What you are about to read will shock you!!!
Actress Empress Njamah has revealed she was dating someone who took everything she had and beat her up everyday...
She says she wanted out and he began to blackmail her with nude videos he made of her...He wants four hundred and fifty thousand dollars or he will release the videos...
IN THE VIDEO SHE POSTED SHE SAID
''I'm doing this video to clear the air and also to save a lot of women. I'm a victim, it can happen to anyone, it's not easy to tell a story in a society where a lot of people will criticize you and say all kind the of things but the most important thing is I am out there saying this to encourage a lot of women to speak up
I'm a victim of blackmail, it's not being easy coming out to do this but Thank God I'm alive flesh and blood, and I will heal.
A guy that one couldn't even call a human being, changed; he started hitting me and when I wanted to talk back, he took my nude videos and says I'm going nowhere. He changed to an animal, beats me up, locks me inside put the keys in his pockets in my own house, I didn't have access to leave my room.
This is a guy who lied to me that when he came to Nigeria, all his things were stolen, his phones, clothes, credit cards. And that he needed lawyers which I gave a huge amount of money in millions.
I took him to Abuja, he started living with me and I became a shadow of myself. He came into my life with pretense of wanting to marry me, I didn't know he had other motives. He came when I was very vulnerable ,when I lost my friend Ada Ameh.
I have been speaking with this guy's for months on the phone, speaking with people I thought was his relatives, everything was scam. He came into my life, said he couldn't leave me because I wasn't okay. I really wasn't okay I was hiding it from the press.
He said he was going to stay with me, I didn't know he was busy gathering his materials he was going to use to blackmail me he saved my naked videos.
I came back and said no more it's better I'm alive to share my story than being in such a mess and being beaten up every minute. I had to run away from my house.
This person actually bought a ring forcefully did a video and posted my page because he had access to my phone. He changed all my passwords, log me out of everything I had. I didn't have access anymore. I don't mind because I'm alive.
I ran that night into the streets, not minding how I fell into a gutter. I was able to see a mallam who helped me with his phone, I called my brother, he picked me up from a hospital then the following morning he took me .
He beat me up, broke my TV. People who came to visit knew I wasn't okay. He would take me to the hospital, he made sure I don't spend time with people so i don't share what I was going through. he close marked me everywhere. My family knew I wasn't okay but I wasn't speaking, they came to the house to check if I was okay but I still couldn't speak. I couldnt allow my mum hear such.
When my family left, he bounced on me and said I called my family and that there's nothing they can do, that he was ten times ahead of them.
Two Saturdays ago he beat me up and took me to the hospital. The Empress you know became a shadow of herself, my social life... I couldn't post anymore.. my fans where asking if I was okay or still mourning..
He wrecked me, i noticed he had videos of other people. most of my colleagues, their chats and everything. I know these people can't speak up because they are scared.
On my birthday, I don't joke with my birthdays but this one was the worst birthday of my life. I needed to clear the air I had to go on my page to see the videos he posted. Does that look like something I'll post! I was under duress posting that engagement.
The ring he got was fading my finger, it was burning. He can afford a ring obviously.
He came back after looking for me, took my car, My international passport, the remaining money I had left, my iPad..
Airpods, Two bags of my valuables and left.
He has the guys to be sending me n#de videos that whoever I tell he was going to put it out there. He's the one chatting, Hacked my WhatsApp, I was able to get my sim card through IT people after he had done the damages. I'm not the one handling that page, for now the rest of the story and details have been told to the appropriate persons.
I just wanna thank those that I've been checking up on me, I will be fine obviously. My family is here with me, my Friend I'll be fine. I love you guys
Those of you that are afraid, come out and speak up, speak through me I know your videos I know what you are going through.
THE POST ACCOMPANYING THE VIDEO
''SCAMALERT
I would like to bring to the notice of the general public that my account @empressnjamah has been hacked and is susceptible to scam, please refrain from contacting or dealing with this IG account as i have no access to it at this moment.
The previous posts about being engaged is FALSE! Kindly disregard, the post was made by the unscrupulous element from Liberia whose aim is to taint my image
In the guise of being My fiancé
That video was made under Duress
The scammer gained access to the IG account as well as my phone, contacts, Email, Bank account and has my car, international passport and other valuables.
I’m being blackmailed, to pay $450,000
Claiming he loaned me the money...
