US based Model Fancy Acholonu broke off her engagement with Actor Alexx Ekubo Online ....She wants him back and has apologized twice saying nothing makes sense without him.. This is Alexx' brief response to her public apology....
He has forgiven her but the big question is.. Will he take her back?
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Short and simple,not time to shalaye upandan
ReplyDeleteSharp guy, I like his style, very mysterious.
DeleteThis response be as e get.
ReplyDeleteHe shouldn't take her back. In my experience, this sorta union seldom lasts.
ReplyDeleteThe heart wnts what it wants. Don’t forget that they dated for years and may be a goodfit for each other. I’m sure alex have tried others to move on but didnt work out.
DeleteI thought you guys were the ones rumoring he is gay. Is he not gay again?
DeleteHow many years experience 😂
DeleteSomeone who had Fancy at his house chilling with him few days before Christmas. Shior. Make these 2 dey deceive themselves. Both are doing this for clout and never broke up. That's if there was even any real marriage in the 1st place
DeleteNo need for long thing , Alex be wise .
ReplyDeleteUnless she is ready to take all the shit or should I say challenges that comes with marriage without any complain ,that is when she should be thinking of getting back with him. Marriage is not a joke and with all that has happened between them,it won't be that easy.She has a lot of people in Alex's life to contend with.His mum,Sister and brothers,nephew,nieces etc.What about his friends.Even if Alex takes her back,it won't be as easy as she thinks.She will have to walk on egg shell almost all the time because no matter what she does to please his family,they can never forget what she did.The best thing for her is to move on.It's not easy but it is the best thing to do.
ReplyDeleteIf she is wise, she should just forget him.
DeleteThat is not true, This incident have taught both of them some lessons, they have grown since then. Both knows how to draw boundaries and respect each other. I noticed that he is no longer doing bestie bestie with Ebube and don’t forget that Alex was not blameless, he mudt hsve done something wrong only that she brought it online and her wording cast aspersion on his person. The gay rumour was there before their relationship, it was peoples dirty mind with uyi rumour thst made them make up story not her breakup.
DeleteAll those things are quickly forgotten but good families
DeleteThis is the truth
DeleteGbam. Ladies like that have this entitled mentality especially here in America and I blame our American society here especially social media age now. Always want things their way, hence marriage they find it difficult settling in a relationship/marriage. Don’t even get me started with white karens(women). 🤦🏾♀️ Hopefully she won’t apologize again after this sha. He don reply. Time to move on.
Delete"Here in America" has started again.
DeleteOga rest now.
Every day, here in America, here in America.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
😂😂😂
DeleteI just saw on Instagram that they are already back together there are videos of them together. It's going to be tough for her sha if we're her I would have started dating white men they love her type of body and they are romantic. I wish them well.
DeleteAnon.13:49 nah we see am oh ! The thing can vex me eh ! The way Nigerians abroad behave, l am in a western country too. Dem go just dey do, yangayanga, nah dem go first see "white Karen" " here in America" if you no wan see white Karen again, go back to your country of origin. Leave White women out of this nonsense movement.
DeleteEvery race have their, good, bad and ugly.
"Here in America" jesss! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He has always been a super cool being and of course,his colleagues say so too.
ReplyDeleteTake who back? No o.
He should move on to better things.
True!
DeleteI pray she finds love again.Getting back with Alex won't be that easy.Even if Alex forgives her and take her back,what about his friends, family members especially the mum.Unless she wants to be dancing to their tune all the time, because they will always remind her of what she did to their family.Even the children not yet born into that family will hear about it and use it to mock her.The best thing for her is to move on.The family will make sure she pay for what she did to them if she dare marry their son.For her sake and the sake of her unborn children,she should just move on.May God bless her with another wonderful guy.
ReplyDeleteLol..
DeleteYou said what about his friends and family only..
What about me, Dante 🤔.. do I look like a joke to you.. I go drag am to him last swag and cuteness.. by the time I'm done with him na only worwor go dey him body..
You don't know it's we men that'll suffer more from such, cos these girls would still think they can do and undo and apologize later then come back.. AHH.. God abeg oh🙏
You people are giving families and friends too much credit here. If Alex forgives and takes her back...anyone who really loves and cares about him (family and friend) will have to forgive her and get along with her for his sake. I want to believe Alex did something before she broke up with him,so nobody is blameless in all this. I wish them bothall the best,whether they get back together or not. Life is too short to throw away real love just because..
