Have you encountered very very nice in laws who pray for you always, very very nice on the outside but inside, they are the ones behind all the problems you have in your life and Marriage......
Some do it via un-natural ways and some gaslights everyone around you...
Some are the reason you divorced your spouse and some are the reason you cannot marry the person you are dating...
Some are the reason you are always on guard watching your back...
Or are you the nice but wicked in law in your family?
Does this post ring a bell or scratch an old wound?
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I left them to marry their son in this order: mother first wife, aunty 1 - second wife, aunty 2- third wife and aunty 3 - fourth wife. Nobody will kill me for my parents mbok!
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Delete😂😂😂😂 Run 🏃♀️ Ooooo
DeleteYou can have a bad spouse. But may god help you if you have bad inlaws. I have terrible inlaws. Inlaws who believe that all that matters is money. These are people who grew up in straining poverty and just one of them has seemingly arrived. But he is the gang leader in terrorising my home together with their mother. I was respecting them before. But i have determined to stand my ground and give them fire for fire. If my marraige crashes so be it.
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DeleteMay God help u in Jesus name
What is your husband doing as regards this? Madam please leave the marriage quietly and have peace than fight for what might not last yet make series of enemies. Let God fight for you and you hold your peace. Once again, leave that marriage if your husband is not fighting for you.
DeleteHe is a man.
DeleteAfi suuru o! Marriage is not for the faint hearted. I know a lady that can use praises to finish your life. Nobody suspected she had tied all her inlaws inside pangolo and hid ontop of wardrobe. Her inlaws hated her as she had 3girls and no son, but na smile she dey use finish dem! They couldn't pinpoint any bad behaviour except threats that they will chase her out as her hubby is the first and only son.She said she will finish dem, before dey realise! This woman relocated abroad with her hubby and kids with the pangolo o. 😂🤣😂she carry problem give them. So they won't have time to reason her matter. Ha! Nkan shele o!
Delete😳😳😳 things de happen Abeg chaii
DeleteIt is either you are nice or wicked. You can’t be the two. One of my boyfriend’s sister doesn’t like me but I’m ok with it. For the weirdest reason, I don’t like her too and that’s ok with the both of us. His mum adores me and l love her too. No one else matters (I think)
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DeleteI am on this table and my life is on the line
ReplyDeleteYour life is on the line and you are still on the table? Meaning you don't value your life. You value marriage more than your life. Rip in advance o
DeleteMy sis in law is a witch. She supported hubby in getting married to me. Infact told him to hasten up before he losses me. Few years down, she wants to torment my life just because I don't worship her. Goes about telling anyone that cares to listen how to contributed heavily to our wedding. How she was the only sibling that supported us.
ReplyDeleteEveryone now thinks I'm a bad wife for not appreciating what she did for us. The day I'll open my mouth and tell hubby's family members my story eh and all what she has done to me that is the same day I'll warn her seriously and tell her that any day I see her leg in my home again, anything she sees she should take
Please press the ignore button,time will reveal things and trust me some may already know the truth. Don't tell her "anything she sees she takes o" the family will turn it right back at you if anything happens to her doesn't matter if you are innocent or not.2nd option You can actually sit with her and settle this as adults instead of going to explain your part to others.
DeleteDon’t settle anything with her, she go change the narrative. Allow nature take it course of exposing her
DeleteGbam!
DeleteThe family will never support you against their own. So don't threaten her or try to explain anything to them. Wait, did you not say none of them supported your marriage? And you still want to go and explain things to such people, people that don't like you genuinely
My mother in law. She is pretentious.very controlling. If she knows u will be in trouble over something or that someone is not happy with u,she will not disclose it o. She will smile with u and flame the embers in private. This woman will smile with but will be full of evil talks about u behind u. I took her like my mom when I married,became vulnerable with her but she repaid me with wickedness. God is a righteous judge! I am currently separated from her son and she fanned the embers to make sure that her son is not reconciled with his family. Imagine,hubby was guilty that he wasn't there when I put to bed cos of our separation and I wasn't in talking terms with him,so he wasn't told I had put to bed. He felt guilty and wanted to send me some money,his mother told him not to.
ReplyDeleteStory of my life. My mother-in-law sleeps in the church, forming Charismatic woman but she's the very witch holding the progress and marriage of her sons. So nice and full of prayers on the outside but evil behind the doors. I've left her son for her so that I'll have peace yet she won't let me be.
DeleteAnon 15:38, so your ex-hubby told his mom he wanted to send money to you. Ah, God Abeg o…what sort of mama’s boy is this? Olorun shanu fun wa. Please pick yourself up and move on. Don’t look back Abeg. God will continue to uphold you.
DeleteYour husband is your problem not his mum
DeleteBut he has your account number na
DeleteI tell you anons.
DeletePoster, why did you marry a mummy's boy in the first place? Or you want to say you didn't notice?
