Have you ever caught your lover or your spouse cheating on you? red handed catching or you heard that they are cheating?
How did you react when you caught your lover or spouse red handed? Or was it you that was caught red handed? How did the scene play out?
Or did you witness a scene where someone was caught red handed?
Lets gist!
I hate cheating with everything in me. I've never been caught cheating, and I don't even want to nurse the thought of cheating on my husband. I've never caught him cheating on me either.
ReplyDeleteMay circumstances not be conducive and temptation not overwhelm us
DeleteThat is all I will say
This life
Na GOD we hold
Nope
DeleteI haven't catched anyone red handed, when I heard the gist from people around and I decided to Snoop boom I saw plenty gist.
ReplyDeleteI confronted him but you know a tif will never admit, I just let it slay till I got fed up with his acting up and walked away.
"CAUGHT"
DeleteWalk away not walked away
DeleteWalked away is correct Abeg
DeleteNoted
DeleteJeez!!
Delete“SLIDE”
DeleteInteresting post 📫
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Preeq and tohtoh be causing sin since long time ago.
ReplyDeleteI work transcontinent and double as an android developer. Spend my leave in Nigeria, sometimes with family in the U.S. so I decided to suprise my family with a visit, not the first time though. Popped in unannounced, I have a spare key to the apartment, I pay their rent. Heard noises from upstairs, tip toed there, found wifey underneath a white dude. Her moans made her deaf to my intrusion because they didn't stop as I tip toed down. Well, I'm not a saint either but I was gutted. Many of you will say serves me right, but I don't blame her. I sat outside at the porch and waited. Guy came out, startled as he saw me and quickly walked down a distance, got into his ride, clean Maybach and drove off. I went in and wifey almost fainted. The begging no be here o. I won't divorce her, she has the option to leave or stay. I'm gonna live my life with a backup plan, I advice she does the same. Good thing her BF drives a Maybach, he can foot her bills like I do. My kids are my priority, she better get a job too because in order to make them comfy, I told her to be a SAH mom, that has stopped. FGS I paid every bill, EVERY DAMN BILL. Loyalty was all I asked for. But hey I've checked out emotionally, I hope she does the same.
ReplyDeleteOooooou,that must have cut deep
DeleteLoyalty indeed
DeleteYou leave your wife for months, sleeping with another but you want loyalty
Your own body can't do without ... but her's can
Weldone
Mr loyalty
Loyalty was all you asked for, but you admitted that you yourself weren't loyal.
DeleteWhat is good for the goose.....
I'm sorry you went through all this.
DeleteShe did you a number but FGS what are you doing with someone you've emotionally check out on???
And I'm curious would you also do things a bit differently in your next relationship??
Would you also stuff your Penistone in your pants 100% of the time , you both make a fine example at being great parents
I can imagine the pain but swear u have not cheated on her too prior to that time???
DeleteJust forgive and let go, if you're willing, you can work it out.
Lol 😂. Mr loyalty that can’t give loyalty. You can’t take what you dish. Sorry for the heart break. Don’t use because of small cheating that you also do and break up your beautiful family.
DeleteEyah this must be really painful for you, catching them in the won't be easy for you to erase
DeleteI am so sorry you are hurting but making money available doesn’t satisfy anyone sexually na, abi does money dry up sexual feelings.
DeleteYou left her for months alone to to the work and you think she won’t desire company, even you yourself isn’t a saint.
Dear couples, please stop living apart, even if you do, do not make it a constant. Atleast work to get back as a family within a year. Even the Bible doesn’t encourage it.
If you can’t forgive, please divorce her so you both can have another chance at love.
Push up (original)
Sit her down and ask her what she really wants going forward in the marriage
DeleteDon't bother with bitterness and unforgiveness
Trust me
E no dey pay
Anon, You can check out emotionally and still be with the person. It's called marriage with benefits. She stays, cares for the kids, if she want knacks, we do, if she doesn't fine, she will still get all the benefits of a wife. I am in one too, still give her allowances, occasional knacks, go to events together, like live in lovers. We are great friends, but not great husband and wife. Just mutual understanding, and she likes it that way. Sorry bro life ain't fair.
DeleteYou asked for loyality but youre exempt from it??? How does it feel to be in her shoes now?mtchewwww
DeletePele
Deletebut see if you can sort things out with her because of the children.