Please beware of such dubious individuals who present themselves as genuine with good intent but underneath are “The Devil” whose aim is solely to ruin, dupe and inflict harm on anyone they come in contact with.
He also referenced that he is involved with a couple of celebrities, either for business dealings or personal relationships. However, I have made some investigations to confirm this claim as well as background checks on the information he provided prior dealings, and all were false. Please be conscious about who you deal with, either for business purposes or for relationships. Some People are out to dupe you. Sadly, I am a victim.
I have contacted the Appropriate security Agencies to assist in tracking and identifying this person as well as provided information where necessary to assist in apprehending him because my life is at risk.
Please be safe out there.
I’M NOT ENGAGED, fortunately I’m still alive after series of beatings and torture''
ALLEGED SCAMMER SAYS IN VIDEO EMPRESS POSTED
''You actually don't know what's coming.. Trust me, i swear to God, you dont know what's coming.
Everything that i said to you, i think you consider it to be a joke but trust me, its not a joke.. I know your day to day activities, i know everything you do on a daily basis...''
Can this guy be arrested please?
ReplyDeleteEmpress I don’t understand how you accepted a total stranger into your home as a lover only because he said he wants to marry you and you spoke with “his” people on the phone. Is this desperation or something?? When did Ada even died that all this is happening? We really need to be very careful in the world of today.
Fan Emmanuel
Fan Emmanuel thanks you, my thought exactly. What kind of vulnerability will make you fall into this mistake.
DeleteHonestly,not quite long Ada died and all this happened already?
DeleteThis is desperation. Thank God for your life 🙏🏻
and una believe all these nonsense wey she write. grown woman like you wan make us believe say foreigner go come meet you in the guise of marriage, live off you, chance you, beat you, lock u indoors comot with key etc. all these inside your own house o. As in a whole grown woman like you wey tear eye o, not like some naive teenager. the level you modern women dey take spin stories just to claim victim is appaling. una need to stop all these nonsense, its so disgusting. abeg make she comot for our face jor.
Delete@Fan Emmanuel, depression, can actually make one so vulnerable that the become so desperate as to fall into such...mental strengths and ability to respond to trauma differs from person to person...
DeleteMy dear Fan, I nor kuku say congratulations during uh ha wow for engagement ring, because this instinct I have by the power of the Holy Ghost is so accurate, as I knew something was off. I am in my mid 40s, is now I even value my life as a woman; if you like call me a snob, all well and good; as I have invested in myself so much to be rubbished by a Kangaroo , all in the name of I must marry.
DeleteI don’t even respond to men’s advances because most of them would have researched you and your family. Even as I pass for a lady in her early 30s, because my only mission right now is Christ , expanding my brain 🧠 cells and enjoying life. No pressure on me anymore because most of my siblings and friends are drinking hot pepper 🌶 in their marriages now and they keep telling me now, say na you come get sense pass. Marriage is an institution created by God, that satan wants to use to destroy the chosen ones and he has failed. Love ❤️ and light to you Empress! Guys be careful out there because very dark portals have been opened and so most humans exhibit the traits of high level beastly principalities and demons . See the Man crying in Germany which day, because of the Igbo woman he came to marry from Nigeria. The woman did not know, that the man was recording her. No fear of God again. When people start putting you under pressure to marry , know say your case file don reach satan hand. Please be careful out there. Shalom
Might be wrong but just my observation that engagement video doesnt look like a video of someone on duress. the story is not adding up
Delete@10:01 & 11:59
DeleteThank you both. Close marking inside hospital? She couldn't give the doctor sign she wanted a nurse and privacy for private check up. She couldn't enter the ladies to write on her palm or paper for the hospital staff.
Her brothers nko? Born and bred in Lagos. Visited and went away like that.
What kind of videos of her friends are in her phone that's making to FEAR the man?
When she ready to talk all make she come back.
The only gist here is that she just quarrelled or parted ways with her man-friend and they have not settled accounts
There is more to this story that empress is not saying. The man need to bring out proof of the so called $450k dollars she owes him. So ridiculous. The truth of this us somewhere in the middle. Why didn't her brother get him arrested immediately that he had enough time to pack all her things away
Delete11:36 there are good men out there
DeleteMarry if you want and stop letting dear of the unknown stop you
$450k my foot? Does this dirty thing look like someone that has such amount.
Delete13:22 there are and I always applaud them when I see them.
