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Saturday, March 04, 2023

Stella's Singles Mingles UPDATE

If you took part in the February 2023 edition of Stella's singles mingles post, please can you update us on how it went for you? Did you contact anyone? Did anyone contact you?

 

Did you get married to someone you met on any of the Stella's singles mingles post? gist us how it went with how you contacted and how it led to Marriage...
Lets talk about love, and serial people and love scammers!

129 comments:

  1. This post go sweet well well. Let me balance with my hot eba and ogbono soup. 🏃‍♀️

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  2. I added four phone numbers numbers from the post and contacted two via email.

    I contacted no 1, during the chat he said he is married and needs a companion that's his reason for participating.
    I stopped chatting with him almost immediately, since he is married.

    Contact two, sent a message via WhatsApp, we got talking, shared pictures and it was getting smooth I think. That weekend(friday), he invited to a restaurant, we met, ate and had conversation before, during and after the meal then board a bus together. We went separate ways, after alighting from the bus. Two days later, he invited me again, to an estate, getting their I realised it was a house. He said he didn't have light in his house that's why he came to visit his friend but he isn't home. Getting into the house,  he led me into a room(what's this?). I was observing sha, then he started asking questions, what do I like, how I want to be loved? Do I want to be his girlfriend this and that(questions plenty).

    Before I could say, Jack Robinson, uncle carried me on the bed and wanted to kiss me, claiming afterall I'm his girlfriend. Haaaa, I insisted and tried standing up from the bed and he was trying to persuade me. I told him I'm not comfortable sitting on the bed as I prefer sitting on the plastic chair I was sitting initially. Then I stood up, sat on the chair and adjusted myself.
    Then I told him I'm ready to leave, then we left together, I boarded a bus to my area. He chatted me later, asking if there is anything I want to tell him and I said no.

    Uncle stopped talking to me since that day, but I say hi few times afterwards. That was the end of whatever it was.

    Third contact, we didn't go beyond introductory stage as he just blanked out during communication.

    I didn't bother to contact the fourth person.

    The other two email address I contacted, didn't reach out after introductions too...

    Abeg, I don face front, i don leave SNM.

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    1. The Golden Rule4 March 2023 at 13:58

      You have tried. Focus on building healthy real life relationships. Connect with old school mates and childhood friends. Develop yourself. Attend relevant conferences and events. Fall in love with yourself and be joyful. God will remember you and settle you in your home. Stay safe both online and out there.

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    2. 😂🤣😹
      No.2 took me out

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    3. Wow ! This is interesting.

      I don't understand what Google is doing to me, l can't comment with my ID.

      Licious babe

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    4. You entered somebody's house?
      Somebody you don't know????
      Mehnnnnn.
      Won't even bother saying what I want to say, it's of no use.

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    5. You are lucky you were not raped. I'm surprised after that experience, you still want the communication to continue. You should have blocked him immune you entered the bus.

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    6. You actually followed a stranger into a house and into a room? Someone you contacted less than a week ago? You were meeting for the second time? Not like you both have been friends for long o. That is how they use you girls for rituals or rape and rob you girls. What if he had raped you in that room after pushing you to the bed?
      When you saw it was a house, you should not have gone inside. Following a man into a hotel room or a room in a house can lead to rape or something worse.

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    7. Why would you follow him into a house? What if they had used you for rituals or raped you? You don't know if others were hiding inside the house waiting for him to bring a victim. You don't follow a man you barely know into a house or hotel room. I hope others learn.

      All these prostitutes that do such, some of them have jazz that protects them, others already signed off their lives , whatever happens to them, they are ready to take it.

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    8. It is well oh.., thank God the no2 guy nor force himself on you.

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    9. You have mind oh, a man you don't really know invited you to his so called friend house and you went there all alone, he led you into the house and into the room you still followed him, hmmm, na so dem dey use pigeon knack una for head, he gave you an excuse that there is no light in his own house, must you meet in a house? Second meeting why can't you meet in a restaurant or open place?

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    10. You were even bold enough to accept his invite and go look for him at home😳u get mind o,u entered someone’s house,no fear of been overpowered or even raped? 😳😳😳omo!
      Someone close to me had an experience like this,and since then she has never remained the same again mentally,we ladies have to be really careful and smart.

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    11. Can't believe what I just read. You weren't even scared for your life ???? Seems you people don't learn at all.
      Aunty Kwantinue oooo

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    12. Sorry I just have to ask, how do you reason.
      So many worse things could have happened. Is it that you don't value your life or sanity.

