Friday In House News..

 I salute from a land of no sun and almost night time at 2pm!

IN HOUSE MEMO

How una dey!

Someone dropped a comment that as i be area babe, i fall hand as German weather dey make me sick...YOU TRY!... come this side come yarn that apako make i see... Cold wey no dey respect emsef.....

Nah this season people go full Naija from the abroad and some dont come back until April...Guess why?

Enjoy the rest of the day.....

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD

I normally don’t like seeing my kids bored so I try to fill their time up with activities or screen time. This has been our normal routine till I found out recently that boredom is good for children.

Keeping a child’s mind occupied at all times can lead to over stimulation and this can lead to crankiness and tantrums.
I am learning that children need quiet time also, where they just do not nothing or quietly pay by themselves. This should be different from sleep time.

The purpose of quiet time is to help the child think, find ways to occupy themselves and use their imagination, it also helps to build confidence and improve a child’s mental health.

I have started encouraging boredom, by reducing screen time and just let them play by themselves quietly.

LMAOOOO@ started encouraging boredom!...Too funny!

Take this Motherhood thing easy oh, the greater Job dey front, this one wey you dey do so nah Childs play, wait until it gets to teenhood where they begin to fight for their rights and voice and it might be things you taught them not to attempt...

Na God be your guide book.

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CONCERNING MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

Good afternoon SDK. Kudos to you for a great blog.

So I posted a comment on last Friday night post anonymously, the story about the ex that I begged from and he gave me 3k and he kept disturbing my life. When I didn't see it posted , I thought it was not appropriate for the blog until I saw it on IHN on Monday.

Now the gist is that uncle 3k is a BV.

 I initially didn't want to post that comment cos I suspected he might be a BV and might see it because we met on social media in those days, Facebook precisely. So he is a social media person. But I posted it anyway, I said to myself that I didn't care if he sees it or not, let him even get angry and stop calling me sef.

Back to the gist, uncle saw the post, called me two days ago with another line and apologized for everything and told me to keep the 3k and that he will stop contacting me. He said he didnt know things were that bad for me and  that he felt bad when he read the part where I said I would beg for 500 from each of my relatives and pay him back. He said he would have done more but he has a big project he is rushing to complete before the end of the year. I apologized to him for sharing it on the blog.

Chai, there are bvs and there are bvs on your blog walahi

WOOOOOOOOOOOW Uncle is a BV? Meaning he will also see this one? Uncle we dey hail oh, thank you for coming through for her when she needed urgent 2k and you even made it 3k... God bless




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TWIN PREGNANCY TIPS NEEDED

My Fellow Bvs, I just discovered I am carrying twins. I am scared cos we don't have twins in my family so I don't know what to expect. Pls I need advice and tips on how I will survive after their birth. Even one is enough wahala and stress not to talk of two. Mamas pls advice. Note: I have one toddler already.


Oya wey dem? BV Twins squared you have twins right? who else has twins oh.

Congratulations, las las you dont need to worry, the stress get different level for different household..lol

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WISDOM NUGGETS 

From the book of Proverbs chapter 8, please read and be blessed*


- Wisdom says, do not be an idiot. An idiot is someone with low intelligence. Someone with the inability to learn. We are never too old to learn. Thus, wisdom is calling us today to 'receive sense'.


- Some of the benefits of wisdom is that it gives you confidence and the ability to live your best life. Wisdom also gives direction to your steps. It gives sanity and peace of mind. There is nothing compared to knowing that you are on the right path.

- The wisdom of God is truth. When you live in truth, evil will be far away from you. As a WISER person, you should be able to speak in white and black.

- Wisdom says you should prefer the pursuit of discipline over the pursuit of money. Do not spend what is not yours. Be content. Do the right thing. Be a man of integrity. Remember that wisdom gives good self image.


- Your good name will outlive you. Allow wisdom to guide all your endeavors in life. The wise decisions you take now will determine the quality of your life, business and family 5 years from now. So, take wisdom seriously.




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*WHY AFRICAN COUPLES ARE NOT ROMANTIC*


-Many marriages are just for sleeping and waking up, raising kids and ageing together till death comes.

-Many couples hardly kiss and they only hug each other when they receive good news.

-The husband only puts food in his wife's mouth only when she is terminally ill and cant feed herself.

-If you see a man opening car door for his wife means the door is faulty.

-The only thing that makes an African man touch his wife's neck is when she complains of fever. He wont touch it again till the next fever.

-The only time he can carry his wife on his arms is when she is in labour.

-If you see them seated outside at night, dont think they are romantic. They are only waiting for the smell of insecticide to vanish.

-Many wives buy gifts for their husbands only when they are hospitalized.

-The only time they race together is when there is danger and everyone is running.

-The only time they go for evening stroll is when they want to go and lay a complain to the parents of the person that beat their child or got their daughter pregnant.

-The only time they bath together is when both are late for work.

-The only time a wife looks closely to her husband's eyes is when he complains of something in his eyes.

-Unfortunately, Africans feel that any romantic man is being controlled by his wife. They will begin to spread bad rumours.

#copied

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