STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ADVICE NEEDED
My married boyfriend is threatening to kill himself if I leave, he was crying all through yesterday, even at midnight he couldn't sleep, was just sending voice note. And I'm sure the wife will be bearing the brunt, because he always happy with her whenever we don't have issues and vice versa:
My married boyfriend is threatening to kill himself if I leave, he was crying all through yesterday, even at midnight he couldn't sleep, was just sending voice note. And I'm sure the wife will be bearing the brunt, because he always happy with her whenever we don't have issues and vice versa:
I just don't like the level he's taking the relationship to, I can't leave my marriage for him. He gave me free access to his life, in fact he checks with me before he does anything .
3 years relationship inside 7 years of marriage. how do I detangle myself
WHAT
Just dey play ๐☺️☺️
ReplyDeleteDey play oo
DeleteThings are really happening in this small world.
DeleteWhy do I find this chronicle incredible. Please only men cheat knowingly.
DeleteWahala๐๐๐๐.... Two of you are insane!!!!!!!
DeleteThis story I just read is unbelievable!!! ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ฒ
๐๐๐crazy people everywhere.
DeleteImagine both married people still playing boyfriend and girlfriend to each other, แปlohun ku suuru
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
You sound like the married side chic of the other bv who cheated (in vengeance) on her husband.
DeleteWell if you know you are truly over him and really want to detangle then just do it.
Remember why you picked your husband and stick to him.
Go back to God and ask for redirection, let Him strip you of all the things you have picked along the way and remold you.
Please also consider the other woman you are hurting, and just end it.
Push up (original)
Kill himself because you want to stop commiting adultery with him? Odiegwu! ๐ถ๐ถ๐ถ๐ถ
ReplyDeleteChaiiiiiiiiii๐ฑ๐คฆ
ReplyDeleteYou are a big FOOL.
ReplyDeleteSluttychic.
I don't have any advice to offer a married woman, that is sleeping with a married man that isn't her husband!
ReplyDeleteI would like to ask a question, though. Could he biologically be the father to any of your kids??
The man is selfish. See as a guy, you have free punani and nobody is coming to tell you about pregnancy stories or any std related issues, no be to die there be that? No hassles, no issues, just pure undiluted nacking! If na me I won't gree na. That kin sin dey sweet die.
DeleteThanks @16:29. That is what I tell my madam always. A man is sweet to a woman when he does not carry her burden, even if he spends hundred times on her. Unfortunately, most of the sweet boyfriends do not spend anything on what they eat.
DeleteHa๐คค๐คค. Not surprised though. Heard one like this over the weekend too. I think it's rampart among married people these days, if you can't stay with one man or woman please stay single
ReplyDeleteI kept writing and deleting.Make I keep quiet.๐ฅบ
ReplyDelete๐Walai she tried o, me i can't be this secretive dem for don catch me sinceeeee
Delete3 years of cheating... Haaaa, you strong o. Matter him as your second husband then๐๐
ReplyDeleteWhy do you people stay unfaithful in marriage? Why not free both your spouses and marry yourselves.
ReplyDeleteNawa!!!
They cannot because they are not good enough to marry themselves.
DeleteMarried people can date themselves Sha, like 90%.
ReplyDeleteNa wa oh. You should cut him off in every way already. Madam, you are married! If you want to continue with him get a divorce from your man at once. If this unhealthy relationship should be exposed today, the man will go on with his wife but you?
ReplyDeleteThis one na ment or malaria?
ReplyDeleteNa both๐คฃ๐คฃ
DeleteMentlaria ooo
DeleteBoth oo, my brother or sister.
DeleteBoth of u deserve the worst ๐
ReplyDeleteHmmm... The things that happen under the sun are much
ReplyDeleteYou dey find advise? Normally, dem suppose wipe you cord for neck make your sense come back
ReplyDeleteEnnie baby
Original oraimo cord
DeleteAsinn!!
DeletePoster, it is well with thee.
ReplyDeleteSo e don taya you now now?