DeleteMake una save una breath..these 2 are back together already. Saw videos of her at Alexx's house few days back.
DeleteFrom the short answer, I don't think so. He has forgiven her but isn't taking her back. Most men would not. It's women that readily take back men who may have put them through the most wicked things and would not even offer a sincere apology
ReplyDeleteAre men scarce in UK, US and Canada? I don't think so.
ReplyDeleteWhy do ladies living in the diaspora throw themselves on men like this? Is this a Nigerian gene? She just cheapened herself. Now, he holds all the power and will humiliate her forever.
This guy did something wrong for you to call off your engagement, he hasn't even apologised yet for it. A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.
Fancy, you better get into the dating field. Nostalgia does not mean you should take him back.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
It’s harder for us here because believe it or not, there are way more oyinbo people here than black people and other minorities. It can be challenging meeting your own people and when you meet them, a lot are married or just want to have fun with you(not all) because plenty beautiful beautiful women dey here o hmmm. I think it’s mostly meeting naija men/women here is the problem though. The country is hugeeeee! I ended up marrying from home (my childhood friend). I have friends in their 40s still looking for a naija man to marry. I don tell them to jejely date other race since they’re not open to dating men back home. One found a Chinese man and now has a baby. So yea…
DeleteRest abeg..
DeleteYou don't know the value of what you have till you lose it, Nigerian men take care of women, Asin we are the reason for you girls entitlement mentality.. when foreign girls see this our traits, they don't wna let go..
We go soon leave Una for only those SIMPs wey no dey tell Una truth,na only to praise Una den sabi..
BTW, I have been seeing your comments about Alex doing her wrongs, how do you know that, if you're privy to the wrong he did why don't you share with us? Are you trying to say we don't have girls that behave like ogbanje and break up for no damn reason or flimsy excuse? You better stop this nonsense of always trying to paint women as saints..
Person dey apologize for the wrong she did, you dey here dey talk say na him dey wrong.. you dey the relationship with them? In fact you Sabi either of them before?
No vex me this hot afternoon abeg🚶🚶
Thank you so much DANTE, nothing more to add.
DeleteAnonymous 13:21 the truth is Nigerian women are the lowest on the pecking order when it comes to relationship in the diaspora. You can hate me for saying this, but it is 100% factual.
DeleteMost white men don't want Nigerian women. Arabs don't want them. Even indian men don't want them. Most other Africans don't want them either (because they perceive Nigerian women as brash, loud etc). Those that do (mostly) only fetishise them and only want them for sex only to satisfy their curiousity.
Nigerian men in the diaspora who are used to "worshipping" Nigerian women with suddenly realises that:
1. There are more beautiful women out here than our naija babes in the abroad (Go to NY or London, you go bow)
2. Those other beautiful women from around the world do not "carry shoulder pad" on their shoulders like Nigerian babes. You will say hello to a Nigerian babe, she will squeeze face, size you up and down and continue to press phone wanting you to continue to carry the conversation or even embarrass you. Other diaspora babes (i don't mean white women) will say hello back, engage you in a meaningful conversation, even if they are not interested, they will be nice about it and not embarrass you. Some of them even become friends and just total vibes, no issues.
3. Those other women find out that Nigerian men are very very caring. Plus Nigerian men excel in their career (due to hustling spirit in most Nigerians) and they find this attractive, so they want to die there.
So most Nigerian men in Diaspora see all of these and go for these other women. The few that marry Nigerian babes that live in diaspora will have vetted you to make sure you are correct babe from a good family or prefer to only date people they've known for a long time.
This leaves many naija babes single for a long time. And before you knock me, just know that I have a blood sister who is in same predicament, so I am telling it from her perspective too.
So yes, there is a high probability that Fancy has gone out there to date other naija men and they've shown her shege and she realised that Alex was really good to her. So she is trying to come back.
If Alex is smart, he should NEVER have her back. If he does, he just cheapened himself.
Thank you, Dante. I was wondering why everyone accepted he was the problem. No be everyone wey call police be victim o!
