Mama please leave your 9 year old, allow her to grow the hair now, give it some time before you start introducing shaving of pubic hair for her , and when you start remember it’s trimming and not total shaving ๐ช. Let her bring out all the hair she wants and don’t be bothered on her behalf. Teach her how to rinse/wipe her private properly after ever toilet activities both home and school/church.
Pls don't use shaving cream for a 9yr old. Shaving stick is fine. It should be used in one direction. E.g, downward only all through. After shaving, wash and apply Funbact A cream on the shaved area to avoid bumbs. You can do this for armpits too.
I can't recommend hair removal on pubic hair cos it also gives bumps just like the ordinary shaving stick. You can get Gillette Mach 3 or Turbo shaving stick.
All this early puberty causing these things. How can a 9 yr old already be bushy. Please, if it is possible get her on a more natural diet, and cut out the processed and high sugar food. Teach her how to wash herself properly to prevent odours.. I really feel bad for this child. And please trim her so she has more control over her hygiene. Sanitize the scissors by wiping a wet cotton ball soaked with rubbing alcohol on it.
Only 100% cotton underwear. Also remind her to dry herself properly before putting on her underwear.
Scissors is your best bet. If you shave it completely, it’ll grow back thicker and grow wilder self. Small scissors to trim it down and also like anon 16:45 mentioned, speak to her gynecologist to rule out any abnormalities. For a 9 year old, that’s a lot at this age. I never see hair at all in my private part when I was her age. But then again she might if she’s naturally hairy. Goodluck.
Na this post I been dey read and trying to process when the cab man carry me go where I no know. I had to treck from a far distance down to the junction I was meant to stop
Please is there a way to contact EMS Nigeria. The Chinese University sent my original admission letter and jw202 for processing the visa since 9th March and till now I can't get it. Ems in Ondo State said they've not received any parcel from Lagos for the past 3 months. Tracking it through EMS official website says departed customs, Shanghai Hongqiao International Apt. Calling Nigeria EMS customer care and the number is switched off ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ. Please any idea on getting my documents? I have to get to school before June.
In the meantime, consider writing the school and letting them know of the challenges you are facing( if you have evidence to backup your claim, attach it). If you have the funds, request they use dhl or ups. Specify that you will cover the charges on receipt of your document(s).
i am confused which to go for between deep fryer and air fryer. The main aim is for frying my arish potatoes, meat, fish with small quantity of oil. Please tell me which is best to go for.
Hi @15:29,there is a download button on YouTube app,it enables you download and watch on that app alone when offline(no data)..
Another option is to copy the link when you find the video on YouTube,then go to “SAVEFROM dot NET” and paste the link in the box provided,then click the download button.. This helps download any YouTube video into your phone Gallery..
Pregnant and have eczema on my face. Very itchy. Am not dirty Please what can I use? I know it’s as a result of my pregnancy. Will anything work? Or I should just leave it like that.
Buy sulphur from all these local women. Buy the powdery one, it is very yellow in colour. You can also buy #100 worth of shea butter and mix them together in a small container. Apply the mixture on the affected part.
My 6yr old is very emotional and gets visibly heartbroken when you do or say things to hurt her.Hubby says she's just blackmailing me emotionally and I should maintain my firmness.What do I do about her.I have other children and they are not like that.
what i will say is that every child is unique in their own way. You should pay more attention to this child to be sure is not emotional blackmail. Your child could be an emotion person who little things make them cry. Just draw that child more closer to you.
Another thing ask questions from the teacher in school to be sure that child is not doing that alone to you. Above all put it in prayers.
Therapy As a parent take time out everyday to talk her through certain experiences and how she should react. There’s this color wheel filled with plenty feelings you can make to suit you, then ask her how exactly she feels in certain situations. Also create a healthy reaction so she knows how to cope.
If it’s also manipulation, learn to nip it in the bud before she becomes a manipulative adult. When you give an instruction, be firm while explaining why it should be done. Also remind her of your love for her but don’t let her get her way
Listen to your husband, those type of kids need special treatment from the other parents,do not give in, she has to be strong at home and whenever she is out. Remember you won’t be there all the time to pamper her. Remove your eyes ๐ when she tries to get whatever she wants . She go adjust by force.
Do not brush aside her emotions. Raise the child you have not the one you think she should be. Speak kindly to her at all times, explain why things are being done a certain way. Validate her emotions and personality. Do your best to understand her, she is only 6yrs old, she is nowhere close to maturity to understand this world and how it works. Guide her
Do you spread your underpants outside for the sun to dry it or you hang them inside the bathroom? Do you take your bath every night? Go to the pharmacy and get a drug to stop the itching. Not being sexual active doesn't mean you won't get infections. All the best .
Poster It could be candida...Please spread your underwear in your bedroom that is airy..Don't spread in your bathroom....Also make sure you spread out your towels in your balcony or veranda and ensure you wash them frequently....Stop wearing panties to go to bed except on your period.. Invest in cotton panties than nylon or lycra.
Get boric acid vaginal suppositories from your local pharmacy
It may be your pubic hair irritating you or the soap you use. If you can afford to buy all new underwear, 100% cotton. If you cannot afford to, then wash all your everyday underwear with an antibacterial bath soap, like dettol bath soap.
It happened to me but it stopped during my next mensis. Just wait till then. But you need to check if it's as a result of an infection though because I am yet to confirm the cause of mine
When is the right time to tell a child he is adopted. He is 16. In University. He has started acting unreasonable. Hardly calls or acknowledge kind gestures.
