Hmmm....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
REGRETS! REGRETS!! REGRETS!!!
Good day Stella and my fellow BVs......
I will try to tell me story without going into too much details cos i dont know who is reading and i dont want to turn myself into a laughing stock while i map out my plan...
I am currently estranged from my husband but it is my fault that we are apart.
When we got married i had a better Job and was the sole provider at home.... I was disrespected and my hubby did not show appreciation to all my sacrifices so it brought the devil in me... I would wait for him to be with his family or friends and i would start to disrespect and be rude to him and would disgrace him by telling all that i am the one taking care of him and our two children.....
One weekend , I was supposed to attend a wedding but we had a small disagreement and it was all my fault, I slapped him and moved out leaving him with the kids and no means to survive... I went back for the kids three months later......
I got a small house and moved on with my life and refused to take his calls or see him.
Guess what? My husband got a Job in the field of his study and i dont know what happened, its been two years and my husband is rolling in money.... i have been monitoring his progress and i am shocked and want to go back to my matrimonial home to enjoy what i suffered for..
He no longer calls me, I use the kids as an excuse to make contact but i cant continue like this...I still love him and was bittered by the fact that i had to carry the load.
He did not remarry but i am hearing that he has one babe always around him..I cannot let that happen at all...
Please how i go about begging my husband? i cant ask friends or family to help me cos they are happy i am out of his life cos of the way they saw me treat him...
If you see my hubby now, money has turned him into a handsome classy man........This life!
Please i need tips on what to do, not insults.
Hmmmm.. Did you write up there that you slapped him? Thats Domestic Violence!
You want to go back cos his financial status has improved right? Please forget it and move on, you are not a good woman and that is the truth....
Your husband disrespected you and so you disrespected him too, equation balance right? So pls move on since you're an independent woman. You're both ok when separated
ReplyDeleteYou don't love your husband kankan, if you do all the while he was calling, you would have picked his calls to reconcile with him, anty you only love his money that's why you want to go back. Like Stella said, you're not a good woman. Keep trying to see if you can win his heart back, if not file for divorce and look for love with someone else. But you need to work on yourself.
DeleteThe mistake she made was leaving,
DeleteDear poster, I don’t think you love him, you are only attracted to his money, cus you never had to stalk him until he got rich, well the only thing you can do is call him you for a meeting and simply tell him how you feel.
He may not take you back because you are the one who left, and I will actually support his decision if he decides not to take you back, he may have grown out of the relationship and he also deserves to be happy
If he doesn’t accept you, brace yourself and face the result of your decision, don’t beat yourself up cus there’s no pride or ego when you love someone.
If he also marries someone else, please try your best to welcome them into your kids lives, also please consider dating other people cus you never know what life could bring.
If he takes you back then thank God, but how do you intend to face his family after humiliating their son?
I wish you luck
Push up (original)
You abandoned your children "without a means to survive FOR THREE MONTHS." You are a monster and God knew you didn't deserve the blessings that was why He waited for you to leave before blessing him...
DeleteWhat do you want to go back to pick @poster?
DeleteThank you @anon 18:50, she is a MONSTER!, which matrimonial home?, The one you used your hands and distroy?, YOU ARE WICKED, YOU ARE THE DEVIL HIMSELF, if I'm your estranged husband, they way I'll humiliate you ehn, you will think of suicide .
DeleteThank you 18:50! I'm more shocked she actually left her children in that state, such heartless human.
DeleteYour husband better keep it moving. When some of you women do little thing, person nor go hear word. Imagine slapping him and embarrassing him before his family cos he didn’t have a job. Thank God for blessing him.
ReplyDeleteGo away with your bad character. “You cannot let that happen” lol you never jam.
Sluttychic.
Poster you are a wicked woman and don't deserve that man. LEAVE HIM ALONE and mind your business!!!
DeleteYou left your children with him even when you knew he wasn't capable of taking care of them? Wow, mother of the year, I see you.
You don't love him, you only love the money, simple.
But he was mean to you too
ReplyDeleteGo get your man. Go home and talk to him. Take the kids with you. Tell hi you want them to stay code to their dad. You made a mistake slapping him but women are asked to forgive such and they do so you yo ask him to forgive you for that while you forgive what he did to you
He was mean to her to a point of her slapping her own husband?