Lord have mercy upon us ๐ง. Married woman dating a married man!!! Leave him let him kill himself,it better than one going to heaven than two going to hell.
ReplyDeleteWhat the heck?
ReplyDeleteUntangle yourself right this minute and watch him stay till next year without killing himself
Bunkum!
Why do I feel like I'm the one that sent this chronicle, this is also my predicament, I've begged for a break up and he won't yield, wants us to elope and get married despite having our different spouse.
ReplyDeleteIn the same boat too o. He's proposing relocating me to USA, he's a citizen but my husband is such a good man,can't abandon him like that, just needed to spice up my life,but guy man is so inlove that he ask me before sending money to his wife, bought properties in my name.
DeleteSeems like you don't know men
DeleteLol, it's a matter of choice, if you are ready to elope then all the best, I personal will not critize you. I have reason #smiles
DeleteAnon 15.43 wetin you rub for ya kpekus?wey e buy properties in ya nem?
DeleteJust do what makes you happy after all life no get part 2.
DeleteEweeeee!
DeleteO di egwu o
Polyandry for Nigerian women to sure
looooool
15:43, your married boyfriend takes permission from you before sending money to his wife ๐คฃ๐ you and that man are both idiots.
DeleteYou are the type that will raise hell if you find out your hubby has a side chic.
What you are doing now, may it be done to you.
Sluttychic.
Women and men don suffer... Madam, walk away. Stop leading these men on. No one is holding you back but yourself.
DeleteMarried ashawos, may you all be exposed.
DeleteDont believe it jor.
DeleteMarried women do not cheat.
Yimu, tell them to divorce their wives first and hear a different story.
DeleteIt's an epidemic, see responses back to back
DeleteAhn ahn
Help us Lord
Have mercy
Take it to the Lord in prayer. Na dis be real entanglement, not even spider web.
ReplyDeleteEHN! Some women have turned marriage into something else. You that is supposed to understand the need for marriage sanctity as a married woman, you are now the one disturbing the sanctity of another woman's home. May God forgive you and that he-goat Man.
ReplyDeleteFunny thing is people like her are the ones that raise their disfigured shoulder to oppress the singles. Lmao.
DeleteSluttychic.
17:16
DeleteThey always wear their marriage rings and very quick to flash it.
God !!!!! What did I just read?๐ฅต you even had the mouth to say My Married boyfriend?
ReplyDeleteWomen we can do better. Being a witch and an adulterous wife at the same time no make sense at all. I pray your husband or his wife catches you red handed. “Madame succulent fish” cos na you sweet pass , them go still use you renew their juju.
Mummy Anthony-Clever
Amen, I pray he and she catches them!
DeleteWow
ReplyDeleteWomen๐ณ
Ghen ghen. This is like my boss and one lady in our office. They act like love birds, shameless lot
ReplyDeleteHmmm,if I open mouth to talk my own , this blog go just close. Make I just waka pass, if you're not in this predicament please just don't try it o. We are both madly in love,as in madly , na me dey pull back sef if not , things go don spoil
ReplyDeletePlease talk your own make we use am do comparison
Delete๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃabi oo the gist sweet die
DeleteIf you both are madly inlove, and you are very sure, why not detach yourselves from your spouses and purse that rather than string these people in your lives along not entirely giving yourselves to them.
DeleteYour spouse also deserves true love
Push up (original)
Abeg talk oh
DeleteGodliness with contentment is great gain. Disentangle yourself from that entanglement. Go and sin no more.
ReplyDeleteSolution 1: If you were unmarried and his wife accepted his philandering, I would say work out an arrangement that everyone could be happy with. But with you being married, that's a confusion of epic proportions. However, if all parties wanted to be swingers then you could all get what you wanted and keep your marriages, untraditionally. Obviously, this solution is completely unconventional, and far fetched, as all parties would have to agree.