So is this information meant to rein him in? Please tell him in love when you are less angry with him. Adoption is a privilege, an opportunity given to you to care for a child. Don't make it seem as though you've done him a service. May God reward our good deeds
He is at the age of knowing, but then again his recent behavior should be a case study now. Find out his ungrateful attitude and behavior for now before he truly know his identity. Do not tell him about the adoption story so that he doesn’t get worse and wayward. Some adopted children are very lovely ๐ฅฐ and fill in the gap of biological children, while some ll stain your white at the end of the day. Poster don’t be discourage.Goodluck!
Pls poster this is not the right time.u need to understand that he is in his teens now, adolescence and stuff if u tell him now,there's no knowing what will happen next.pls first try to correct this his new behavior with love and scolding.then when he has adjusted,u can hit him with the news.if I were u,I ll do it when he is 18.my 2 cents.
Pls poster this is not the right time.u need to understand that he is in his teens now, adolescence and stuff if u tell him now,there's no knowing what will happen next.pls first try to correct this his new behavior with love and scolding.then when he has adjusted,u can hit him with the news.if I were u,I ll do it when he is 18.my 2 cents.
Poster I believe he has found out hence his sudden change of character. Many of these adopted kids can frustrate the parents that adopted them eh.
16yrs old? You think at this age nobody has told him? His classmates must have heard it from their parents and when they get to school they keep reminding him of it from time to time. Some may even tell him that they wish they were adopted like him because they believe adopted kids and an only child enjoys their parents love and attention alone... Now the boy sees himself as a trophy that you can't do without. Madam you need wisdom from God to make any decision you want to make because these kids don't send your feelings at all. He has known this since primary school days but if you, from your mouth, let him know he is adopted in a harsh manner he may frustrate you the more- this depends on his personality though. From your explanations I sense that that boy doesn't rate you so it will be wise that you don't tell him his condition when you are angry. And before you reveal to him, wait for the next time he will offend you. Then pray to Hod to change him , then this is what you will do when he offends you: Don't yell, just beckon on him, ask him to sit, then talk to him like this(you have to be emotional when doing this. Allow tears to roll down your chin) ...'Emeka , why did you choose to frustrate my life? Why do you derive joy in stressing me emotionally? Emeka I am gradually getting mentally drained by your unreasonable attitudes. I am tired of the kind of motherhood I am in right now. I feel jealous when I see how other mothers are respected and loved and even cherished by their kids. I see kids who don't joke with their mother's emotions and I ask God why my own is different . I have just one and I don't have peace of mind. He doesn't even consider it necessary to make my happiness his priority. Every thing is just about himself alone . How will I cope at old age with you Emeka? Emeka you do not care about me and I fear that you will make me get old too soon with the way you are draining me emotionally... Let all that be said to him in a solitary place. Maybe where only you and your husband is present . When you have done that please endure till next year before you let the cat out of the bag. You don't need to rush this thing that you want to do o o o. Human phycology should be applied here. Next year you tell him the secret but don't you do that when you are angry pleeeease! Otherwise you may regret every doing that because he may show you shege when he makes it in life. Out of anger he may even disown you by himself. Because you have rubbished his ego. For a long time he may pretend that he is not angry at your outburst but you may be surprised one fateful day he wakes up and tells you that he is not doing this mother and son stuff with you again , that he wants to go and hustle on his own. They usually show their main wickedness in the higher institution or when they graduate and start finding their feet. By then he may say: it is better for him to join yahoo than to depend on you, after all he has the money to buy land anywhere and build a house and get married and start another family and his wife and her family will be the only family he may want to have if he marries a woman he truly loves. May God minister to him for you
My friend used to have the smoothest face but just after clocking 40 pimples and dark spots are all over her face. Her monthly flow reduced and she says when her hubby suck her nipples breast milk comes out. Just yesterday someone ask her if she's preggy cos she has added weight infact she's fat now. Someone said it could be hormonal imbalance. Pls could it be it and is there a remedy or solution.
13:52 if it is whitening you are after, don't waste your money on longrich. I dont have a suggestion. The only help I can offer is to not let you waste money.
16:15 have YOU done it? Do you know anyone who has successfully achieved white teeth by swishing oil in their mouth? Or just relying on what Google told you?
16:15, I have sensitive and cannot whiten my teeth with traditional methods or whitening toothpastes which irritate my sensitivity. Oil pulling is the only method I have used and it works perfectly. I have been doing it for years now, no issues. However, sometumes I fall off and as soon as I start again it works again. Coconut oil works the fastest and produces the greatest white imo. I use extra virgin coconut oil.
Hello house. Please can anybody who understands or is into the palm oil business explain more on the business. What is the best time/ period to start buying palm oil for storage? Where can the best palm oil be sourced? How about marketing it? Is it late to buy now and sell later? Please any details from anyone will be appreciated. Thank you in advance
Good afternoon bvs Pls help me with suggestions. My baby's poo is hard and he cries before he poo. He only feeds on light pap, milk and breast. He also drinks water.
Please apply Vaseline to his bum and around the abus after each poo because he definitely will experience tear. Try giving him baby juice or purรฉe to soften his tummy. Do you eat bread, if yes, you have to stop of soak it inside your tea before eating. You should also consider eating lots of fruits and vegetables for his benefit.
I was the bv that was expecting multiple babies (triplets)and as God will have it, I gave birth to my babies two weeks ago to twin boys.
Thanks @ martins and other bv that suggested coconut water as the first thing to give to your baby once they're born to avoid colic, I did it and it works for my babies.
Pls I need advice on how to increase my breast milk, what can take so to have enough breast milk?
To all ttc, the same God that bless me with this cuties will bless your womb and cause you to carry your own children in Jesus name Amen ๐
Awww Kwin!! Congratulations!! Pap Palm wine Very thick tea Soaked garri(I've not tried it o, but they say it works) And most importantly, very good baby formula. Because you cannot coman kee yourself ๐ Congratulations!!