DeleteYou're not a good person
DeleteHow was he mean to her? Cos he didn’t have money?
DeleteFrom this chronicle, can’t you tell that this poster clearly hid some details? Go get which man? Don’t annoy me 🙄
Sluttychic.
Na Dem , see birds of the same feather, I pray the man is wise enough not to accept her.
DeleteShe said he said terrible things to her in private and she started insulting him in public
DeleteWhy y’all want to skip what he did
At slutty
DeleteI was disrespected and my hubby did not show appreciation to all my sacrifices so it brought the devil in me.
Madam, you are chasing shadow. You should know that your husband won't willing accept you back.
DeleteSince he didn't ask you to leave, he has no point asking you to move back in.
You can decide to meet up with him and discover if he will want you back.
You must have left him with enough trauma for him to remain single. He injured him psychologically.
You can try but don't expect him to easily forgive you. Goodluck asking for FORGIVENESS.
Prestige how do you know he won’t take back
DeleteNothing ventured nothing gained
It’s not only Nigerian women they don’t like divorce
The men don’t either
You went too far abeg. That was too much. He has moved on, you should do same.
ReplyDeletePoster I don’t know if I should smile or give you a big knock on your head, after displaying your terrible attitude with clear eyes just to make him worthless, you carried the kids to another house without his consent , because of money?
DeleteGod abeg o see Wetin money dey shark some wives, who gave you this kind advice? Nigerian movie sef no show this type scene!
the truth is it’s a man’s world , many of us hasn’t realize that yet.
The way they bounce eeehn e go shock you sef, He took the pieces you left in his life and turn it into diamond and he is waxing stronger.
Poster there is no harm in trying but do not use the kids as a bait if not you ll fail completely. You see that family, friend and Neighbours that you don’t want to involve eeehn , na now you go do real begging 🙏. Involve all as in if you wanna go home and continue with him since na you cut the rope japa , you have to be very remorseful and take every blame sincerely. Don’t do any phone call . Go with a trusted family member/s to See your estranged husband in person to resolve issues and know your stand , hear from him to know if he is about to get married or even married and also probably expecting a baby , all this ll help you solve your riddle.
Goodluck Madame Money miss road okosisi!
Mummy Anthony-Clever
Stella has said it all: you are NOT a good woman. Ever wondered if your presence in his life brought him bad luck? Pls stay far from him. You are no longer needed in his life.
ReplyDeleteEhen after he chopped her money she should stay away
DeleteI don’t think so
Anon 15:16 read the chronicle again his time slowly so you come back to comment
DeleteShady didn’t you read that she breadwinner for years
DeleteWho was feeding him then
Gbam
DeleteWicked woman you were using his destiny to shine.
ReplyDeleteExactly! All these people with bad luck
DeleteWhat destiny?? Or lazy f**k of a man. Abegiiii. And no I’m not the poster! You guys are making it seem like he’s an angel now he get small money🙄
DeleteLife is just a mystery! We just need to find a way to always treat people with kindness. The act of love will always set you aside as winner. Let's always try not to allow our emotions get the best out of us.
ReplyDeleteWomen and money. You have seen money now and u and now willing to forget he also disrespected you like u stated. Asides the slap, he has equal fault in the break up of ur marriage. If he ever takes u back, he will so treat u like shit because he will know u are only back cos of the money
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteDon’t mind her.
Why will you slap your husband??? Domestic violence is a no no!
Because he was broke you disrespected him in front of people. Madam you’re wicked.
Omo if I’m that girlfriend, I’ll make sure you don’t come an inch close. Rubbish.
Let me tell you my story.
ReplyDeleteWhen my husband was broke, I got tired of footing the bills with 2 kids. I moved out and moved on with my life.
He started hustling. 3 years later, God answered his prayers and he was rich. Imagine someone that use to send 5k for his kids with plenty abeg now stated sending times 10 frequently. He also told me to change the kids school to a more classy school and he foot all the bills.
I started monitoring him and I discovered he is now rich. He was also planning to marry one small girl and Introduction has been fixed. My eyes cleared and I regretted moving out of my matrimonial home.
