Actor Yul Edochie has tendered a public apology to his first wife May for trying to force polygamy down her throat by marrying a second wife........
The Apology is somehow sef....
This woman called May changed the Narrative by refusing to be pushed into his polygamous circle, she kept quiet, no call out but seems to have grown bigger than she ever was....... it can never be the same between them
''To my dear wife,
Queen May Yul-Edochie,
I acknowledge that I hurt you deeply and I’ve apologized to you countless times.
I take the blame for my actions.
I agree with you that polygamy shouldn’t be forced on anyone.
You never bargained for it from the beginning neither did I.
But I guess life happens.
You already know the whole story.
I didn’t do it to disrespect you,
I didn’t do it to replace you nor because I do not love you anymore, no.
I have always loved you and always will.
I’ve been a good husband and a wonderful father.
I’ve supported all your hustle from day one, I have been an exceptional father to our children till date making sure they lack nothing and always there for everyone.
Out of 100 I have done 99 things right, hating me because of one thing isn't the best.
Nobody is perfect.
I'm not.
You're not.
Nobody is, except God.
Mtcheeeew
ReplyDeleteReality setting in,you don't know what's going on yet.
You have been restless since you started your polygamy,ask yourself if it worth your peace.
If May divorces Yul, his marriage to Judy won't last. Judy might be the one who engineered this apology to know where May is standing, some Men don't think ooo. A woman was sleeping with you under her husband roof, and you think she worth keeping for such number of years, till e reach this level?.
DeleteMaybe Mr Obasi waka for Yul. Someone from Uga told me how Yul allegedly nearly destroyed one actress home and the case was settled by umunna.
There is no reality setting in here.. Yul is complicating this thing. Every marriage goes through challenges whether financial, emotional, relational.. etc.. However, they HAD a successful marriage. Marriage is not a JAIL HOUSE...Presently, the sole focus should be the fruits of this marriage (your children and/or assets developed together).... 18 YEARS together.... This is a MILESTONE SERIOUSLY...Celebrate it and teach others how you got to 18 years.. People are struggling to get to 5 years out here...You TWO can handle this phase quietly, jokingly, privately and maturely... All your kids are almost adult.... CHILE.
DeleteAs for our ex member, YUL, you must STOP this unnecessary publicity. We appeal to you to give MAY her space AND time to reflect on her decision. She can take as much time as she want..... Just give her SPACE....YUL, you must STOP complicating this issue for ALL MEN.. These women are dominating this blessed STELLA space and we are on defense since this years.... However, no weapon formed against all married and divorced men (minus polygamous men) SHALL prosper...
Celebrate the 18 Years that you shared with MAY and give her ALL the SUPPORT (financial) that she needs or ask for.. without KICKING OUT the second wife out. There is a child involved and 2nd wife STAYS because of it.. Your entanglement was WRONG. Having a child made things complex... Our position, NO child is a mistake. You MUST take her in. EVERY child deserves that constant love from daddy and mommy daily. It is a BIRTH RIGHT for those that can sustain it till the child is an adult.....
MAY take your time before your decide...
Married and divorced men.
I know a woman that acted like Judy, forced herself into another woman's home cos of money, gave birth to two children.
DeleteNow the children are adults and nothing works for them, even the money the woman went for is no longer there.
Anywhere ,the children go, they will be told how their mother scattered a marriage and mocked the first wife. And how their dad was evil dealing with women.
These adults hate their mom with passion. They hardly talk to her and the said man don kpai for long sef.
I am beginning to suspect there's something Judy knows about Edochie family that she is blackmailing them for.
DeleteHow can things be falling apart and Pa Pete talked about Solomon, na like this Solomon take waka his own.
Only time will tell.
Yul wants to bring Judy into their mansion in Lagos, Judy wants to relocate to Lagos and stay in Yul's house but May refused, that's the reason for this apology.
