You will not believe why she broke off her engagement to a man.... it will shock you!
Monday, January 23, 2023
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And why does she feel this needs to be made public? Engagements get called off all the time with little drama.
ReplyDeleteWhere have u bin?
DeleteThis one you are ranting like this, ARE YOU THE GUY 🤣🤣🤣
DeleteShe better pikin, an this one person suppose to dey born. God bless her 😍
DeleteLook who is talking
DeleteLmao
Why are u so pained😂
DeleteIf you are on twitter you will know why.. Its been an ongoing subject of discus
DeleteYeye guy.
ReplyDeleteI support her a million times over
DeleteNote, she also said same for his family
She’s definitely family oriented and should be a keeper.
Push up (original)
So marriage is now based on; family must be fed? So your family is now employee in the man's company wey he go dey pay them monthly salary?
ReplyDeleteYou never want marry. By the time you miss the right man for you, you will come back and write chronicle of HAD I KNOW.
What are you saying? Did u read that thing well?🙄
DeleteBreath...go back up and read
DeleteDid you read it well at all? P.S it is Had I known.
DeleteMonthly stipend "I" send,meaning she sends and not the Man..
DeleteAbi na my night school dey confuse me?😀
@MARTINS
Anyone that has issues with that write up is definitely in the same group with the man.
DeleteKindly read the write up again. She is the one sending the stipend. She does not have anything against the man sending stipend to his parents too
DeleteWho is this?
DeleteGood girl 👍
ReplyDeleteGood girl. Foolish men
ReplyDeleteShe was referring to one man, just one man and one man only. Frustration have a number on you.
DeleteYeye dey smell
ReplyDeleteShe saved herself from big wahala
ReplyDeleteHonestly, the man will start controlling her finances and keeping his own for his drinking buddies and side chics. When he doesn’t get it, na DV straight. She did right. I would do same.
DeleteD starting point determines hw well and hw bad,d mistake I made that spoilt alot.
ReplyDeleteNice one girl, why wouldn't you send your parents money.
ReplyDeletetaking care of your parents when one is comfortable shouldn't be optional at all. She made the right decision
DeleteIn a part of Igala land, ogugu to be precise,its a taboo for a married woman to give money to her parent without the husband's consent. They have so many Scarry taboo in that place that I pity women marrying them,I heard family planning is a taboo their too, the funniest thing is if their wives die,they must sleep with a woman that day so as as to stop the spirit of the dead woman from disturbing them. And a woman married to them must not share any personal stuffs with anybody,be it the sister,because if the person wears that stuff to her boyfriends house, it will affect the wife,it will be termed as if she cheated since it was her clothes the person wore to see man, e plenty for their body there, couple with alekwu stuffs, God forbid o
ReplyDeleteGod forbid
DeleteHuh 😱 women have suffered.
DeleteSluttychic.
What did I just read? Hmmmmmm see culture.
Delete😳😳😳😳😳😳🚶♀️🚶♀️
Delete😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
DeleteHaaaaaaa
DeleteEven in 2023?. Na wah
DeleteEven olamaboro people in that same Igala practice it. My landlady then had 7children at 33 years and said she can't do family planning because no money to go and appease the gods. If she does Aleku will come for her. She married at 15. Her first daughter can't tie her wrapper too. They can't do abortion, if you beat your husband brother and blood comes out you must kill chicken for him. You can't give your mother 1 penny or foodstuffs without informing your husband.
DeleteGod forbid abeg
DeleteWhat utter nonsense
Delete🙄🙄🙄🙄 eeewe! Simi was right. Women don truly suffer. And no taboos for men? Hian
DeleteNo lies detected. Even we wey be Igalas dey avoid them with energy.
DeleteLols
DeleteWicked traditions,that only favor the men.. nonsense
Abeg make i 😂😂😂😂. Chukwu aju!!!!
DeleteThis is interesting.
DeleteOut dated tradition. I hope that when a man dies that his wife too gets to sleep with another man that day, to ward off his spirit.
DeleteSee bondage and hatred for women wrapped inside culture
DeleteSense will not kill this one, thumbs up babe 😘
ReplyDeleteShe get sense
DeleteI can relate, according to the place I come from,a married woman must take permission from her husband before giving her family money if not something bad will happen,thankGod I don't believe in all those superstitions.
ReplyDeleteYou don't believe in it?
DeleteSo you give money to your parents without telling your husband and nothing bad happened?
I know I girl that her marriage crashed because she gave her family small money to support her fathers treatment when he had partial stroke. she did not bring out everything o, just added money. She is a medical doctor, her husband also a medical doctor. Omo, all the members of her husband’s family came to fight her. Asked her to knee down and apologize which she did, her mother wanted to refund the money just for peace to reign but it was still not enough for the evil family.