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  3. Met someone from the last SnM. I've been to his house, no female presence or kids. He's nice to me, I cook and clean, and care for him in bed, whenever she's around because he works in another place which he didn't mention. But there is a part of the house under lock, he doesn't open it up I've tried, no way. I asked him to open it let me clean, he said I shouldn't bother, it's a 6 bedroom and I've only been in his bedroom. He says he's single, but no talks of marriage. I recently stumbled on a child's toy when snooping around when he left me at home to buy some stuff. I'm in my mid 30s, and of he's not gonna marry me or open up, he better let me go. I have caught feelings o, but dude has tons of girls on his phone, which he has never brought home, Or so he says.

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    1. Just abort mission, don't exhaust your emotions for a married man, it won't end well.

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    2. Hmmm. Dude seems married with family abroad. You be side hen o.

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    3. Why are you cleaning his house? I personally think you are doing too much for someone who can't even let you into all the rooms in his house. Please slow down until he shows signs of commitment, better still puts a ring on it.

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    4. If you really want marriage, at your age, pls leave that man. He is a time waster.
      The room under lock is where he bundled all the evidence of his marriage and kept. Maybe his family is not in Nigeria or they are in another state where he says he "works".
      All these girls that just want to catch fun, rub my back I rub your back kinda thing is what suits him.

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    5. Na wa o, you don start wifely duties already.

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    6. Imagine!
      This is how some men heap curses on their heads and that of their innocent children.
      Why lead a girl on since you don't want to marry her and she wants marriage. You are married or divorced, you did not open up, you are making her catch feelings and wasting her time.
      This is the type of man I would have loved to do evil to, if I was single. I
      did not even fall prey to such men in those days cos I was smart, if I notice you are not serious, we chop each other for a while and I dump you and waka before you do the dumping. No catching of feelings no matter how rich or generous you are.

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    7. He may still marry you as his Nigerian wife or Lagos wife (depending on the state you are)

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    8. Dude is obviously rich, a poor man cannot be living in a six bedroom house alone. It is the money that made you catch feelings and instead of leaving you are there saying he should let you go, did he chain you?

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    9. You care for him in bed as what? Una no define una situationship? That man is married and you know it, you have not seen a husband yet.

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    10. @15:24
      Have you heard of the word "caretaker" and the plenty uses of it in property holding?

      What if the owner is out of State or country, and has his personal things the locked room?

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    11. Na mistress and one of his sex toys you be.

      HE IS HAPPILY MARRIED.
      Be wearing pant and bra de clean person nonsense.

      Dante go soon apper

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  4. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 He should let you go as per Pharaoh ba?
    I'm sure deep down you know na original dead end you enter.🚶‍♀️

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    1. She knows, she already saw evidences.
      The goodies that she is seeing will not let her leave

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    2. 🤣😂🤣🤣🤣 so funny. he should let her go as
      per Pharaoh 😄😄😄😂😂😂😂🤣

      Licious babe

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    3. 🤣🤣🤣
      God that gave her two legs will just be shaking his head.
      The truth is that some women do not know who they are… when you grow into who you are what you want and you don’t want, you will never settle.

      I also wonder why she is cleaning his house.


      Push up (original)

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    4. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣14:50, you are not a 'nice' person, lol!
      Aunty is still asking questions, oya continue baby.

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    5. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 na real pharaoh, olojukokoro somebody.14:50

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  5. Many guys are here to play, they don't take SNM hookup seriously, it's just the mindset they have.

    Though I meet my ex-fiance here sometime ago in 2016 SNM, he was an exception, only probs was I didn't feel love for him.

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    1. There are still some serious minded men here. Though they are not many

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  6. I forwarded the SNM to potential Men on my contact list of marriageable ages doing well for themselves, looking for wife.

    They weren't interested, further affirming many just come here to play.

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    1. There are serious men and ladies here , not many though.
      Some come here to play, both married men and women, scammers, oloshos, gigolos, etc

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  7. Well, as for me, I didn't plan on participating but read through the comments and gave 2 guys a shot.

    Both guys aren't BVs, they were linked to participate.

    The first guy was okay but from our conversations I knew he wasn't the one, I didn't want to waste my time building connection and be struggling financially to foot any bill, so I politely informed him, it won't work, I was honest with him.