DeleteThis went south so bad. It’s astonishing
DeleteThis way this went south so fast. Astonishing n stop calling women desperate when they do things like this. Why don’t you stop single shaming and age shaming 1st
DeleteI declare that there are good men n I will marry one. If u let fear of all these stories get to you, you’re kinda opening yourself up to experience them. Power of the mind and tongue
DeleteSo happy my parents don’t put pressure on me to marry. Theirs was not perfect. Also many of their friends n siblings don see shege for marriage so ko Jo won Loju. I also know what I want. Nothing like pressure to marry from my tribe. That can cause bad choosing too.
DeleteLet me not deceive you but these examples of marriage n engagement gone wrong is just God’s way of opening the eyes of Nigerian society to the fact that there is more to the life he created for us than marriage. He desires marriage for us but with the dubious ways people are taking to get married in naija ehn, husband snatching, juju, n the high horse they get on when finally married looking down on single friends. Nah. Nigerians need to be humbled. Have u noticed that it’s when women are living their full life that husband appears. When u desperately chase something, it runs. Some people esp naija women make marriage their sole reason for being that they can commit suicide because of relationship failure. It’s very bad.
DeleteWhy would he post the engagement on her social media after she ran away from him? Who does that? She didn't post it since August and ran away from you but you obviously got hold of her password and not only locked her out of her accounts but went ahead to post the engagement as though it just happened. If a Nigerian guy did half of what this guy has done, he would be arrested and paraded as a criminal but here he is, accepting to have slapped her, locked her in, seizing her passport etc and even threatening her. Revenge porn is a crime. Stella didn't post his chats. What visa does he have to live in Nigeria? ECOWAS passport only grants you access for 6 months not indefinite stay.
DeleteThis is damn serious 🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteI thank God for your life Empress,that guy must rot in jail.
O lagbara o!
DeleteWhat sort of vulnerability led her into the arms of such a man?This is scary.
ReplyDeleteEmpress lost herself when Ada died,,
DeleteI'm so sorry for everything you went through baby girl, and hey please hang in there, everything will be fine!
I hope they are doing everything possible to get this monster right here...get him and make him pay for everything he did to you!
Honestly, I don't know why she always ends up with punks.😳
DeleteI pray she recovers everything.
Chai, Marriage ooooooh see what you ve caused.
DeleteGrief is such a terrible thing! Having experienced the kind of grief I went through 4 years ago? I have no words
Delete9:48
DeleteLike attracts each other.
Amos 3 v. 3
The avg Nigerian woman has a bad picker. When you are pressured by society to marry anything with a dick just to bear mrs. That happens. There are women of different countries that get well into their 30s n no pressure or peppering from friends n they find good husbands in the right time. Meanwhile naija women deal with self pressure, societal pressure. Not me. I shut it down. Stay safe though
DeleteJesus is Lord. That guy is the devil's incarnate. Gosh! Empress, thank God you're alive to speak up. He'll meet his Waterloo soonest. I wish you divine healing.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteAgbako
ReplyDeleteMay he be apprehended and punished. What??
As in how do you allow another human break you this much? I am not a celeb but the very first time an efulefu threatened me like this, I made him dance naked in the market square for several days. I don't have time for anything that will cause me headache o... The last thing I will take from anyone is threats, I am sure he wasn't with her 24/7 she should have already had her plans to purnish him. Imagine the man still had liver to threaten her hmmm. Person war Dem for don commit him teeth with plierr
ReplyDeleteAnonymous you get mind oh to do that kind thing to another human. Thou deserve it but some of us don't have small mind to hurt a fly.
DeleteIf a man threatens a woman with her nude pictures and she has the mind to deal with him please do not hesitate to teach that bastard a lesson.
Nawaoo, so person go stay like this....e go come dey snap herself naked 😬😁😁 after that e go come send am to a man...... all in the name of love....
DeleteLast time, it was Tiwa Savage, today another person will still send her naked pictures to another boyfriend.
The guy at first threatened just me, when he saw I was not having it, he brought in details of my family members and how he was going to eliminate Dem one after another. I told him straight up both him and the person who sent him will smell pepper. And they did. I don't look for trouble but don't wake the devil in me. I was very innocent of everything they planned against me.
DeleteUsually people that wrong me end up paying one way or another. No need for juju.
DeleteMy dear that I made him dance naked in market square doesn't mean I use juju. Everything isn't juju o.
DeleteCan't he be arrested already.
ReplyDeleteHe took advantage of her vulnerability, this babe has been through it all.When you are genuine and the other person is being strategic with you,it hurts so bad.