I devise a plan. I used the kids to get to him.
The kids will call and cry that they are missing him. He will come over, spend time with them. I used that opportunity to start getting close to him. We would talk, gist and laugh together. I never fought him. I gave him peace and would cook for him anytime he comes over.
From there we became close friends and one day he came over, one thing led to another and we had sex.
I started taking fertility drugs and we continued. I got pregnant, got in touch with his fiance and the introduction was cancelled cos she was heartbroken.
My family got involved and I moved back to my home.
My husband and I are waxing stronger. So my dear get your husband back by all means.
Ignore naysayers and live your life.
Omo 😂😂👍👍👍🔥🔥🔥. This is crazy
DeleteSo now you're eyes are cleared because he has 💰
DeleteThank you..
DeleteShe made a mistake and has learned..
Poster just try what Anon 15;19 did, and see if it will work for you,try to be his friend again, does he communicate with you?
DeleteNice story. But I didn't see anywhere you wrote that you embarrassed or belittled in front of friends or family. That's what makes hers different.
DeletePoster come and see your cousin sister here. Una get mind.
DeleteLuck meet you .
Mummy Anthony-Clever
Poster I guess this is the solution you are looking for.
DeleteMake sure you ask for forgiveness and turn a new leaf for real.
I hope things work out well for you guys for the sake of those innocent children
I would do it
DeleteTho I feel bad for the new woman but if you’re dating a man that’s married or recently divorced, you know he may go back to his ex
If na me, you go born that pikin as baby mama and I go still marry the smallie..
DeleteThat man hasn't leant his lessons yet.. God forbid he faces down time tomorrow, what does he think you'll do again..
I won't call him a S!MP tho.. even though it's obvious
@Mrs. Sharon, pray tell, what mistake has she learned please? She only wants him back cos he has made money, what if (God Forbid) they man goes broke again, is that how she will leave him and the marriage for God knows what.
DeleteI hope the man realizes that she is indeed a bad woman and continue to stay far from her.
@ Dante and Audrey, do you know how smallie will react if she has to foot bills for 2 years? I'm in the position of footing bills right now and it's not funny. I've never gone to the point of public embarrassment and I know I'll never but sexual urge don die, when guyman bashed the car I took loan for us to buy, we were fighting on and off for almost 2 months.
DeleteIf I were your sister, you will be very angry with him, I hide a lot from my family as we are not in the same town but they are coding some things which I keep denying. Poster really did too much but I think she should apologize genuinely and deal with whatever outcome she sees. Life isn't black and white, sometimes, there are grey areas.
17.10
DeleteSmallie might actually have a better upbringing.. we all don't know how she'll act, but we know how this poster acted.. we are judging from WHAT IS and not WHAT MIGHT BE..
And Baba go always enjoy young kpekus too wet still fresh.. that's another plus😌😌
Funny enough,men do this all the time and women forgive them..so he should forgive her too
DeleteSee my dear. Words spoken can never be retrieved. You did not just disrespect him. You did it in the presence of his friends and he might still be friends with them. That man will show you shege if you finally get back together. And what happens if that money finish?
ReplyDeleteYou have moved. Keep moving, no waiting, no loitering. Children will grow and look for their father.
Don't be greedy and wicked. If he doesn't show any interest in your reunion, move on with your life.
ReplyDeleteToo bad you learnt your lesson the hard way, ask for his forgive and move on with your life.
ReplyDeleteI dont understand some women at all. One I thank God you re out of his life, perhaps you were the one blocking him self. Back to the gist, for 5 years of my life, i was out of job. My wife stood by me, infact no body knew she was the one taking care of the family and no one knows till today. When my situation turned around, guess who is enjoying now, you guessed right. I think a key part of it is as a result of poor parenting. We need to let our kids understand life as it is. It is not a bed of roses, has ups and downs. That A is poor or down at the moment does not necessarily mean he ll be down for ever, things happen, fortune changes and all. If i were your husband, I d NEVER get back with you because if I did get back you d be miserable. Face front and leave the man alone
ReplyDeleteGood that you are an understanding man. As for me, I took care of the family for 6 good tears. Did everything doable including rent but not one single appreciation. Instead I was insulted and told that I was trying to control him. When it got to the point of him accusing me of being behind his poverty-stricken state (he didn't have shishi when I met him) and insisting that I must go for deliverance, I knew there was no remedy. I had to leave with my kids and I have no regrets till tomorrow. Even if he becomes richer than Dangote today, I will never go back. I can never forget the insults and the accusations. The hell I passed through. My story is too long. If you decide in your heart to leave, leave and don't look back. Not every man remembers and appreciate the woman that held the home together without complaint.
