Nice voice they both have though...
Scroll to the end to read my take on this ISH....
I have no personal relationship with Yul or his first and second wife but i grew up in a polygamous home and know the emotional damage having a second wife can do to a first wife and i mean it when i say to men that if your first wife is not what you want, please divorce her properly before taking a second wife!
I have no personal relationship with Yul or his first and second wife but i grew up in a polygamous home and know the emotional damage having a second wife can do to a first wife and i mean it when i say to men that if your first wife is not what you want, please divorce her properly before taking a second wife!
Polygamy is not easy like you rightly pointed out but some have had so great that you could barely differentiate between the children of the first or second wife and the mothers even live like sisters. Yul may just want 2nd wife not a divorce, it is only left for the first wife decide she to stay or leave. She is I wish them well.
ReplyDeleteEven the monogamous marriages sef is not without issues
DeleteWhy am I not surprised?
DeleteWhat does it take for a man to admit he has no control over his beliefs and consult a professional to help him out? Why must a man succumb to his weaknesses? Why can't a man work on his flaws?
DeleteInstead of these, you rather give in to flaws. There are tons of men going through expensive programs to be disciplined. So why is that hard for some Nigerian men? Why must we force our spouse to accept our indiscipline?
Is this not the same Yul that was exchanging naked pictures with a gay guy in Canada? Collecting money and gifts from a gay man, even sent all the information of his family to the guy to process immigration to Canada for his family? They had a fallout and the gay guy put Yul on blast, complete with evidence; naked pictures, money transfer receipts, immigration documents of Yul, May and the children. After that incident, I haven’t looked at Yul as someone to be reckoned with. Yul is GARBAGE.
Delete14:59 Because most of them have very fragile egos and they know they are very empty mentally and emotionally.
DeleteThey always wantu prove but there's nothing there, nothing.
Make una farabale Biko. Am so envious of my 1st madam, they r separated,chick is balling in Abuja big time, we talk and rub minds cos she has kids, this shyt is all about understanding and letting go
DeleteNo how on earth she didn't know hubby was cheating,which cld lead to this, but NO, I must die there mentality, she shd stay and suffer the emotional damage! It's her choice, as for me ,I wan check out, mk OGA go carry wife nos 3 all of us go understand.
Marriage is not a do or die biko
15:44
DeleteCan a person submit immigration documents for without the intending immigrant's consent?
Most of the chronicles read here are from monogamous marriages.
DeleteAnon 15.44 you just mirrored my thoughts after the gay incident I knew he does anything for money.
DeleteYul is in the league of Portable just that his father's veil is covering him.
The manner he has been behaving on SM has again confirmed it
Monogamous marriages sometimes appear to be problematic because polygamous people enter it and can't remain faithful. So it is not monogamy that is the problem, but the kind of people that engage in it. Imagine a married man wanting to still live like a bachelor and wants his wife to remain faithful. If you are a polygamous man, look for your fellow polygamous woman that doesn't mind you marrying multiple wives and side hens and chicks. But my observation is that the polygamous women who go after married men and don't mind being the numbered wife, ends up being jealous of other wives and starts causing wahala. So una polygamous people na una fit una selves. Stop deceiving others who don't want to be polygamous to be polygamous by force.
Deleteisnt it hypocritical that some of you praises and go gaga for Sade Okoya and her shenanigans of me and my husband love nonsense in front of his older wife like she doesn’t exist or have feelings but have the audacity to attack Yul second wife? is Okoya senior wife that has been there through thick and thin deserve some respect too?
DeleteYou see the handler of that page and the person encouraging him/her to upload all the pepper nonsense, karma will visit them soon.
ReplyDeleteNothing like pepper,Judy and Yul lack common sense.
DeleteWhen two fools marry?
DeleteWhen did he lose his son?
May sorry, na only you lose pickin
I heard that it's finally over between him and the first wife
ReplyDeleteI guess he's at liberty to do absolutely anything now
Their clout chasing is just on a whole new level
I heard that Mays family is the one funding Yul and after the whole Judy mess they cut him off from the money. That’s why he is doing all this to pepper Judy. This is why women should avoid dating below their financial status. May and Yul did a shotgun wedding after he got her pregnant as a teen. Probably Yul played a fast one and tricked her with marriage in the 1st place to have access to her family’s money
DeleteHmmmmm,I read on one blog that he's requesting for his dowry from may family. Stella damasus and Daniel do pass this one, wetin end am?
