish someone told my mother this about 20 years ago.
ReplyDeleteMadam Rita ,so those telling May to leave with her remaining kids are single and from broken homes? Just wow! what an ignorant comment ,warped mentality of die there no matter the situation...May is an adult,she should do what is best for her abegeth thee
ReplyDeleteYou will tell me if May sent u any message. Sounding like an illiterate
ReplyDeleteA stark illiterate. Rita as a mother-figure, should be able to advice her on leaving. She should be there for her as a rock and emotional support. But instead she's here covering up and supporting we die there.
DeleteWomen marry men that prioritise your comfort and peace of mind.
Torr.
ReplyDeleteOff to go mind the business that pays my bills...
Dem don say if you never marry, no put mouth o.😀😀😀. Single and divorced women seeing shege in this part of the world.
DeleteMadam Rita always yarning dust as usual. May sit down there and be waiting for JUJU to expire ! This people should hide their faces and leave us alone with this their family wahala!!!! Na now I know say YUL is not a good person.
ReplyDelete🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteAt this point, my own contribution is: na dem sabi. Plus Yul o, multiplied by May o divided by Judy o, na dem sabi. So, if it takes 20 years for the juju to clear, she will pine away waiting for him to be returned to her when he now wears adult pampers and his hands shake. When juju has n*cked all the odogwu in his body and left only ogu okwaya? Then Nigerians ndi afo oma will now remind her that he is the husband of her cradle and she should care for him in his old age as the nanny that she is. Uncountable mtsceeeeew🙄.
ReplyDeleteThe 'where are they now' post of Saturday made me read up on many of the people mentioned especially Miriam Makeba (Mama Africa). She married 5 husbands in her lifetime and lost her only child but she is not remembered for those aspects of her life. She is remembered for her talent, works and legacy and that is what it all boils down to at the end of our earthly sojourn. It is only Nigerian Southern women in this entire world who missed that biblical part where Jesus mentioned that there will be no marriage in heaven. So, to waste your youth waiting for a shameless 'philanderer' is a shame on even the woman. Give me Wuraola and Naomi any day abeg. Women who'd damn the consequences and walk away from ridiculous situations they didn't bargain for are the true queens in my eyes. I no dey see those ones wey dey plan to sell wedding asoebi for heaven o.
In your bid to slam Southern women, You didn't remember that Wuraola(Itohan) is a Southern woman.
DeleteMay all the best, i wish u well in whatever u believe and hold dear.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with may.
ReplyDeleteSame thing i am going through as may in the UK, an anambra married lady with kids took my husband, they have moved in together over a year now and 2 months ago he gave me a divorce letter which i am happy with but his family wouldn't allow me to sign it but i want the divorce so much because i need to move on with my life.
ReplyDeletePls sign it. And remind them that their son has moved on and there is no marriage in heaven. You will take care of the children as much as you can.
DeleteAll the best.
Madam,sign that divorce paper and good riddance to bad rubbish! Which nonsense family is that? Cant you think for yourself ? you are even in the U.k where people dont carry marriage on their heads like gala and you are still thinking like this? Divorce his ass and move on with your life cos uncle has already moved on.
Delete"Took" your husband, is your husband an object, dog or human-person, if he is neither of the first two, then he CAN NOT be taken! The way you women absolve your men of any accountability or responsibility for their actions is sickening! Why won't your men treat you lot like thrash? Mtcheeeeew, tueh, tueh!!!
DeleteSo then what are you waiting for?
DeleteMadam, sign that paper and make sure u get a good lawyer to get u something materialistic out of that marriage. Don’t spare him at all. U are in a sane society
Deletesanu spoke person of husband and wive.
ReplyDeleteThank goodness I stopped getting involved in this case. I saw it for what it was and realized taking sides and overly caring was useless. If this is May’s true words, then so be it.
ReplyDeleteAnybody who believes yul is under a spell is a joker, don't be surprised if this two grow old together, I know of a lady that married her madam's husband the children of the first will always fight their step mother believing she jazzed their father, after thirty something years they are still together, the said woman is now a grandmother, the first son of the first wife that carried the matter for head died last month, the step mother is still alive growing old with her husband still jazz never fade, life is not fair you can be good and bad things will happen to you, so May make sure that any decision you make is the one that you will look back in years to come and have no regrets best of luck
ReplyDeleteIt's well
ReplyDelete