Hailings...
Greetings to everyone this Presidential election week. Please start preparing to vote, like i said in a post last week, move closer to your voting unit in case of anything that might delay or prevent your voting......
Have a wonderful week and stay out of harms way, if you have been inciting people to fall out with each other over who to vote for in the upcoming election, now is the time to stop and allow people to vote who they want to........ I dont even think it is right to announce who you want to vote for, here no one will ask you who you want to vote for or try to twist your mind to vote for their choice, the voting process is not as choking as how Nigerians reduce theirs to... You cannot threaten anyone for not voting for your candidate, YOU DARE NOT!...
Prepare to go out on Saturday and vote for the candidate of your choice... I don't believe in using the word CONSCIENCE cos Nigerians don't have any conscience at all.
I saw someone telling me to do giveaway which will be collected from POS...that person you try oh...You people should also try and do giveaway, it must not be only me nah.....
Try to give and see how God will bless you beyond belief!
The person who asked in the spontaneous post this Morning if i still do free advert and wants to do free advert for her Uncles new company, my response is LMAO...please go and figure out why i wrote that i am laughing.
That person in my inbox trying to scam me, read this and know that i know your game and have been playing along. it would be easier to pass a camel through the eye of a needle than getting money off me via scam stories....
Those of you who give people money and say you are supporting me on this blog without my knowledge, don't fall to scam and run to my inbox complaining.... If you wanna help anyone, please let me know and i will get you the correct account details... There are people here with various blog IDs and multiple acct details of friends or family waiting..... LOL
The truth will squeeze out money from me rather than lies.
Stay well and stay blessed and remember to spread some love ......
Me sef dey find BV wey go pet me with gift of my choice.....*side eyes* *tongue click*
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FROM FRIDAY NIGHT POST
I'm adopted. After pulling all strings to know my biological parents, I'm met with rejections up on rejections.
My parents were gracious enough to give me the orphanage address. I travelled and met with the proprietress, she refused at first, due to documents that were signed. I managed to offer her money, she gave me a name and number, I called and twas my biological granny.
I travelled again to the East, managed to locate her, after some days, she took me my supposed biological dad's house in the same community, he lives large, he wasn't excited to see me, he was all vague and dismissive, when I offered to be in touch, he told my granny not to bring me again.
We left, she now contacted my biological mom, she didn't even want to see me, she's married with kids and based abroad. I collected her contact and tried to establish communication, she told me to move on with my parents, I mean, how can you be so cold to your own child?
All my trip took one month. Came back told my adoptive parents, told them everything, dad looked at me pointedly and said nothing, mom bellowed out laughter, I feel stupid anyway. Lesson learnt.
Sad but now you will learn to appreciate the people who adopted you and gave you love, they feel nothing towards you cos they did not bond or love you.
Even your granny will reject you if you go again!
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FRIDAY CHRONICLE POSTER
NARRATIVE ONE
I'm the first chronicle poster. The man in question is my husband and the lady is a spinster who I enjoyed working with some years back so we became a bit closer than just coworkers and for some reasons including our work together, they both have each others contact. I asked this question under a spontaneous post some weeks back and tot it wasn't seen. I'm grateful you posted this Stella.
I had an unusual dream (about my husband) I told him about which then led to him telling me how he asked this lady to hangout with him to which she obliged without asking about me. I got really mad at him but according to him, he was testing her to know the kind of friend she is so he somehow cancelled that meeting without arousing any suspicion from her.
Issue is I never could have expected such from the lady cos I see her as responsible and matured enough plus I'm not one to keep friends and the very few I've had for decades are very responsible, respected, hard-working women. I didn't contact her about this and I want to believe she really meant no harm but somethings are just off limits in my opinion no matter what and this has made me seriously review our friendship.
I just needed to know if I'm just reading meaning to things and overreacting.