Congratulations ๐๐๐ For the breast milk, make your pap very watery and drink it as often as you get hungry. Another option is tea. Another option is palm wine ๐.
Congratulations Buy a well prepared dry soya milk, (or you can prepare it yourself, check YouTube), make sure you put it generously in your pap or tea and see wonders. From personal experience though
Congratulations to you Ma'am. Take lots of water, pap and palm wine. Also add pregnacare breast feeding, the DHA in it helps your babies' brain development.
The almond milk that was recommended for those who have fibroids, i want to know if we should go for the liquid one. The ones i saw in the supermarket are all liquid, i do not have fridge but a freezer. You all know that ones you put something inside the freezer na block straight.
Get a ziplock bag, share the milk in quantities you use per ml, then freeze. When you need it, just pick one and use. You can always reuse the ziplock bag. Just wash and dry.
I ll suggest since it's liquid milk use and finish a day, then plan towards having a fridge even it's a table top ,to avoid food poisoning via oxidisation liquid milk it's not something you can just be mixing and re keeping at will. Still check YouTube if you can see if there is sachet almond milk if there is none, then saving towards a table top or buy and finish at once it's ayour option Good luck
I'm going to the market to buy materials do I can sew 2-3 be sheets and pillow cases.I figure it will be cheaper to buy and sew it there. Does anyone know how much a yard of material costs and how many yards I need for a 6by7 bedsheet? Thank you.
Hello house. Please can anybody who understands or is into the palm oil business explain more on the business. What is the best time/ period to start buying palm oil for storage? Where can the best palm oil be sourced? How about marketing it? Is it late to buy now and sell later? Please any details from any from anyone will be appreciated. Thank you in advance
If you are at the East,Aba or IMO,ask those market women for “Ahia Bush” or Bush market..
It only opens every four market days;and it’s a Big market where village farmers bring all their farm products in wholesale from Garri to Fufu to oil,vegetables and literally everything you eat.so it’s a direct supply;no intermediary..
It’s okay to buy now,for storing use a thick wood on the floor then keep the oil on top,cover the oil well and it would stay as long as you intend(in a cool dry place too)..
Marketing is either online or offline;maximise the tools online with sponsored ads and you will make money..
Please my bumbum is full of pimple kind of rashes and i have suffered for this rashes for over 19 years it started since 2004 till date, and i have been going to different hospitals all these years and series of test has been done and all manner of treatment has been given to me all this years, yet no improvements and none of the hosipals could tell what it is. In 2017, i stared noticing another one like watery itchy bump that always apear at the upper part of my bumbum which always come and go till date. I went to the hospital to complain about that and syphilis test was carried out and it came out negative and treatment was given to me yet no improvement.i don't know what to do again.
Buy Panoxyl or Zapzyt Benzoyl peroxide wash and use it on that area. After washing, dry off and use Vaseline. It will clear off. Sleep naked so that fresh air can circulate through. Avoid using hot showers as this can trigger it. If this doesn’t work, please go see a licensed dermatologist.
G.B.O is pronounced just as spelt in the alphabets..
When you get to Alaba international,tell Keke or Bike to stop you at St Patrick’s Bustop,then enter another bike there and tell them to drop you at G.B.O
If you can speak Igbo while negotiating prices;best for you cos any attempt at phonetics increases prices for you..
I believe I own my nails and know the difference between a cuticle and nail bed. Loll, if you ladies can't give advice politely, then expect reciprocated energy and enjoy it as well.
I use Sebamed baby wash to bathe my baby and I noticed small small rashes on his body making his body not to be smooth like before. I was using smooth care before but changed it to Sebamed because of the recommendations. Have used it for just 2weeks. Should I continue using it or should I stop using it? Will the rashes clear at the long run?
Nne why you de suffer the poor baby. You are not supposed to change products like that for babies because their skin is overly sensitive and any little extra chemical gets into their blood stream. If your cutie wasn’t reacting to first product, kindly discontinue the second and return to the first. I used Cussons product for my baby till he was 2 before I switched to Himalayas baby product. There weren’t any reactions. Also when buying baby products, please read through the ingredients and research online for negative reviews as to what other mothers might have seen on their babies.
Please stop listening to peoples’ suggestions and speak to a pediatrician. Take care of our cutie or I go fight you ๐ฉ
Sebamed is a very very good product, soaps or the creams. If your child is reacting to it, then stop using it and switch to the one you have confirmed on his skin.
Pls BVs in Portharcourt, what areas accessible to the university would you recommend? Might be relocating to PH soon from Abuja and I really need an affordable area with reasonable light, security & water
Radio FM road, close to rumuosi. Very steady light, secure, water of course. Affordable kinda. One bedroom can be like 400k or so. Alakiya(my spelling๐), you can manage the light, security I dunno o. One bedroom 250k Aluu๐... Well. These areas are close to the school.
Good afternoon BVs ,can anyone recommend a reliable and trustworthy shoe and bag seller, that sell in wholesale.I am into shoe and bag business but my present supplier is just taking advantage of me because I have no alternative
If you live in Lagos, please enter balogun and got American plaza. Make inquiries about the best selling wholesaler and strike a dealership. Better still, write ASOS, let them know your intentions. Take it from there l. I used to do something of such with asos way back before dollar went up. Another option is go to Aliexpress and seek out a good manufacturer there. Chat with them and exchange WhatsApp contacts. You will be amazed how it will go. After awhile, let them know you are any to visit the country and require their invitation letter. They will come through for you.
Truly,IVF is your best bet. You may end up wasting money and time doing other things that may not work. Just go do IVF straight. Price ranges from 750k-1.5 m depending on your location. I wish you all the best.
your doctor is in a better position to answer this question. There are other means of conception but it all depends on your test result. I will say you should see a doctor in a good fertility clinic to carry out some tests and see if there are other ways you can conceive. Some people in the waiting room do not need IFV.
