This is so bad but them no dey put mouth for husband and wife matter!
She says he lied about his age and hid that he was married before with 3 grown up daughters... She found out from her Mother in law and it was a shock for her and she ended the Marriage at once....
Sdk bvs if na you, wetin you go do? ;Stay or Bounce? Ajuju n'eseokwu!
ReplyDeleteMadam leave okay,another woman will marry him,abi what sort of nonsense is this????You yourself confirm he loves and adores you,and you claim you love him too,this just feels like you don't love him enough,afterall the man is divorce,forgive him and accept his children
DeleteThis is a deal breaker for her. She won't lie to her man and demanded that such respect be accorded to her.
DeleteShe might return after she reconsider.
Where trust is broken, you are headed for disaster. What else is he lying about? You will find yourself questioning every word, thought or deed !
DeleteI never knew men lie until I dated a man who lied about his age. Stumbled across his true age and asked him about it, this man looked me in the eyes and continued lying. I even told him that I don't care about the age difference but the truth, that lying is a deal breaker for me. Gave him the opportunity to come clean, but he still looked me in the eye and lied over and over again. When I presented him with the evidence, he tried to brush it away as if it was a "little" lie. No it is not. If I come into a relationship with full disclosure, I expect the same.
Now I screen every man like an FBI agent. No more blind trust.
21:26 you sure we didn't date the same man? Same way I caught my ex in an age lie and so many other lies jeez! I detest him so bad now. I hate being lies to and it's a major deal breaker for me. I'll never forgive that!
DeleteLied*
Deletepeople have different ways of handling things especially lies and cheating, if she cannot forgive him totally and not use it against him or try to harm him in the future. She just made the best decision to walk away.
ReplyDeleteI pray that she find closure and make best decision. May world people not drive her into depression with what she want for herself.
You cannot hide some past or lies, when you know that the lies or past will come back to you just make sure you share that past with your spouse. Allow them to make choice if they want you or not.
I know the man may be afraid to tell her he is divorced but telling her from the beginning would have save his marriage. She may come back if she have some fresh air.
Your reasons for the divorce is geniniue. Why hide such sensitive information from someone you want to spend the rest of your life with
ReplyDeleteIt was just a couple of days ago a bv corrected your spelling of genuine. Continue.
Delete14:24 that one no dey everly take corrections o, make una face front with una brighter grammar.
DeleteLol.
Delete🤣🤣🤣
DeleteYou bvs ehn, this cracked me up 😂😂😂😂
DeleteNa waa, this na love breakfast o,oga why na, this is a very serious lie, now I don't know hw to beg her to forgive you,you didn't do well at all
ReplyDeleteAda ohafia
It is not a small lie.
DeleteThis same marriage I tapped for my innocent daughter 🙆♀️ Holy Ghost fire!! Lemme quickly go and untappe .
ReplyDeletePlease my fellow tappers always pause look before you tap oo
Fan Emmanuel
LMAO
DeleteLMAO
DeleteLMAO
DeleteNot all testimonies are tappable
DeleteMay God heal her fast.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣, I tap not.
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteI never knew they were married.
DeleteThey will be alright.
O! Wahala just too much oo
ReplyDeleteIke gwuru ,he will give his mum wotowoto; why spill his secret.
ReplyDeleteMay God bless his mother for all women around the world🙏. If many mothers would reveal "very important" secrets about their children to their intended, trust me, more people would make better/informed choices about marriage having heard directly from the horse's [in this case, mother's] mouth.
DeleteMama couldn't bear the deceitful nature of her son anymore and just had to damn the consequences. Not one but 1, 2, 3 children! Haba mana! That they are all girls also makes me feel he probably had an issue with their gender which might be the reason it ended in the first place. A man who would lie about ever being married with 3 children could kill. It's the height of deceit. However, if she has a rethink and decides to go back to him, she should hold that her MIL tight and dear. She is a good woman.
The guy was never real from day one. Imagine hiding children. He should getat Abeg.
ReplyDeleteFuck him the lie is too much
DeleteDem never tell us the real reason she is ending it.
ReplyDeleteThis is not reason enough?😳. Hian!
DeleteWho lies about having 3 grown kids and being divorced? I think he was scared of losing her or some ladies don run from am because of his status. Whatever be the case, Chioma you may reconsider staying with him as we humans are not perfect. You two seemed so happy together.
ReplyDeleteIn other news, there is this power one wields when you give another person second chance. The person given a second chance will be loyal forever(from personal experience). Don't try this thou with winch them Dem go crush you when they come back. So in all, know your enemies and friends.
As she’s leaving you can move in
DeleteHmmmm.
DeleteMen that have lied that they are widowers nko.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Men lying to be widowers, water don pass garri be this.
DeleteFrom her write-ups, she really loves her husband but wouldn't settle for a tiny lie. People should learn to be truthful and honest in relationships....e get why.