Thanks Stella and BVs
P1
Hugs
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Since this whole Naira brouhaha started, I have not had cash with me, gave out all my old notes before the first deadline. I have not complained one day! Is it because I’m mobile or because I’ve been doing mostly transfers (just activated my debit card) so I don’t know why the complaints here and there, even Fuel I get it seamlessly! I have learnt something about us Nigerians, we like to panic, rush, do fire brigade approach to things, let’s calm down, it’s one by one, it will always get better or reach your turn!... take my cue and you will see how easy things will be, because in all honesty this is a good policy, let’s just trust the process.
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
Hello Bro,it’s not that..
DeleteReal time network status as at now I’m typing shows almost all banks are down for deposit;less than 30% strength..while debit card like verve and Mastercard is more than 80%..
What this means is that if you walk into a fuel station or mall with your card,it will go through..but if you try to transfer it won’t go through cos the banks are down to accept deposits..
Now how many small shops or businesses have the POS machine??
Almost through Saturday all banks were down,how can small biz owners receive transfer alert? How can you even transfer??
Almost all my neighbours and shops around me at this moment use my POS machine;then it’s recorded for each person,so at the end of the day say from 9pm midnight we check total for each person and transfer to them..
Some have challenges for even using their POS machines;it’s a bit easier for us @GlossyMart cos we have various Terminal from various coy so if this one doesn’t go;we use another..
Now how many POS can an average tomato or pepper seller afford If they decide to get one today?
So that’s the issue bro,not about cash now but network stability..
Hope this helps..
@MARTINS
Yes, it’s because you are mobile. People complaining are doing so because they need cash for public transports mostly. To the best of my knowledge, Bus drivers don’t accept transfers or use POS
DeleteTrue @ your last line
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
@martins you’re right. I tried several doing transfer today at the supermarket but it want successful. They had multiple POS and only one was working. Sigh!
DeleteU don go buy ugu 100 or even 200# from market since this brou ha ha ? 😁
DeleteUntil then, na corner eye i dey look you.
This cashless policy has destroy alots of small scale business here. Some people are not coming out again. Na God hand we de now.
DeleteThe hustle for cash is real
DeletePos is the answer now o. I have registered today. They will bring it for me. Opay POS.
DeletePlease how can I get the pos. I really need it
DeleteEgogold, go to your bank customer care, if they have it, they will let you know. Or go to any POS operator far from where you stay and tell them you need one too
DeleteSince this whole Naira brouhaha started, I have not had cash with me, gave out all my old notes before the first deadline. I have not complained one day! Is it because I’m mobile or because I’ve been doing mostly transfers (just activated my debit card) so I don’t know why the complaints here and there, even Fuel I get it seamlessly! I have learnt something about us Nigerians, we like to panic, rush, do fire brigade approach to things, let’s calm down, it’s one by one, it will always get better or reach your turn!... take my cue and you will see how easy things will be, because in all honesty this is a good policy, let’s just trust the process.
ReplyDeleteKelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)
I comment my reserve
DeleteHere some people don't have bank account for transfer and they don't have pos too.
DeleteWhat of, if where the supermarket don't have what you need like pepper and aboki guy don't do transfer or use pos.
DeleteIt is very bad here
Good afternoon everyone 💕
ReplyDeleteLovely day ahead 🙏🏻
Good afternoon Ada
DeleteDon’t compete wit the one u see on social media.that’s most likely NOT real life.just b urself.Never mind if it’s not glamorous.
ReplyDeleteLoud it for those that don't hear
DeleteGood afternoon to y'all on this beautiful space.
ReplyDeleteHope the cash crunch isn't that hard on you?
It has been #200 charge per #1000 here.
I just hope things change soonest.
Who's all time ready for the general elections?
Democracy is allowing others be themselves without insulting and cajoling the heck outta them.
Enjoy the rest of your day,BVs.
Each time I go to the market to buy some foodstuffs to make some meals, I usually look out for a seller who is quiet and moody. The ones usually with their hand on their chin.
ReplyDeleteI feel they are the ones that are yet to sell for the day compare to the ones I will see laughing and gisting and happy.
I might be wrong but it has been a part of me always buying from the ones so quiet and moody.
I don't know if there's anyone who feels same way too.
