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The police has arraigned a 36-year-old lawyer, Abasiesebanga Ikoiwak, and five others for allegedly killing her 41-year-old husband, Barrister Godwin Ikoiwak.
According to information gathered, Ikoiwak, who was a native of Eket Local Government Area, had reportedly died a few days after the deceased told his friend and former classmate, Barrister Sunny Anyanwu in a phone conversation that he was having issues with his wife over infidelity.
Narrating how the deceased died before an Uyo High Court, Anyanwu said that the deceased hinted him that he reported the matter to his wife’s family who invited him to a meeting in their family compound in Nung Udoe Itak, Ikono Local Government Area, but did not return home alive.
Anyanwu who is the 7th prosecution witness in the matter, also said that the late Barrister told him that his wife was having s#xual relationship with her former boss, a legal practitioner named Barrister, Odoh.
He said the deceased husband told him that his wife had stayed with a Catholic priest, as a house help and the catholic priest impregnated her and they had a child who is now 19 years old named after her maternal grandfather.
According to the prosecution witness, the late Barrister did not know that the boy who has been living with him in his house for years, was his wife’s son, because the wife had told him that the child was her younger brother.
He said, the deceased told him that each time his wife said she was pregnant, he does not set his eyes on her, until after the delivery of the baby, when she will present it to him and say this is your child.
The prosecution team led by the Director of Public Prosecutions, Akwa Ibom State, Barr. Joseph Umoren tendered the audio recordings which was played in the open court.
Until his death, Barrister Ikoiwak was a state counsel with the Akwa Ibom State Ministry of Justice.
Abasi mbok!
ReplyDeleteHiannnn 😲
ReplyDeleteOMG!
ReplyDeleteWhy do women do this all the time? If you had a child before meeting your man, open up to him. Something as huge as birthing a whole human being should not be hidden, even if the child died.
Also, if your man is cheating, don't cheat back, men cannot swallow cheating like we do, just walk away if you can't bear it.
The headline is misleading.
Only God knows what killed him, from the write-up.
Rip to him.
If the the woman is guilty of his death, let her face the law.
Ogaooo
ReplyDeleteThis is something else..on top wetin now?
Why not walk away
My deductions:
ReplyDeleteShe might have been raped by the Catholic Priest, may be many times.
She got pregnant when she was just 16/17 years old.
Her reproductive system might have been damaged during or after birthing that child reason she leaves the house after announcing her pregnancy.
None of the children she brings back home belongs to the man nor herself cos she might have got them from baby factory.
The woman in question is a very wicked, bitter and heartless witch who can go any extent to cover her atrocities.
All these started from her living with a Catholic Priest.
Some Catholic Priests seems to be doing more harm these days. They have option of getting married or being a priest, why not they choose the former when they can't keep their legs together.
I think the Catholic church should find a lasting solution to this. This is just one case out of many unreported cases. I would suggest that they put a law that if you choose to be a priest, then you get a partial penectomy since they won't allow the priest to get married. I know this is extreme but it's a choice.
There are many men in the priesthood who have no business there, some of them are just running away from family responsibilities and looking for easy life among many other flimsy reasons.
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In my own village and Church, my pastor impregnated his cleaner and went ahead and aborted the baby.
DeleteHmmm! It's so sad.
Her life took a twist when she was abused and impregnated by a supposed man of God. She may have become very heartless and mean as a result.
DeleteThe priest should be called out and shamed if he is still alive.
Lol that won’t solve the problem, it only means they’ll sleep around without caution and leave no trails cuz they won’t be able to make babies
DeleteThe issue is not how she got pregnant idiot. IT IS MURDER!
DeleteShe must have jazz him,how on earth you don't monitor your wife's pregnancy toll she gives birth.kings not everything you will take oh..stand your ground as a man and be in charge.wgen men fail to be incharge this is the outcome.men don't be desperate,don't be a slave to man,women or money.you are a man..a head and not a tail.i feel sad for this innocent man gone like that.
ReplyDeleteVery soon men are coming to terms that marriage is not for them,highest they find a baby mama,the drama associated with the female folk is not necessary for men this 21st century
That’s because those babies are not hers either
DeleteShe probably buys them from baby making factories.
She’s just a wicked soul cus she could have left after all she has her own money but because society keeps carrying marriage on their heads people will keep deceiving themselves
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And also women are also coming into the idea marriage and baby mama isn’t for them too
DeleteI just found out on dang that plenty women do not even want to be mothers, everyone is choosing themselves so let’s be watching? The next generation is going to be the ghetto
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Mtsheww
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Which kings? Only very few are good people, the person that allegedly impregnated her is what? Many are selfish animals looking for who to use and throw away, do not want to improve on their behaviour, hate accountability and feel entitled just like 09:02 to use another human being breed like goats without thinking of anyone but themselves not even how the children will come out is their concern. Useless effeminate princess treatment seeking lazy broken selfish confused greedy entitled wicked creatures looking for benefits but not responsibility
DeleteWhich kings? Only very few are good people, the person that allegedly impregnated her is what? Many are selfish animals looking for who to use and throw away, do not want to improve on their behaviour, hate accountability and feel entitled just like 09:02 to use another human being breed like goats without thinking of anyone but themselves not even how the children will come out is their concern. Useless effeminate princess treatment seeking lazy broken selfish confused greedy entitled wicked creatures looking for benefits but not responsibility
DeleteWicked soul,rest in peace sir 😢
ReplyDeleteWhat is this?