ReplyDeleteSolution 2: My dear, three years of cheating is like a completely different marriage. Neither of your spouses deserve such deception. We are all humans and we all fall at times, but you have to break free. Your presence even affects how he treats his wife, you are an intruder and so is he. This kind of free range marriage therapy you are both indulging in is no good. Leave this unhealthy and deceptive situation and let the chips fall where they may. He won't kill himself, he is just being melodramatic. He ain't no Romeo and you ain't no Juliet, so enough with the dramatics and go live right!
Her involvement also affects the way she treats her husband. The man go done suffa taya inside his manage called marriage.
DeleteI swear.The man must really be suffering in a marriage where the wife has been cheating for 3 years.But how can your wife be cheating for 3 years and you don’t know ?
DeleteWahala! Wahala! Wahala ooo!
ReplyDeleteI have said it before and I would say it again. This blog is full of saints! Everyone condemning the writer, yes what she is doing is wrong and I believe she knows the full implications, instead make una give her better advice, una dey condem her. Meanwhile, half of you lots have dated married men or still dating sef. Abeg, madam, sin dey sweet oh, but if dem catch una, as a woman, you will bear the brunt and get the short end of the stick. Think straight
DeleteDon't do that!
DeleteDon't generalize ma
Divorce your husband and marry him because your husband deserves better
ReplyDeleteThe best solution!
DeleteI had to read twice and don't even know what to type....
ReplyDeleteIf he tend to commit suicide because you don't want to continue in such sinful act with him then so be it..na him life not urs.
But u sef get mind oooooo
Married Ashawos chronicle. Your members will advise you
ReplyDeleteHe cannot kill himself but he can or will ruin your marriage. He will blackmail, expose and make your husband leave you. Start tying all loose ends and cut off from him if you want to stay married to your husband. But why una dey cheat sef?
ReplyDeleteThe things I've read here today. Married people are now the promiscuous ones. Tufiaa
ReplyDeleteWhat the goose has been doing the gander went further
DeleteNa wa o
God should please come already. What am I reading. Things dey happen o. Some of una go be leaders for church
ReplyDeletePoster are you for real? Pls stay away from him.this is wrong both in the sight of man and God
ReplyDeleteNawaoooo! You need to leave that relationship Asap! What did I just read? Why cheat in the first place? Please leave that relationship if you still value your marriage
ReplyDeleteWhat!this is wrong,even if he will kill himself,is better you let go of him and this terrible sin,you there not try it in my own tribe,it is a taboo,what you are doing now can either affect your children or even your husband, I mean it can lead to their death,stop it now........ Josaria
ReplyDeleteTell him that you reported yourself to your pastor and your pastor wants to see both of you to conduct deliverance for you guys.
ReplyDeleteNa wa for u madam, u no try at all, if na ur husband u catch u for come here de rant! May God grant u peace
ReplyDeleteSometimes if I read things here I de wonder if na true Chaii- Anyin
ReplyDeleteMadam ignore him and end the relationship, block his number delete every implicating message you have in your phone. If you see him on the road do as if you don't know him. if he tries to come closer tell him you will report him to the police that he is stalking you, change it for him stop being too soft for him; let him know you are done for real and you are not joking . If by chance he says he will commit suicide offer to get him the poison, tell him that if he dies at least you will have peace, don't allow him know you are afraid he is trying to emotionally blackmail you after all he is enjoying free pussy, no pregnancy stories how do you expect him to let go easily abeg commot fear and and tackle him once and for all peace.
ReplyDeleteThings dey really happen, and nothing should surprise anyone again.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm. People without modicum of shame
ReplyDeleteMarried women are actually the real side chick, na so mercy Aigbe take be side chick to friends husband now she's a co wife according to Islamic law lolz, i gat no advice for you Madam Married sidechick
ReplyDeletePoster you too like play๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ just continue.
ReplyDeleteDey play
ReplyDeleteYeye fowl and Cockrell
ReplyDeleteI beg this is funny. Reminds me of my single friend in the bank those days that followed her married boss for over a decade. As she had a baby for him na so the romance don die. Guy man Dey face him wife fully. All those stories of how he loves her don end. He can’t do without me and all don finish. Now na cry and lament galore.
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