DeleteMy 2 cents, To May, forgive him, but Judy should not be co wife to you. Please and please maintain your stand as not to be numbered.
ReplyDeleteWhat they planned didn't work, they want to change plan.
Yul is a NARCISSIST, he is free to take care of his children with Judy.
Don't ever accept Judy as a co wife ooo, that lady came prepared.
If she was single, it would have been a different story but a married woman that threw her marriage away with no concrete reason of cheating, neglect ,domestic violence or any form of abuse by Mr Obasi but her adulterous ways, she is worst than a scorned woman.
I guess Mr Obasi has remarried, so she will be out to destroy everything about Yul.
This right here 💯💯💯📌 no woman deserves this, i wish her all the best
DeleteThat's how you people would be pushing May until things get out of hand.
DeleteAnita Okoye has left with nothing. And Paul hasn't stop to exist.
Keep pushing her o, until you people push her out of her marriage and una eyes go clear.
Some of you dey chop shit for una own marriages o, but still tanda gidigbaa.
Makachukwu this Yul has such narcissistic tendencies. In the apology kwa, he ended up making it about how he is the best husband and father.
DeleteMay can stay or go, she may just be bidding her time till she finds a better man, especially with this new exposure this situation has brought her. But this Yul, he’s not a human being. This whole fiasco just exposed his true character. Taking a second wife is not even the issue at this point, but the way he went about it on the internet from the beginning, with no remorse, as if it is the most normal thing on earth… and now he comes with this selfish apology.
As for Judith, no words. You can see it in her eyes… chakakwu… her eye tear reach back
'Bidding her time till she finds a better man, especially with this new exposure'
DeleteWhich exposure? Ano akogheri!
Is it this south east london wey she dey she go find man? Man no dey for London o.
Anyways, on a serious note, Deed has been done and Yul would never throw away his son and the mother. He has apologised and It's up the 1st wife to decide if she's ok with that or do what Paul Okoye's wife did, stay put in UK and divorce Yul.
But before you do that, make sure you are highly skilled and financially secure to take care of yourself and your kids. Man no dey UK o and man no dey give money to women for UK o.
It’s the entitlement for me. May must have been going through a lot in marriage and stomaching it. Going by how boldly this man speaks and seems so entitled to her forgiveness in his apology. Unfortunately for him,This was her last straw
DeleteApple of god's eye, nobody is pushing May out of her home, but every sensible human will see through val and his anticident, that boy in a man's body is a mess. Women who know their worth, won't spend a sec eating trash from a messed up man, that being said may isn't a baby so she decides what's best for her. It's actually no business of we the online court only they choose to wash their dirty "pyants"in public so we we passer by will tell them where it's stained. It's then led for them to patch it or dispose... Talking about marriage and alot taking shit in it, my dear that is for people who don't know their left and right, marriage isn't the ultimate goal ofor everyone but Many married ones are actually living their best life in it and they don't give shit or take shit from their partners.
DeleteHmmmm so you still love her and still love Judy ,or is there anything you are not telling us.
ReplyDeleteEyaaaa, I hope they are able to work through this all.
ReplyDeleteGod forbid,his plans failed.
DeleteWay to go,Yul. 👍
ReplyDeleteWay to go where?
DeleteWhat about way to come🚶♂️
DeleteEka dear,for at least publicly apologising to her,he was all macho but now he is getting a little sense.
DeleteAnd you call that an apology??
DeleteWow!
Is that an apology? Or a self glorification. Please May should be allowed to take as long as she wants to get her bearings. If the case where to be reserved, would Yul accept this?
DeleteSee arrogance, continue to shalaye I pray she will continue to ignore you in Jesus name Amen
ReplyDeleteYou people want him to kill himself because he got a second wife?
DeleteNawahh 🤨!
No pleasing world people.😎
Let him remain with his second wife,Is it by force to be with May,a man that truely loves his woman won't disgrace her the way he did,his plan didn't work out.