ReplyDeleteWhy kill the man?
Mtchewwwwwww
GOD rest his soul 🙏
The heart of man is desperately wicked.
ReplyDeleteHian! Instead of you to move on, you killed him? As chicken? You're evil!
ReplyDeleteIf na my brother I must kill you, too. Since we all being Mad.☹️
This is how SIMPs ends up..
ReplyDeleteIf I visit a girls fam and I see any very young child and they claim is their younger bro/sis.. it's a guilty until proven innocent situation for me..
Your wifey tells you she's preggy and disappear until after giving birth and you accept it as per mumu man.. you marry 'feminist' wey you no fit check..
The girls family takes the cake in the deception, no wonder they could birth such a daughter.. sending a female to and work as a maid for a priest, like they don't know what would happen or they didn't even care, even sending a male is enough risk not to talk of females..
This is how "taking the secret to the grave" ends up..
How she thinks she can hide this deception even baffles me,. She has probably had plans of killing her husband before he finds out to make the secret stay forever, but he found out before her plans materialize, so she still went on to killing him anyway.. it was only fast tracked.
The thing about forgiving a woman who cheats is that they'll still feel you might one day out them, so they feel the only way to keep it secret is to kill you, so in this case, it's a lose- lose situation for the man.. you forgive them , you die,. Best you out them and end the relationship cos just ending it without outing them still put you at the risk of death..
She must have thought the secret was safe if not that the husband had already told his friends on phone call..
The SIMP spirit right now would be regretting for being a BIG SiMp.. life you no enjoy,. Death you no fit rest in peace.. God abeg oh
I think it's the woman's family that assisted in the killing of the man. Also there's a limit of forgiveness. He should have let her go. And how is your wive pregnant and you don't set eyes on her? Oga oh. This one is not normal. People should be using their head Na. 😪😪. This lovey Dovey don end this man's life sha. All the reading in school, sacrifices, stress and at 41 just wasted 😭😭😭
DeleteThe girls family takes the cake in the deception, no wonder they could birth such a daughter.. sending a female to and work as a maid for a priest, like they don't know what would happen or they didn't even care, even sending a male is enough risk not to talk of females..
DeleteThank you for this Dante! You just mirrored my exact thoughts in my quoted text! This story pains me! What an evil family. Maybe the guy threatened them with exposure and they killed him immediately. Men and women, please do not go to any opposite family meetings without a member(s) of your own family! Poor man! *Long hiss*
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The kind of man some female Bvs here hail on top of skyscrapers and want as husbands but will not let their brothers be in their matrimonial homes.
DeleteThe opposite of simp is also not a dead conscience selfish and wicked woman despising user. Men are not saints either
DeleteThe heart of man is desperately wicked. Who can know it? Rest in peace to the dead.
ReplyDeleteHeart of man again..
DeleteEven for wetin woman do..
Haba!
Lol Dante that’s a Bible verse she’s quoting exactly how it’s written
DeleteThis is wickedness
ReplyDeleteI can't imagine what he must have passed through.
The kind of stories get me😩😩😩😩😩
ReplyDeleteWhich kind wickedness be this, why not leave the man and go your way madam?
Men are scum, women are saints
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DeleteThrash everywhere
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Which kind of story is this??? Why kill him for crying out loud???? Why did the man visit her family alone to settle this kind of dispute??? She's bitter and heartless, may she rot in jail if this is true.
ReplyDeleteThis is wickedness of the highest order.Why did she have to kill the man? The man that can allow you disappear after claiming you are pregnant will sure forgive you if you had told him you already had a son out of wedlock.May his soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteIf an enquiry is set up to look into atrocities of Catholic priests in Nigeria, yawa go gas.
ReplyDeleteOh Chim! This wickedness is too much now,kill your own husband cos he found out about your lies? All this could have be avoided by just been truthful from the get go,who will marry you with even with 4kids will do so,why lie?? Even the babies born to the man is not his cos of lies,baby factory at work too..this woman is an embodiment of lies!! Now she must face the law..RIP to the man
ReplyDeleteGod forbid I lie about my baby because of man; my baby that brings me joy!
ReplyDeleteOh Akpan.😭
DeleteThe shock eh.
His family are prayer warriors, gradually they'll rise above this.
Goodnight Bugzy.
