FRIDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Awesome Friday Hailings...

IN HOUSE MEMO

Happy Friday to you all.... I hope the day has been good to you?

This is to announce that i have a new PA and she will announce herself in the comment section of todays in house news... She is still learning how i like it done and will grow with me...Goodies have already started pouring in for her.... Please help me welcome my new Blog PA...... I pray our working relationship will be cool

and stress free eeeeh.

Things are so bad for some, that i will also be employing one or two people from the applicants just to support them....Their duties will be assisting in culling stories...Please note that i do all the composition and posting of stories myself so that Anon that made that funny comment when i mistakenly posted in house news some days back got it wrong....LOL

Have a great days guys....

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A MAN GOING THROUGH FATHERHOOD

While growing up, my dad was in charge of ironing our school uniforms. He would iron them and they would look very crispy and nice. I even won the prize for the neatest pupil in class several times as a result of this. When they call me out for my prize, I would walk out with my shoulders high like that of two fighting cocks and collect it with smiles.

Today, I would reminisce about it and smile, I will never forget this particular role that my dad played in our lives. Even though he later messed up and they separated, even though he later stopped paying our fees and other bills as a result of their marriage break-up, I still love and appreciate him for creating those beautiful memories in my life, sometimes with tears in my eyes *wipes tears*

As a father, I thought of what to do in the life of my kids that would make them remember me with fondness tomorrow, those beautiful memories that would make them smile in future.

Wifey is already in charge of washing and ironing their clothes, I can't iron to save my life, reason why I have a good laundry man that does a good job.
She cooks their food, does school runs, what else should I do asides the normal payment of bills and birthday gifts?

An idea struck me one day, I started reserving new crispy notes for them. Every school day, I would give them one new note each to school, it could be #50, #100, #200 depending on my pocket and their classes. Only two of them are old enough to be given money, the last one is still small.

This gesture of mine has served the purpose I wanted so far. It has created that bond that I wanted. They feel so elated each time I hand them the new notes and come back with exciting stories about what transpired in their school. 

The eldest one once told me that the school's store keeper usually reserves new notes to use as change for her anytime she buys something, she said the woman asked her where she gets them from and she told her. The woman now proceeds to return the gesture anytime she buys anything. This made her the envy of her classmates. LMAO.

So my people, make sure you create special memory with your children?

Why not spend time with them creating special memories instead of giving them money? I dont think that money giving is a good idea.....

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*GROW ABOVE OFFENCES.*

*Maintain relationships with people*.

*It is childish and immature to pick offence at every provocation or perceived wrong and then start keeping grudges as a result.*
*Grow above it.*
*Someone did not invite you for their celebration(s), you pick offence with them*.
*Someone did not wish you happy birthday, you pick offence with the person*.
*They did not like your facebook post, you pick offence.*
*They did not support you in a disagreement you had with someone, you pick offence with them.*

*They are junior and they have the audacity to talk or oppose your opinion. You pick offence with them*.

*They said NO to your request, you pick offence and malice starts.*
*You asked them for money, they said they did not have, you pick offence.*
*You are even keeping a record of people who came around when you were bereaved so you can know who to pick offence with*.

*See!!!*

*Everyone has battles you are not aware of*.
*Those who you need help from are also looking for help*.
*Not everything is personal and intentional*.
*Not everyone hates you and never hate anyone.*

*Sometimes, people are just caught up with their own lives, struggles, human weaknesses and limitations.*

*Learn how to manage being disappointed by people and still be on talking terms with them. It will save you a lot of UNNECESSARY grudges and save you some friendships you may need in future.*

*Grow above all unwanted attitudes and behaviors in 2023 and beyond.*



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GIVEAWAY FOR SCHOOL PURPOSES:

BV Daddy G O Pikin is giving away 10k each to two persons for school purposes..... That is the money is meant to support a child in school.
Send me a mail if you have a child in school and interested in this...
Thanks to the giver and God bless you mightily.



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