Wait till after the first day of your missed period and check with preferably early morning pee. Avoid drinking alot of water beforehand. Everyone's symptoms differ infacr in some cases its similar to PMS. All the best. May God grant your heart's desire
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My soon to be 9 years old daughter's private is very bushy ,is it too early for her to start using shaving stick?
ReplyDeleteUse scissors.
DeleteGod help me oooo is this what I will doing too Ehen 9yrs with bushy private God help this generation of kids.
DeletePlease don’t use shaving sticks.. use hair removal creams on the upper area.
DeleteShaving sticks gives bumps
Push up (original)
Mama please leave your 9 year old, allow her to grow the hair now, give it some time before you start introducing shaving of pubic hair for her , and when you start remember it’s trimming and not total shaving ๐ช. Let her bring out all the hair she wants and don’t be bothered on her behalf. Teach her how to rinse/wipe her private properly after ever toilet activities both home and school/church.
DeleteMummy Anthony-Clever
if you have this portable rechargeable clipper use it, it will not give her bumps. shaving stick will give her bumps.
DeletePls don’t use shaving cream pllsssss oo nitori olorun instead buy the shaving stick with 5 blade
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@Excited courtesy, you want them to cut her clitoris? It's too early for clippers, please.๐
Use scissors to lower it. Shaving stick comes with bumps
DeletePls don't use shaving cream for a 9yr old. Shaving stick is fine. It should be used in one direction. E.g, downward only all through. After shaving, wash and apply Funbact A cream on the shaved area to avoid bumbs. You can do this for armpits too.
DeleteI can't recommend hair removal on pubic hair cos it also gives bumps just like the ordinary shaving stick. You can get Gillette Mach 3 or Turbo shaving stick.
DeletePrudent Tabitha
All this early puberty causing these things. How can a 9 yr old already be bushy. Please, if it is possible get her on a more natural diet, and cut out the processed and high sugar food. Teach her how to wash herself properly to prevent odours.. I really feel bad for this child. And please trim her so she has more control over her hygiene. Sanitize the scissors by wiping a wet cotton ball soaked with rubbing alcohol on it.
DeleteOnly 100% cotton underwear. Also remind her to dry herself properly before putting on her underwear.
Madame speak to a gynecologist. Your concerns is for a child of 9yrs old. A health practitioner is the best person to get such advice from.
DeleteAnony 16:45...๐ค
DeleteThe point,apt.
Thank you all for your responses I appreciate
DeleteScissors is your best bet. If you shave it completely, it’ll grow back thicker and grow wilder self. Small scissors to trim it down and also like anon 16:45 mentioned, speak to her gynecologist to rule out any abnormalities. For a 9 year old, that’s a lot at this age. I never see hair at all in my private part when I was her age. But then again she might if she’s naturally hairy. Goodluck.
DeleteNa this post I been dey read and trying to process when the cab man carry me go where I no know. I had to treck from a far distance down to the junction I was meant to stop
DeleteHahaha slim shady๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ you dey crazeee I swear! Come on read other questions.๐
DeleteGood to be here
ReplyDeleteI will like to know spiritual benefits And uses for palm kernel oil.
Thank you.
Please is there a way to contact EMS Nigeria. The Chinese University sent my original admission letter and jw202 for processing the visa since 9th March and till now I can't get it. Ems in Ondo State said they've not received any parcel from Lagos for the past 3 months. Tracking it through EMS official website says departed customs, Shanghai Hongqiao International Apt. Calling Nigeria EMS customer care and the number is switched off ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ. Please any idea on getting my documents? I have to get to school before June.
ReplyDeleteIn the meantime, consider writing the school and letting them know of the challenges you are facing( if you have evidence to backup your claim, attach it). If you have the funds, request they use dhl or ups. Specify that you will cover the charges on receipt of your document(s).
DeleteStella pls how can I reach this person
DeleteHow can I reach you? I work there.
DeleteI use Ems a lot. Can give you numbers they'll pick. Their cust service head and nahco area GM.
Delete@arike herbs thanks. Please can you drop the numbers
Deletei am confused which to go for between deep fryer and air fryer. The main aim is for frying my arish potatoes, meat, fish with small quantity of oil. Please tell me which is best to go for.
ReplyDeleteI advice Air fryer..
DeleteGo for those with multi-functions like microwaving,defrost,Grill,bake etc,so as to save cost.
Brands like Lexical,Breville,Tower,cook works and more..
Hope this helps..
@MARTINS
Listen to marthins,it also promotes healthy living and eating imagine d litres of oil u LL consume in a deep fryer.airfryer is ur sure plug . cheerio.
DeleteHello Martins how do I download that children's song Sharkie doodoo doo on YouTube. The data I burn is over the roof.
Delete15:29, download YouTube kids app and save all the sing alongside to watch offline. You will not regret it.
DeleteHi @15:29,there is a download button on YouTube app,it enables you download and watch on that app alone when offline(no data)..
DeleteAnother option is to copy the link when you find the video on YouTube,then go to “SAVEFROM dot NET” and paste the link in the box provided,then click the download button..
This helps download any YouTube video into your phone Gallery..
Hope this helps..
@MARTINS
Pregnant and have eczema on my face.
ReplyDeleteVery itchy.
Am not dirty
Please what can I use? I know it’s as a result of my pregnancy.
Will anything work? Or I should just leave it like that.
Use cacatin or damatol on it
DeletePlease go see a dermatologist. Take caution when applying anything on your body during pregnancy.
DeleteBuy sulphur from all these local women. Buy the powdery one, it is very yellow in colour. You can also buy #100 worth of shea butter and mix them together in a small container. Apply the mixture on the affected part.