DeleteThis guy is trying too hard to remain relevant. Com’on this issue has milked enough. It’s been almost a year. Enough already. I beg move on. NEXT!!!
ReplyDeleteWith all this he wrote, it's obvious yul isn't sorry for his actions. This doesn't look or sound like and apology.... May shouldnt dignify him with any response Biko.
ReplyDeleteGaslighting at its best. Well done Yul👍.
ReplyDeleteI swear down
DeleteI dey tell you.
DeleteCan you imagine?? 😩
If u like call me a winch but I don’t care. It gladdens my heart that May has decided to stand by her decision of not accepting polygamy (this apology is enough evidence)
ReplyDeleteThe funniest thing is that, she won’t even respond and probably reply by posting a bombass picture of her looking amazing on her page.
Loving this woman more and more.
Living in silence while Yul keeps running from pillar to post trying to seek whatever validation he can get from his fellow simps and useless aspiring second wives.
May, I pray God steps in as a husband for you, keeping you strong and helping u succeed while you face this extremely difficult period and of ur life.
Unfaithful men should never be allowed to eat their cake and have it!
👍👍👍
DeleteWell said.
DeleteExactly 💯
DeleteYou are not a "winch" atall. It's not even about the polygamy anymore. It's the arrogance and disrespect for his wife. All the nonsense insinuations about her person online. He's bn cheating on this woman and she's bn forgiving and letting him get away with it. So this time around, he thought it would be business as usual. After all the initial gra gra and online disgrace, he's coming to give lame apology. As far as am concerned, any female supporting what this guy did to the wife is an actual or potential home wrecker.
Delete@:17:44, you are very correct.
DeleteYul has been cheating on May right from day one, and May has been a loyal wife and submissive to him, yet Yul decided to scatter his home by having an affair with Judy and other women inclusive. Even after rushing to marry Judy
he's still cheating,,😬😁😁😃
And what that baffles me a lots na the women wey dey sleep with Oga Yul, knowing full well that Yul is married, that's how they will be sharing STD up and down.
Love is gone
ReplyDeleteTrust is gone.
The children are gone from Yul.
Yul is fading slowly...
His life will and can never be the same again.
He is now a shadow of himself. This is a big lesson to men out there.
I pray he doesn't die before his time.
Paul Okoye is jumping up and down, feeling cool. Time will soon tell on him. He has also lost his children to their mother, he doesn't know that yet. Time will tell.
I am a man. I don't pray for marrital mistake and error.
Anon, according to some men here who think themselves bigger than their chi, you are a simp while Yul is a real man. To them, polygamy is the answer to any woman's 'troubles'.
DeleteFinally the truth.
DeleteAnonymous 13:52 infact I had the same thought, paul okoye man ll still realize the truth as time goes on , he never knew.
DeleteHe Dey parade that instagram girl now as his African queen because they have finally gotten their divorce paper, I pray for him to have peace that’s all I can say. E pain me small say them no Dey again sha(Anita) imagine young sweethearts before they started having kids now living like neighbors in foreign land.
Mummy Anthony-Clever
Simp is just another word used by undercover homosexuals to drag straight men into the trap of hating women and disrespecting women like they do. Because I see nothing wrong in a man being mumu for his woman. After all he will be rewarded with sex , cuddling pampering, nurturing , cooking from the woman he is simping for. Which has already been the natural order of things. If a man sees no benefit in being nice to women then check it well, it’s because he probably sleeps with men on the down low.
DeleteThats what they deserve.
DeleteHonestly, l don't know why some men call their fellow men simp(s).....Oga Dante also uses this word often. What exactly does it mean?
DeleteYul is a classic example of a simp, in trying to prove he is smart he is I ndirectly showing us he isn't man enough. He isn't the first to wife multiple women but the way he goes about explaining his stupidity is very low . No strong willed guy will do all this
DeleteAll these Yul post recently, I am beginning to think is about Judy birthday coming up this month 31st.