Hmmmmm
DeleteNa ur own thinking be that,come Ibadan here,na those ones wey never sell dey laugh pass cuz they cannot come n due all cuz of no sales.
Good afternoon everyone like Stella said be safe make sure their is food , water in your homes. Even though it is small but atleast it is something. Let us all try to manage ourselves in this trying times. Don't announce to anyone who your preferred candidate is and always be aware of your surroundings. Nigeria must be great again let's do our best and leave the rest to God. Everyone stay blessed 🙌🏽🙏🏾❤️
ReplyDeleteChronicles poster, So you wanted to know if the lady was wrong in allegedly accepting to hangout with your horseband that was why you sent in the post?
ReplyDeleteWhy would your horseband go about "testing" your friends ? For what?
You better gear up, cos his cheating will soon hit you in the face. See story. Testing indeed! Mr Tester!
Abi and how do you know your friend wasn’t planning her own last minute excuse
DeleteIn all, just separate fro your friend cause you have started suspecting her and you won’t stop
Mr Tester 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteNonsense testing, the craftiness of low intelligence men
DeleteI thought they said daughters are usually Daddy's girls. Mine is the exact opposite. I am yet to see a total mummy's girl like my own. I'm not even sure I like it sef.
ReplyDeleteThe height of it was when she was really hungry on Saturday and I was taking my bath. She came to the bathroom crying so she could stay with me while her dad was begging her to come eat. She still proceeded to lead the man to the bathroom with her food (rice), sat on the closed toilet seat and asked my husband to feed her there.
Yes, my daughter had lunch in the bathroom. Na wa
Note: not Nigerian kind of bathroom. Before Una start Una yeye talk of eating in bathroom.
DeleteThanks
Concerned person on behalf of eka
Who send you message @Anon1437?
Delete😏😒
Not all daughters that are so attached to their father, please enjoy this moment.
DeleteEka,its because she is still young ni ooo,and spend most of her times with you,immediately she grows up a little,na your number one rival be that,I still jealous the relationship between my Ada and hubby,though i had same with my only son.
DeleteNothing like Nigerian kind of bathroom. I never knew it's possible to even sleep on the toilet floor or eat there. Till I saw my sister toilet. Things irritate me easily, but I can eat, sleep on the floor and I don't feel irritated.
DeleteIt's all about keeping it clean, dry
Our lil one here is a total mommy’s girl
DeleteSome Nigerian bathrooms are better than abroad own. Is it all abroad people that are neat? A regular bathroom with tiles and running water needs to be kept neat and sparkling so that one can do anything in it. It's not about the country.
DeleteAsia, I think that a lot of Nigerian bathroom differs in the sense that most ppl do not properly demarcate the bathroom from the toilet so when bathing, there's just water all over. Doesn't necessarily make it dirty but it sure does make it a little bit more uncomfortable to do anything but bath or poo in the bathroom
DeleteI agree with Eka. My toilet is in a separate closet with a door so you can come and talk in the bathroom without feeling like you’re talking in the “toilet area”. And honestly just the general way things are constructed abroad make them feel like part of the room and not something to be hidden away.
DeleteFor a country that complains about high unemployment, our construction work in Nigeria is generally very shoddy. I think we should learn to do do better
Great afternoon to you all. I pray my good Lord guide and guard us all through this election period also, we all should be careful this period.
ReplyDeleteOne love
Amen,Pinky,its loads of prayer we need than complaining without solution.
DeleteEyaah. Poster who was adopted I fell you my dear.
ReplyDeleteI only saw my Godmother's pictures during my infant Baptism, few years ago I asked my mom why my godmother doesn't contact me unlike my sister's godmother who buys her gifts and calls her always. My mom said she doesn't know her reasons, then she gave me her phone number to contact her myself and ask. Do you know I bought airtime, called this woman. She was so vague, emotionless. When I introduced myself as her goddaughter, she just said "okay"?.