DeletePrudent Tabitha
Sulphuric???? While she’s pregnant???. Na wa oo
DeleteMy 6yr old is very emotional and gets visibly heartbroken when you do or say things to hurt her.Hubby says she's just blackmailing me emotionally and I should maintain my firmness.What do I do about her.I have other children and they are not like that.
ReplyDeletewhat i will say is that every child is unique in their own way. You should pay more attention to this child to be sure is not emotional blackmail. Your child could be an emotion person who little things make them cry. Just draw that child more closer to you.
DeleteAnother thing ask questions from the teacher in school to be sure that child is not doing that alone to you. Above all put it in prayers.
Therapy
DeleteAs a parent take time out everyday to talk her through certain experiences and how she should react.
There’s this color wheel filled with plenty feelings you can make to suit you, then ask her how exactly she feels in certain situations. Also create a healthy reaction so she knows how to cope.
If it’s also manipulation, learn to nip it in the bud before she becomes a manipulative adult. When you give an instruction, be firm while explaining why it should be done. Also remind her of your love for her but don’t let her get her way
Push up (original)
Listen to your husband, those type of kids need special treatment from the other parents,do not give in, she has to be strong at home and whenever she is out. Remember you won’t be there all the time to pamper her.
DeleteRemove your eyes ๐ when she tries to get whatever she wants .
She go adjust by force.
Mummy Anthony-Clever
Your hubby is right if she does not do same to him. Kids are in the front of blackmailing business
DeleteDo not brush aside her emotions. Raise the child you have not the one you think she should be. Speak kindly to her at all times, explain why things are being done a certain way. Validate her emotions and personality. Do your best to understand her, she is only 6yrs old, she is nowhere close to maturity to understand this world and how it works. Guide her
DeleteMy clitoris scratches me these days. It makes me uncomfortable. I am not sexually active. What can I use pls.
ReplyDeleteDo you spread your underpants outside for the sun to dry it or you hang them inside the bathroom? Do you take your bath every night? Go to the pharmacy and get a drug to stop the itching. Not being sexual active doesn't mean you won't get infections. All the best .
Deletesee your doctor.
DeletePoster It could be candida...Please spread your underwear in your bedroom that is airy..Don't spread in your bathroom....Also make sure you spread out your towels in your balcony or veranda and ensure you wash them frequently....Stop wearing panties to go to bed except on your period.. Invest in cotton panties than nylon or lycra.
DeleteGet boric acid vaginal suppositories from your local pharmacy
Buy Canesten cream from pharmacy, wash the area, dry and rub, it's around 2k plus but it works like magic.
DeleteDon't see any doctor before they will use you to build another hospital. It may be candida infection, see a pharmacist
DeleteIt may be your pubic hair irritating you or the soap you use. If you can afford to buy all new underwear, 100% cotton. If you cannot afford to, then wash all your everyday underwear with an antibacterial bath soap, like dettol bath soap.
DeleteIt happened to me but it stopped during my next mensis. Just wait till then. But you need to check if it's as a result of an infection though because I am yet to confirm the cause of mine
DeleteWhen is the right time to tell a child he is adopted. He is 16. In University. He has started acting unreasonable. Hardly calls or acknowledge kind gestures.
ReplyDeleteSo is this information meant to rein him in? Please tell him in love when you are less angry with him. Adoption is a privilege, an opportunity given to you to care for a child. Don't make it seem as though you've done him a service. May God reward our good deeds
DeleteNo time is too late.
DeleteIs time to let the child know about his adoption. I don't like adopted children that will be acting strange and stressing those who adopt them.
DeleteTell him, if he hasn't found out somehow.
DeleteHe is at the age of knowing, but then again his recent behavior should be a case study now. Find out his ungrateful attitude and behavior for now before he truly know his identity.
DeleteDo not tell him about the adoption story so that he doesn’t get worse and wayward.
Some adopted children are very lovely ๐ฅฐ and fill in the gap of biological children, while some ll stain your white at the end of the day. Poster don’t be discourage.Goodluck!
Mummy Anthony-Clever
Could it be he has found out?
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
Go on ahead and tell him right away
DeleteIs it necessary?
DeleteAny need for disclosing such information?
Na wah!!!๐ฒ
If he is behaving that way because he has found out then he is quite stupid and truly ungrateful.
DeletePls poster this is not the right time.u need to understand that he is in his teens now, adolescence and stuff if u tell him now,there's no knowing what will happen next.pls first try to correct this his new behavior with love and scolding.then when he has adjusted,u can hit him with the news.if I were u,I ll do it when he is 18.my 2 cents.
DeletePls poster this is not the right time.u need to understand that he is in his teens now, adolescence and stuff if u tell him now,there's no knowing what will happen next.pls first try to correct this his new behavior with love and scolding.then when he has adjusted,u can hit him with the news.if I were u,I ll do it when he is 18.my 2 cents.
DeleteYou need a full family therapy,this issue is beyond FAQ post.
DeletePoster I believe he has found out hence his sudden change of character. Many of these adopted kids can frustrate the parents that adopted them eh.
Delete16yrs old? You think at this age nobody has told him? His classmates must have heard it from their parents and when they get to school they keep reminding him of it from time to time. Some may even tell him that they wish they were adopted like him because they believe adopted kids and an only child enjoys their parents love and attention alone... Now the boy sees himself as a trophy that you can't do without.
Madam you need wisdom from God to make any decision you want to make because these kids don't send your feelings at all. He has known this since primary school days but if you, from your mouth, let him know he is adopted in a harsh manner he may frustrate you the more- this depends on his personality though.
