Friday In House News.

 Hailings ........

IN HOUSE MEMO.......

I salute everyone!

May today be positively eventful and may blessings come your way yanfu yanfu....

Is there any drama around you? Dont give it a second thought, walk away from anything that does not give you peace of mind.

I am trying to make you forget the scenario around you if you live in Nigeria...

Thank you so much to BV Eliza from the SDK whatsapp group for the help she rendered to me today, no amount if money i gift you will ever be enough to say thank you...God bless you for dropping all to attend to what i needed to do....Same way you answered me is how God will answer your prayers from now on....

Those POS operators selling money, una get mind oh... someone just told me that she gave 100k to one and was given back 60k... I didnt believe her abeg...ah ah what is it? You cant even gift anyone money cos they wont be able to get out cash...You send money, it takes days to get into the account or the money is reversed.....GOD ABEG ANSER THE PRAYER OF NIGERIA NOW!!!

Have a nice day and share food and money to those who do not have around you(If you have enough to spare)

Let me stop before i start ranting nonsense..

Enjoy your day!

I dey think wetin to eat now but holding myself until 4pm...lol

I don finish my veggie oooh..... #foodie

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MEMO TO BV ALEXANDER

I love your comments but i will not take the way you throw insults at everyone you want to correct, its not right and will turn here to another fighting zone which is not what i want, we have grown past that stage...

Please if you need to correct anyone , please do so with love stop referring to people as IGNORAMUSES, you do not know what people are going through and dont know if your comments will trigger depression...not right!

That said,, hope you ok? spread love!

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WEDNESDAY CHRONICLE POSTER

''Good morning my beautiful sdk and super intelligent bvs, wow you guys are too much. Tnx for d advise you guys gave to me 2 days again, I'm actually the chronicle poster that her guy got married without informing her! I have broken up finally with him. Though he sent his friend to come and plead with me to have a rethink, a friend of mine also advised I drain him financially this period he's begging, but I'm done! Tnx wonderful people...''


'No need to drain him...Just move on please!

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  FROM THURSDAY CHRONICLE POSTER


''I have never been with a married man neither did l get involve with any other person, becos, l have always believe in one man one woman. I have never been with another man till date after my ex, yes, I'm taking my time to get it right this time around. 

This my friend l met her in the school, and she has always told us that she lives with her Uncle, so when l had accommodation problem.

I called her. she gave me direction on how to locate her residence. When l got to her place, l met the said uncle, who later left and went back to his base that very day. I spent 5 months and few days there. 

My friend didn't want to open up to me, it was after some days when l saw people calling her Oga's wife that l asked her again who is this man to you. She now told me that the man is her sugar daddy. who wants to wife her, but l didn't judge her, moreover polygamy is accepted in some places. 

So l was minding my business till l saw other sugar daddies. I asked her what if the wives of this men get to know that you are having affair with their husband. What will you do, becos l ws telling her to follow only one man. She said that nobody will find out, but even if they find out, that she will denie it or she will ,xxxxxxxxx the person's marriage if the person wants to disgrace her.

I didn't come here to paint my friend and my ex bad. No, Someone that gave you accommodation. Why will you be ungrateful to that person, even God will not be happy with you. Bvs, the more you look, the less you see. If l tell you people other things that happened to me in that place.

You will know that l was leaving with my enemy right from day one, l didn't believe that my friend will ever want to harm me, l also didn't believe that my ex will agree with someone to hurt or destroy me. I'm still shocked.

Let me stop here. I have learnt my lessons in a hard way''

Forget about them and move on abeg you, you will be fine after the pain of the betrayal  simmers down!


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A STORY THAT TEACHES A LESSON

“My boss drove a luxury car everyday and it was my duty to greet him and to open the gates for him, as I worked as a watchman in his villa. But he never responded back to my greetings.

One day he saw me opening the garbage bags outside the villa in search for any leftover food. But, as usual he never even looked at me, it was like as if he never saw anything!

The very next day I saw a paper bag at the same place, but it was clean and the food inside was covered well. It was fresh and good food like someone had just brought it from the supermarket. I didn't bother as to where it came from, I just took the paper bag and I was so happy about it.

Every day I found this paper bag at the same place with fresh vegetables and all that we needed for home. This became my daily routine. I was eating and sharing this food with my wife and kids. I was wondering who this fool could be?! To forget his paper bag full of fresh food everyday.

One day there was a big problem in the villa and I was told that my boss has died. There were too many guests coming to the villa that day and I didn't get any food that day, so I thought that one of the guests must have taken it. But the same thing happened the 2nd day, the 3rd day and the 4th day.

It went on like this for a few weeks and I found it difficult to provide food for my family, so I decided to ask the wife of my boss for a raise in my salary or else I would quit my job as a watchman.