Oh dear
ReplyDeleteShe's a sadist
ReplyDeleteEvil and heartless 💔 😢 woman.
Rot in jail forever.
Pure evil at work together with her family.
DeleteThis is pure evil. May she suffer the consequences of her actions.
ReplyDeleteOh lord deliver us from evil wickedness is too much in this world.
ReplyDeleteIt’s really all speculation
ReplyDeleteThey should do autopsy to find out cause of death
Autopsy says he has a lot of body marks like he was tied up.
DeleteRip,this is really sad😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
ReplyDeleteThis is very bad,why kill the man for God's sake.
ReplyDeleteThe woman is evil.
Hmm this story hmmm bring back bad memories.
ReplyDeleteI never knew the boy my hubby employed to work iny shop is actually his step son. He sold our house and use the money to build house for another woman,a widow with two grown boys.one of her boy work in my shop as my sales boy.
I was at home one day and a man walked in and said he's the new landlord now I'm a tenant in the house I biult with my hubby. Last December,he went to do trad wedding and the woman has 2kuds for him already before I got to know. If I kull thisan who will blame me.
Pls don't take a life you didn't give in the first place.
DeleteJust leave them to God, their reward is coming in pressed down, and overflow.
God will heal you Sister.
Please give us full details na
DeleteDid you seek legal advice? How I wish one of the bv lawyers here will see your comment and drop some advice. The hearts of some of these ppl on earth is demonic. How anyone could think to enter someone’s life on such an intimate level just to use or exploit them is beyond me. Must be why I am still single and broke cause marrying to exploit and manipulate can never be part of my story.
DeleteIf you are able to, please get some counseling. Find a professional that you can talk to and get things off your chest and do please seek legal advice from a competent and knowledgeable lawyer. If you cannot afford one, link with a women’s group, a charity or ngo that can help you.
Hey God abeg oh. Very messy something.
ReplyDeleteWhy the lies? Gbogbo eh o necessary naw.
See wedding photo, see smiling couple. Folks, do not let nothing you see disturb you because pretty pictures will never tell the true story.
ReplyDeleteThis is one tragic story that could have been avoided. One sin will always lead to another. The lies led to infidelity and the infidelity led to murder. Why this woman chose to take on the fruit of another woman’s womb to cause such destruction is beyond me. This person was not created for any relationship muchless a marriage. She pretending to be childless, possibly faking pregnancies, sleeping with an outside party, having an innocent young man pretend to be her brother, then masterminding a murder, tf, this beech had too much stinky shit going on in her life, wtf she needed a husband for. That innocent man walked into hell and didn’t even know it. Condolences to his family and loved ones
Why will a woman lie about her child/ren from the other relationship/s just because she wants to be answering Mrs ?
ReplyDeleteYou took a soul you can't create, wicked woman, rot in jail and hell.
Did they really confirm she killed him? Any autopsy? Any witnesses? All I read is that she was not truthful to him and was unfaithful but is that enoughto conclude she killed him? For what purpose?
ReplyDeleteNot saying she's innocent but I hope they have the right people.
Exactly how did she kill hi
DeleteSadder part of this story is that the evidence in court reported here is mainly hearsay. This kind of evidence, if it is all they have, cannot secure a solid "appeal-proof" conviction of the woman.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, what manner of man goes to his In-laws' home to resolve serious issues as highlighted. Well, that may be one of the attributes of modern marriage, which emphasize that real men keep their families out of their marital affairs to protect their wives.
This kind of complicated story is what happens when people follow cultures not grounded in their communities. Did he go alone to seek the woman's hand in marriage? Woman disappears for any period of her pregnancy and reappears with a baby as his. Yet he did not call a meeting of his family to go ask "wetin dey happen" at their in-laws home. He went alone.
May Almighty God reveal the truth of this matter.
May I never marry an Akwa-Ibom man. I'm Ibibio, and I know for a fact that every deceased man from Akwa-Ibom has been killed by his wife. What a joke! When my father died, my mother was told in the most condescending manner to stand in the middle of a room full of my father's people to tell them "how she killed their brother". I signalled at my mother and told her to sit. I walked to middle of the room and told them: "I cooked your brother's last meal which he ate, I was the last person with him till he died, I found his corpse in the bedroom, and took him to the hospital where he was pronounced dead. I killed your brother." That made the harassment on my mother easier... and oh, my mother is Efik. Take this whole story as pinch of salt, and let the Police and Courts do their jobs.
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DeleteI am with you. I am ibibio too. My mum was also taken to a herbalist by my dad's family after my dad's death, they went there to find out if my mum killed my dad.
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DeleteI did not marry a man from Akwa ibom, my daughters too will never Marry them. Not after what I witnessed and still witnessing from my dad's family.
How do my gender do it , how do they sleep at night hiding that they have a child with another man? Tell anyone who want to marry you that you have a child and give them some time to process it.
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