We spoke for some time, while speaking I exhausted my airtime, I thought she would call back but my dear till today, no word from her. My mom said I should ignore her, she even apologized for making such a person my godmother and wished she had made someone else. I asked my mom if I could change it, she said it was not possible. So my dear, if I can feel bad for a Godmother's absence and lack of care, I can't imagine how you feel. I'm so sorry, it's difficult but try to move on.
*... poster who was adopted, I feel you my dear.
DeleteI’m a godmother
DeleteMy goddaughter chose me when she was a big grown. Abeg find yourself one and enjoy
15:05 the point I think my mom was trying to pass is that as Catholics, I think her name was written on my Baptism card. So I guess it's impossible to begin to change it now. Even if I pick another godmother, it would just be between me and her, the Church won't be involved nor recognise it and it can't be reflected on my Baptism card.
DeleteThanks for your input.🫂
Sandra how about Confirmation witness? You can make a better choice with that one if you aren't confirmed yet.
DeleteSandra i understand
DeleteI was just thinking something more informal is okay too
Chronicle poster, that was why you were bashing those that blamed your hubby for inviting her? I noticed you went about replying those who called your husband names for inviting your friend to hangout including Blackberry.
ReplyDeleteYour husband is not pure. Watch your back. Forget that cock and bull story he told you. If you ask the lady in question, you will hear the can of worms she will open.
She be nkapi, her husband is lashing the whole town, she dey send chronicle.
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ReplyDeleteI don't see any responsible man going to ask his wife's friend to hangout with him without his wife's knowledge and then come and confess that he was testing her after his wife had a bad dream about him.. Testing her for who? For his brother that wants to marry the lady? Akuko🙄
Abi o 🤣🤣
DeleteHe changed his story as he was caught out.
DeleteJust imagine!
DeleteHe was testing her as per what? He may have even asked her out or even slept with her if she is the loose type.
All these adopted children that go about looking for their real parents are just plain wicked and ungrateful. If your parents really loved you, why did they give u up for adoption. Nonsense.
ReplyDeleteYou have a point
DeleteI noticed that, the ones that grew up in orphanage homes, don't go looking for biological parents, it's the ones that are taken out, that do this.
DeleteNaaahhhh sometimes there are reasons they allowed the adoption
DeleteHer mother should not have laughed. It’s perfectly normal for a child to want to see the biological parents
I feel pity for what the orphanage kids are going through. They don't know their parents, their state or tribe or relatives. They will surely have some low moments that they think of these things.
DeleteThe one above has people that adopted him yet he went about looking for what I don't know. Ungrateful somborri
Apologize to your parents who brought you up adoptee and forget about the irrelevant people
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteTo the chronicle poster don’t be too quick to conclude. She may have obliged out of respect but may not have any intentions of actually hanging out with him.
ReplyDeleteYou should be more worried about your husband going about testing your single friends in such a manner. Is he that jobless?.
Thanks Yvonne, the same thing I said above. Men can lie any lie to absolve them of any blame. She should be worried about him, except if she doesn't care about cheating.
DeleteSame I said
DeleteLike! Too much time on his hands because why was he testing her??
DeleteMaybe he is partially jobless like me🤣
DeleteGood afternoon Jewelu and Bvs.
ReplyDeleteGood day Bvs, teejay you are so funny, May God help us all in this present day Nigeria
ReplyDeleteFinally helped my popsy to offload the 10k he's been carrying around since he came back from travel 😂. Just approached a POS lady and ask her if she still collects old notes. She replied in the negative and as I made to go she quietly asked how much . 10k I replied and she said" 10k deposit 8k" I no waste time . Carry the 2k chop Nne. World no go end today.
ReplyDeleteTransaction completed and on getting home Popsy don see alert . The Man happy no be small, say i don save am small wahala.
In another news....
Tomorrow has been declared Mother of all rallies by APC . Our Pupils are not coming to sch for security reasons. Mid Term Test done!!
Let's all stay safe this election week...
Cheers as the day progresses 🤞😍
Good afternoon
ReplyDeleteAdopted kids these days are ungrateful .
ReplyDeleteLicious babe thank God for you, hope your boss understands and does not give you a query. How will you now come back home? You should deposit those old notes and collect new notes from a POS.