ReplyDeleteI am happy this issue came up, we for support Yul as per young and vibrant candidate not knowing Oga BAT is better than him.
I love your Queen May is silently dealing with him.
ReplyDelete*how
ReplyDeleteLive peacefully and happily where ? Like live in the same house? Mtchewww
ReplyDeleteMr. polygamy. You've lost your peace, why na?
ReplyDeleteRest abeg! Ishhhh
May should keep ignoring him. He won't ever take what he's giving. Abeggi!
Completely! He keeps running from pillow to bolster, he needs help and therapy.
DeletePlease, that is pastor president polygamy. Get the titles straight.
DeleteThis one no just get sense..
ReplyDeleteTalkative..
The problem of his marriage is that he talks too much and he isn't intelligent. He probably enjoys listening to his voice cos maybe a lot of people have told him they liked the deep voice..
You marry second wife (whether she's worth it sef being another man's wife, a mother of 2 and being an 'old corn' isn't what I want to talk about), but you sha married her, good. Why you come come internet dey explain nonsense everyday dragging your first wife into your stupidity. She's even the one acting like a man and keeping silent. It must have been so terrible being married to a talkative shallow unintelligent fellow like you for more than a decade.
Always talking nonsense back to back, every post is a hit.
That's how the other time he posted about people worrying about people source of wealth but not worrying about their source of poverty. Something a Hushpuppy would post. Anyone with common sense knows wealth is achieved, poverty isn't, wealth is what people strive and plan for not poverty, so of course no one investigate poverty cos you don't have to do anything to be poor but you investigate wealth cos there was a process you took to acclaim it..
Na so him still talk say him won be president come talk say him get one big announcement, only to come and be begging his fans to buy him presidential form..
Later him talk say him won be pastor say him get calling, ABI na the one wey him talk say the second wife bring am blessings..
Always bringing shame to his much respected father EPA Edochie. A great intelligent man with a good name., Just because of his mouth diarrhea..You're not the first to marry more than one wife, infact na wetin dey reign for my state now, marrying two at once.. men dey run am lock up,. But you with you big mouth must attach embarrament with everything because you like to talk..
The irony of this is that if not that we're in an age were SIMPs are doing the most, in the days of the Real Men of Old, your type no go even see one wife to marry sef cos you'll be regarded as the community clown 🤡..
Werey
Dante!!!😂😂🤣🤣🤣 How do u like ur wine? And do u want a lot of pepper on d grilled fish? U too try jare,I wish yul can read this.
DeleteSpot on!
Delete🥂🥂🥂🥂🥂
DeleteEweeeeeeh!, See finishing.
DeleteSpot on Dante, spot on!
Yup is simply an efulefu.
DeleteDante!...you don vex!!
Delete👏 👏 👏
DeleteMay its up to you to forgive but please do not forget, women like Judy are snakes, vipers waiting to strike, be wife and guard your life and that of your kids jealously
ReplyDeleteYul ah dearest Yul whoever is your adviser hates you with passion. Just 3 days ago ,you were bragging now apologizing. The person is making you look and sound foolish and less a man.
ReplyDeleteHave you sat down and reason this? That a married woman that left her home and has been available for adultery with you ,is not for a keep? If she can do it before who told you she can't do worse in a polygamous setting and then think of the damage.
Yul, your life can never be same again but you can minimize the risks by ending your relationship with Judy, accepting your son when he is of age, take care of him very well as a loving father from now.
Stop all these directed and produced. Stay back in lagos.
Lmao @directed and produced
DeleteThat’s the thing. No one advised him. He is a narcissist who only does things as he deems fit from his small brain
DeleteChai,I feel sorry for this man. He's having sleepless nights and his peace has been taken.
ReplyDeleteMen are starting to know that their actions have consequences. The women of these days are not womenning like they used to and I’m here for it.