    Second guy was cool at first, for a short moment I thought we had a chance, only for him to come up with the idea of lodging overnight in same hotel room oo for Val. I laughed so hard and gave him a stern warning never to try that shit with me. I blocked him straight.

    Both conversations lasted 48hrs.
    That's my story ✌️

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    1. Second guy was looking for someone to knack on Valentine's day. You want to lodge with a girl you met barely 48hrs ago to celebrate lovers day, you don fall in love be dat abi? He should have just looked for an olosho to use for that day

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    2. I'm telling you and he was claiming he didn't mention sex was going to happen that we will keep it real..
      Real in the same hotel room doesn't mean sex? Kia
      It's was so 🤣🤣 and annoying, many of them aren't serious.

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    3. God bless you, some are not financially bouyant , they are still struggling, I know one on the island, I met him here,tho I used another email to participate in February single and mingle, he still added me, God abeg

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  8. There are many followers of SDK that don't even comment, they just wait for SM and boom you read different stories and encounters. Na waa

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    1. Must everybody that reads the blog, comment?

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  9. There are many followers of SDK that don't even comment, they just wait for SM and boom you read different stories and encounters. Na waa

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  10. Hello Stella.
    I got a call from a dear friend and legal practitioner about 2weeks before your SM, he is wants me to connect him with a good single lady cos he's divorced with a child and he's in his child's life.
    Fast forward to the SM, I sent him the link and encouraged him to participate or chat up anyone he's interested in.

    Unfortunately, because of time difference, by the time he got round to it, the comment section has been closed.
    So I encouraged him to go through and check if he likes anyone.

    Long story short, he finally contacted and started conversation with this single lady with a child, I was pleased.
    Less than 48hours of establishing contact, she asked him to 'lend' her some money, promising to pay back once she's paid at work.

    It was quite weird and embarrassing to say the least.
    I told him to please abort mission.
    I dislike people that doesn't have decorum.


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    1. 🤣🤣🤣

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    2. 😂😂😂
      Abeg, can I get his contact if he's not problematic.

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    3. I pray he gets a woman by himself out there. If not, you will not allow him to enjoy his love life, you will be controlling the relationship. The man too doesn't know what he wants what is hard in telling her you are not comfortable with that or ignoring? You had to report to your middleman and cut off the relationship because your Friend said so. Mtcheeeeew.




      Watch as they will come and say I'm the lady. Me that I'm married with kids 🤣🤣🤣

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    4. Did your "dear legal practitioner friend" tell you how he sent me a video of a girl using stick to fu*k herself? Did he tell you how mad I was that he sent that to me not even up to 24hrs of chatting with me? Your "dear friend" lied about his age, he's nothing less than 57 but he's claiming 48, he's not even divorced yet and he wants another relationship? I used the money method to send him away cuz I wasn't bold enough to tell a man old enough to be my father that I am not interested. P.S: I am doing so well in my career and I promise you, I am not lacking! You are just too jobless being nosey! Leave your "dear friend" to get a woman of his choice by himself without you meddling. At his age, he still needs someone else's assistance to make decision? Its a pity.

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    5. At anon 9:05 you don't mean it. I don believe it😳😳😳

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    6. The Original ShugarGirl5 March 2023 at 15:23

      What just happened??? 😲😲😲😲😲😲

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    7. At anon 09:05, abeg shift with your lies. If he did something you didn't like, why didn't you tell him plainly that it won't work between you two? You had to use your agbero strategy to beg money and you come here to whine us. Dey play!