Sending you love and peace.
I pray for find happiness again.
Very painful. I have jammed Satan before, so I am more inclined to believe her. That people would wonder how I could ever be involved in such. And with hindsight I am wondering too cos no be jazz. I was also very vulnerable when we met. After the initial love bombing, this guy in a short while turned 360 and showed me shege! I cried and was depressed for months. I thought God brought succour to me, not knowing I was dancing with the devil. I can beat my chest to say I did this guy no wrong, as that is not the kind of person I am. I can't be categorical about Empress, but this na my own story. I thank God everyday for deliverance. 🙏🏾
DeleteLook at his evil and wicked face..
ReplyDeleteSome people are heartless 💔 and evil..
God forbid 🚫 this kind of person neat me and my loved ones..
My own question is how did she meet this guy and even allowed him have access to her things and body. From afar you can tell the guy is off abeg. How did she attract this kind man and allowed love blind her for a while. The guy is not normal. Entered someone's country and be threatening her boldly, no fear at all.
ReplyDeleteThe guy na scam. Any man that hasn't married you and he's so anxious about your money and wanting to possess it, be careful about this person.
DeleteLooks like a typical African male to me unless I’m missing something. I don’t find them attractive n I’m happy I stopped forcing myself to find them attractive
DeleteAll of this happened and you couldn’t get across to your brothers? Unbelievable!!!
ReplyDeleteHow did you give this idiot so much power to intimidate you like that in your own house?
Seeing this guy, I never thought Empress could have something with him. His looks says it all.
Listening to his voice note, I could tell he is a nonentity.
Sluttychic.
You have said it all, I kept looking at the picture over and over again asking myself how did express said yes to this one from day one
DeleteHer story is incomplete period.
DeleteFrom my local man knowledge, the only ground that her story has small credibility is the use of Jazz. Outside that, the story is full of incomplete parts.
Something is not adding up. Empress why do you like dating agbero guys?
ReplyDeleteVery good question.
DeleteMaybe that's her level.
DeleteSometimes, we give too much credit.
Ewooo, the guy has too much guts. Women, let’s do better, even my husband does not have access to my passwords intoto intata like this na… on top marriage promise oh! Hian! Chim o! I pray she recovers her passport cos that’s the most important. Bold criminal! I hope the long arm of the law catches up with him soon.
ReplyDeleteKaren
He could have beaten it out of her.
DeleteSpeechless.
ReplyDeleteThis is not good at all, I pray that help will come to you.
ReplyDeleteAll I'm seeing is Liberia man with such audacity in Nigeria, you never wan treat his f*ck up.
ReplyDeleteI just tire with some people, a military guy did almost same thing to me, I put him to his place even tho I'm a civilian, he wasn't living with me, even at that Empress you're too dull wth!
If l hear say this guy dey Liberia. Na naija him dey.
DeleteAs a single girl living alone, you must be careful the kind of men you allow to visit you, talkless of moving in with you.
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DeleteA single girl that's living alone should not welcome a male visitor.....let them meet in an open place.
DeleteCan't he be arrested? This is a crime naa
ReplyDeleteThis is some scary sh**t😱😱
ReplyDeleteI'm disgusted at his look alone God forgive me, women marriage is not compulsory o, this is pure desperation. Ada that died when? You're already living with the he-goat in your house?
ReplyDeleteA person that fetch ant infested firewood has called lizards for a feast.
Shey na clear eye you take do this one Empress and how come?
When did Ada die that you entered this kain serious relationship? And how were you mourning Ada and was still able to be in a such a serious relationship very fast?
DeleteI believe the face says a lot about a person and we should practice face reading and use it more. We have been browbeaten with this do not judge mantra that we forget to look out for ourselves and use our natural instincts for self-protection, especialky we women who are at a physical disadvantage when it comes to men. I am not talking about beauty, I am talking about energetic clues, evil eyes, evil set of the lips, hard cheeks, rough look and wicked demeanors. These things show on the face. Even the way ppl walk has an energy, the way they look at ppl and then speak of them and the things they find funny. Wickedness cannot hide, just like the sun cannit hide.
DeleteThe society will leave in make being unmarried look like a crime and you ask about desperation? A BV here wrote her sisters do not respect her because she is unmarried and you think women will not do whatsoever to answer Mrs. The Society must change!
Delete11:06 you are so right.