I understand this man. I’m pretty sure his family leaves abroad and if he divorces his wife, na him go lose. It’s well
DeleteSo because of this small cheating, you don check out emotionally.
DeleteI was feeling sorry for you till I got to the part where you ain't a saint too, I don't pirry you😄
You can see that cheating is bad bad bad, e come pain you say she no even cheat with a broke ass.
Go and forgive her osiso😏
You conveniently left out the details of if you were faithful. I can't feel pity for a cheater ooo!! Do me, I do you, God no go vex 🤷♀️
DeleteIt's the "clean Maybach" for me🥰
DeleteI’m telling shooter Gyal. The woman no fall my hand at all. A babe and more!
DeleteI feel for you poster. E can pain ehhhhhnnn, but maybe na karma don sama you wetin you deserve.
DeleteI was working as a receptionist in one hotel then, when one man brought another person's wife to the hotel .Unknown to them the husband had traced them to the hotel and was hiding at one corner at the bar sipping a bottle of guilder waiting for the man and the woman to get a room so he can catch them red handed. Just as they booked for a room and I handed them the keys this man jumped up from where he was hiding and started shouting.
ReplyDeleteHe first faced his wife and insulted the the hell out of her calling her named like prostitute, greedy, covetous woman. Then he faced the man saying "God go punish you this fake pastor so you brought my wife here to sex her pretending to be a man of God to the world. The commotion/shame no be here oo. The man was shouting at the top of his voice the whole hotel knew what happened that day e be like make ground open make e swallow the pastor and the woman. It was when the hotel manager called the police before they all went away, the man was shouting to the wife not to even dare step her feet to his house she should just go to the pastor house straight because as he is he can kill her. Chai Adultery na bastard.
na wa o
DeleteE nor fit wait for them to enter room again......
DeleteNever caught anyone thou......a married man who lives down the street is a chronicle cheater, every one knows even and he still boast that he is the man of the house.when the wife caught him cheating,he turned it against the woman and said the woman accused him of cheating.... went ahead to beat the woman and sent her packing, family meeting was called he still refused to accept her.is almost 2years now,all means to reconcile them have failed.we all know the man cheat,the story long abeg.
ReplyDeleteHe never wanted to marry in the first place.
DeleteLulu is the man rich & the woman dependent on the man?
DeleteYes,a Rich importer...thew wife follows him to the shop
DeleteI was caught red handed was in love with my girl,one day I saw her with a different lady apart from the friends i know,omo she fyn no be small aspa big boy I toast she agreed ha no be wahala don jam me. Double dating level be dat las las she was suspected I denied. Came to my place unannounced ha na so Adam and eve level we dey from that moment it dawned on me that cheating doesn't pay even one bit. She forgave me but trust was long gone.
ReplyDeleteI caught my then boyfriend.he said he was hanging out with his guys only for me to go visit my friend and met commotion in their compound.my brethren,her boyfriend was boxing my boyfriend oh!!!! People were trying to separate fight.imagine he had bin cheating on mi with her.people of God I no nid vex again cos that her Igbo boyfriend really box am wella imagine oh! I just walked away.only for him to reappear after a week to tell me I must have been seeing things cos it wasn't him .he is lucky I no get dat Igbo guy number to call am for repeat performance.
DeleteSome people lie eh! Even thunder dey fear am. So he said your eyes were deceiving you abi? Imagine the creativity in the lie.
Delete🤣😂😂😂😂 you are funny
DeleteI've never caught anyone red handed but you see nude pictures and blue film?? I don see am tire, there was this useless ex I had, I happen to catch his phone unlocked one time and wat I saw made my eyes bigger, this guy had an online babe who was living in K*ny*🤨,they've never met, their chat was filled with raw videos of the girl performing sexual act on herself,this girl nyash na bazooka 😏,I'm like so u like them big? Wat are you doing with me,e shock me ooo. In return of the sexual acts,he sends her money, he tells her how he wants the video to be like. Haaaaa, I said it can never be me dealing with a blue film director ooo,that was the last time we saw.
ReplyDeleteLol@ bluefilm director
DeleteHahahahaha hahaha blue film director indeed sooo funnny walahi
DeleteBlue film director has finished me🤣🤣🤣
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂 director
DeleteYemgirl1
Lmaooo
DeleteOmoh! You dodged a bazooka.