DeleteYou are so right 20:56
DeletePeople acting like dude was a saint
Gbam @ anon 20:56. Some people don’t understand how some men are evil personified and will bring the devil out of you. Poster got so frustrated with him! Dude wasn’t a saint abeg. Poster, be very careful if you decide to go back. Be very careful so that guy won’t hurt you. Let him enjoy his money all he wants and do shakara with you. Deep in your heart, you know you stood by that man and that should be enough for you to move on with your life. I’ll say call
DeleteAnd apologize for your own shitty behavior so you can have peace and move on. Goodluck.
Pride goeth before destruction. Lets say the truth you don't love him your trying to go back because of the money,I see the way you disregarded your friends and colleagues because you were the bread 🥪 winner a wise woman buids her home and the foolish woman destroy her home. My advice love your kids and move on madam. Na wuna the make things difficult for us latter you say I fed him,cloth him etc.while disrespecting him SHALOM .
ReplyDelete1. What if you get back and he loses his job again or things go bad again at some point (which is unpredictable), will you start your bad behaviour again?
ReplyDelete2. What if he never made it, would you have ever thought of trying to reconcile with him?
Madam, I put it to you that you don't love that man. Na the money you dey eye.
Well, tips on getting him back: If you have access to him, press his mumu button. You should know them. But the other woman go gree you? Also, if you are in terms with his family, pass through them. Use your own family. Use your children too
But if na me be the man, I no go gree. Lailai. You bruised his ego badly. Men don't joke with their ego. Try sha. E fit work for you.
She made clear that she is going back because of his money.
DeleteThought that husbands and wives should not involve families, especially husbands' families in matrimonial issues?
Anyway, story reads like it is from a man to ridicule women.
It is common to read here stout refuttal of comments about the meaness of some women in relationships and marriages. So it is hard to believe
that a woman could be so mean to her husband.
That marriage was toxic, don't go back to it.
ReplyDeleteThat marriage was toxic, don't go back to it. Just make sure he's sending child support.
ReplyDeletePlease, visit a therapist or try to unlearn the toxic things you learnt in that marriage. Never accept abuse, never abuse back (especially not publicly) and never engage in domestic violence. Look past his wealth and don't go back.
The marriage was toxic because he was broke? Or because she is a toxic person?
DeleteBecause they both abused each other (though she abused him the most).
DeleteLol..
ReplyDeleteIf I talk, her kinds would comman say I hate women..
I pray everyday for guys never to be at the mercy of a woman.. even babe wey na you dey bankroll her life go still dey feel entitled and misbehave, now imagine when she's the feeding you.. Baba, you go chop sh!t literally.. I pray no man experience this, it will really change your perception about women..
Make God continue to bless the few ones with sense🙏
But if it's the man now we all will tell to forgive him abi,why can't he also do the same here
Delete@MS
DeleteIn which blog do women tell a fellow babe to forgive a man? Definitely not on this blog..
Abeg talk another thing
You are going back because he has money. Things may change again. You don't love him, so just more on.
ReplyDeleteWoman you don't love this man but money. Just listen to your self. You are wicked. Your type is one of the reasons most men don't marry a woman that is financially okay than them
ReplyDeleteHere is what to do. 1st off you sound like someone who has not changed at all. You are looking for tips to go back bcos he now has money? That's pretty low though if you ask me. I am a woman like you. Go find him and talk to him face to face and let him know that you are deeply sorry. Now if he does not accept, don't worry. Afterall it took you some years to commit all that you did. It might also take him some years to accept you back. Be patient and allow God do it. Don't go and cause problem and disrespect yourself o. Just let time heal him. You and I know that he deserves that too right? Good... so you will keep sending him messages and begging. If he blocks you, no problem. Go to his family and plead with them to forgive you and they should also help you speak to him. I like the fact that you where honest with what you did to him in your write up. He is also not a Saint but allow God work on him while you play your part. If it's bcos of the money he is making,then God fit no intervene o bcos him dey see your motive. Pele ooo.