Delete11:06 spot on. I was in the UK and on meeting a certain black male, I knew he was off. He is slim but his face strong, bad teeth. U know how UK boys can be now. Rough looking. Everything about him that I thought , he used his own mouth to confirm to me. He has been to jail b4 for drug trafficking, he has multiple sex partners, women always pay for him n buy him things. He doesn’t believe in spoiling women. Just the lowest of the low. He takes drug sef. I asked him once if he did n he denied but later as he felt Comfortable, he agreed. He has even sexed a girl on office zoom call b4 and no one knew. Same girl he was insulting her, telling me that the girl is dumb but she is good for sex. I come dey wonder. Is it my thinking that manifested this guy to reality because literally everything I thought of him was spot on 😹
DeleteI’m shocked by some comments over here. The average Nigerian man looks exactly like this if not worse. And that’s what most of you women on this blog are married to. So why the forming n insults?. Why do u think u see some Nigerian women go n marry oyinbo? Abeg not everyone wants to wake up to a monster everyday n contrary to popular belief white men age better than black men ESP in marriage. They still keep fit but average naija man is eating 5 wraps of eba n beer at a sitting having pot belly n liver problems at age 40. Pleassssee
DeleteAnonymous 11.06 well said. Thanks for taken your time to write that comment.
Delete@ 11:6 I like your comment.
Deletesome of you read but dont comprehend. they have been talking before Ada died. it was after her death he became close as per comforting her and all...
DeleteEmpress you have already made the mistake of trusting an idiot into your house, why didn't you do the investigation when he came to you with those lies how he lost his phone blah blah. You should done your findings before accepting that broke ass into your house.
ReplyDeleteNow he is looking for money which will never stop, even if you give him the total amount he is asking for after some months he will still blackmail
You did the right thing by speaking out now but you should have done this long time ago.
Oga gold digger you can keep her nude cos no one is interested but if you decide to share it on social media. It will only last in the mouth of netizens for just one week and we move to something else that is trending. You will get your match, your cup will be full very soon.
Healing for you Empress
Mtchewww I don't like saying my mind in things like this cos e dey vex me! What kind of human being is this one now?!
ReplyDeleteI cannot believe this . Didn’t Ada die this year ? And yet she met a man , moved him to her house and gave him that much access to her life ? I thought Empress was smarter than this. Ah! On top marriage promise ? How vulnerable was she ?
ReplyDeleteA man laid his hands on you over and over again and you were going back to him? In your own house?
I’m not even blaming her but this is too much.
Anyways he can’t release her nudes or he’s gonna spend jail time . Idiot
Lady MorgiannE
The ironic thing is there are many men out there exactly like this guy. They are lazy and broke but think they are God's gift to women because of the member dangling between their legs. Many women are the breadwinners of many homes but they will never say anything because their men has subjugated them into that state of total submission. The day Nigerian women will open up about their travails, this country will kukuma scatter.
ReplyDeleteYou said it all
DeleteSister, heal yourself of man hate. As much women breadwinning so are men if not more. There are men carrying the burden of their wives' families and communities.
DeleteMaybe you need to review your circle of men if unmarried. If married, God will help you.
Stella, please post. Thanks.
Not man hate but the fact. Argue with yourself.
Delete13:06
DeleteMen are PRIMARILY PROVIDERS, PROTECTORS
After that you have little else going for you, you do not carry pregnancy or nurture full time like women only a 🤡 who believes it is AN OPTION
Anon 14:25 Gbam! You hit nail on the head. That’s why I can’t even get behind this 50/50 rubbish that some people tout all under the guise of keeping a man in marriage. It can never be 50/50. There are usually cracks in such marriages. I have an aunt that was boasting about how she n her husband share bills and the time she was earning more, she paid more. I kuku no say anything as that’s her life Choice. To her husband’s merit he helped out with chores n cooking from time to time n instructs the kids to help out. So it seems to work for her for now. She is an exception but many women are not like that o. Na them go born pikin, do chores etc. But me personally, I cannot have a husband that I’m paying equal or more money than. He must pay more. My dear if a man don’t want to spoil you, provide for you, there is something fishy . All this build with a man nonsense . See how it turned out for may edochie and even Anita Okoye. Men feel good providing for a lady
DeleteSee the ugly thing! You people that settle for anything at the mention of marriage sha. God forbid
ReplyDeleteThere are fine devils out there.
DeleteMarriage is so important we must pray seriously before going into it.marrying the wrong one, is like living in hell here on earth.