ReplyDeleteMet an Americana recently,he said he wants to marry me,do papers and carry me abroad, says his wife cheated on him and was caught while he was busy hustling in the abroad. I told him to divorce her first before we talk, though he's someone I know before marrying his wife while I also married another before the marriage crash, even though America dey hungry me,but he should do the needful
ReplyDeleteWaka there!
Deletelol @ waka there
DeleteEC... Leave me hand oooo
Don't let poverty push you from frying pan into hell fire.
DeleteMany of these men based in America are hiding a WHOLE LOT.
I just escaped one who has been married 2 times and looking for his enemy to become wife number 3.
I asked questions, lots of questions and I obviously have my own bag so there was so very little he could do to impress me. Me that travels whenever I feel like.
What many of you dont know is that many Nigerians and even Americans are living hand to mouth, paycheck to paycheck. Paying off student loans, paying of car note, paying off mortgage, paying taxes etc etc
They'll be showing you luxury that is tied to their card. Buahahahahahahaaaaaaaaa 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ask questions o, many of them are slimy serpents. You will be their Nigerian wife in Nigeria who they keep impregnating but have no wish to live with.
Jus dae play! If u can, let him invest in you here o if u like hear if you like ignore.
DeleteI thought women are stronger and they really don't care about the men and how they choose to live their life...so why the advice? Must men always do things to please the lady ? Divorce is a no no and polygamy is an African thing.
ReplyDeleteOmo! Someone that his son just died o. Like is he not hurt? Even the judy knows that doing this is putting him in a bad light. If she truly loves him she’ll advise him. I wanted to say does yul have family members? But his own father went and acted a movie with the said Judy so he already disrespected himself too! 🤦🏿♀️ I feel for May.
ReplyDeleteE no even be like he loose anything.
DeleteFastest mourning in history, in fact another Guiness Records.
Me wey if I loose phone, I know how e go be for me.
Before someone will jump out like rabbits and say ehn that kpe you can't determine how people will mourn, youa correct youa all correct, anything you say is correct, I no get time to exchange word with anybody.
It's left to the first wife to leave, if she wants to.
ReplyDeleteI don't know the parties but Yul may be bitter towards the first wife.
They are Catholics and must have been raised not to divorce.
So they may have been tired of the marriage but living single until Yul met Judy.
There is more than meets the eye.
It's obvious Yul and May are no longer in love but don't know how to go their separate ways because of religion.
Yul committed adultery and that is one of the grounds for divorce in the Catholic Church.
DeleteMe i see one video for face book yul and may dey sing too afta them sing finish yul com talk say what God join together make no man put ansunda I say na Julie s time to sing. Wetin I sabi
DeleteWhat do you mean it's left to May to leave if she wants too. You sound insensitive. Why didn't Yul divorce May if he knew he wanted a second wife. Do you think if he wanted a divorce that May will not sign the papers. Will she marry him by force. Abeg!
Delete13:53
DeleteThank you for this comment. The first insightful comment I have read on this matter.
A lot of people think that because a man and a woman are living quietly and ostensibly in peace in one home, they are in love or still have a marriage strictly called going on.
Only God knows the oppression spouses impose on themselves behind closed doors and smiling facades.
A married woman, 28 years in marriage went out with a man on his persistent requests. What would a man be persistently asking a married on a outing about. Her agreement to the request shows her marriage is lacking. But on paper, it would be said she is happily married
Similarly, something is lacking with the asking man in his marriage or capacity to discern properly.
Being married doesn’t mean being happily married. Currently in a sexless marriage. Heading for the second year of no sex. I am 40 he is 48. But we are married on paper
DeleteMay’s family cut Yul off from the finances so he got pained n started using Judy to pepper May
DeleteLaughing in advance for the consequences of your way of life
ReplyDeleteAwon ode meji
ReplyDeleteInsensitive and not too bright duo
Delete🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteEvil people, continue we are watching.
ReplyDeleteJudy, has been very unfair to May with her actions etc.
ReplyDeleteMatthew 7:21 says "do unto others as you would want them to do to you". If the tables were turned how will she like to be treated? It's not her fault though. I believe something is very wrong with Yul. He is not himself.
Polygamy, smh.... No be flex.
ReplyDeleteYes oh. My dad still suffers the trauma. Very unfortunate. Can't wait for when I leave school, I'll take him for therapy. I made that promise. When I see people defending polygamy, I shake my head and weep.
DeleteYou are taking him for therapy? Lollll. The person what brought the polygamy with his preeek to the house?
