Some people begin to 'die' from day one because of bad Marriage or relationship choices.... Oh you know what I am talking about please!
Some begin to blossom and prosper because of Marriage or relationship choices that they made... Oh you know what i am talking about, YES!
Are you in a Marriage or a relationship that is doing you both harm and good? Or just harm? or only good things are happening to you because of this Marriage or Relationship...
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My marriage has brought me only good. The blessings of the Lord makes rich and adds no sorrow.
ReplyDeleteEveryday I’m grateful for the gift of my husband. He believes so much in me and pushes me daily to invest in myself and career and always be the best version of myself.
Or is it the peace of mind, he’s so intentional in making marriage sweet and our home filled with love and positive energy always.
Man came already-made for marriage and family life.
Sometimes when I remember my shakara when he proposed I thank God I didn’t lose him then, would have been a big loss for me.
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DeleteYvonne O is it possible for someone to be in a relationship without ever hurling insults at each other? Like not even once?
DeletePlease Yvonne explain "already made". Maybe it's in terms of character, discipline, love or other things. I really want to learn from this testimony.
DeleteYou’re looking for gist you say you want learn
DeleteI concur.
DeleteMarry you a family- oriented man and half of the marital issues are solved.
In addition, hubby's a praying man,when heat is too much we pray endlessly, I do
feel like abandoning everyone sometimes, run to go live in a carton in some hidden place far off.😭
God,some days the bills and responsibilities aarrgghh but we're moving on smoothly.
Some days we feel like buying a private jet then gbimm we're left with a few millions 😂🙆
Father in-law be like "ndi ogbuagu na mbo how's it going?" Haha.
It's a life time commitment and we can't afford to disappoint any of the wings, both parents have been married for more than 50 years so we're not half way sef.
God is Able!
Mine wrecked me. I was stunning when I met him then the abuse started. His friend couldn’t recognise me one day he said I used to look like a model that his friend has used his bad character to finish me . I just burst into tears. I left the demon tho so glad I did
ReplyDeleteThank God for your life.
DeleteIt depends. I think people get to meet the kind of people their minds are attracted to. One can be in 20 relationships at different times and they are all bad. One can also be in 20 relationships and they are all good, it just depends on the kind of people we attract to ourselves and the kind of criteria we put forward when choosing a partner. Most times, we are the ones who brings out the beast in others. In all, it is best to walk away when you see the first sign of bad. Don't accept it or think you can change it.
ReplyDeleteThe choice to live in a family house or allowing your family member that you know is troublesome to live in your home can destroy homes.
ReplyDeleteThat's right but how happy and safe you feel depends on your hubby.
DeleteIf your peace of mind is threatened, he has to stamp his orders and let the relation vacate.
Sometimes I get confused but in all of this I think leaving it's the best as with all he does I am still not happy.He cooks, bath and dress the children for school,do school runs, when teething he backs the baby so that I can sleep,I don't know how to shop,he goes to the mkt and shops,every Christmas he gives My mum a bag of rice and Money, last year was 100k , upper year 200k, he buys gifts for me,I earn 182k but he doesn't care as he provides everything, but for the 1st 9yrs it was verbal abuse left, right and center, even curses sef.One time he cursed me that I will never rise, that my juniors will get ahead of me,as he insults me for the tiniest reason.2yrs ago it turned physical,he slapped me and I returned the gesture by biting his hand till blood came at the same time pulled and squeezed his penis that he pulled himself away from my grip and I ran home,I spent 5 weeks at home while he begged and send people till I agreed to come back promising heaven and earth.I came back and truly no verbal abuse for a whole year till recently he began to nag.BTW we have 5 kids.Sometimes I want to leave, other times I don't.I am just confused truly.I don't even know if this marriage has done me good because I still feel sad anytime he uses deregatory terms on me.
ReplyDeleteMaybe you both should go for counseling.
DeleteAll the best.
This is similar to my situation. Constant verbal abuse, derogatory words and has been physical as well. We have no kids and marriage almost a year. Shege is understatement of what I’m going through. Portrays himself as Mr Nice and best husband to the outside world and people envy us, tapping nonsense.
DeleteYou for born two oo, 5kids too much oo upon the beating.. how you go do am kwanu.. it is well ooo....
DeleteMy pops on this too. Why portray yourself as a Goodman to the public and behave like a demon to your family? So many people on this table. God help sha.
DeleteSo why not leave
DeleteAtleast there are no kids
What are you managing
Marriage is supposed to be sweet, I bet you, it’s meant to be enjoyed
Don’t listen to those that will say, “don’t go, everyone is suffering and won’t tell you the truth”
But that’s a lie they tell you to remain in the same bondage with them
If you won’t believe anyone, believe me when I tell you it can be enjoyed, I am an evidence of that.
My marriage is so good, and God is faithful, it even keeps getting better and aging like fine wine.
Sometimes I don’t even know what I did to deserve it. You can have that too
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See eh, the honest truth INVITE YOUR FAMILIES INTO THIS MESS.
DeleteThey'll schedule meetings and sort the problems.
This case is beyond you and him as ONE.
My relationship did me harm, not directly from my husband but from his parents. Several years later God spoke to them and the marriage they refused and child they rejected, they ALL came begging for and gave their consent on a platter of gold.
ReplyDeleteCould be God kept me waiting in other to glorify His name.
But now, my marriage is doing me all the good and blossoming to the glory of God.
Congrats.
DeleteIn due season!
Hmmmm where do I begin marriage will be 9 years and I hate that I married my husband, i married at the age of 21 cos we where dating and I got pregnant my God I trusted this man but the weird things is I don't know why i married him, he isn't my spec but physically and mentally.. He deceives me in collecting loan and lies like no tomorrow... I hate my husband I steal dream of my soulmate but I have 4 girls.. I can't leave I told him to his face that we are sex mate and flat mate I don't love him I don't think I ever did ohh
ReplyDeleteHmmmm....marriage is hard when you're stuck with a serial cheat...it's draining. His family sees nothing wrong as long as he doesnt bring them home. I'm just tired and fed up. My salary is less than 100k to fend for 3 children .
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