DeleteAnon 18:26 oh please ! Stop with the lies you conquered sassy feminine black "man" Lowest on totem pole for dating yet white men, who are your superiors, rush Nigerian women that are ready to have a white man..black men like you need to just face the hard and bitter fact! You don't like when your own Nigerian women marry out of the race, you get very jealous and possessive and start with the lies you mentioned above
DeleteDon't worry one black man like you don expose una envious and possessive ness towards black women. You don't want black women happy, you don't want to treat them right but you don't want other men to have them either.
Selfish wicked being! Una game don cast. Unfortunately for you, black women are no longer asleep or falling for your lies. "White men dont want you, white men don't want you" bla bla yet every weekend another one of you dusty black men lose your potential Nigerian wife to a high level white man. Don't go and improve your life o to gain a higher mindset of thinking to be husband material like your white superiors in 2022, stay here berating black women with lies that can never and will never be true! After I've finished writing this another Nigerian woman is being swept off her feet. The whole world is awake to the callousness of black men like you and how you mislead and trick black women into thinking only black men find them attractive. Pure lies and propaganda. Any black woman reading this if u enter 2022 limiting your dating life to only black men, you will have yourself to blame.. taste a white man's love today and you will never be attracted to black poopooo sticks called black Male eggplant again. Seriously. White men love you but most think you automatically want black men so they are nervous to approach. All u have to do as a black woman is smile and flirt with a white man and he is putty in your hands. Leave male apes alone in 2022 o cus they want you to hate yourself like they hate themselves
Anon who told u that pathetic lie?? Me and my Arab husband beg to differ. My nigrrian female friends and their white husbands beg to differ. The owner of this blog that you are commenting on her white husband beg to differ. White men and Arab men LOVE black women. This is why I say make una try to dey travel expand your mind so u don't come online making a fool.of yourself saying trash that will make u a laughing stock..if u actually stepped out if your face me I face you, got a passport and bought a ticket to fly abroad you would know this. Try to expand your horizon and stop sitting and assuming rubbish that simply isn't true
Delete.you sound uneducated and dull
Anon 18:26 Speak for your sister dear,if she is undesirable to other races of men, that's a story that is common to ONLY her and other Nigerian women that limit their choices to only Nigerian men. Those women do themselves a disservice though because Nigerian men are neither the most attractive high value or successful when compared to other races of men. The kind of connections the average Jewish, greek, arab or italian man has abroad, a nigerian man does not have what it takes to attain it in a million years so staying race loyal and only marrying Nigerian men is not in Nigerian women's best interest. The other anon complaining of Nigerian husband please wake up.nnigerian men are busy exploring other races of women and want your self worth low enough to accept them back after they have finished sampling and getting dumped by the white women they fetishize.
DeleteWhen I started opening my dating options after japa,Personally had no problem attracting n keeping the attention of other races of men, who are way more attractive and surprisingly spend more on me than Nigerian men. I had no problem getting a non black husband as well. Maybe YOUR sis ain't it or only gives off vibes that she only dates Nigerian men just like many other Nigerian women . which is weird because nigerian men are not attractive neither are they the most boxed up financially or the most generous to their women. And most nigerian men are not trying to date black because they think white female skin is exotic. Please black women move on! For every Nigerian man u think is rich, there is a white man with more influence who will make your life sweet. So I've always been confused why Nigerian women will japa and still be craving trash Nigerian men as husbands when they have access to plenty options.? Oh well. I guess that's more options for the girls wey sabi. Maybe the Nigerian women wey no sabi believe the lies from men like you, lies that you have just blabbed here about how white men and Arab men don't want Nigerian women. My dear..say what you know. Na them dey rush Nigerian women pass..na Nigerian women no dey look their side. I can tell you this for a fact. So many white men would approach nigerian women for marriage more often if Nigeria women give them green light.