ReplyDeleteThe man and his family members threw her out with a daughter and another baby on the way.
All you people dating men who will ask you to call her lord, sir etc, continue o ,no matter how much you try werey na werey the girl I’m taking about is the most gentle, respectful girl I know. Thinking of it now, that was why he married because if na another girl when open eye then not fit try this rubbish . I cannot even imagine anyone telling to submit my whole salary to him, or tell me to knee down and beg him and his family members
And as for family members who cause pain to the women married into your famili prove almighty, God is watching you
You can imagine the nonsense. So I’m supposed to take permission from my husband to give my parents money....that brought me into this world, raised me, trained me in school and have invested in me heavily. I can never understand it. Let’s make sure we do background checks on the men we want to marry.
DeleteLike I always say, if you come from a strong/united family, such will never happen.
Sluttychic.
God knows even before they threw me out I would have been out the moment the yeye man himself asked me such useless question that I sent my dad like a whole my dad oo money talk more of his family members joining, I swear I don port tey tey cos I will see them as evil people. Nonsense
DeleteHer mother wanted to refund the money? Mehn it's skin deep because the obsession with making sure women remain married even in the most wicked conditions trumps everything else. Someone they should have cut off from even before they threw you out. It is well
DeleteIt is not always marriage at all costs. Some matters are tied to taboos and punishment by the gods.
DeleteIn some families involved in such taboo practices, the consequences follow them when there is a breach. Such consequences may be from their gods or by the spiritually wicked in the families who act as enforcers
Some wise parents try to shield their children from any punishment whether from the gods or the spiritually wicked in such families.
Thumbs up to u girl if it's trueooooh
ReplyDelete*paprika*
Personally I wouldn’t want to marry anybody that pays his/her family monthly,unless that person is very rich. We can’t be running the home with the little we make, while you’re paying your family every month. We have to sit and agree on what we can be supporting the both families with when necessary and not mandatory every month. Your nuclear family must come first before the extended family.
ReplyDeleteI know some of you has problem with other peoples opinion on a public platform but you can’t swallow me.
Fan Emmanuel
You don't have to be very rich to give ur family money monthly. Jesus! I could never marry someone that will stop me from sending my family money because I will never stop u. I will even have a problem with you if u don't do anything for ur family
DeleteIf you can't help out from the little you have believe me even if you have millions you still wouldn't help out.
DeleteThis is so selfish in all angles me me me you came from somewhere. People nurtured you so you feel it's wise to just throw them away because you are raising your own family.
Did your parents wait to get rich before sending you to school and providing all they did for you. Except you raised yourself there’s no excuse you shouldn’t help out time to time, especially if your parents are in greater need
DeletePush up (original)
Female children making parents their periority since 1900.
ReplyDeleteGbamsolutely 💯
Delete"NWANYIBUIFE" in Onitsha Ado's people voice
Ogaoooooo
ReplyDeleteWia Dem dey see all this kind people
The girl dodged a bomb. I salute her
ReplyDeleteGirl you did right. That's a warning sign of selfishness and wickedness. Our parents made sacrifices for us, it is only human to reciprocate.
ReplyDeleteSelfishness and wickedness
DeleteLol..
ReplyDeleteTruth is I cannot do what this man did and I see it as absurd and unnecessary..
However, when your parents, family members and village people were making up. Long list and bride price for your husband, they have 'sold' you to him.. he is now your lordship, to order and control..
Take it or leave it..
Just hope and pray you marry a reasonable and sensible man who isn't insecure and won't run it in your face..
Wetin some of Una family dey make man go through to marry Una too no good..
Non virgin babe for that matter oh🤌🤦🚶🚶🚶
Dunno how much this bride price is that u people won't let us hear word about it 🙄
DeleteGod abeg wetin be this
DeleteAs if it is the women benefiting from bride price collection and the rest. No be your fellow men dey sit tight that day dey demand those things from una.
DeleteWomen don't benefit anything from it nah still una men dey benefit from it. You guys created it for your own selfish benefits so deal with it
Why you no tell your village pipo to scrap am for you or provide the listed items and pay for the price yourself 🙄
DeleteYou better just have it at the back of your mind that you're owned..😏😏
How will u have it at the back of my mind that I'm owned when I no marry person with shallow reasoning like u
DeleteDey play 👍
DeleteTruthfully, the bride price is huge in some tribes. Men and women from such tribes even confirm it as extortionate.
DeleteSome families in tribes having extortionate demands and some families in tribes with moderate bride price, demand extortionate bride prices and items from prospective suitors.
And no. Not only the male in a family share in bride prices and bridal list items.
Some months ago, I was at a traditional marriage ceremony. The women in the family almost scuttled the ceremony because the groom had not brought the bags of salt demanded. They bluntly refused to accept cash in place of the exact bags of salt. After the ceremony, the money was shared amongst family 2k, 1k, etc. to the male and female members.