DeleteShe had the audacity to chat me through my ex's phone to leave him alone,these sidechicks are wilding now sha,the painful part was that she addressed him by his full name to prove how deeply involved she already was with him..lmao.
ReplyDeleteConfronted my philandering ex and he admitted to have cheated but never sent his sidechick to disrespect me like that.I left and never turned back,I'm too good to be stressed o.
Trust is everything in a relationship
ReplyDeleteChildren of perdition uhhhm
ReplyDeleteI only saw those who cheated on their spouses on CBT reality show called Cheaters. Chai! Oyibo sabi cheat o.... And will still be playing along with their spouses as if all is well.
ReplyDelete#AYO
Lol. Shebi dem dey shout say na naija people cheat pass
DeleteLove@18:41, you wrote this with my hands?
DeleteSome of us will even praise them as if the word "cheat" is not an English word.
Them never catch me because I don't double date.
ReplyDeleteYes, I have caught someone and I don't have strength for talk I just left and never looked back.
Help me o!my fiance actually asked me to go fuck another guy n make an audio recording that he wants to hear d moans n all,haaaaaa,he even said not video o,I'm still in shock!!!!
ReplyDeleteU dey whine people?
DeleteYour fiance ? Better. Thank God not your hubby. Run.
Delete17:54 did he grow up abroad?
DeleteOnce had a frd like this, he gets turned on by watching videos of other guys nacking his babe. I think your ex was a cuckold abi wetin oyibo dey call am sef
Omoh you wan marry pervert, better run if you are not into that lifestyle, abi you want am?
DeleteEx had just come back from school at the end of the semester. We had some good time and she was relaxing her head on my chest. A calls comes in and they get talking. The person on the other end asked who she is with. She told him that I was her younger brother. I quickly did a retake. Haba!
ReplyDeleteI confirmed that she had been cheating on me for a long time before then. It was painful but I had to leave. That and several others scarred me. I don't expect faithfulness and I don't go out of my way to ask for it. Neither do I commit to anything emotional. That's what kept me through the rough years of dating.
Married now though. The rules of engagement had to change obviously.
Hmmm , some women sha
DeleteHi
DeleteWelcome back
Didn’t see my hubby cheating physically but I went through his recently deleted files on his phone and found a video of him having a group sex(2males and 3females).I watched the full video to the end and I showed him the video,he apologized but since I didn’t want to divorce him I just switched off emotionally from him.I stopped all my acrobatics sex moves with him and just lay like a log of wood whenever he’s doing it.he has cried his eyes out for me to let go but my love for him has died,he has been doing everything possible to make things right but I just don’t seem to notice.we act normal and I gist and still play with him more like a friend but no feelings.
ReplyDeleteDeep!
DeleteHmmmm,Madam you better draw your husband closer,it's only God that is dependable and trustworthy,the arms of flesh will always fail,don't throw away the baby with the bath water,and importantly don't throw away a good thing
Delete21:22
DeleteWhat good thing?
Imagine
DeleteSomeone engaging in an orgy, one of the highest form of sexual degradation. I won’t even be surprised if he fucked or was fucked by those men coz that’s what is usually the case. You even get mind swap leg for, tufiakwa. So dirty!
What do you know about orgy and group sex? You think a straight man will just fuck or let another man fuck him? SMH naija ignorance. Go and do research pls.
DeletePoints made @22:50. But she is suffering herself staying in the marriage. She may it bearable now the man is begging. But when he gets tired and stops, ...
Delete01:03, then let him stop and getat!!! Chai, Nigerian women, who do una dis kain thing? Imagine!
DeleteCheats and cheaters una wehdone oooo. Kwantinu. What goes around comes around.
ReplyDeleteI was almost caught cheating.
ReplyDeleteMy husband and his best friend had group sex with a bunch of girls in Nigeria. I saw the video on his phone I sent to his full family because I knew I was done. The family begged me like mad but I was done! I didn’t move out immediately because I was low on cash and still in school, we continued to stay together and we didn’t have sex because he didn’t want to go do std test and I also was disgusted by him. I emotionally checked out, we were living like roommates. In that two years I dated 3 other people while in that house with him and he was dating other people as well. I ended up marrying the 3rd guy I dated and moved on with my life!
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