DeleteSo where will you take those who suffered the effects of the Polygamy gan gan??
Some monogamous marriages are worse than polygamous marriages. We read about that here fairly regularly.
DeleteHusbands and wives in polygamous homes don't see one half of what some spouses see in monogamous marriages.
Anon 17:28 let me explain 😁.
DeleteMy grandfather is the person who brought polygamy into his home. 3 wives. It affected my father who's his first son. Chased him and his mom away. So much trauma from the betrayal of his father. So like I said polygamy affects the children. Which affected my father.
When I leave school, I'll surely take my father (the affected) for therapy to let go of the pain and betrayal of his father. Well till today, I've never seen my grandfather eye to eye. My father cut off from the family completely. Which obviously, I don't blame him.
POLYGAMY IS DANGEROUS.
18:38 mehnnnn, sorry to hear this.
DeleteTruly, I've never met any one online or offline who encourages polygamy.
The ONLY person who it 'benefits' is the man who is double dipping preek upandan.
I hope you'll be able to take your father to a licensed therapist, a good one.
Not some religious freak that will worsen the situation with religious mumbo jumbo.
Thanks at anon 19:26. Yes am already doing my ground work already. A real licensed therapist for sure.
Delete19:26 they don't even benefit anything at the end of the day.
DeleteAll those people defending polygamy lack sexual discipline
DeleteIt is understandable if one person is running mad but these two are clearly mad at the same time and their families are watching,. Maybe when they take off their clothes and roam naked in the streets that is when their families will tie them down and take them to Uselu.
ReplyDeleteI'm shocked. 😨😯
DeleteMay, I honestly hope you’ve left that marriage as I’ve been reading. I wish you all the love and the best going forward cos you deserve it. Keep ignoring these two fools, if God wills it, they will meet their own in front.
ReplyDeleteThis is why most people rate their mothers over their fathers. See how this one has been fooling himself online despite just losing his first born.
His daughter have yanked off his name from her social media handles, so I heard
DeletePepper them gang 🥱
ReplyDelete#wakathere
Their business, their family wahala, their decision. Whatever you all feel will make you happy just do it.
ReplyDeleteIt's their business and family wahala quite alright. But you don't do whatever makes you happy. That's what differentiates a child from a fully grown person. You don't make yourself happy at the expense of another especially not someone you once loved. There's time for everything and those two are selfish and insensitive. At this point, it's no longer about their love, its obvious that they are doing this to hurt May
DeleteIt's their business and family wahala quite alright. But you don't do whatever makes you happy. That's what differentiates a child from a fully grown person. You don't make yourself happy at the expense of another especially not someone you once loved. There's time for everything and those two are selfish and insensitive. At this point, it's no longer about their love, its obvious that they are doing this to hurt May
DeleteSee the heart ache I have seeing these two, me that don't even know any of them. I just wonder how May will be feeling if she sees this. He just lost a 16 year old son barely a month ago, I don't think he is in his right mind, I can see Jazz at work.May please , take your remaining children far from this man o.
ReplyDeleteNothing like jazz.
DeleteI said nothing like jazz.
Stop reasoning like a dolt looking for any and every avenue to excuse a man who simply lacks control and has no boundaries.
How come when women mess up nobody talks of jazz?
You lot will curse, shame, embarrass, mock and make so many dirty snide remarks to denigrate Nigerian women but when it comes to your men the immediate excuse is 'jazz'.
Dem no dey jazz una women?
I say your women are unjazzable abi? Only your men ba?
Mtsheeeew, smelling nonsense.
Chai Anon, calm down
DeleteIt's so unfair. Is it the money they are making from likes and clicks or what? I don't understand how insensitive they are. God have mercy.
ReplyDeleteI have come to realise it..why is it that women folks genuinely will always counter anything a man does that makes him happy or they just don't want to see a man living at peace and being happy ...why ? What's yuls crime ? Don't he deserve his peace of mind if he feels less for the first wife ? Don't yul have the right to be happy with another woman that gives him the peace he wants ?
ReplyDeleteYou want to know yul's crime at anon 15:28? Apart from the fact that he cheated on his wife and forcefully imposing polygamy on his first wife, @Mayedochie, Yul is also an insensitive and wicked human being. For Christ sake, this man-child just lost his first son about 2 months ago, but, here he is, busy flaunting and doing lovey-dovey with his other woman on the internet for all to see.