All said, bride price and dowry practice should be scrapped. Both are not in accordance with the rights women assert in and out of marriage. Both are contributory to some challenges women face in marriage. The exploding lantern cases in the Indian sub continent are a good example of the evil of dowry payment just as Nigeria has its own cases based on bride price.
No woman today should justify bride price payment. Rarely does big bride price evoke respect from the groom's family
Dante, are you a virgin? It is men like you that kiss their wives ass behind doors. But, in public, act like tough guy, hard on women, etc. See Dante o. A non virgin sef.
DeleteAs you no get anything to type again, na dey play you grew type here, shiorrr!!
DeleteAnswer Chichi's question, the bride price you keep raving about, who takes the bulk of it? Men like you!!!
In some places, mothers have absolutely no say in what should be contained in the bride price or not even if they want to make suggestion on reduction. It is men like you that still balance, collect, chop and clean mouth so getat with your baseless rant.
This example above is that of an unmarried woman (whose bride price had not been paid) but in your usual fashion of castigating women, you had to find a way to drag bride price in.
Na you go taya las Las, no one put a knife to your throat to marry, stay single for life.
@Danty T he can always even marry his fellow man sef....since he must always find fault with women 🙄😒
DeleteThe man dodged a bullet. She will learn her lesson in life when she needs help to realize that she was only buying the loyalty of family members. If she doesn't get married at 30, that her so beloved family members will be the ones to mock her. She needs to test the family member by stop giving them money for 6 months and see if the love is still there.
ReplyDeleteMy dear you are not her God
DeleteAnd even if she doesn’t marry by 30 she won’t die.
Plus God will provide a man who also cares just the same way about family
I also want to let you know that it’s not just women who have biological clocks
Men do to
If you like don’t marry early and produce early, keep wasting your healthy sperm and think you are doing any women favors… your Sperm weakens with age too.
Push up (original )
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Push up, you is wucked 😂
DeleteAnon 16:05, she's not wicked but realistic, ladies are tired of men making it seem all the time as if marriage is a thing that only women desire or benefit from, both parties benefit from marriage na, even in weddings, they'll announce women that need husband, they'll never announce men that need wife. We need to change that narrative abeg
DeletePush up ooo...we lo e you sis
DeleteFacts @push up.
DeleteMarriage is not do or die for women and men.
I am a male.
I feel bad for you because you are on a long thing. Have you not seen young men in their early 30's dealing with erectile disfunction and low sperm count. Yes, all those things you guys drink, is affecting men's sperms. Nor be only women de deal with infertility. A high number of men, are the cause of their wife's inability to conceive. Go ask at the fertility clinics.
DeleteYou are yabbing her because she choose to cut ties with a man, who wants to spend her money and will not let her give her parents nada. Her own money o. The girl did good. That guy was not for her. Her soulmate will come along.
Age is nothing but number. People find love at every age. So relax man. As long as she takes care of her self.
DeleteMake una dey console una self. See you see menopause
DeleteHah, I can see lots of you are not on twitter. The topic has been on for like 3 days now with diff women sharing their stories part of which is that screenshot above. One woman said her parents suffered to train her to university with her mum selling fruits . Married this demon of a man and in their place you have to seek permission. The husband says she should not send her parents money. She says it hurts her as she can comfortably send her parents 50k each month to help them with bills but she cannot because her husband forbade her. She says her parents are struggling financially.Twitter people insulted her shaa. No be small insult. Things dey occur abeg.
ReplyDeleteShe deserves all the insults
DeleteI was about getting married to guy which we had been seeing each othe for over 7 years. This guy was soo much into my finances that he knows everything dt goes in and out . One day I needed to send my mum some money and I was just discussing with him and I said it in passing . One this guy changed it for me saying is my mum not receiving pension, can't she live on it and live within her means.
DeleteIt's like that was what God used to open my eyes.
My mum suffered to train I and my siblings after our dad sent us packing , trained me to become a Dr and every one of us are graduates meanwhile this guy 50k from me monthly. . That was the deal Breward bcos I said to myself If I marry this man My mum will suffer. That's how I left him . Till today he does not know that was the reason .
Now my mum receives 75k from me monthly and my dad 40k and my hubby has never objected to it. In total we do 300k total to both of parents and siblings and we are happy.
She really deserves the insult. Ahhhh!!! That her husband is wicked and she is crazyyyyy
DeleteSo she can't leave the marriage?
DeleteGod forbids my daughter marries that type of man. Thank God I married a sane man, if he tries that with me in future, na to pack my bags and leave the marriage. No marriage in heaven,I cannot allow my mum who suffered to train me to suffer.