After I told her, she was shocked, and asked me, how come you never complained about your salary for the last 2 years? And why is this salary not enough for you now? I gave her so many excuses but she was never convinced!

Finally in the end, I decided to tell her the truth, I told her the entire story of the bag of groceries, and as to how it was my daily provision. She then asked me as to when this stopped? I told her after the death of her husband. And then I realized that I stopped seeing the paper bag immediately after the death of my boss. Why didn't I ever think of this before? That it was my boss who was providing this for me? I guess it was because I never thought that a person who never replied to my greetings could ever be this generous!

His wife started to cry and I told her to please stop crying and that I'm really sorry that I asked for a raise, I didn't know that it was your husband who was providing me with the meals, I’ll remain as a watchman and be happy to provide my service.
His wife told me, I'm crying because I've finally found the 7th person my husband was giving this bag full of food. I knew my husband was giving 7 people everyday, I had already found the 6 people, and all these days I was searching for the 7th person. And today I found out.

From that day onwards, I started to receive the bag full of food again, but this time his son was bringing it to my house and giving it to my hand. But whenever I thanked him, he never replied! Just like his dad!

One day, I told him THANK YOU in a very loud voice! He replied back to me to please not be offended when he doesn't reply, because he has a hearing problem, just like his dad!”

Oh! We have been wrong so many times judging others without knowing the true story behind their actions. Be kind and courteous in dealing with others, for everyone is fighting a hard battle. Be careful, not everything is about you. Before you assume, there is this thing called ASKING.

Don’t just jump to conclusion, because that is truly not an exercise, it may cause you more harm at the end of the day. Many of our problems are caused by how we process what happens around us. Don’t judge a situation you have never been in. Be humble enough to learn. You do not know it all. Lets change the way we feel about ourselves and others.

There are two sides to a story. Don’t believe everything you hear.
Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about." Remain blessed.

#COPIED

WOW... I hope that someone learns from this!

WE MOVW!!!

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MEMO TO THOSE WITH DOMESTIC STAFF

Trying to familiarize with your domestic workers changes nothing, if he or she is evil.
He was a retired Judge, before the creation of states, he had a house in Osogbo, since he had another in the Iyanganku Quarters in Ibadan, he decided to sell the one at Osogbo.

On this ill-fated day, he took his brief case to collect cash, unfortunately, they decided to transfer the money into his account, so, he returned to Ibadan with empty brief case.

His Driver thought he had cash in there, when they got home, the cook set the table.
While baba was eating, he told the cook that baba said he should go to xoxo, said same to the gateman.

So, he was at home alone in the house to carry out his evil plot on baba.
From the back, he threw a rope on his neck, of course, there was struggle, baba was old and frail, he could not struggle for long before he gave up the ghost.

He ransacked the house, saw that there was no money in the brief case.
He cleaned up the mess on the floor.
The cook and the gateman had returned, he said baba did not want to be disturbed.

He was about going home when the cook entered the house to clear the table, he rushed out to alert them of the position he met baba.

Iscariot also pretended, and made a suggestion of taking baba to the hospital may be he could be revived, but, the cook suggested they call his friend who lived four plots away from baba's house.

When his friend arrived, he looked around, saw signs of struggle with things he saw on the wall, that it was actually a murder, so, pretended like he didn't know what happened

Called the hospital who brought ambulance, alongside the police who arrested the trio.
The gateman and the cook's statements already implicated him.

We all have our biases, "ipa ta pa ogberi a le pa omo awo be" you and I already knew the positions of all judges involved would be.
It was not one of the cases that would take eternity, he got death sentence and got executed  fastest case ever.

God doesn't make mistake, there was a reason he put some people in the state he put them.
Your driver is your driver pls, his work is to drive you around, drops the key and goes back to his house, he's not a member of your family, he will never be.

You have no business making anyone feeling important around you, if God had not elevated them.
O wu edumare lo diri ewa fun akuko, no matter what you do, oloriburuku Ki i feran olorire.

Divulging too much information about your personal life and business in the presence of your domestic workers belittles your status.

I know someone, his driver dares not picks call or chat or even makes decisions on route to take while traveling, his safety first.

Once someone is greedy around you, watch it.
If God wants to make everyone rich, he's able, so, if he does not do it, so, who are you to think you don't want people to feel bad about their states? 

The best relationship is them getting paid on time for the jobs they were hired for. C'est fini, all these bonding and familiarization do not change anything, in short, you are exposing yourself, thereby making so vulnerable.

Above all, may God save us from the sons and daughters of lucifer walking the surface of earth like a responsible beings.
Wishing you a splendid weekend.

by Feyisetan Hamzaah

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