ReplyDeleteI'm in tears because my pregnant sister was given 3 months suspension without pay. How do they want her to survive? The saddest part of the matter is I can't even help her financially because I have been out of job for some time now. Dear God, I'm crying my heart to you please turn our situations around.
ReplyDeleteMy heavily pregnant sister knelt down several times to beg her boss. She has always been of good behaviour.God,why?
That's an insane country. Here, the process you'd have to go through to fire or suspend a pregnant person ehn...
DeleteGood afternoon my people.
ReplyDeleteI just saw your replies on SP. Osundi I can't even afford to buy corn and mix with their food, I have decided to dispose them all, 15 of them.
Courage thanks for the advice. I went to some eateries, two of them said I should bring one let them see the size. One said this evening, the other one said tomorrow morning.
Dear adopted child, what if the circumstances of your birth are too shameful or too painful for the parties involved to want to revisit? Be grateful for your parents that adopted you. You'll be fine.
ReplyDeleteThere are some names once I hear them....I don't know why I burst out lafffing....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteHygenus.
Donatus.
Everistus.
Moruff.
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Anon iri funny 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteStella I saw the comment about free job vacancy advert by the anon, pls since it is vacancy, biko post for us the jobless bvs, I am tired. I pray it is my location.
ReplyDeleteSdk post vacancy o. We plenty here wey dey jobless. Abi you want us to keep begging ni?
DeleteGood day lovelies.
ReplyDeleteFeels good to be back.
Done with many things I had to sort, transcribed every single page of the language modules the APP owners scrambled. It was tough and tedious but I got it under wraps. 516 pages by 4 languages? damnit!
The career stress was doused too, so grateful to God. Family suffered a bit but we're good now.
Phew!
So I say, happy new year, happy valentine month and happy Easter in advance to everyone.
To King XOXO mystery, Ijay, Osundi, Martha, Milkshakes, Awele, Duchess, Ibikun, Ejima and many who reached out, the pleasure hours are back.
My comments will however be scanty till after the Nigeria election period, my mummy in-law is from Peter Obi's place, I can't afford to be brought before the Igwe though I'm fully Obidient and Yusful💪💃
Over the years we called her Nwanne Vice President now we calling her Nwanne President. Haha. We believe God.
The APC adverts on this blog cancels many things so till then Stella durrrrlllinnggg I say jisike nne, onye na nke ya.😘😂
And secondly,back to the matter,check your inbox.
That update ish still hanging resolve please.
Awele forward the scanned documents before 7pm Nigerian time,your lines are off.
Nnukwu nwanyi check your mail box.
Ndo for your loss. It is well!
On Peter Obi we stand, I'm not afraid or regretting facilitating some of the Labour Party wings.
Stella, as an Igbo woman,we State who we will vote for korokoro.
We won't wear Peter Obi and Yusuf Datti t-shirt to vote another candidate.
Our yes is our yes.😘😂 We don't betray people.
And please as long as you are from the South, anywhere you reside in Nigeria watch your back.
Niger Delta and Igbos however remain the most endangered species as at today.
The armoured tanks have arrived Lagos but are the saboteurs ready to drop weapons?
Please watch over your families. The army troops aren't enough.
Vote wisely.
Lady XP.
So good to hear from you XP maama 😘 happy to know you've sorted out the language modules stuff.
DeleteHappy New year to you too 💞
Welcome back
DeleteGood to hear from you XP momma.
DeleteWell-done ma
DeleteWell done XP
DeleteHello IHN, thanks Martin for the reply to Kevin day Edo boy post, he should just thank God things are going on well for him as it relates to the policy.
ReplyDeleteMaybe Kevin doesn't cook so buying pepper from iya sikira
DeleteIsn't a problem
DeleteReading mode activated 😎
ReplyDeleteGood evening SDK family.
ReplyDeleteFriday chronicle poster
ReplyDeleteStart snooping on your husband's phone. You will find out the kind of man you married
Goodevening good people. Orphanage lady please apologise to your adopted parents.
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