DeleteHe should still be mourning his dead son by now and not doing some stupid flaunting of his second wife.
Of course Yul can be happy. His first son died exactly 6 weeks ago, today. He posted this video yesterday, if he has gotten over his son’s death, why celebrate in public when his first wife and children are still mourning? Why not respect the memory of the dead??? Why not hide your joy and indifference to your family’s pain for now and enjoy your life in private???
DeleteMtchewwww. So flaunting his supposed love while the child he had with the first wife is barely cold in the ground is sensible eh? He can't be happy with her inside the house, it must be all over SM. Yul is misbehaving with his full chest. Congratulations to them. Na love we never see before mtchewwww
DeleteThe way and manner shows zero decorum, respect and regard
DeleteHe lost his son this year. Is it up to two month sef?
DeleteSon wey no even sick for hospital, very healthy. So death was unexpected.
He do like say na chicken die. Does he look like someone mourning a whole human being. A son he craddled from birth and loved till teenhood?
Even Dogs dey get state burial and period of mourning. (Am not joking).
YUL can still rock his 2nd wife after a befitting mourning period for his son
The 2nd wife seems to lack empathy wisdom and grace. Even if a man is allover you as 10th wife, try dey act with grace towards the wives you met in his life. I personally feel she is doing all this to kill one
viral video were dna talk was pointing at her. Anyway its not about her but his own attitude
Happy to have helped.
Lollll when a Nigerian man says they want peace just know it's just another empty head buffoon chatting nonsense. They don't want you to question them, if they are spending recklessness, sleeping with every maggot dead or alive or mingling with reprobate characters, they dont want you to question. You should just be smiling and spreading legs that is what they want. Phoooooools.
DeleteI hope you won't feel bad if your wife gets another man just like Yule? You know some women are promiscuous right?
DeleteYes @ 14.30 their so called "peace" means STFU and let me do what I like
DeleteTo black men, be my peace means be my slave, cook, maid and nanny. Oh and fuck me whenever I want. Oh and we will fuxk so much that your pussy will slack, I will get bored of you and you will birth my kids. Oh and you also have to work a Job as well (even though I don’t help or hire help for the chores) because I need 2 incomes to maintain the finances and bills. But I will be first to complain about how you have lost your sexy body and have now gained weight. Weight from the stress I cause you in the pregnancy you went through to bring forth kids who hold my legacy in the world. Oh and never question me. Just be a quiet pretty little doll. Come to think, I now see why Davido chose and married Chioma
DeleteAnon 6:07 you’re so right. Most black men, especially Nigerian men operate on a 2-pussy minimum. One woman can never be enough for them. These men themselves have bragged that staying monogamous is not in their ancestry and DNA, so they can’t help cheating. And women are still marrying these men?? They already told you who they are so why the fuq u still went to date and marry them is beyond me. Me I’m a very jealous lover and can’t stand cheating so in order to avoid killing someone’s son I divested out of the blaq dating pool. Not married to a black man and have my peace of mind.
DeleteYou mean same Nigerian men that are always using excuse of “our forefathers were polygamists” to cheat?😂😂🤣🤣 to them cheating na their birthright. They can’t seem to figure out how to be sole providers of a home like their forefathers were though. Always splitting bills with their wives and putting financial burden on women unlike their forefathers. Always marrying women for money n to be taken care of but making their wives lie to the outside world that the man is the one providing 🤭I guess That’s one aspect of their “forefather’s” ancient way of life that they have failed to hack n adapt to modern age.
DeleteOf course earning a substantial level of financial success takes a level of discipline, intelligence, that the average black Nigerian man seems to lack. Lusting after a woman and fuvking indiscriminately like rabbits is a base level activity that demands zero brain power or skill. so ofcourse that’s where they excel. Shameless lots
Ndi iberi ibe. Those of you supporting their bullsh*t, is this display okay too. I just want to believe that May has left these two to their foolery.
ReplyDeleteI don't think the are divorced as people are insinuating
ReplyDeleteYul & Judy wan kpai May with their actions
ReplyDeleteStella I agree with you DIVORCE HER PROPERLY & MARRY WHO YOU WANT
ReplyDeleteThe battles in a polygamous home never ends.
ReplyDeleteI tell you. The battles are usually generational.