ReplyDeleteThank God sey she no marry am. It would have been worse.
DeleteShe wan marry niiiii
ReplyDeleteMany ladies throw away good relationships to fall for terrible ones because the guy looks good or he seem to have everything. Most of those guys spend alot to look good or buy stuffs just attract those kind of ladies. Then drain them of their money.
There's nothing spectacular about the guy up there.
DeleteFelicity
Many guys already knew what you want...so they will take advantage of you, in so many ways...to the extent that... they will start manipulating you.
DeleteWhat are you on about
DeleteThis guy isn’t cute and wasn’t spending on her
She needs to involve police in this matter
ReplyDeleteThe guy's face alone is threatening me as l'm looking at them.
DeleteI'm just speechless.
ReplyDeleteWhat a disgusting looking man with evil heart.
He must be arrested
ReplyDeleteShe needs police 👮♀️ sharp sharp !
ReplyDeleteI was pissed while listening to her video. How could you allow someone treat you like that, why? By the way, I thought she was married to Daniel Lloyd, that actor
ReplyDeleteShe's never been married.
DeleteBianca Bruno
Love and desperation is never a good combination
ReplyDeleteGetting involve with the wrong person/partner has tarnished a lots of people's image..
ReplyDeleteI am sorry, but i hold an unpopular view here. I do not believe this her story. Empress, when you are ready with the truth, come out with it. It is even better to keep quiet and leave it at sm1 is blackmailing you than come up with this bullshit. Pls, it is my opinion and i know the trend here, once you have a favourite, they never do wrong in ur eyes. Drop ur comment and run along. Yes i said what i said, this is all lies, when she is ready, she would tell the truth.
ReplyDeleteThank you...i swear this is all lies, i am surprised people actually believe all these. The story doesnt add up at all. Ada died just few months ago now, and all these have happened after that? She never talk true, i no be mumu to believe this
DeleteAnon 10.57 you said nothing but the truth
DeleteHave you seen the video in which he openly threatened her that she doesn’t know what’s coming? The video gave credence to at least some of the things she said.
DeleteI stopped reading when she said he bought a ring and forceful did a video... Very stupidly cooked up story. She must think we're toddlers.🚶
DeleteThank you anon. I like Empress but I don't believe her story.
Delete10:56
DeleteOver thank you.
This woman was/is an actress.
12:07
Those words may be threatening. But in what context where they said?
What is inside her phone that her friends are afraid of too?
I believe her cause he admitted to posting the engagement online
DeleteIf she was into it, she would have done it herself. He didn’t have to post it
He posted the engagement after she ran away! She didn't post the engagement because she was probably waiting to be sure he was for real but after she ran away and he seized her social media accounts, he posted it as though they just got engaged and then reached out to blogs to tell them the engagement has ended and admitted to posting the announcement. Which sane person would post or announce an engagement after it ends?
DeleteThis needs the law. Since there is video evidence of a publicly made threat by him, the report of hacking, plus recording someone nude against their will is a crime. The law is behind you on this one and you can go to the police.
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to you. Women who are naturally gentle have to spend more time vetting romantic interests because these women tend to attract controlling men. This one here is even wicked and controlling. Don't go by face alone and please stop inviting men to your homes. Since we are physically not as strong as men we should be protecting our spaces with more vigilance.. A man should not know where you live or should be able to enter your home so soon, when you don't even know him well. Please even in vulnerable periods we must think safety first. Our safety should always be number one!
You are very correct.
DeleteThat’s true.. Women need to be vigilant at all time
DeleteI’ll continue to preach the word of God, even though we are in a generation that feels sining is fashion. Stop fornicating, people stop fornicating. If you read the rubbish she wrote up there, fornication is the cause of her problems. It is the only reason why the guy is holding her to ransome. If she had closed her legs, it would have been way easier for her to break off from him, and he would not have any nude videos of her to share to the world. People stop fornicating, it is not too late, repent and go back to God in patience and in prayers and He will make a way out for you.
ReplyDeleteNo. Wickedness is the problem, an abusive and wicked hearted man is the problem.
DeleteThis man exists and millions and millions of men exists who are just as wicked and black hearted like he is, when those men marry women who did not fornicate and do the same wicked acts to those women then what is the fault? Are women who married as virgins who never once fornicated not getting beaten to an inch of their lives in their marriages? What of the ones who have lost their lives?