ReplyDeleteShe's lying!
ReplyDeleteThe disrespect she is claiming from the husband, is him not fully providing for his family and household. The disrespect, is him not having a job that can give her the lifestyle she desires.
@poster...tell me I am lying?!
His life changed for good and you want to partake in it.
ReplyDeleteIf he was as you left him, will you strategyzing of going back?
This crap of women being wired to be taken care of is all scam. A woman taking care of her family is equally taking care of herself. Why complain? When a woman complains helping out her family, it means the help is not sincere but with grudges.
Some supporting this poster should put their brothers in her husband's shoes let's see if her family will accept her back. It's always easy advising from a place of comfort.
Some replies here make Dante write the way he does because of too much hypocrisy on the side of some women here. And when he does, some insult him. It still changes nothing.
If that man accepts you back, he's a weak man. He should NEVER.
Shebi you were forming mrs independent, insulted him before his family? Have you proved the point? Or tired of proving points? Meaning if he gets broke again and the mantle falls on you to provide for the family again, the slap this time will be front and back.
Madam, go and collect your wrapper where you bathed.
I don't normally sigh but for this Chronicle I mtcheeeww
Baruwa na try your luck maybe or maybe not
ReplyDeletePoster, just leave that man alone. God removed you from his life before blessing him. You are a bad luck to him biko.
ReplyDeleteNothing more to add.
DeleteWhen I keep shouting money isn't everything,there is a proverb among the Ibibio/Efik that a man's true wealth is measured by the good people around him,clothes and material riches are all worthless without good people you can rely on,the younger generation will just sing and dance not knowing the depth of the song, I pray you reconcile with your husband,bit I you don't learn your lesson that money isn't everything in life.
ReplyDeleteHonestly you did your husband bad,you need to really beg him and ask for forgiveness even if he will not take you back. How did you leave your kids for 3 months without any means to survive? How did you sleep at night those months you left them? You don't really love him,what if something similar happens in the future,will you leave him again? Go and meet his people and apologize to them before going to see him. You need to work on your character , humility is everything,no condition is permanent,I think your husband really loves you otherwise he won't let you take those kids when you came for them.
ReplyDeleteI wish you the best.
Stay where you are and don't pollute him with your dark energy
ReplyDeleteIt's obvious that you want to go back because he now has money. Hmmm. Just ask God for forgiveness and move on. Maybe just maybe one day, your husband can still accept you back. It's a lesson for us ladies.
ReplyDeleteYou are an evil woman, just because it now sweet with your ex husband you want to go back to your matrimonial home. You are a big joker 😂😂😂😂😂😂 you people don't know that table turns and you feel you are mini god to detect how everyone's life should be.
ReplyDeleteWhen he constantly disrespect you back then even when you are the one feeding the family, did you ever sit him and talk about how baf you feel with the way he disrespect you? Did you call a family meeting so that you can ask both family to talk to your husband. You kept on disrespecting him in the present of his friends just to prove a point or you both are now dragging position as the head.
Never you look down on a man that is educated, hardworking, hustling cos the games will change so soon. I pray your husband doesn't take you back but be with another lady who will respect him as he deserves. You should face your front and move ahead with your life, you said the money you both suffered for🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 this poster you are a cruise woman. You did not suffer anything with him cos your constant disrespect and leaving him for those years has cancelled everything you ever did for him.
If you want your husband back, you need to come down from that your high horse and go beg him. Find away to see your ex husband face to face and go on your knees to beg him. If he still loves you he may forgive you but if he is not there anymore he will not. You should forget about those who will laugh at you cos your focus should be on getting what you throw away with your both hands, while you opened your two eyes. Calm down and look for his friends that he listens to and go see them to beg them go help you talk to him to take you back. I know your pride and ego got the best of you then, please forget shame and face reality. Those who are happy that you both are not together, you need good energy to get back with your man so that shame can finish them.