Forget plenty talk. This fancy na full oyinbo spec
DeleteIf she didnt bag an oyinbo billionaire it's because she didn't want any and wanted Alexx
Which means her love is real. Alexx sef is handsome n doing great for himself, also be loves her more than she loves him
Which Is perfect
Really pathetic lie. Same Nigerian Me wey one Turkish and one oyinbo man wan die on top my matter for this UK. And them get bar too. FOrget. U know black man power no go ever compare to oyinbo influence and power. Sorry no offense but it's true. white men open doors for me and themselves that African men just can't. Sorry. Don't argue with facts. Never thought I would be spoilt so silly by men in this UK but oyinbo n middle eastern men know how to spoil black women o, especially if u know how to spot the good rich ones out of them. Them no dey disappoint Thank God say I don see better fine oyinbo man wey go spoil me o for this same UK where they say no husband. Isn't God good?? Bye bye to naijaa man strong headmen and their suffer head. Oyinbo don propose..turkish don say e wan meet my parents
DeleteWhich one will I pick now..? well I will let God lead. Thank God I stopped looking for Nigerian husband. If not this is what I would have been missing out on..didn't know they liked African women this much o. I don dey dull myself. Dear naija women anyone telling u white men don't like you is a big liar and you need to reevaluate that person's motives because their intentions towards you are not pure. oh boy them oyinbo men dey do mumu well for African women o especially Nigerian women
He may still want her back but because of what people will say he’ll not. Let him damn everyone and go with his heart. His happiness matters too
ReplyDeleteLol..
DeleteHim no go won try am.. with all the waters that has gone under the bridge, that babe crossed the line oh,. You guys don't understand.. she crossed the line,. There are some lines you only cross when you know you're not coming back, breaking a relationship online or involving the public in such sensitive matter is one of them..
It's easy to settle, no matter how much pains and hurt you caused when only less people were involved in the drama..
Alex would be dragged for life if him accept that girl back,. So the question is, "IS SHE WORTH SUCH LIFE TIME STRESS?"
She was listening to all those ladies telling her she's American citizen and the PRICE, that Alex needs her more than she needs him, her head come swell, she begun Jones,. Some of you girls don't know the amount and calibre of girls that wants us because we hide this from you so you don't begin to feel insecure, but under go come dey think you're all that😂😂.. I go just dey laugh the ignorance..
Furthermore, why is everyone not considering that Alex might already be in a new relationship.. so if you're his new babe that did him no wrong, he should dump you for that childish flat ass without common sense?
Going back to people who throw u away especially in such a callous manner only shows u lack self love, and it never ends in happiness for people who suffer from such. All u will get is "see finish" & more disrespect. I mean, are u a piece of rag?
DeleteDante, God bless you for this.
DeleteThe narccissm on this blog is mind-blowing. You all want Alex to take her back. Everything is about her..her...her...her. Apart from one lady (forgot her name) here, who was being objective, you all only care about her only and not the guy.
If role was reversed and Alex was the one that tarnished Fancy's image and came online to publicly beg, you all will destroy him.
This girl tanished Alex's image and reputation. His source of income is his image and this lady did not care that he could lose that source of income, sponsorship, deals etc for being "perceived as gay".
If he had lost all of it - He would have become poor, wretched. Not only that, All the family members who benefit from Alex's source of income will lose that source of income, he won't be able to pay bills for his parents, siblings etc. simply because of a post made by one toothpick.
Just imagine if ALex didn't bounce back and his siblings need school fees or his parent need medical bills paid and he is unable to fund it because of the domino effect of one toothpick posting a damaging statement on social media
And yet you want him to take her back and you are even making it sound like its no big deal.
If Alex takes fancy back, na me go even curse the guy sef. Abeg ignore my english - No be me get language plus i dey vex!
Oh well. Too bad. They are back together already. Do una worst. Not every man hates women n wants to be doomed to a life of painful singledom due to bitterness n bad personality
DeleteThis his response loud. In simple terms, "we are cool but there's no going back. " Dude has moved on. Fancy you should too. You waited too long and allowed the wounds to fester but you will survive, even without Alex. As for my guy Alex, Nna no going back o, upward and forward is the goal.
ReplyDeleteVery loud.
DeleteIf na my brother, I'll advise him not to take her back but if he decides to, who am I to refuse? He is an adult. If they do get back together, they should keep it off social media until after their 3rd kid's 15th birthday.
DeleteI can't advice him either to take her back or not to take her back in this kind of situation. Every human reacts to situations differently. There are some people who can still forgive and accept her back so long as she has realized her mistakes and has *genuinely repented* (Genuine repentance is very important) Also, there are some who would forgive but never want to have anything serious to do with her. While some even after subjecting her to series of tests and finding out that she has truly repented they still won't forgive .