These things can happen with no fault of your own. That’s how some friends of mixed gender came to visit me and wanted me to go out with them. I was not ready so I asked them to wait while I quickly had a shower and got ready. One of the male friends who I didn’t know too well asked to quickly use the bathroom before I showered. After I finished showering, I was putting on my body lotion and face cream in front of the mirror in the bathroom when my eye caught something placed stylishly behind the pile of hand towels on my cabinet. It turned out to be a phone that was recording. I played the recording and there was myself in full view having a shower, putting on body lotion etc. I was so horrified. Imagine if I hadn’t seen the video? That’s how I might have been blackmailed and who would believe that it was taken without my consent or knowledge? I would have been accused of sending nudes to men or “fornicating”. We all need to be careful in every situation. People can be really mean.
DeleteJeeeesus God saved you ooooo. Thank God you saw that video. How horrible!😭
DeletePoints well made @11:00
Delete12:25 OMG
Delete12:25
DeleteChai you didn't smash the phone to pieces then burn it after the owner has spent 3 nights in a mosquito infested cella d beaten blue black after being disgraced to those his friends as a filthy rotten pile of dog poo
Do not protect or cover up such VERMIN
Opportunistic PREDATORY Animal like it,him is too good a word
@12:12, Empress has admitted she use gbensh as mourning balm. Leave other women matter. Where is the proof of the hospital visits. Did the man sieze the hospital records? Every Doctor can easily identify blunt force trauma or bruises and will record it in the hospital note.
DeleteYes, her relationship with the man went sour. But this story she told is not rounded. It is templated
Watched the video and she sounded and reasons like a twelve year old, to me Empress hasn't said the main thing. What gave this guy such guts within a short period of time? Why didn't she arrest him since?
ReplyDeleteI feel like slapping you Empress, you want us to see you as a victim sorry it won't work that way not on the details you brought out yourself.
To start with, Ada died few months ago, she is not blood related to you, yes death of anyone close to you either blood or not is painful but not to the extent of losing your mind and becoming foolish, own up to your desperation and leave Ada out of it.
You are at loggerhead because both of you are desperate.
You just reminded me of you and Timaya, thought you learnt your lessons then but hey! Common girl ....to whom much is given much is expected
Her sounding and acting like a child is normal for ppl who have been abused. Even children growing up in abusive homes regress. Regression is one manifestation of the personality change that abuse brings on in ppl. Too much is lost when abuse enters the picture and that is why leaving on the first incident is so important. The longer a person waits the more damage is done and real healing becomes harder. Sanity and peace are more important than pride and shame in these shituations. I wish her all the best
DeleteThank you, she never talk true wetin happen. She sat down and cooked this story, there is more to this
DeleteEven when she ran out of the house the first thing should have been to run to the police even her brother did not call police they kept quiet until the guy was able to move her car money etc and ran out of the country. Why why why
DeleteFan Emmanuel
These are my exact thoughts. Her story is not kosher
DeleteHer celebrity status likely. See, this celebrity business and reputation keep many of these ppl boxed up. Since they are the product they are selling, everything they do and say carries more weight than the average person. Imagine the everyday woman who has nothing to lose, yet still not running to the police for help, much more these celebs who everyone knows them and then their entire business will be on the front page.
DeleteYou diminishing her grief cause she’s not blood makes your other points lack power. You don’t understand grief if you think that blood matters
Delete@13:31 Your comment is worse, you have no point at all.
DeleteHow can she keep quiet till the man made away with her valuables in her own country, is she that daft? she could 've saved herself a little. She's clearly not saying the truth.
I am not a celebrity, but speaking from my experience, the shame wey catch me ehhhhhnnn no be here. Couldn't tell anyone. I repeat na God save me.
DeleteAnon 14:48, you really understand, people that haven't experienced a mentally imbalanced person abusing them before can't imagine this type of scenario. It is very possible what she said it's true, I had a 6 month relationship that still causes me PTSD till today so I can relate. Love and light to you dear Empress and thank you for speaking up, no matter the backlash.
DeleteI don’t why I have a funny feeling about this story.
ReplyDeleteMr Man you are mad!! Release the nudes!!! Release the videos!! Nothing person never see for life before. A demon in human form!! Empress please do not pay any blackmail money!
ReplyDeleteAbi nau. He should release all. Na nudes we never see? Let him face the law. His own story was rushed that he had to corroborate her story in many areas. Monster. When some men misbehave they always use infidelity as an excuse. Mtchew
DeleteThat's why I like oyibo women. The first thing a white woman will do is to report to the police and immediately the abuser is arrested and prosecuted. Nigeria police should not let this Liberian man escape. I hate blackmail. But why una dey like film una self when naked?