From your explanations I sense that that boy doesn't rate you so it will be wise that you don't tell him his condition when you are angry. And before you reveal to him, wait for the next time he will offend you. Then pray to Hod to change him , then this is what you will do when he offends you:
Don't yell, just beckon on him, ask him to sit, then talk to him like this(you have to be emotional when doing this. Allow tears to roll down your chin) ...'Emeka , why did you choose to frustrate my life? Why do you derive joy in stressing me emotionally? Emeka I am gradually getting mentally drained by your unreasonable attitudes. I am tired of the kind of motherhood I am in right now. I feel jealous when I see how other mothers are respected and loved and even cherished by their kids. I see kids who don't joke with their mother's emotions and I ask God why my own is different . I have just one and I don't have peace of mind. He doesn't even consider it necessary to make my happiness his priority. Every thing is just about himself alone . How will I cope at old age with you Emeka? Emeka you do not care about me and I fear that you will make me get old too soon with the way you are draining me emotionally... Let all that be said to him in a solitary place. Maybe where only you and your husband is present .
When you have done that please endure till next year before you let the cat out of the bag. You don't need to rush this thing that you want to do o o o. Human phycology should be applied here. Next year you tell him the secret but don't you do that when you are angry pleeeease! Otherwise you may regret every doing that because he may show you shege when he makes it in life. Out of anger he may even disown you by himself. Because you have rubbished his ego. For a long time he may pretend that he is not angry at your outburst but you may be surprised one fateful day he wakes up and tells you that he is not doing this mother and son stuff with you again , that he wants to go and hustle on his own. They usually show their main wickedness in the higher institution or when they graduate and start finding their feet. By then he may say: it is better for him to join yahoo than to depend on you, after all he has the money to buy land anywhere and build a house and get married and start another family and his wife and her family will be the only family he may want to have if he marries a woman he truly loves.
May God minister to him for you
My friend used to have the smoothest face but just after clocking 40 pimples and dark spots are all over her face. Her monthly flow reduced and she says when her hubby suck her nipples breast milk comes out. Just yesterday someone ask her if she's preggy cos she has added weight infact she's fat now. Someone said it could be hormonal imbalance. Pls could it be it and is there a remedy or solution.
ReplyDeleteAnything is possible with hormonal imbalance. Your friend should see a doctor.
DeleteHer hormones are way off
DeleteShe should go for hormonal imbalance test (all of them)
Push up (original)
Take what Push Up said.
DeleteLet her do the test. She may be placed on vitamins.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Please recommend a whitening toothpaste dat actually works or any other remedy for teeth whitening, thank you.
ReplyDeleteGo for long rich toothpaste.
DeleteJust go and do teeth whitening, I think it’s about 30k in some places.
Delete13:52 if it is whitening you are after, don't waste your money on longrich.
DeleteI dont have a suggestion.
The only help I can offer is to not let you waste money.
Try oil pulling with coconut oil, it will whiten your teeth. Use Google or You Tube to learn about it.
Delete16:15 have YOU done it?
DeleteDo you know anyone who has successfully achieved white teeth by swishing oil in their mouth?
Or just relying on what Google told you?
16:15, I have sensitive and cannot whiten my teeth with traditional methods or whitening toothpastes which irritate my sensitivity. Oil pulling is the only method I have used and it works perfectly. I have been doing it for years now, no issues. However, sometumes I fall off and as soon as I start again it works again. Coconut oil works the fastest and produces the greatest white imo. I use extra virgin coconut oil.
DeleteWhich Coconut oil? If I hear๐
DeleteBuy Crest 3D Professional Whitening Paste Kit and while at it please avoid anything carbonated drinks or cold.
Good luck!
Please don't waste your time with coconut oil.
DeleteHello house. Please can anybody who understands or is into the palm oil business explain more on the business. What is the best time/ period to start buying palm oil for storage? Where can the best palm oil be sourced? How about marketing it? Is it late to buy now and sell later? Please any details from anyone will be appreciated. Thank you in advance
ReplyDeleteThis is the best time to buy. There are good oil in all state that produce. Just get a trusted person. So as to avoid buying bad or mixed oil
DeleteAnon I can be suppling it for you, from Enugu. Please contact Stella for my number.
DeleteBikonu what is vlog
ReplyDeleteGoogle it.
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DeleteGood afternoon bvs
ReplyDeletePls help me with suggestions. My baby's poo is hard and he cries before he poo. He only feeds on light pap, milk and breast. He also drinks water.
Add fruit like orange, and watermelon. Please see a doctor.
DeleteAh. Abi it's to be giving him more water? Or reducing the milk? Or change the formula?
DeleteWhether me I'm being helpful now sef๐คฆ
What you eat that forms the breast milk is what’s causing the constipation
DeleteWhich milk does he use for his Pap?
DeleteIf it’s adult milk then kindly stop;use Nan1 if you can..
Also take enough fruits and vegetables alongside anything you take as a mother..
A neighbour years back was using peak milk sachet for her Baby pap and when corrected everything stopped..
Hope this helps..
@MARTINS
Please apply Vaseline to his bum and around the abus after each poo because he definitely will experience tear. Try giving him baby juice or purรฉe to soften his tummy. Do you eat bread, if yes, you have to stop of soak it inside your tea before eating. You should also consider eating lots of fruits and vegetables for his benefit.
DeleteGood afternoon, Martins and others please which site can I use to download Korean movies? Thank you
ReplyDeleteNetnaija and waploaded
Delete9ja rocks and fz movies too
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DeleteNkiri dot com is the best.
DeleteTry it
I was the bv that was expecting multiple babies (triplets)and as God will have it, I gave birth to my babies two weeks ago to twin boys.
ReplyDeleteThanks @ martins and other bv that suggested coconut water as the first thing to give to your baby once they're born to avoid colic, I did it and it works for my babies.