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  11. Participated in the June 2021 edition. I am based in Canada but dropped my email. Narrowed my contestants to 2 great men. One was yoruba the other was Akwa-ibom. They both where not aware that I was abroad so I played the role of a food seller based in Abuja. They both liked me and I also liked them.... but here was when I made my decision. We talked about meeting up and the one who lives in Lagos told me that he would be very glad if I would be able to travel down to Lagos due to his busy schedule hmmmm. Afterall I am a food seller and own my business which makes me more flexible. The Akwa-ibom man on the other hand pleaded with me that Akwa-ibom to abj is quite far but he will use his savings to take a flight down but that he wants to ask for a favour. He begged I allow him stay at my place since he will not have enough money to book a hotel. I said under one condition and he asked what it was and I said so long as he is willing to follow me to a nearby police station to report that he will be staying with me a few days when he arrives. He was happy I was security conscious and said it's ok with him. We kept talking through email, asked about his family and all the things I needed to know to be safe and I found that he was a humble man who did not have much exposure. I later opened up when I could no longer hide. He was a bit disappointed as he was eager to come meet the food seller lol. I apologized and explain my reasons. We switched to whatsapp and started talking, voice calls, video call and so on. We dated for 1yr and 6months and on d 7th month which was this past December of 2022, I decided to visit Nigeria to meet him for the 1st time. Oh my heart was satisfied and filled with joy!!! Oh he felt like a compensation for all I have been through. At the airport he looked at me and said babe...if I was told to pray for a partner I would never have been able to pray for anything close to you at all. We hugged and my friends came to celebrate our love as they all could see that my farmer guy was nothing but a sweet soul. I traveled from Abuja to Akwa-ibom and saw his whole family. Oh his parents where just so loving. You could see that they where not pretending to like me bcos I am from abroad. I stayed at the one bedroom self contain I asked him to rent for us. Afterall instead of spending 40k a night in a hotel, I decided we rent a place and put the basic. We had mattress on the ground,fridge and gas. Oh the heat in nijia almost made me mad but I endured and watched this man treat me like a queen with the little he had. We got married in a small court ceremony and I stayed till the end of January and came back to Canada. Hmmmmm it was a blessing my breathen... thank you SDK for allowing God use your platform to bless me.

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    1. Congratulations! I luv this, may God bless your home.

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    2. Congratulations to you and yours. This your story sweet me o. Glad you found your missing ribs

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    3. Soooooo happy for you. I pray your relationship continued to grow and grow 🥳🥂💃 congratulations!!

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    4. Awww I enjoyed reading this. Congratulatobia. May God proper your union.

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    5. O wow 😮.There are still good people out there indeed


      Tutu

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    6. Congratulations to you and happy married life full of martial bliss through.

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    7. Awwwww, congratulations babe, I love love.

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    8. Sounds romantic. Enjoy marital bliss.

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    9. Women are you observing how she tested these men.
      If you like be hanging legs on ceiling fan.

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    10. I think I know this person. He's a very close family friend and I'm sure if he reads this he will know who's writing.And I bin dey vex for am say him marry him no tell me.

      Yes poster, he is a very good Christian,very calm and quite intelligent. Na this nonsense country happen to am. The family is a very god-fearing family too.
      Congratulations

      Hope

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    11. See me screaming in my house
      Ohh my God
      Thank you Jesus

      Now ladies, look
      I am so happy for you both
      May God bless your home, amen


      Push up (original)

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    12. Aww.Congratulations💕💕

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    13. Congratulations darling

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    14. This your story too sweet

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    15. Awwww congratulations

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    16. Such a beautiful story. God bless your union.

      Sluttychic.

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    17. Awwww! Congratulations to you poster. To find this type of man for naija now no be moimoi. The sincerity for me. Be happy and may your union remain blessed 🙌. I read your post many times and i'm so happy for you.

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    18. Awwwwwwwww this is it!
      I love THIS.
      Congratulations and here's wishing you both marital bliss.

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  12. I participated in the one before the last. Where I work, you are not allowed to use your phone during working hours, so I don't get to check my phone till evening.
    One evening, on checking my WhatsApp, I saw greetings (Hello. Hi) from two different numbers. I checked them on true caller and realised the numbers belonged to same person.
    On the first chat, I greeted in response. The second chat, I greeted too and politely told the young man that, he shouldn't have used another number to chat me up, that I would have responded to the first, no matter how late.
    The first chat, he replied normally. The second one, he typed, "Aunty sorry oh. Good bye". I laughed so hard and replied, "Uncle, sorry oh, bye bye". (Or something). Somehow, I could feel/sense, there would be "trouble" with this person later on. I blocked him and faced front.
    Few hours ago, after how many weeks/months guess who called?! The guy! (Note, he could call me cos, that sim is on a small phone, that can't block numbers. Again, I had to use true caller on my android to know who the caller was, then realised he was the one. (I picked but didn't say anything. I do so, for few seconds when a strange number calls. I ended the call and checked the number on TV)
    I didn't even know I would come meet SnM feedback on the blog.

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  13. Some people participate for diz, you send dem message but dem go read ya message and not reply, Dat Wan na pride or wetin? Y u put ya detail here if u no say u no go reply message? Some pipu character dey bad

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    1. I didn't reply cos I felt we are not a match.
      I listed what I wanted and all and I said those who fell in that category should contact me.
      You know so well that you are not in that category and I don't like wasting people's time neither do I like it when mine is wasted.