ReplyDeleteThat girl behaved really childish. I hate it when a partner won't consider the other person before making such a dangerouse decision in public. This is someone you were once in love with. Someone you couldn't go a day without hearing his or her voice, someone you used to spend great time having meaningful and heart-to-heart conversations with and now there is a misunderstanding that could be settled reasonably but you didn't hesitate to bare all your private matter to the public.
I believe she had not really experienced life. How old is she again? because a mature person that has experienced life can't behave in that manner. No wander they say "experience is the best teacher" unless she is crazy and has refused to learn like Tonto and Nkechi blessing and that her crazy ex. Those people are too razz and can never learn.
She has tried relationship with other people and she has realised that there is non to be compared to Alex. She has learnt the hard way, now she is gnashing her teeth and wetting her pillow with tears as she cries had I known.
My only advice is that he should follow his heart. He shouldn't take advice from anybody. No adviser here will stay in that marriage with them. The most important thing is peace of mind. It's good if he finds peace in his heart by not taking her back. It is also good if he finds peace in his heart by taking her back. It all depends on his personality. Follow your heart Alex.
😂😂😂 see how Tonto, Nkechi and "her crazy ex" dey their dey stray bullets come hit them
DeleteBeautiful comment
DeleteForgiveness is key.
ReplyDeleteI am just enjoying the comments, keep it coming, who am to comments or have opinion on 2 adult lives, when I know the heart chọrọ ihe ọ chọrọ.
ReplyDeleteAlex do not accept her back.
ReplyDeleteForgive her and keep moving on. She is a disaster that will always happen.
Even if she has learnt her lessons and really learnt well about the importance of common sense, let her serve as a lesson to others..
DeleteTaking her back would make these people think they can just act like werey, apologize and expect everything to get back to status quo..
Asin breaking such news online, within a short time to the wedding in that disgraceful and embarrassing manner..
She might have learnt her lesson but let her go and put in good use what she's learnt with someone else, what if Alex is in a relationship low key presently and this one has sense? So he should end it and take back one who caused him so much pains and disgrace bah .
Nahhh!
BOSS DANTE, truth is that people like her don't change. What she will do next will be worst than the one she has done.
DeleteLike you said, let her use the lesson she learnt and go find
another man that she can "live her truth" with.
See small nyash dey shake.
I wonder oo, see small yansh dey shake🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteI like the response short and simple.
ReplyDeleteI pray he forgives her
ReplyDeleteI won't be surprised if they get back together.
ReplyDeleteAlex my man, Oga gave straight and simple respond.
ReplyDeletePerson go just carry Una dey cruise ...
ReplyDeleteMaybe them no break up sef just use us dey catch cruise
ReplyDeleteOmo with this kind of brief response hmmm looks like guy man don get another babe... that very day she posted her 2nd apology on IG omo I saw ogas status full of life... lol
ReplyDeleteBabe fucked up big time.
Something she should have quietly broken off and left she went berserk now she wants him back, it's somehow sha, i wish her luck.
Did he actually respond? I have not seen this response anywhere else...
ReplyDeleteThat picture he used...dem go marry. Abeg make Una allow him follow him heart; if he still loves her. E easy to apologise?
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm this type of response will send hay-fever quicker than expected...Alex the ball is in your court.
ReplyDeleteThis reply is painful ehn kai! E better say he no reply sef
ReplyDeleteI don't like commenting on things if the heart like this, but then....
ReplyDeleteAlex you only know whta you truly want. Block all the ouside noise , listen to your inner voice and follow what will give you peace, joy , laughter and satisfaction. No other opinions will matter much behind close doors with you.
Follow your heart my dear.
All these people crying in the comment section, what will you do if he takes her back? Die?
ReplyDeleteWell, they are back together, go and kill yourselves 🚶🚶
See them telling him not to accept her back like they are his father or mother. Mtcheeew
I sha ! Know this is Alex's best season ever.
ReplyDeleteEven comedian threw jabs at him, on this Fancy's mata.
Alex, here, your flowers⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘ nah man you be.....for woman to beg man ?
What do you mean? Women beg men more than men do. Women beg men even after chopping beating or they quarrel and the man is at fault, women beg men even after he cheats on them, women chop shit in a relationship more than men, so what do you mean?
DeleteHe has forgiven her and has taken her back. Make una nor dey chuck mouth for man and woman matter.
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