Delete16.10
Delete😂😂😂
See this one..
Dey play😂😂
May please continue to ignore him
ReplyDeleteThe silence is killing Yul, sorry my brother u will be alright.
ReplyDeleteYul, you may take care of your children financially but you have hurt them emotionally. My father had kids outside marriage while searching for male kids, it hurt me badly that even after his death a long time ago, I still feel he betrayed us despite being a loving father who provided 100%financially.
ReplyDeleteYou are lucky your own father still took care of you people, my own left because of male child and never looked back, I recent him
Delete@ Able God
DeleteResent* and I am so sorry about what you went through 💙
I keep saying this polygamy no be anybody mate, I come from a polygamous home and na me know wetin eye done see.
ReplyDeleteYou can’t love both women and kids equally, you must have a favorite, a lot goes down I no fit type.
Even today my dad is regretting it, but it’s too late for him, I can never encourage anybody to go that road.
May keep your head up high, Jesus got you
Leave people wey never fit maintain and manage standard girlfriend to dey yarn polygamy like say na wetin dem dey carry punish women, I have never heard of anyone that grew up in polygamous home recommending it, they always have terrible stories to tell.
DeleteSome men think it's all women you can marry, have children and discharge easily, you never see family that will run you down spiritually for messing up their daughter. It's good to always pray and hope for the right kind of people in your life and wisdom to manage your relationship and affairs in life.
He just needs to be quiet and stay in 1 place. He is always running shelter smelter. If you are an excellent father continue to do that
ReplyDeleteHe just wants to trend,na big attention seeker the onukwu be.
DeleteYul keep ur marriage out of our faces Biko ! Let us have a merry Xmas pls
ReplyDeleteHe is not having a merry Xmas now . so how will he allow you have one? Im sure by this time last year May was planning all sorts of Xmas goodies and festivities. But mgbeke Judy no sabi 🫤🫠 stolen meat wey don rotten by the time you wan chop am hahahahah
DeleteWhy is this once a great guy becoming a nuisance?
ReplyDeleteWhy are you always talking about your marriage that some people even married more than 3 wives and be facing front like nothing happened.
Your life your choice and decision. Why are you always trying to live on people's validation. Eme gi kwulugaba? Enough already!
Ifukwa Mmadu iwu onwie ntu.
Chai! This man bu nnoo ekwurekwu) diarrhea of the mouth). This apology no jig at all
ReplyDeleteI thought he said that he is a proud polygamist few days ago, nwanyi luo di abuo omara nke ka ya mma.
ReplyDeletethe relationship can never be the same, with the wife and the kids. kids hurt when they see their mums hurt. Yul should continue loving his new wife na. as you lay your bird so shall you lie on it
ReplyDeleteChristmas period is a humbling period for many men that feel they don’t need to do right by the woman they wronged. It must be a lonely one for him even though Judy is there. If you know you know
DeleteElejowewe, rest and let us hear word. Lousy apology from a philanderer.
ReplyDeleteAbi divorce paper don reach am??
ReplyDeleteIts well
Ewoooo I don't wish my enemy this type of apology o.
ReplyDeleteTrying so hard,if the table was turned.... how e for be?
"I guess that life happens."
ReplyDeleteWhat a careless way to explain a life changing deliberate action that is a SIN against GOD.
You were fucking a woman raw outside your marriage, you call it 'life happens.'
She got pregnant, you call it 'life happens'.
Not once.
You call it 'life happens.'
If your concubine had not presented you with a baby, you would have continued sleeping outside, opening your wife to disease, infection and your family to different strife that they wouldn't know where is emanating from.
And yet with such disgusting pomposity who are whining for forgiveness as if it is your right.
IT IS NOT YOU FOOOOOOOL.
It is the prerogative of the person you have offended if they wish to forgive you.
Show me the Nigerian man who will smile while his wife is sleeping with men outside and is impregnated not once and then asks him to accept the baby.