      I wish you the best and I pray you find a living person who'd love you and your child unconditionally.
      Love and light.

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    2. You don't have to ghost someone. How would you feel if you were ghosted? Politely tell the person that things won't work between you and why, then move, instead of leaving somebody hanging.

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    3. 16:28 ...atink you see how 17:47 wrote?
      Go back and look at your juvenile script.
      You too obviously can't gell.
      If you reach out writing like a toddler, I too won't respond.

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  14. Any man weyy join singles Mingle just to chop ladies here and clean mouth wey no serious, na God go punish una, amennn

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    1. Before nko , most men that participate are only looking for convinient pu**y

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  15. Must everyone comment?? myschewwe

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  16. There is one silly rat here he called himself vin , an engineer based in Lagos, his number start with 08068****** , he's a married man, he's been participating in single and mingle for many years, he's only looking for free coochie to chop and rich ladies, ladies beware.....

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    1. 🤣🤣
      See as I dey laff....
      Thought as much, he is the no2 I mentioned up there, who almost raped me.

      He claimed he works with house of Chi.

      May God continue to expose them

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  17. One yeye man added me asking how chubby are you, I know the voice very well , I just blocked the werey... He's always participating in single and mingle shoooo🤣

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  18. 1. I contacted one guy who claims to be living abroad. Guy man started asking for my nudes.

    2. A guy contacted me and started telling me sub stories of how he is struggling, only on responsible for his family and asked if he could come live with me since he doesn't have any accommodation.

    3. This other guy contacted me and we were really going on fine. Good communication etc went to visit his home and he really respected my body but his problem is anger. He can get for Africa and won't talk to me for days. I have already falling in love with you but with his anger problem, I decided to end things

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    1. Love Scam Buster4 March 2023 at 18:43

      No. 2 is Muyiwa, that's one of his format.
      Thank God you ran.

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    2. Live with you kwa🤣🤣🤣🤣. Stella ,you have some funny characters on this blog o.

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    3. 18:43 No 1 is Akachi Mark Njoku. Inside the 'abroad' of Malawi.

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  19. There's this serial love scammer people should avoid. His name is Nelsons aka as his excellency. I don't know if Stella would approve me putting his contact details but he's just like MM.
    Tells you he stays in the States or Dubai and shares pictures of important people he has met with you. Tell you how he just came back to build this and invest in that. He then lay back waiting for the right time to strike.

    Please beware.

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  20. Love Scam Buster4 March 2023 at 18:03

    Muyiwa Gbenga, a serial love scammer not just in SDK but in other platforms I wouldn't want to mention here. He goes by others names too when one casts but this is his most used or popular one.

    He tells you that he's into tech and just got a job with the yellow and recently moved into the city you live in.
    He asks for 50k to fix and fuel his car (he owns none except he just bought one this evening) cos the bank blocked the account he has money in and it would only be unlocked on Monday but he really needs to get his car fixed this weekend.

    Sometimes he also comes like a struggling guy who just finished service and needs money to prepare for certain interviews. In fact this particular one has plenty formats that I cant finish mentioning today.

    Again if Stella would approve, I will share his contact.

    Please beware.

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  21. Love Scam Buster4 March 2023 at 18:14

    Then Michael, this is a walking bitter soul. He goes by other names too. I've called him out here a couple of times and I noticed some comments lately calling him out again.

    He's married or was married but I don't know who did otumorkpo on his head.

    He chats you and automatically wants to control you almost immediately. He's a beast and goes from one SnM to another looking for who to devour.
    I don't know if he's an agent of the devil. He uses a certain guy's picture as his but during my investigation, i found out that he's not one.
    He tells you that he sleeps with sales girls in the market and expect you to be okay with it.
    I'm yet to fully finalise my investigation on him but I noticed someone already dropped one of his contacts here. I can drop others if it would be approved.

    Please be ware.

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    1. 😀😀😀😀😀. We really have them on this blog. Make una no spoil Stella good work abeg.

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    2. I approve.
      Drop it.

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    3. The guy is definitely Mental. His using Michael, Obiora

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  22. This guy I was chatting with said he works for a multinational in the uk. While at work he can’t be on his phone except during break time. He refused to say the name of the company or what he does for them. He also said he’s a Nigerian politician. So, I asked, a politician working for a multinational? He took the question for sarcasm and condescension but I was only trying to get to know him lol 😂. Anyways that was where everything ended… we moouveee!