ReplyDeleteThat lie isn't tiny and she's doing too much, stay away for a long time and be sure you aren't getting back together before announcing online, not nice to have to eat your words.
DeleteShe would not be the first to eat her words. It is called being human.
DeleteMehn he's wicked. Why lie about your other family. Wishing you well as you forge ahead
ReplyDeleteI thought they were about doing traditional marriage December
ReplyDeleteBuilding your marriage on the foundation of lie is a no no.
ReplyDeleteI like women like this,some would have died inside the marriage make world people no laf dem.
ReplyDeleteWhich one is " i will never love another bla bla" ? Meanwhile, shes still gushing about how he loved her and she still loves him bla bla,she just hurting and needs space. She we will go back. Daddy , you no try,. Why lie? Like she said since you are divorced, she would still have married you. Abeg make i find what to eat!
ReplyDeleteLmao! She will go back for real, all this one is gragra. I’m almost sure of that with the way her posts are worded, sounds codependent. Anyway, if she does, it might turn into a very toxic situation of break up and makeup everyday. because how can one not mention to someone they love that they have three whole kids? That’s too big a lie
DeleteShe won't go back. She is funking another man already.
DeleteKING XOXO MYSTERY
Xoxo, were you there?
DeleteThis is microwave affair! He saw her on TikTok or so. Travelled down to propose and marry her in less than 3 months. People that dated each other for years before marriage are still unravelling secrets not to talk of those that didn't date. Social media generation be acting like say na dem sharp pass! She will still forgive him and return back to him. He is divorced with kids. That is no crime. There relationship was fast-paced. They both have a lot to discover. Good luck to her.
ReplyDeleteThank you,this is wat I wanted to say. Met barely three months and got married,theres no way you'll date someone atleast a year that u wont find out something like this. She should go and nyash down
DeleteThat's usually how divorced Nigerian men move. They quickly want to enter another one and HIDE ALOT about what happened in their previous marriage. According to them, they are always right, their ex wife is always wrong.
DeleteBetter shine your eye if you are marrying a divorced Nigerian man o, damaged things.
13:18, you know them well
DeleteCrazy times are indeed here
ReplyDeletePeople lives in lie,deceit, dishonesty, betrayal
Indeed,we are in the end times.
Wow 😳
ReplyDeleteToo bad
ReplyDeleteBest of luck to her
I don't blame her, only God knows what else he is hiding
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts exactly. He could be a serial killer 😳😳😳
DeleteHow did the man plan to hide such a lie forever?
ReplyDeleteAlways be open to your spouse no matter the case, e get why.
ReplyDeleteThe lie is huge,it's deceit and such a person can kill.
ReplyDeleteWhere are those ladies that lie about their age and always try to justify it..
ReplyDeleteMake sure you marry an ode..
Nonsense liars everywhere..
Good for the useless man
My ex did this. He denied his kids. Even when confronted he kept denying till today. Ok, do DNA test, never! O girl I move! Those kind of people are pathological liars and will deny you! Life is going to be hell for you because you will always wonder if they are telling you the truth
ReplyDeleteWhen you are rushing to do pepper dem on the gram, rushing to show your people what's up, this is what will happen.
ReplyDeleteShe said he HID, not that he LIED, meaning she didnt ask the right questions.
Aganna wanna dey shak am, LMAOOOOO.
So if he hid 3 human beings and an ex wife from you I wonder what else he is hiding?
Wish you well but can NEVER be me.
Ever.
At least she's honest about her feelings. Sorry baby girl but give it time.
ReplyDeleteGet an anullment. If he can lie about simple shit like that then he could have lied about far greater. Lying is an abomination and those who love to lie are devils.
ReplyDeleteBe transparent
DeleteSmh
ReplyDeleteThis man is broke...QED
He is broke broke
He is broker than broke. Managing a broke man with three daughters and an ex wife is nothing to laugh about.
She should say the truth.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Hahaha maybe the guy has mapped out how he will use Mr Ibu to shine.
DeleteYou're the one person who said the truth bro...i see brokenness in all the yen yen yen story she's feeding the social media.
DeleteHahaha
DeleteWhat a huge lie!
ReplyDeleteSuch a shameless liar.
Funny thing is that I watched a video on YouTube yesterday in which some lady, I think she is called Miss RFabulous or something like that, was narrating her experience with a Nigerian man she was dating who lied about the number of children he had. He said he had only one son and she ended up finding out that he had three children. I just don’t understand why anyone would do such a thing. What’s the plan? That when they find out they’ll already be in way too deep? Really awful.
ReplyDeleteThe guy was desperate to be Mr Ibu's in-law, why the rush, now we know
ReplyDeleteMost Nigerian men abroad have baggages
ReplyDeleteI be wan say something before but madam Fan Emmanuel comment weak me
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