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Saturday, April 29, 2023
Saturday In House Gists -Marrying For 'Pali' Or Money Or Change Of Status
Are you married to someone for Pali (Paper) or because of their financial status? Or did someone marry you for Pali or your financial status or just to change their status to 'Married'?
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Married to her cuz I love her and also to fulfill the promises of God in my life
ReplyDeleteHmmm
DeleteAwwww 🥰🥰🥰 this is lovely May God continue to bless and protect your union Amen 🙏
DeleteAnyin….
The way I feel now, I think I married when I’m supposed to be rocking single life..
ReplyDeleteIf I had come to this Abuja as a single woman I for don waka! Now I’m doing few things to make my own money but I’m not contented. I can’t even answer anyhow call or sleep out omo where will I tell oga that I slept. By now na Dubai I for dey go cool off every weekend. I know the caliber of people I’ve met in this town but fear won’t even allow me give out my contact. Honestly my eyes still dey outside but marriage don limit me. Sigh
Fan Emmanuel
Bad geh
DeleteYou are not serious🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteThose so-called caliber of people are attracted to you because you are married, there are some men that go after married women, they want to scatter your marriage. Getting married is the best decision you made. The grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence. Ask single ladies still struggling to make ends meet, no toasters let alone getting married. Be grateful for what you have.
Delete😂😂😂 fan!!!
DeleteI was about typing advice when I saw it was you .
DeleteI realized no need🤣🤣🤣
@15:37
DeleteVery well said. There is a kind of power some men feel they have from getting a married woman to willingly undress before them and from pressing a married woman down. A man who does it is in essence pressing down the husband stripping him of his masculinity. The woman's children feel pressed down too. Did you ask children? Yes because very few children capable of independent thinking support their mother's adultery no matter what instigates it. Some will enjoy the benefits, but are quick to separate themselves from the mother as soon as they can. We have read this here.
This is why adultery kill men quicker. Both the offender if attacked and the victim if he abhors it but cannot do anything to stop it.
Before you say what about the women.? The same applies. There are women who don't deal with unmarried men or single men without committed relationship. They only enjoy men taken from another woman. The more pained the otherwoman, the sweeter for them. Even on this blog, a woman narrated how she went about hers. For some, it is so bad they work only within family and friends. They glorify themselves that any man they want, they can get. They bask in the power over other women.
Those of you advising Fan, e be like say you na be JJC for here.
DeleteFan is just catching cruise 😉😉🙃
I'm about getting married b/cus of the things I'd gain...
ReplyDeleteGood job(instantly)
3 plots of land and a good d#ck 🙌
Nice
DeleteHope it worth your while.
DeleteBaddest
DeleteA good dick and financial security? Honey take it! Hurry!
DeleteI want to get married to him because I really really do love him. Everything else (which he has still) is a plus
ReplyDeleteHe married me for Pali. I was paid too, good money. I have 3 kids too. But the guy wants to take it further. I said dude, your wife is in Nigeria, don't be unfaithful. He said she may not be faithful either. I refused to off pata coz that wasn't part of the deal. He got angry and became very foolish. He outed himsef and went ahead to tell people that I reported him. God so kind I went Scot free. He's back to Nigeria. The wife called to cuss me out over the failed deal, I opened her husband blokus to her and sent her screen shots of all his text begging me to atleast consumate the fake marriage.
ReplyDeleteJeeez!
DeleteHis village people followed him abroad, what a fool!
He outed himself because of s*x? If stupid was a person...
DeleteSex have destroyed many men's destinies. Dem use am swear for them.
DeleteHe is an incredibly stupid person. I hope you dis not get into trouble with the authorities. That probably was what he was trying to achieve. Ready to cut off his nose to spite his face . A lot of nigerian are like that, they can sacrifice anything for their ego.
DeleteMany foolish and irresponsible men roaming
DeleteHmmm what a silly man plus wife join. Case of I rather lose an eye as long as my enemy is blind. Carried his Naija mentality of can't deal with rejection. I'm grateful I get pali legally, also grateful I had the ability to cos not everyone does. Cant imagine being at the mercy of men. Imagine what he would have done if it was the opposite and you were the one that needed him. The stories I have heard eh, hmmm. Human beings can disappoint at any time. Only God is forever faithful.
DeleteTrue anon 19:45. It's his type that will force the woman to sleep with him even though it wasn't part of the deal. I heard of one that so nacked the lady that paid him. The poor lady was at his beck and call. At a point he asked for backdoor and she told him she has never done that and can't. Can you believe the bastard refused to turn up on the date of their interview date because of this? She drove to his place and let him have his way so he would show up for the interview. This is someone that was paid for the deal. Tueh! I will never advise anyone I know to do arranged marriage for papers. It's better to find someone you like and marry the person for real. This applies to both sexes. Some women also show the men shege banza after collecting the initial payment.
DeleteGOD forbid desperation
Delete@anon 16:38
DeleteYou wrote this because of me. I was considering fake marriage for permanent residence cos that means that I can study medicine for free.
I'm still a virgin and nothing will make me defile this temple of the Holy Spirit, not one thing.
I married my sugar lips (Wifey) because she meant the world to me and a complete gift of God to me.