Why did he had to tell her that he wants to send you money? His mum told him not to send money for the upkeep of his new born baby and he agreed. The evil woman too does not want good thing for her grand kids. She is a witch.
He allowed himself to be controlled by his mum, mumu man. See, your husband is your problem, he and his mum. Leave that family patapata, face front abeg. God will provide for you and your children. Don't let them kill you for your kids o.
You and your husband were only separated.
DeleteYou and your family did not do right by not telling your husband you had put to bed. You were angry with him. Good. Were all members of your family angry with him too to that extent? And you think your family did right to allow you both aggro to extend to child birth?
As we blame In-laws, sometimes justifiably, we should also check ourselves and our families excerbating contributions.
My in-laws don’t like themselves.I have never seen this kind of siblings before.I blame their parents for all these.
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This is serious
DeleteTutu,I swear I could have written this myself. My inlaws have a very dysfunctional relationship that everything has an undertone,I mean everything. Very wicked! I keep saying my hubby hid this part from me when we were dating, else I wouldn't have married him.
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ReplyDeletePlease stop sending your husband to his family to answer and tackle his mother for you. It is risky and unnecessary. I tire today. I no want type plenty.
DeleteBut you too why are you having more babies when you clearly know that you’re not financially fluid ?why ?
DeleteSome of you are too irresponsible and end up blaming the family.
Do family planning and stop breeding. Look at you shamelessly saying that you contacted Stella like she’s an NGO.
Mtchewww
who was not buoyant? God forbid
DeleteAnonymous 08:40...I currently
Deletehave three kids...my hubby lost his job when I was already pregnant with my third child and I had placenta previa,which was why I went in for CS....before u insult me and call me shameless,why not ask questions,anyway I won't stoop to ur level....Stella sorry for the statement I used...u will always be bouyant....anyway I ve deleted my comment but like I said God has come thru for us,after my delivery,two months later...God blessed my hubby with another job...
Me na four witch sisters in law and the son who his over 40 can't manup ,saw me as a pride wife cos I refused to be housemaid for them.imagine sister in law who is married sending breast to her brother comparing it with mine
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DeleteYou say?????
I'm slack jawed.
You say wetin????
DeleteSending breast pictures to brother? Are you sure incest isn't going on too?
DeleteCraziness 😮😄😂😅😁 😁 😬
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Deleteyou say...Obara Emma
DeleteWhat type of madness and witchcraft combined is this?? Abeg make I close mouth.
DeleteI take God beg you, come finish this story ☝️
DeleteAre you sure they aren't f**ckg, nothing is new under the sun.
DeleteAll of you will see signs before marriage but still put head because of Mrs title.
DeleteWhen I got married to my husband, my in-laws pretend ed they liked me. After 2 years anytime I go out for prayers,messages keep coming up about my in-laws strong hatred for me. My mum's alfer ( Muslim clergy) made a soap for me cus of this. Now everyone keeps their distance. Una make una soon poor and want show me stress until? Them never born them well. They don't even visit,i don't too. My kids know them as their uncle's and aunties . In life don't allow anyone to stress you with hatred oh.
ReplyDeleteEwooo what did I just read😳😳😳 sending bress pishure ke??
ReplyDeleteMy dear e no give me mouth 🤔
DeleteMy BIL. I have never seen a man that talks like a woman like this one. He gossips about everything I do. A married man that will branch my house everyday from work then by evening the calls start coming of this and that from all the family members. Anyway na collective inferiority complex the family get.
ReplyDeleteNa you and your hubby dey give am face that is why he still stops over. I trust my hubby and even myself. The cold treatment from me or warning from hubby would have made him to stop coming.
DeleteI don't know where you people got all these mumu men that you married that can't put any of their relatives in check
I was dating someone back then, he really tried sent loads of things as an anonymous I begin wonder who be this? Everyone back home desperately wanted to see this extremely generous anonymous. Later I got to know him Omo he’s just too good. He wanted me to meet his mom and sister. So the sister, me and him met at a fancy restaurant she loved me, I brought her loads of stuff I was sent from Europe. Out of excitement I started narrating all this guy sent over as an anonymous to get my attention. The sister begin red 😡 I thought she was blushing Na so she reach house go gather every body, the rest is history 😞
ReplyDeleteYou sef no try, why revealing everything in the first outing?
DeleteCan't relate.... Let me read comments.
ReplyDeleteMy sister in laws stayed with me and will report everything in my home to their mum. The father gave me attitude. I went to visit my mum, na so my sis in law told their parents that I no sleep for house. My father in law called my mum to tell me to go back to my house. Imagine the nonsense, my mum gave it to them , warned them that they can try their nonsense with their daughter but never call her for such again. Na so dem know say we are just peaceful but not mumu
ReplyDeleteI had to call my husband and warn him that he needs to let them know that he is now a man and no longer a baby, fear fear no let am get sense, he’s so timid
I gave everyone of them space, they started respecting me o.