Pls I need advice on how to increase my breast milk, what can take so to have enough breast milk?
To all ttc, the same God that bless me with this cuties will bless your womb and cause you to carry your own children in Jesus name Amen ๐
Awwww;congrats KwinG..
DeleteFor breast milk,take enough pap constantly;works well like magic..
Would also advice you alternate with other Baby foods and milk because no matter how your breast milk rush;it can’t satisfy your triplet..
May God provide for you all that is needed to take care of your triplet..Jisie Ike!
@MARTINS
Awww Kwin!! Congratulations!!
DeletePap
Palm wine
Very thick tea
Soaked garri(I've not tried it o, but they say it works)
And most importantly, very good baby formula. Because you cannot coman kee yourself ๐
Congratulations!!
Congratulations to you
DeleteCongratulations ๐๐ฅณ God bless and keep them
DeleteCongratulations to you
DeleteCongratulations ๐๐๐
DeleteFor the breast milk, make your pap very watery and drink it as often as you get hungry. Another option is tea. Another option is palm wine ๐.
Congratulations.
DeleteWelcome twinnies.
Thank you so much.
DeleteCongratulations KwinG
DeleteAwww... I want triplet too.
DeleteCongratulations to you and happy parenting
Congratulations
DeleteBuy a well prepared dry soya milk, (or you can prepare it yourself, check YouTube), make sure you put it generously in your pap or tea and see wonders. From personal experience though
Congratulations iya Ibeji. Wishing all the TTC women here pregnancies this year.
DeleteCongratulations to you Ma'am. Take lots of water, pap and palm wine. Also add pregnacare breast feeding, the DHA in it helps your babies' brain development.
DeleteCongratulations
DeleteThank you all. I wish I can appreciate everyone's comments. God bless you all
DeleteThe almond milk that was recommended for those who have fibroids, i want to know if we should go for the liquid one. The ones i saw in the supermarket are all liquid, i do not have fridge but a freezer. You all know that ones you put something inside the freezer na block straight.
ReplyDeleteGet a ziplock bag, share the milk in quantities you use per ml, then freeze.
DeleteWhen you need it, just pick one and use. You can always reuse the ziplock bag. Just wash and dry.
I ll suggest since it's liquid milk use and finish a day, then plan towards having a fridge even it's a table top ,to avoid food poisoning via oxidisation liquid milk it's not something you can just be mixing and re keeping at will.
DeleteStill check YouTube if you can see if there is sachet almond milk if there is none, then saving towards a table top or buy and finish at once it's ayour option
Good luck
I'm going to the market to buy materials do I can sew 2-3 be sheets and pillow cases.I figure it will be cheaper to buy and sew it there. Does anyone know how much a yard of material costs and how many yards I need for a 6by7 bedsheet? Thank you.
ReplyDeleteWhere I live, it's 800 naira for a very good one. I buy 4 yrds, depends on how well covered you want it to be. And I use 1 yard for 2 pillow case
DeletePlease dear blog visitors.
ReplyDeleteI need advice oo I'm officially a graduate now and I want to know the business I can start with 40k
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Moi moi roadside
DeletePure water
charcoal
Akara with akamu
Food or drinks business be absolutely fine
DeleteIndomie business at a bustop or busy street..you will get your ROI before a month..
DeleteCarrot,indomie pack,pepper,onions,Gas,one dozen plate and spoon,one crate egg..
Learn the various cooking and frying style..
Two packs of small chilli-chiki and two eggs is #700..
Hope this helps..
@MARTINS
Hello house. Please can anybody who understands or is into the palm oil business explain more on the business. What is the best time/ period to start buying palm oil for storage? Where can the best palm oil be sourced? How about marketing it? Is it late to buy now and sell later? Please any details from any from anyone will be appreciated. Thank you in advance
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If you are at the East,Aba or IMO,ask those market women for “Ahia Bush” or Bush market..
DeleteIt only opens every four market days;and it’s a Big market where village farmers bring all their farm products in wholesale from Garri to Fufu to oil,vegetables and literally everything you eat.so it’s a direct supply;no intermediary..
It’s okay to buy now,for storing use a thick wood on the floor then keep the oil on top,cover the oil well and it would stay as long as you intend(in a cool dry place too)..
Marketing is either online or offline;maximise the tools online with sponsored ads and you will make money..
Hope this helps..
@MARTINS
Please my bumbum is full of pimple kind of rashes and i have suffered for this rashes for over 19 years it started since 2004 till date, and i have been going to different hospitals all these years and series of test has been done and all manner of treatment has been given to me all this years, yet no improvements and none of the hosipals could tell what it is. In 2017, i stared noticing another one like watery itchy bump that always apear at the upper part of my bumbum which always come and go till date. I went to the hospital to complain about that and syphilis test was carried out and it came out negative and treatment was given to me yet no improvement.i don't know what to do again.
ReplyDeleteBuy Panoxyl or Zapzyt Benzoyl peroxide wash and use it on that area. After washing, dry off and use Vaseline. It will clear off.
DeleteSleep naked so that fresh air can circulate through.
Avoid using hot showers as this can trigger it.
If this doesn’t work, please go see a licensed dermatologist.
Dear people, this Dr. Rashel products, are they effective?
ReplyDeletePlease which of the Nature in soap do I buy because I am a little be light,the black or green
ReplyDeleteHello Martins,where can I buy 1st grade kitchen utensils in Alaba market? I want to start the business of selling kitchen utensils... Thanks
ReplyDeleteInside G.B.O Alaba international market..
DeleteG.B.O is pronounced just as spelt in the alphabets..
When you get to Alaba international,tell Keke or Bike to stop you at St Patrick’s Bustop,then enter another bike there and tell them to drop you at G.B.O
If you can speak Igbo while negotiating prices;best for you cos any attempt at phonetics increases prices for you..