Show me.
Disgu.sting entitle.ed lot. Rubbish.
If you are practicing polygamy why are you wedding in church? Who exactly is adultery supposed to be referring to?
Pagans ba?
Honestly that lady called Judy should go and hide herself in shame.This public apology should be very embarrassing for her but as person wey don sell her shame nkor?
ReplyDeleteMay should ride on,you're doing well and I hope she doesn't succumb to pressure from Yul and his associates.
Did anyone notice that May is very photogenic? She always looks good in her pictures.
ReplyDeleteSeems May Edochie and Lilian Esoro are in the same whatsapp group. How they find the strength to stay completely silent after marriage bulala, while their men run kitikata giving explanations ever 4 market days is a wow!
ReplyDeletePls Igbos in the house, what is the meaning of 'butuo' where he said butuo nwanyi oma. Never heard that word before and I'm Igbo.
Like calm down ,good woman.
DeleteI keep saying they should use rope tie this guy down, he is running mad o.
Delete@Nedi, thanks
DeleteButuo is like an Igbo slang. It means calm down good woman. Or more like "do not continue being angry"
ReplyDeleteThanks 👍🏽
DeleteObviously, Yul does not have any peace anymore. Gradually, reality is setting in.
ReplyDeleteJudy should be ashamed of herself for sleeping with a married man, and also wrekcing his home, and Yul should continue to disgrace his family and their reputation, for not being able to control his third leg. After rushing to marry Judy, thinking that you are humiliating your wife May, not knowing that you are damaging yourself. Continue with the apology, your children also need apology for humiliating their mother before the public, your parents also deserve apology, even your fans, etc 😬😬😬😬😃 e don red for some people.
ReplyDeleteOga Yul, pls don't mess with a good woman, becos you can't eat your cake and have it back.
Judy should be ashamed of herself for sleeping with a married man, and also wrekcing his home, and Yul should continue to disgrace his family and their reputation, for not being able to control his third leg. After rushing to marry Judy, thinking that you are humiliating your wife May, not knowing that you are damaging yourself. Continue with the apology, your children also need apology for humiliating their mother before the public, your parents also deserve apology, even your fans, etc 😬😬😬😬😃 e don red for some people.
ReplyDeleteOga Yul, pls don't mess with a good woman, becos you can't eat your cake and have it back.
He wants to eat his cake and have it back 😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteYul you should be ashamed of your self, you did not see single young girls to cheat with, na a married woman of two? Another man wife? If I'm may I will only forgive you if I find out you were jazzed
ReplyDeleteSleeping with a single girl will not and will never justify this evil acts. Married men should only sleep with their wife
DeleteHe can’t have peace nah …. No be say r no born boy before … 3 lovely children with his wife … kilo tun wa ?? Abegii let us rest o ….
ReplyDeleteSebi u Dey do gra gra before , u don see say it’s the same coochie we all
Have ??
U don tire to Dey do step daddy to another man s children?
U never jam shogbo ! Yeye Dey smell 🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️
Big Daddy is capable 😁😁😁😄😄😄
DeleteAs at 3 days ago, he was a proud polygamous with his full chest. He and Judy openly disregarding May's feelings with their online Ijele nonsense. No remorse. No empathy. At a time sef, he tried to insinuate it was May's fault cos no one woman has all a man wants. Can you imagine? May is killing him softly by being simply beautiful and ignoring him. Oga Yul, she said she would not be numbered as wife cos her religion forbids it. Biko....maybe you should let her be
ReplyDeletestupid apology..he has mouth to be saying all these because May never go court...if na me i would divorce you and move on with my life...we can co parent in peace. let him enjoy his new wife...if he had just accepted the child and apologised then i will forget, but going ahead to marry a second wife that i can never take...polygamy is not in my own agreement and covenant of marriage ...
ReplyDeleteYul is senseless
ReplyDelete