ReplyDeleteHe has escaped already, in this video he was surrounded by white people
DeleteFan Emmanuel
That’s because western society will back the victim of the blackmail. In Nigeria, they’ll call the woman “loose”, criticise her “fornicating” or making sexual videos. Very little will be said about the blackmailer. The woman’s reputation will be completely ruined and the blackmailer may walk away scot-free with his reputation intact.
DeleteTo build catalogue or profile.
DeleteWhen we see their 70 -80% naked dressing or pictures in public, we was and wow right?
This is not true. White women suffer in silence as well
DeleteMy two cents. I am not saying empress did well or not, it is not my place to judge her but I see a lot of judges and “judginas” writing that she sounded like a twelve year old in her video yada yada yada… Do you guys know the meaning, effect and impact of abuse? Especially in Nigeria, a country that has barest respect for women’s rights. I am not surprised the guy gained access to her, she must have been quite vulnerable. Victims of abuse also find it hard to ask for help, in fact, some go back to their abusers multiple times. I salute her courage for making the video and pray she gets the healing she needs.
DeleteBlack women mostly have normalised abuse because our society hardly backs them up. Many don't even know what they are facing is abuse. They will be advising others to endure rubbish.
DeleteThat's why I like oyibo women. The first thing a white woman will do is to report to the police and immediately the abuser is arrested and prosecuted. Nigeria police should not let this Liberian man escape. I hate blackmail. But why una dey like film una self when naked?
ReplyDeleteEven the man's look sef. God abeg eh. Make I no talk wetin dey my mind
ReplyDeleteEmpress, you and this scruffy looking degenerate should not be sharing the same space for whatever reason except you like them scruffy and Irresponsible. .
ReplyDeleteBabe, you are in your 40s not 20s, been there done that, nothing should make you lose your mind because a man says he wants to marry you especially when you are a bit successful. Do you know why? You are older, you are wiser, you shouldn't get carried away easily, you should have learnt from your past mistakes and other people's mistakes. What if he killed you and absconded? I can go on and on.
Not getting married is not the end of the world. Common, I cannot take this burnt lips home as a suitor.
In any event, chin up and get the police involved. You will rise above this and be fine. Let the bastard do his worst.
Can happen to anybody. Most times these monsters have their targets.
DeleteThis is really serious,that guy needs to be arrested and dealt with.
ReplyDeleteScam written all over him. Girl, I thank God you are fine and safe.
ReplyDeleteI am laffing so hard that u guys think Empress is better than this guy, Empress is a scammer herself, u guys keep saying that she was vulnerable, can u be vulnerable to the point of sleeping with a mad person?? Empress takes hard drugs and and she is into shady deals with guys like this, Empress that I've been known is not classy or anything close to decent. How can u not know when someone is making video when u all are having sex?,too much drugs
ReplyDeleteChai insider haf come. See as you bring yourself out . I didn’t know this about her before
DeleteI hope you have firsthand knowledge of what you are saying and are not simply peddling rumours. The accusations you have made are really terrible and shouldn’t be said very lightly without being absolutely sure it’s the truth.
DeleteI just hope they are not videos of you taking hard drugs. Police must arrest you for that one.
ReplyDeleteOn another note, I just may go back to having sex only when it is dark.
The same song only the rythm has changed.
ReplyDeleteSince I was a young child, the way women deal with small boys who are self opinionated, "rightly rude" and who refused to be used as errand boys is to accuse them of peeping. Even the boys' mothers find it difficult to defend them against such accusations.
Today's woman has replaced peeping with nudes. Want to finish a man, accuse him of threatening to release nudes. Almost all women and men will support you
To clear his name then he needs to come out with proof!. Most if the time when women say this they have proof he said it!. He should show proof of the money she owes him!
DeleteExcept it's jazz I don't believe this
DeleteBut the man has stated he has her videos.
DeleteSomebody that said her mum would have had a heart attack if she'd married Timaya. How is this guy any better? Empress" you fall hand sha!
ReplyDeleteVery ugly and dirty looking guy. Gosh!
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If this story is true, jazz must be involved. Thank God she is alive.
ReplyDeleteIf you choose to FORNICATE, then expect anything that comes your way.
ReplyDeleteIt’s very simple.