Please do not forget to give up an update with the outcome. Have a lovely day.
Excited courtsy 1000 likes for your comment. If she likes let her hear. Even there is still pride in her tone.
ReplyDeleteHe'd take you back if he's a simp. Again he'd take you back and cheat on you squarely, I hope he does. Some women ehn.... Smh.
ReplyDeletePoster every one deserves a second chance, You both offended each other ,but you also took responsibility, talk to your man, marriage is not always rosy, but don't force it, if he accepts you back fine, if he doesn't fine, Move on.
ReplyDelete@Anonymous 23 April 2023 at 15:19, I read your story with deep interest. But you forgot that we are all different, that it worked for you does not mean will work for 2 out of 10 other people. And who knows it could still work for.
ReplyDeleteSee men see masculine ego and pride. Even the poorest has it. There are plenty women who at a point were or still are the breadwinners of their various home painfully, because in most cases some of their husbands didnt show much appreciation nor make effort to take over their primary responsibility. Even ladies in present day, do a lot in their relationships. Like I have always pointed, if we bear the load the men bear we would learn to appreciate every little effort the man in our respective live makes to take care of the family. Because that responsibility is on another level.
Coming to your issue, I can't judge your action nor should I condemn the choice you made. Because I was not the one that wore those shoes. But many of us have won even more painful ones, without acting out our anger to it fullest. Disparaging behaviour and foul attitude, can be very unforgiving. To think that you showcased these madness even in the company of families, friends, and neighbours, was something I don't see you resurrecting with the same attitude. Because you don't seem to have learnt anything, nor exorcise those demons of old. Have you for a moment reflected over why your husbands family haven't come to for their children? The answer is time my dear. The timing isn't yet right. I wouldn’t tell you not to try your luck, but you need a deeper introspection. This can go south. He could be waiting to give you a dose of same medicine, but this time in an abusive way that you might not come out alive. A few men like that are unforgiven, because you buried his pride in faeces. I was surprised that you haven't grown beyond your self-centredness and maturity hasn't still set in at your age. They life is a mystery for reason. And if there's thing our adult life taught us, it is thar tomorrow will always be pregnant. What it will birth is never known. At the point of moving out, you thought you had seen the end of his journey. Why did you marry him them? I an compelled to believe he was doing well, and the motive was comfort. Comfort? We all needs it, just as money is important. Yes every relationship has their motives, but when the motive for going into a marriage isn't pure and true, the result is your kind of case. I married my husband, because I found a friend whose friendship is true at all times but most importantly our visions and dreams aligned comparatively selfless. With a compatible value. Married life is a zigzag mixed journey, sometimes on temperate weather, or on stormy waters. Other times on lush fields, or through thorns just to nurture and grow positively. It promises nothing but mutual adjustments and compromises that are most times discomforting. In all, it is a beautiful journey nevertheless
Before you activate your return plan, ask yourself if all you did is repaid to you in this new quest will you take it without coming back online to shout blue murder? Sometimes karma isn't vengeance but our reflections in canvas.
Abegi men talk all that ego in public
DeleteThey are humble with women they love of want
If you wanted to return the disrespect, you'd have done it like he did it na, you didn't have to do it in front of family and friends. Was that how he disrespected you? You even went as far as slapping him, did he for once lay his hands on you? You left your kids with nothing for 3 months. Hmmmmm, your kids o. No one knows what actually gingered him to put in more efforts and improve his life but he was calling you say some point, probably to try and make things work but you didn't respond to him and he moved on. I think you should pick up the pieces of what's left from your life and move on because he'll definitely treat you like trash if you go back to him
ReplyDeleteIf she’s going through emotional and mental torture in the home, it’s best to leave oo hmmm because we hear news about couples killing each other. He apparently survived with the kids during the 3 months and that’s probably what pushed his lazy ass to get a job who knows!
DeleteHe enjoyed your mone
ReplyDeleteGo back and enjoy his own
Just ask God for forgiveness on how you treated your ex-hubby and move on. May you meet someone else that’ll be kind to you.
ReplyDeleteSo true true that acrimony movie Dey happen for reality. It is well. Just take your L and move on.