DeleteUnpopular Opinion:
ReplyDeleteWhat if Yul raped Judy and this was the deal that came out of the case, instead of publicizing the rape? 🤔
The way he's going about it as if Judy has him by the balls and not in a favorable way 🤷🏻
How e wan rape this kind person almost 3 times his size???? Somebody he has been sleeping with siiiiiince? Even his wife knew he had side pieces. Even Nollywood people came out and said they kniew about their relationship. Rape ko, epar ni. Mtshewww
DeleteWow. This never crossed my mind. A good angle. Charging him for rape will so much destroy his image. So to make it cleaner, she offers him a second option of making her a second wife. Chaii 😪. Then Yul has messed up big time.
DeleteI don't think these 2 are all there. There's something seriously wrong with them honestly. Craze person no dey ever gree say im dey craze
ReplyDeleteBeing a psychological thriller and crime movies addict.
ReplyDeleteJudy was used by Yul both Emotionally, sexually and financially.
May might have had encounter with Judy over this issue and maybe denies Yul s*x which Judy is aware and took advantage of it.
Yul still wants May!!! But is surprised that May is tired of his constant cheating, this is the height of it.
Those recent videos are attention seeking from Judy.
Yul for your own sanity, take care of your children,if truly May has divorced you, be a free man don't continue your marriage or relationship with Judy, co parent in peace.
Cos, you will understand what obsession means now. If she has anything against you ,let her show it online and free you from obsessive bondage
For some comments about Sir Pete quietness, he saw the obsession from Judy, he better allow her have her way till she gets tired than hurts his son.
I hope they all heal
Lots of you encouraging May to stay put, does this look healthy to you?!!!!! Wickedness!
ReplyDeleteSeems prople have forgotten that he used to post these kind of videos with his wife, May. Even when he tried to pretend they had no issues, he posted a similar video until May exposed him that it was an old video.
ReplyDeleteMay we not marry our enemy.
News said dowry has been returned and May won with custody of the children and properties, so they re shalayeing to get money from views .
ReplyDeleteI never knew divorce was thus fast in Nigeria abi she applied a few years ago or the court no dey Nigeria?
DeleteYep May and her family were the ones bankrolling him and now he’s about to be struggling financially. It’s Judy I pity Cus I know it’s greed for money that carried her to be by force 2nd wife. Greed for money that Yul no longer has access to. Ntorrr
DeleteHow won’t she win? Is it not her money n her property? She is tired of silently playing bob the builder only for Yul to cheat. This is the sad reality of Nigerian marriages. Men pretending to be breadwinners whereas their wives are the real Odogwu behind family wealth .Yul got pained that his desperate silly attempt to force May to accept to share him with Judy did not work. May instead took herself and her money out of his life. He is now scrambling for cheap attention hoping to get paid to do adverts and Money from views.
DeleteA young child died a few weeks ago.
ReplyDeleteA few weeks later the father is uploading meaningless videos doing lovey dovey with his second wife.
Nothing wrong with doing videos with his second wife but there is something called common sense, basic decency that is lacking in so very many peoole claiming to be adults.
Even if the child who died was meaningless to you, take some time off social media AND MOURN THAT CHILD!!!!
HONOUR THAT CHILD!!!!
If it was the 1st wife who did this, stricken jobless online inlaws would have shut down the internet with curses accusing her of killing her own child.
You now have an over 40 year old phoooool doing karaoke with the woman he was sleeping with outside his marriage, remaining to dance on tik tok to reaffirm what we already know that many men are very very very da.ft.
19:35,
DeleteThank you very much.
I didn't comment on this Yul fellow all this while (I have no business with Judy, she didn't marry May).
But as a human being, my heart totally broke seeing man's inhumanity to another, more so, a woman you married, built with, laughed and cried with, bore your children.
I have read comments, and I can say categorically, there are many wicked people on this earth (Yul inclusive), and kill&rs/mur#erers do not have to use weapons!
Yul, a child died! Your child! And even if something happened and that child isn't yours, a child raised for 16 years by you, died!
Your daughter and sons sibling died!!!
Your father, and mother's grandchild died!!
No parent should have to bury their child!!!!
While you must celebrate the birth of another, you and Judy can do so discreetly. Nothing will happen, if you postpone festivities. Nothing.
I didn't comment on the breakdown of a relationship between adults because in life, shit happens.
But Yul, publicizing your karaoke sessions this period is honestly unexplainable. I can't wrap my head around this!
I can't.
Unofficial: May has divorced Yul. She won the house and her kids. Just waiting for the confirmation. My only annoyance is why's Rita Edochie now hailing her on social media. Ma, just let the woman go. Don't try forcing her back for goodness sake 🤦🤦🤦
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