Friday, March 17, 2023
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Nothing wrong with this it's all about understanding.
ReplyDeleteHello people lots of ❤️
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DeleteThe way the country is at the moment, I think if a woman has the means she should help her husband as long as the husband is not lazy and is taking care of the family.
ReplyDeleteWe need each other and we must continue to support each other especially in this economy.
DeleteIt's not something bad but then I wouldn't encourage it or support it. A man should try and do as his hands can carry him. Them no dey do woman head thing finish.
ReplyDeleteSecondly, some women are very nagging and will eventually use it one day during quarrel. Such a woman will even demand for a refund.
Them no dey owe woman money ooo. You fit owe them and still give them the world, yet they will always demand for that little you're owing them.
You just described my boyfriend.
DeleteHelping is ok , as long as it is appreciated and the man knows it is majorly his responsibly and the woman Is just helping out.
ReplyDeleteIf the man is a responsible, then it's no big deal helping in footing some bills at home.
ReplyDeleteA man shd be financially capable of footing his marriage, dat shows dat he is man enough and ready for marriage. At least on the wedding way he will be dancing with pride.
ReplyDeleteStellz, I am interpreting the question to mean they are already married.
ReplyDeleteVery few men in today's world can manage on their income alone. This is the reality of the times, both spouses must work and contribute financially. I don't believe in half and half, because men still outearn women in the majority, so who is earning more should contribute more.
Yes, there are still men who can easily cover all expenses on their own because their income is so great. That's a different level of peace of mind for a family.
There is nothing wrong with it as long as the man is also helping around the house too.
ReplyDeleteThere is absolutely nothing wrong about it, women should assist their husbands with footing bills. I am not saying the woman alone should foot bills but sharing the bill will do the marriage good.
ReplyDeleteI will assist my husband with the bill when I finally get married, I will never allow bills to send him to his early grave.
A woman is an help meet for the man, paying part of the bills shouldn't be an issue to a woman that have a job or business she's doing. I don't support footing all the bills except the man has nothing doing as a means of income.
ReplyDeleteWomen are helpmates,so no qualms in being supportive
ReplyDeleteIt’s very Necessary and important that a woman should willingly support.
ReplyDeleteMummy Anthony-Clever
Don't start what you cannot finish...
ReplyDeleteSo many women are the main breadwinners in many homes across Nigeria. I contribute in my home too.
ReplyDeleteI can do that, as far as my husband understands that I am only helping him and he says 'thank you ' everytime I do. T
ReplyDeleteYou are only helping him? This is just entitlement. If you decide to grow a family...it's a joint responsibility. Una go dey want equality but at same time wnt the man to foot everything. You are not doing him a favour by contributing your quota to the family. Smh
DeleteNo biggie for me. So he can also relax and live long for us. Make thinking no come kill am.
ReplyDeleteNothing wrong with it.
ReplyDeleteThere is no big deal in that. With the present economic situation I'm the country it is very necessary. Make high BP no kill person pickin
ReplyDeleteThe answer to this is simply Proverb 31. There's a clear definition of what a wife should be to her husband.
ReplyDeleteThat said, only a foolish woman sits down and allows the husband handle everything in the home. Yes! Men should provide but still you as the wife should chip in. Show value in your home. Not every woman marries a wealthy man. Provided you did not marry an irresponsible husband, own your journey together. Few men will abandon a wife that built with them. Except you gave him hell in his trying stages.
It is OUR home. The man helps, the woman helps. When david wanted to kill nathan, nathan's wife abigail, mustered resources and went and pleaded with david to save her husband. She brought david gifts. If Abigail was not actively resourceful, David would have killed her husband.
A wife covers her husbands shame. She contributing to her home, is she offering herself protection.
You don't want to be like Aisha Buhari that your husband goes on national TV and says you belong to the other room. Thats a big insult to Aisha.
The woman is a help mate and so no big deal for me in doing so.
ReplyDeleteI have never had a problem with it and never will.
ReplyDeleteI do it with all joy, na both of us get the household.