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    1. Love Scam Buster4 March 2023 at 18:47

      Sounds like Nelson's format. He had used similar format in the past.
      Please beware

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  23. Love Scam Buster4 March 2023 at 18:38

    There's this one I'm yet to get his real image but I'm still on it. He said his name is Tony but it's false. I will put out everything when I'm done finding out about him. But I'm sure he's originally from Rivers state.

    He started by asking if I'm on social media but I told him that I had no account. When we chatted for some time he requested for pictures of which I asked that he sends his first while I snap and send since I'm not much of a picture person.
    Lo and behold. Oga sent me pics of my cousins who stays abroad. Of course he claims he stays abroad but I found out he stays in Rivers state. My cousin is clean, handsome and takes really good photos but the guy played himself cos I played along.
    Said he's flying to come and meet me and stranded at the airport cos his cards are not working in Nigerian POS. Kindly transfer to do and so account number and I will reimburse you in dollars as soon as we see.
    I immediately sent him a pictures of me and my cousin he was using his pictures and told to check for the payment receipt. Oga was shocked that he blocked me immediately cos he himself can't even stand his lies.

    He also reached out to my friend who participated with another format but same photo. To her he said he's in Nigeria but would soon be travelling back. Requested that she should help him pay into a certain account to as he can't find a place to change dollars due to the present challenge and pay double as soon as his bank manager friend comes back from his vacation the following week.
    I'm currently using my friend to track him.
    Please beware.


    Don't come and cry wolf tomorrow and say that people knew but did nothing.
    Read all above and beware.

    I would continue but I need to get a life here.

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    1. Weldone! 👍 Love Scam Buster

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    2. Leave them. 18:38
      They see countless chronicles and comments on these scammers every day but will still dive in headlong.
      Stay there and be waiting for someone to write hardback textbook and give you in order to warn you. Mtshewww

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    3. I hope this Tony is not the same Tony as the popular male bv that was reported on the blog some years back

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    4. you are not wise. he is a bv yet you came here to share this stupid story saying you are still investigating him using your friend. he will see this your comment and you think you will still bust him?

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    5. Meanwhile, that PH and Lagos houses some of the most useless men including married men on this blog.
      Those days when I was still single. Plenty of them from these two states would contact me, some of them were married men and they would be asking for nudes. They won't tell you they are married o, just do a little investigation on them, you will see pics of them and their beautiful wife and cute kids.. I would then wonder why a man would want to jeopardize such a beautiful family because of worldly pleasures. They don't know that some girls can destroy their family if you decieve them and they find out.

      That fair married man in PH always chasing girls around on this blog, hope you have repented now, if not, your doom is near

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  24. Thanks scam buster and others exposing scammers on this blog. You are saving people ooo.

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    1. I participated in the SnM of almost two years ago. I met this very amazing guy here. Tall fine guy. Total package without the money Sha☺️ but that will come. Before I was finally able to see someone I love and who loves me back ehn.😟 Marriage is in view but we do not know when that will be possible. Na God hand that one dey.
      Dude has a job that all he earns is spent on transportation and and plenty expenses. I on my own, what i earn is just enough to take care of me and my daughter. Nigeria na wah,!!!
      Been quite a while I commented because of my new work schedule

      We do have good guys here but very very few.

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    2. Red flag 🚩. He can't take care of you o.

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  25. One man has been chatting me with different numbers and different stories of how he sleep with both married and unmarried women,but his preference is underage secondary school boys....that he will be glad if I can go from school to school to organize teenage boys for him to defile,He told me of many dirty acts he has indulged in and how his wife left him because he swings both ways,He has been abusing me in text,calling me with different numbers claiming he is trying to settle me and his male friend but I know he is same person from his voice,he managed to send me 1k,and sent a text that I should refund him because I stopped taking his calls and chatting with him...I don't know why I will ask to meat banana and orange will step forward,

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    1. Why don't go to police and report this pervert so they can track him and arrest him

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    2. You still went ahead and collected money from such a sick man? Are you that hungry? I'm very angry at your greediness and foolishness

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    3. I’m even surprised 23:50. A very useless man that derives pleasure from defiling underaged boys is someone you accepted money from.
      God have mercy!!

      Sluttychic.