ReplyDeleteIf he treated you poorly when he had nothing, why do you think he will treat you well now that he has something? Unless he has undergone a spiritual transformation the chances of a full and complete reconciliation lies solely in his hands. However, I believe in married couples doing everything to make their marriage work and raising their children in a stable happy environment together.
ReplyDeleteYou will have to have a face to face conversation with him and see if he has changed in his spirit. Money should not be the motivator in these situations, but one thing I have learned in life is that love can spring out of the most hopeless of situations. Nothing is impossible.
Gbam. She’s only looking at money. What about his character and how he treated her when times were rough and she was the sole provider. You people should reason well please. Poster reach out to him to have a one on one conversation and see if there’s reconciliation. If not, separation is allowed abeg.
DeleteI'm telling you, she doesn't even love her kids
ReplyDeleteBelieve this moron at your own peril. Your hubby never disrespected you. You became a thorn in his flesh when he fell on hard times. After you have tasted how harsh the street is and now that baba is balling, you want to go back to that innocent man. God will never allow that. You belong to the streets now. You are now food for married men and unserious single guys.
ReplyDeleteOmo 😱 Poster sorry o
DeleteI’m not poster but you know that because?? Do you know how some men can frustrate your life because they don’t have money?? They will lash out on you and disrespect you join. Believe me I’ve experienced this with my own husband. Best thing is for a man to have his money and be a provider that he should be. The way God made men.
DeletePoster was feeding him and their children.
ReplyDeleteSo she has money.
Poster is now an unhappy woman because she is no eating a man's money. The man she was feeding.
Why is it that no matter how much a woman has, she is unhappy unless she is chopping a man's money, even a much poorer man?
Where is it from that a woman cannot be the provider or co-provider or co-equal provider in a family of husband, wife and her own biological children.
Madam,please moveeeeee on with your life because if you go back,he will treat you like trash 🗑.
ReplyDeleteYou still love your husband, madam that statement is false..
He will so treat her like trash now that money is involved. Hmmm poster, you’ve made your mistakes. Just let him enjoy the money he never get. Lord sees your own sacrifice during that marriage and even though some of your actions went too far, there were reasons why. I know you’re hurt now because you feel like you deserve to enjoy the fruit of your labor. Go with the flow and request to have a conversation with him and apologize. And co parent in peace and let him financially support the kids. The best revenge is to be also successful and make moneyyyy.
DeleteMadam you have made a mistake but he's still your husband. Go on your knees to God and ask him to help you. If truly your intentions are genuine, he will help you. That's all you can do.
ReplyDeleteWith God, all things are possible. But it will be easy for camel to pass through a needle, than for your husband, his family, friends and possibly some of your family members to forgive and forget easily. It's well with your soul.
ReplyDeleteMadam you get mind chia. However go & beg him & ask God for forgiveness
ReplyDeleteMadam poster I think you should stay away from that man he is way better off without you, who knows maybe you were even the one blocking his success seff as you moved out the man begin to succeed. Forget about the man let him enjoy his money while you work on your character.
ReplyDeletePoster do not let anyone get to you and tell you you’re not a good woman! He brought the devil out of you. You had to move out for him to sit up and get a job! You were the sole provider and for how long would you have done that?? If not, he for just depend on you and not move up. Do not call him for anything else. Lord sees the sacrifice you did for him and on your part I completely understand you could have handled it differently. But some of these men will bring the worse out of you. Poster if you’re to call him, call him and apologize for the disrespect and explain to him why you went that route. but never you disrespect yourself and lower your standards because he don get money. The only thing that changed about him is money. What about his character and how he treated you? He will show you shege. Let things play out and if it’s Gods will to get back together, then so be it and I’d advise marriage counseling afterwards. Let him have access to the kids and on your end, improve yourself and your earning, no need to stalk him as it’ll make you bitter the more. Make more money, look good and live a comfortable lifestyle rather than waiting for his money. Some men are ungrateful. Let it be. Goodluck and give us update please.
ReplyDeletePoster, leave things the way they are now. I thank God he too has seen money. What if he loses all this money for which you want him back? Please let him be. He deserves to be happy.
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