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RELATIONSHIP THREATENED BY EX
My girlfriend is in constant communication with her University male friend whom she once had a brief s#xual relationship with. I have complained multiple times, I am not comfortable with it.
My girlfriend is in constant communication with her University male friend whom she once had a brief s#xual relationship with. I have complained multiple times, I am not comfortable with it.
The annoying part is that when we plan some couple time is when his messages pop up, it is either him asking for her pictures or saying he saw her in his dream. The last discussion we had about it, she said, she cannot sacrifice her friendship for her relationship. Please advise me.
You have not married her or engaged her with a ring so let the Brother continue shooting his shot.. Be there trying to force her to drop her friend oh, I see him wining her back if he continues like he is doing...Be there complaining oh...
Let her be, or do you mean she should drop her friends for you? what if you leave?Abeggy!
🤣🤣Ma'am Stella, your red pen is always awwwh
ReplyDeletePoster run oooo, do 440. Her heart and body is still with that ex.
DeleteThen kindly let her go
DeletePush up (original)
You are the side boo. Please you have two options, get another babe or keep being the side boo. Na you go get hypertension for woman matter.
ReplyDeleteSince she cannot sacrifice her friendship for the relationship, I suggest you tow the same line, get a main babe. And Man up pls, are you a kid? You sound too weak😩
Lol .
DeleteAsin she's outrightly saying she's choosing her 'friend' over him and he's still here SIMPing
Poster BB just told u the truth. Imagine sending pics to her ex. That babe isn't into you. Move on for your sanity since u can't cope
DeleteI won't even suggest the poster gets a side chick, no point going down that dirty road. He should just move on from the girl.
DeleteThe girl no rate poster at all, otherwise she would have been doing her runs with her ex underground. What audacity!
Aahh Stella don vex o😆,,,
ReplyDeleteBut bros you didn't tell us you want to marry her nah, so how can we advise you now? Some people can't put their eggs in only one basket..
Poster as she has refused to draw line , ask Holy Spirit to teach you
DeleteDump her immediately..
ReplyDeleteSIMP!
Boss i know say food don land o,,,
DeleteEnjoy
you are the side cock
ReplyDeleteHe isn't a side cock anything,.
DeleteI bet nigga aint getting no pvssy..
Na that friend dey bang that Shii and jacking it up like a mechanic
Alaye just move on and leave this kind woman and I don’t want to hear any pls talk to her,make her see reason bla bla bka
ReplyDeleteYou are the side BOO!!! She is not really into you😛
ReplyDeleteEerrmm I don't totally agree with Stella's advice. I'm sure everyman know their woman has another toaster but to flaunt it to his face is a NO NO, that's lack of respect for the other partner. Poster, start calling other girls in her presence too.
ReplyDeleteMore like poster, start getting courage to leave this relationship, hope asap or as soon as the year ends. You’ve complained severely and no change. If you’re a faithful man, you need a faithful woman that’ll love and cherish you same way you love and cherish her. There’ll be peace. It’ll be a huge problem in your Marriage if you end up marrying this woman trust me. There will always be a 3rd person. Who wants to deal with that. Mtscheww.
DeleteIts obvious she values the university male friend more than you.
ReplyDeleteSo wat you gonna do about that??
Dont be a simp
She doesn't respect the relationship she has with u . nobody is saying she should drop her friend for him but when u are with someone u love, you don't want to hurt them
ReplyDeleteVery true ☺️
DeleteI won't even disrespect and disregard a fvck partner this way by sending my main or another girl picx in her presence..
DeleteEven if you'll do something like this, you do it without the person with you knowing, it's stupid..
It's the height of disregard..
Honestly, I'm beginning to think this SIMP thing is actually a spiritual attack, it just have to be,. I mean, how can a man just be totally dumb in this shameful manner..
It's like pastors would start adding it to their deliverance prayers..
Poster, she doesn't value you, maybe she wants to use style to initiate a breakup. So just get read for the unexpected.
ReplyDeleteIf my friendship is threatening a relationship I value and prioritize, I will cut off that friendship, if it gives my partner (who is reasonable ) security and confidence in our relationship and my love.
ReplyDeleteShe is not ready to set boundaries, is indifferent as to how her relationship makes you feel and doesn't care if it jeopardizes her relationship with you.
She had a sexual relationship with this person in the past, so your concern and anxiety are reasonable.
She has told you that her friendship is more important to her than her relationship with you.
She has not pretended that she loves you deeply and wouldn't want to lose you. She has made it clear that she chooses and will choose her friend over you.
The ball is now in your court, make a decision that you consider best for yourself.
By the way, is the guy her business partner?
Have a conversation with her.if she's ready,then get her engage.let her ex stopped every communication with her.
ReplyDeleteWhich kain advise be this?? Get her engaged ke
DeleteRun ooooooo
ReplyDeleteThe ex is wicked. He knows she is with you. His type of wicked men gbensh only married women to oppress their husbands. Even if you marry this woman, her ex will continue to gbensh her or trouble her for that or give her money. You may not have rest or respect in the marriage you seek with this woman.
ReplyDeleteWomen who get spare man no dey respect husband before and after marriage.
You never see wife yet. Waka go front.
By the way, I am a man.
He's not wicked anything. The girl assured him her love that's why he's that confident.
DeleteThis poster is a weak Simp; that's why she positioned him as a side mugu.😁
She has a point. Being a girlfriend is not a status or show of committment, why should she sacrifice a friendship she has been in longer for the instability of a girlfriend/boyfriend situation that can end tomorrow?
ReplyDeleteThank you for this comment.
DeleteTraits of narcissism spotted in the poster. She is just your girlfriend and you want to determine who she talks to or not. If she turns to wife, it is to become a shadow of herself. Away with you and your controlling self (hisses).
18:17 and 19:14
DeleteRemember to post same comments the day a woman writes in to complain about the same behaviour from her boyfriend.
Both of you are not serious..
DeleteThe person we're talking about here is an EX..
An EX who they had fuckd, calling to ask her to send her pix.. who calls for pix? Obvious flirting is what you want to make the guy look like he's over reacting..
See your mouth like narcissist
I believe the main issue is that she seems to chat with him when they have something planned as a couple. She could respond to his messages later na. How would you feel going on a date with someone and the person spends their time chatting on their phone instead of spending quality time with you?
DeleteYou people on this blog en..chai.he’s a narcissist because he’s trying to protect his relationship.no be dating Dey turn to marriage?
DeleteMe I don't support rubbish.
ReplyDeleteYou are obviously the side boo. & she can't hide it.
She doesn't rate you boy, what are you still doing in that relationship?
I can't disrespect my man like this, even if he misbehaved I rather leave than throw rubbish to his face. Cos i wont take it if dished by someone else to me. This is so immature,..... people with their different ways sha
Relationship wahala no be here o
ReplyDeletePls people read to comprehend, this is not friendship. He is an EX for crying out loud, how can you choose an ex over your present relationship?
ReplyDeleteShe is disrespecting you. Her actions are inappropriate to your relationship. What you should do? I don't know cos it's up to u.
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeletePoster your girl is cheating on you with her ex by giving him attention, you have to distance yourself from her and look elsewhere. Since she cannot sacrifice her friendship for relationship then you should pick who you want to be with .
ReplyDeleteIf she was the one wearing this shoe what would she do? Is time for you to count your lost and move ahead. You may propose to her and she will still pay attention to him. Give her some space from now to see if she will come back to her senses.
You have NOT found your missing rib yet unless she changes.
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