ReplyDeleteThank God I find her love you my world
Sweet
Deleteawwwn ...i love love
DeleteMay your love last forever
DeleteAmen
DeleteI want my daughter to marry for love,but I'll also advise her to be careful of where and who she falls in love with, she shouldn't fall in love with a poor man, abi marrying for love is only when you marry poor man?
ReplyDeleteI tire.
DeleteRather start praying for God to give her a good man meant for her.
DeleteI want to get married for the sake of marriage,travelling abroad and for money.He on the other side,i think he wantsto get married to me because of marriage sake as well.Just to satisfy his parents.When i get to abuja,i know i will cheat,may God not let me be caught sha before i get all the benefits.
ReplyDeleteDo you know what a boomerang is? Dey play. Just dey play
DeleteI married for love! I don't think I can do arrangee marriage no matter the situation I find myself
ReplyDeleteCongratulations darling. May your love blossom and become a fortress
DeleteMy wife is in support of me doing anything it takes to get papers when I travel abroad, I'm preparing to travel to France.
ReplyDeleteShe said she doesn't mind if I marry for Pali. She will support me. All she wants is a good life for her and the kids, she said even if she doesn't get to relocate and join me, her kids will be able to relocate and school there and she will be living comfortably in Nigeria and visit them . The suffering is too much.
The man up there who messed up because of sex is a fool. So he could not go out and get it since his life depended on it? Goat.
Don't forget your values, conscience and integrity.
DeleteAsk God for direction. Not all that travelled abroad made it.
And your wife's desperation is scary. Hope she won't push you to money ritual someday.
No be your own bad pass nah
I married for love 10yrs ago...still here for love...
ReplyDeleteCongratulations 🎈🎈.
DeleteSweet
ReplyDeleteSo where are the people that cry bad marriage every time? They’ve suddenly gone into oblivion?
ReplyDeleteI think my husband married me for papers. When I was meant to be outgoing and meeting people my parents were forming strict. At 35 they started calling me to bring man home. From where nau. We have kids and he’s a very good dad. He tries as a husband but I wish we were much more friends. But is it at 35 I want to be doing boyfriend?
ReplyDeleteLol @doing boyfriend at 35.
DeleteYou can work on you guys being more cordial then progress to boyfriend, then back to husband.
What I'm I even saying sef
Yes at 35 Methuselah, as if 35 is old
DeleteHe married me for money. I married for love. I found out after the birth of our children that I was the second wife because he married someone for pali and never divorced her. The woman reported him to immigration but he had evidence of abuse during the marriage and was allowed to stay pending investigations. Our child helped him stay finally but our marriage was illegal and he needed my money to survive and do business. In the end, he abandoned us when he started making money and I asked my family to return the bride price after 3 years. I thank God for life and the amazing kids he gave me through the experience. Turns out their are Nigerian men who do this in America for different reasons.
ReplyDeleteGlad you are ok now 🤗🤗🤗
DeleteUsers everywhere
DeleteUsers everywhere
DeleteWe both married for love, and worked together for our pali and money, lines are falling in places, God is good.
ReplyDeleteOh wow. Congratulations
DeleteLove this
DeleteI married for love or so I thought but never new that love isn't enough was so blind that I ignored his lying button this man can lie for the universe, manipulated me chai mh eye opened after our 4th child and my mum was like so u mean all this years you don't know whom u married... I hate you aminu I had better suitor ohhh my regret
ReplyDeleteaminu Kwa
DeleteMarried for love. 25yrs and still counting by God's grace.
ReplyDeleteWell for me, I married for love because honestly hubby had nothing to his name when we got married. I had a master's degree but no good job. Him on the other side was a hustler with his first degree. His family self , no money o .. lol. I thank God for growth. We are growing and both have good jobs now.
ReplyDeleteReading comments
ReplyDeleteHahaha I am married to Jesus
ReplyDeleteI married for love. We met as students.I didn’t have kpali he didn’t have kpali. He was sharing a room when we got married. We did church wedding , reception had like 15 people show up for our wedding which is what we could afford, my aunt brought a cooler of rice. Till today I still have part of the money I was sprayed during the wedding. He gave me to keep and 10year now it’s still remaining . My Aunt called my mum in Nigeria to warn me that how can I marry someone without Kpali. Thank Goodness for someone who gave me correct advice. Said as long as you are both hard working and patient and following the right path you both will be fine. It’s been ten years now .. we both are citizens of our country, have a house, we both work and contribute equally.. he’s very helpful with the kids, house chores. We’ve had our struggles but overall have overcome them. He’s my biggest career advocate .. he’s also risen at his job. In summary you can marry for love and still get everything you want
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ReplyDeleteNetwork is bad.
ReplyDeleteMarried for love cos he was struggling and still struggling more than a decade later. Still here in love with each other but no money. Sometimes I wonder if I would have preferred it if there was no love but plenty money. The struggling is much but our love and friendship keeps us going. I pray we keep being friends if we eventually become comfortable.
Ladies, just wantu tell you love is not enough. May a marriage of daily suffering not be your portion. There is no award for Best In Suffering Marriage. And the worst thing is that you pass that legacy of suffering to innocent children and start pressing their lives to be your retirement benefit.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
DeleteOther topics are "haunted families, haunted house, most embarrassing moment(you know we have new bvs who were not present back then and also we have new embarrassing moments everyday)
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