WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Wednesday already!

IN HOUSE MEMO

I had a bad time sleeping last night because I kept imagining that man hitting his 2 month old baby with a hanger....Babies are so tender at that stage, that man is worse than the devil ..I am wondering what the mother of that baby is going thru..... what kind of man is that? why????? i cant deal!

You guys pardon me, my rant is deeply rooted... Wicked f##l

If you are reading this and you beat your kids, please stop it cos beating only turns them into monsters.. look for ways to send punish them or pass your message across... Dont beat!!

Mother hood poster how far? Its time!

You all enjoy the rest of the day...

Ehen , today is the last day to send in photos for face of in house news competition.. The wining prize is 20k and i think the winner and first runner up should share it......The next one the winner will take it all...

Enjoy the rest of the day.

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NSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD


Social media is agog with so many pathetic stories of abuse this days. It’s scary and depressing. Everywhere one turns to, there is a sad tale.

I see statements “like were do you find such terrible spouses”. Truly it’s seems like it’s an epidemic.

Abuse is not just spousal, children are being horribly abused too, parents and guardians beating, causing grave injuries and even death .


So many forms of abuse( mental, verbal, physical, emotional and financial abuse ) is going on daily.

I have seen abuse first-hand and one of the things I noticed was that my dad had an enabler, his mom. She spoiled him rotten and he could do no wrong in her eyes.

These monsters were once kids, we as parents play a major role in how the society at large would turn out.

When I hear older people complain about how children of this generation are morally bankrupt I just shake my head. Please who raised them ? The same generation complaining did.


We can curb these issues by raising the next generation rightly.

I agree with you dear but these things are not easy.. Parenthood shocks and distablizes some people that they would rather stay out all day and leave the child to grow up on its own terms...

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PINKYS CORNER


It is said that men are the head of the house, not only that, the bible affirm that, we are the head and a small god to our wives but what can a small god do when there is no money?


This became a real problem for me when I was planning to settle down and relocate to Ibadan but God proved himself and also, I'm not the lazy type. 

One thing I did then was, go to construction site and work as a labourer but wify is always against it, but I insist and made her realize that, I must feed her. She bought everything when it comes to food stuff with her salary but over time, I buy even without informing her. 

This is me now, I'm able to pay my house rent, provide for my family and many more. Thanks to God, my wife and Stella for the support and encouragement all through. Now, I don't only take her out, I also go to the market and stock the house with necessary things.(though it has been rough).


I don't want to bore you. I slept so early on 18th-10-2022 because I was so stressed up and also the rain made everyone close earlier. I got home,took my dinner and off to the bed. I woke up exactly 2pm and couldn't sleep again, so, I was just playing game on wify's phone. Not long, I heard my neighbor's voice(the husband), I mean the one I said they had a house help. He was crying and the wife was begging him to go in but he refused.


I over -heard him saying "is it because I'm having financial crisis, you then disgraced me in the presence of my friends" I swear, this is the end of our marriage because this is not the first time you are doing this then I remembered those months my wife was the one spending but never for once made me feel sad, instead, she kept encouraging me.


We men should try our best, I know it's not easy but a reasonable man shouldn't be in bed till 8am and at home all day all because there is no job. He should be able to do dirty jobs not minding what so ever anyone will say to him.


The battle between the couples went on for almost an hour before he accepted her apologies and they both went inside, then I stood up and went to the living room to thank God for the kind of woman he gave me.


In a nutshell, no one has it all but as a man, you should have an hustling spirit and be ready to do any job pending when God will answer you(I'm not saying you should steal, kill,do ritual or commit crime ooo).

we move!!!!

Awwwwwwww. Mrs Pinky God bless you so much..I remember the beginning cos Pinky always updates me..I remember when he had no food.. God bless you for accepting him the way he was and encouraging him.... i think all married men should let their wives know from time to time how much they have blessed them oh....

I remember meeting my hubby when he was just out of University....  and I remember escorting him to his first job Interview and sleeping in the car while he was inside... God is awesome...

Women please encourage him if he has nothing and you both are already married (If not think twice..lol)






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IJAYS GIST CORNER

I bring una gist from the area. As I dey type so, two sisters don get belle for one man. This man so, dey 'friend' one of them which the family is aware of. Unknown to the girlfriend, her man dey chop her sister too and both kept it as a secret.

Sometimes girlfriend's sis brings things to her and tells her it's from her boyfriend, she comes up with stories that she met him on the way and she buys things to give to her sis. Girlfriend sef will not suspect, who even suspect or links a blood sis with such dirty thing


Now them two don carry belle oh and both are pointing at one man, the man sef no deny. Accusing fingers are pointing at their mum too, sey she knew her daughter's boyfriend was also sleeping with her other daughter and she encouraged it


Because of the fighting and commosion wey dey the house so, their papa don run commot for the house, he couldn't bear the shame of his two daughters getting pregnant for one man. Papa don disappear leaving them with their mum at the mercy of the landlord, ifeneme.

 Just be like sey blood is no longer thicker than water like they say. Some family members are agents of darkness on an assignment

If the mother knew and encouraged it, she is a wicked one.....

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