Hope this helps..
@MARTINS
Martin's thank you soooooo much
DeleteWhat can I use to make my bathroom floor and tiles sparkles. Looks so dull despite how I scrub it. Tiles are white.
ReplyDeleteGo where they sell tiles and ask for “Tile Cleaner”..
DeleteUsually #200 or soo per 50cl bottle…spread it on the tiles and leave for some mins,then return and scrub with detergent..
Any tiles it doesn’t wash off;means it needs replacement..
@MARTINS
You people who fix acrylic nails how do you cope with the pain when they are filing your nails? Arghhhhhhhhh.
ReplyDeleteIs the nail tech an amateur? Filing ain't supposed to touch your cuticle.
Deletefirst time i am hearing that acrylic nails are painful. Change to a new nail technician and see.
DeleteNo aunty, the nail tech is not an amateur.
DeleteI dont recall mentioning anything about cuticles.
Rude poster.
DeleteBlackberry and others know you don't file the tongue that causes the pain,it must have been your cuticle.
Relax please.
@17:31 rude much ๐คฎ๐คฎ
DeleteYou dey find advice untop bath mouth. Mtcheew
I believe I own my nails and know the difference between a cuticle and nail bed.
DeleteLoll, if you ladies can't give advice politely, then expect reciprocated energy and enjoy it as well.
I use Sebamed baby wash to bathe my baby and I noticed small small rashes on his body making his body not to be smooth like before. I was using smooth care before but changed it to Sebamed because of the recommendations. Have used it for just 2weeks. Should I continue using it or should I stop using it? Will the rashes clear at the long run?
ReplyDeleteStop it na. Every baby's skin is different. It's not everything that's good for other babies that will be good for your baby.
DeleteLook for something else.
Nne why you de suffer the poor baby. You are not supposed to change products like that for babies because their skin is overly sensitive and any little extra chemical gets into their blood stream. If your cutie wasn’t reacting to first product, kindly discontinue the second and return to the first. I used Cussons product for my baby till he was 2 before I switched to Himalayas baby product. There weren’t any reactions. Also when buying baby products, please read through the ingredients and research online for negative reviews as to what other mothers might have seen on their babies.
DeletePlease stop listening to peoples’ suggestions and speak to a pediatrician. Take care of our cutie or I go fight you ๐ฉ
Sebamed is a very very good product, soaps or the creams.
DeleteIf your child is reacting to it, then stop using it and switch to the one you have confirmed on his skin.
Mummy Anthony-Clever
Please, who know the best course to study online to boost ones certificate?
ReplyDeleteProject management
DeleteProduct management
Language courses
Caregiver for elderly and kids
Creative writing
Certificate in what?
DeleteAgriculture?
Pls BVs in Portharcourt, what areas accessible to the university would you recommend?
ReplyDeleteMight be relocating to PH soon from Abuja and I really need an affordable area with reasonable light, security & water
Radio FM road, close to rumuosi. Very steady light, secure, water of course. Affordable kinda. One bedroom can be like 400k or so.
DeleteAlakiya(my spelling๐), you can manage the light, security I dunno o. One bedroom 250k
Aluu๐... Well. These areas are close to the school.
There are many universities in ph.
DeleteGood afternoon BVs ,can anyone recommend a reliable and trustworthy shoe and bag seller, that sell in wholesale.I am into shoe and bag business but my present supplier is just taking advantage of me because I have no alternative
ReplyDeleteIf you live in Lagos, please enter balogun and got American plaza. Make inquiries about the best selling wholesaler and strike a dealership. Better still, write ASOS, let them know your intentions. Take it from there l. I used to do something of such with asos way back before dollar went up. Another option is go to Aliexpress and seek out a good manufacturer there. Chat with them and exchange WhatsApp contacts. You will be amazed how it will go. After awhile, let them know you are any to visit the country and require their invitation letter. They will come through for you.
DeleteGoodluck dear
Learn importation and import yourself;more profit..
DeleteThere is an alternative to everything when it comes to Biz..
If you don’t want to import,checkout finefunkycollections on IG,one of the best I have known in the bag game for years..
Hope this helps..
@MARTINS
Please is IVF the only solution to someone with Blocked Tube and also trying to conceive ?
ReplyDeleteTruly,IVF is your best bet. You may end up wasting money and time doing other things that may not work. Just go do IVF straight. Price ranges from 750k-1.5 m depending on your location. I wish you all the best.
Deleteyour doctor is in a better position to answer this question. There are other means of conception but it all depends on your test result. I will say you should see a doctor in a good fertility clinic to carry out some tests and see if there are other ways you can conceive. Some people in the waiting room do not need IFV.
DeleteIVF isn't the only solution, blocked tubes can be unblocked. There are drugs that work too.
DeleteIf your tubes are blocked, ivf straight!
DeleteOk now
ReplyDeleteMothers please, what were your earliest sign of pregnancy. I feel I am but the test stripe is still showing negative.
ReplyDeleteBest bet is doing a blood test at a lab to be sure…
DeleteNot more than 3k here;wish you all the best..
@MARTINS
Thanks Martins. I appreciate it
DeleteWait till after the first day of your missed period and check with preferably early morning pee. Avoid drinking alot of water beforehand.
DeleteEveryone's symptoms differ infacr in some cases its similar to PMS.
All the best. May God grant your heart's desire
Amy A, thanks a lot love. Just seeing your reply. Amen and may He grant you yours.
DeleteFidel do you stay at today FM?
ReplyDeleteI stay there and wondering how you know about steady light
Hi folks, please what’s the best hospital for IVF (sex selection) in Lagos.
ReplyDeleteThanks