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  26. Nobody has contacted me since then,
    Surprisingly a message came in today, telling me "I got your digits from a blog known as SDK, can I get your bank details?"

    I just laughed in my mind. Me that didn't even apply using my phone number and he is saying he got my number from SDK. If he has my number, then why did he reach my via mail. Or maybe that's not what he meant to say?

    What does he need my bank details for? Lol.
    They have come again o. We have not discussed anything and you are asking for details , your otumokpor no fit work for my side

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    1. He needs your bank details so he can use your full names to do research on you and know your capacity. It might be that he wants to use it for juju. It might also be that he is a scammer like Mark Morgan who gives you 5k and later scams you of 50k

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    2. He may be one of those you had contact with in the past who has your number. If he contacted you through email, maybe it was an error, probably it is a copy and paste line that he uses for girls and forgot to edit it and type "email" instead of phone number. Block him everywhere. No man contacts a girls for the first time and asks for account details. Only scammers and ritualists do that

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    3. 23:58 🤣🤣🤣🤣 at your last line, you know their format

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  27. Hmmmm nawa for scarmees o.

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  28. Met one sometimes in 2018.... Acted real n boom we got married.
    Buh he is the real definition of werey dey disguise. He won't talk to me for days buh only comes for nacks n den goes back to his old shell. Na so I pack my bag leave the werey alone oooooo...... Uncle is still begging till date..... Moya ba ese mi soro... TKB

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    1. Na real mad man. So sorry that he wasted your time and gave you a divorcee tag. God will wipe your tears with a good man

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  29. I will never try this again, I wish I can delete my comment. Na all the scammers mentioned previously contacted me, most especially the one of jekel ventures with phone no zero eight zero three seven three one four eight two eight scammed me oooo, calling me all sorts of names simply because I refuse to be scammed again. That man with the no above is a mad man.

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    1. Me too.

      I wish I can even find my comment to delete, it's been quite awhile and I actually forgot until I got add ups from maniacs last year. Fortunately, the line I used was for that purpose so I just deactivated the WhatsApp and threw away the sim.

      The last experience left a very bad taste in my mouth that I decided to stop being active on here. It helped that I bought a new phone so can't use my ID.

      Found another blog tho, few Nigerians both home and abroad, mostly expatriates from all races and countries and most of all, not Nigerian owned so no giveaways.

      Q**** used to be like that but nigerian scammers are messing us up seriously.
      I stumbled upon it and never told a soul. No toxicity and beggy beggy and definitely no scammers/"real men".

      I haven't met anyone there and don't intend to yet now covid protocols is no longer in effect and I'm even busier than ever, it's good to have friends of 'like minds' for once.

      Stella meant well unfortunately, but unless she does something about it, they will continue with their shenanigans and multiple heartbreak chronicles will not stop it.

      AMETHYST

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  30. Since how many years now, you are still gathering money to get married, you told a woman you are dating to date other guys while you gather money, no reasonable woman will take you serious cos you truly are not serious. Pls stay away from single and mingle until you know what you want to do with your life. Stop wasting people's time and data.

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  31. Stella I met my husband December 2014 S&M...amazing man.I was based in Houston and specified I wanted someone based in the US.It turned out he was just 15-20minutes drive from my house.
    This man is tall, dark, handsome, intelligent, hardworking and most of all,an all round kind and amazing husband and father. It was a long and turbulent road.i had to relocate from the US to UK for work, for about 3 years.He waited for me.I got back and we got married the same year.I took in for our son the same year too.He is my destiny...and we still keep talking about how we found our love in the most unusual place..SDK.Thank you Stella.We cant forget your role in this our love story.

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    1. Why can't some guys be real like your hubby? God bless your home.

      This is how S&M should be.

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    2. Congratulations

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  32. "She seems desperate for marriage and I was willing to let her date other guys while I put resources together for a possible wedding"

    How much is registry wedding????

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  33. wish l can delete my details on the single and mingle. The kind of mails l receive most times. I feel somehow
    The people that dupe me in August 2021 through Facebook still monitor me enter this blog. Even Single and mingle 2021 edition l still dey receive mails till date. Na becos they have my email address already. But l won't fall for their trick, they have been using different format, na dem go tire.
    Wicked and lazy set of people.

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  34. Stella you are doing a very good job keep it up, from my observation here many of the ladies here are immature and not serious. They want to get settled but they re not mentally and emotionally prepared.

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