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Hello Stella,
let me start by commending you on keeping it together over here, honestly oil dey your head, thumbs up and don't let naysayers deter u.
moving on!!

Some days ago I saw where a BV said she wants to trap her boyfriend with pregnancy please don't try it. let me share my small story.

I met this tall wonderful and interesting guy two years ago in a bank and we started gisting,(I gist a lot)I finished my transaction and left and I didn't see him when I was leaving.

A month later, my office sent me to visit a certain company and I did. lo and behold, the tall guy was the face of the company .

I was shocked but we just smiled at each other ,I did what took me, we exchanged contact and boom relationship started.

He really was something, a breath of fresh air always wanting to please me.i fell in love instantly, we talked a lot about our future he motivated me a lot. he met my family I met his cousin and the cousin's wife. 

He is Igbo and works in both Anambra state and my state of residence. i spoke   with his mum and sisters on phone, video calls and all .I couldn't get off work to travel.

Ok, we fixed date for introduction he kept wanting to tell me something then he would change his mind in a split second until one day he just broke down and wept before me, omo, I fear oh! 

This put together man what could make him weep like this?hmmmm, then he said it, he told me he was married with two kids.i died and came back to life.

married? How? it turns out his family were residing in Awka,but how?we speak on phone all the time and at odd hours too.

He always calls me or I call him he doesn't miss my calls unless he is in a meeting.video calls nko?very constant.

I was broken;i told him never to call me or come close to me.i left his house and went home to my parents.at about 8pm that night, his cousin called to let me know my man had slumped, my parents took me to the hospital where he was admitted.my mum and I slept there my mum is a nurse but becos the hospital was A bit far, she had him moved to her office which is closer to our house. his bp was off the hook when he could talk the next day, he kept apologizing and pleading with me, my mum asked me to leave and I did. he told her everything and the bp rose again I was called back but this time, my mum told his cousin to let his wife know.

She came the next day and immediately knew who I was when she saw me.she thanked my mum and I and took over.i left but I couldn't function, couldn't go to work, couldn't eat I was distraught ..2years,wasted just like that., his wife used his phone and called me to pls come back becos he was crying and calling out my name.my mum also asked me to return to the hospital like joke like joke I spent another 2 days with him and his wife.

He became like a baby, so helpless, the wife was really gisting with me like she knew me from somewhere and I had to ask her if she is normal and that was when she opened up and told me he doesn't luv her and has never loved her.

she said she trapped him with pregnancy so he was forced to marry her .she said his family have been in the picture of everything they tried to make him manage her that's when she took in for the second child.

she said she regrets ever trapping him becos he now hates her so much .she started begging me to please agree to marry him cos they were just waiting for final divorce procedure.

I asked after her kids and she said he is an amazing father he loves them so much and provides everything they need .his mum also showed up and was assuring me they were getting divorced. My mum told them I wasn't going to sleep there anymore as he was getting better and it was becoming a topic for discussion in her office.

I cried everyday for 2 weeks, my parents would hold me in their arms and pray with me and try to encourage me to move on.It was a painful time for me .I broke up with him with a heavy heart, my parents encouraged me to quit my job and I did. they relocated me to another state.it was hard at first but little by little I got over him.i ran for my life no need getting involved in their already complicated life; but I miss him dearly he really knew how to love me.

See how his wife complicated her life by trapping someone with 'belle'? I honestly pray they work things out for the children 's sake...........

What a sad story!.

Imagine the wife begging you to marry him, what a mess!