The headline says it all and some of you already know what i mean because you are inside it right now...or used to be inside it...
How do you handle dating or being married to a talkative who cannot be rusted with a secret? Lets call them basket mouth!
Some Marriages and relationships have broken up because of this and some are barely surviving because of lack of trust...I mean what do you expect when your spouse has a mouth that leaks and they cannot be trusted with private info?
Are you presently with someone like this? or are you the talkative and basketmouth that cant keep a secret? or did you walk away from a situation like this?
Lets gist!
I can't cope with such people, abeg. I went with my kind.
ReplyDeleteThat's right 🙌
DeleteI married my kind because I can keep secret for Africa.
I think my greatest strength is the secrecy same with my hubby, that's for adults by the way.
Anything you tell me in confidence and plead "please don't share, discuss". I wrap till ...
For kids, no way, if a kid is hovering around me or sticking to me in the Children's Ministry on a Sunday service with a mushy face, I pull him close to find out why.
If I hear Aunty Yada, that aunty in our Haus is touching my peepee or that aunty is putting milk on her breast and asking me to suck it.
You Aunty Ijesha,I'm coming for you with the Curate's wife after service.
End of Secret!
I won't tell him sensitive things again and I will also tell his own secrets too.
ReplyDeletePlease.
DeleteWhat then is the difference between the both of you??
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DeleteOh there is now a difference?
They are not one again?
Issokay.
He is the 'head of the house's nau. He leads, everyone follows.
Lol basket mouth.
ReplyDeleteJust keep sensitive matters away from such spouse
One is asking me to date him, this guy is a definition of basket mouth promax, run mouth like tap, always sounding like grinding machine, I pity any woman that will end up with him.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm my woes right now....... hubby weak side is letting the cat out of the bag to everyone and everytime.
ReplyDeleteHe is direct opposite of me,wey back when we're dating I see that act in him as one who is sincere and says the truth all time,but no he is a basket mouth always wanting people view on issues that shouldn't concern them.
R u me? I have learnt never to tell hubby any sensitive thing as he just has the urge to spill. Hate it.
DeleteJezzz,I would never deal with a partner who is basket mouth,right from small,I was taught to keep my mouth shut,never tell people sensitive informations coz you never know who's your enemy or wishing you evil,something as little as entering school,wat ull eat for dinner,if you're going out the next day was not spoken,like if u talk anyhow, my mom go give you,you must collect. So it will be death sentence to marry someone that talks too much,if I didn't notice you talk too much wrn we were dating,I swear I can divorce on that ground. I just cant.
ReplyDeletedis one na bondage..did she grow up in a polygamous home? suspecting every cockroach kind of situation..
DeleteHa! I went out with one, a very self absorbed dude. Lord! It was quite strange to me how much he talked because the men I knew hardly ever talked but acted, you know? This one talked and talked and talked, ekwurekwu pro max. Okay, he asked me to tell him about myself. Before I could finish a sentence, he interrupted and told me his life history. He didn't let me talk, I ended up nodding like a lizard all through. A talkative is a potential gossip. Dem no dey tell person.
ReplyDeleteMy husband talks alot. He doesn't keep secrets like that. I keep whatever I don't want people to know from him . Period. He's opposite of whom I am .
ReplyDeleteI don't like talkative at all.Its a big turn off.
ReplyDeleteNever! I can't deal with such people. I know of a woman that talks a lot she would even tell you when she and her have sex. Very bad habit
ReplyDeletelol@"when your spouse has a mouth that leaks"
ReplyDeleteGod know say me I fitn't cope with such people. I mean, how will I survive with a talkative as a husband? Haa! I no fit oo, biko.
I stay far away from such men!
ReplyDeleteNyaama!
A talkative spouse is a no-no for me..
ReplyDeleteI thank the Lord for the type of man He blessed me with.
My hubby don't talk much but can never keep a secret,he's a quiet person. And the annoying part is he always goes with the line "I don't talk much". I always hear him discussing with others what his friends told him in confidence. It is so annoying that I don't tell him stuff.
ReplyDeleteAnon 21:25, are you me? My own tells his family everything.
DeleteProblem is he comes from an evil family.
I need prayers and advise.
Some people can talk for Africa. I was somewhere one-day and a man was trying to toast another woman and he was saying "if I handle you for bed ah you no go allow another person touch you. Even my wife dey tell me thank you sir when I finish". Like what is this.
ReplyDeleteTell Dem no sensitive things or secrets.
ReplyDeleteI married a talkative. He talked so much and ended up with prophets who gave him false news. Long story short, marriage has packed up. He talks about anything and everything to whoever cares to know. Can't believe I married such a basket. Shameless man
ReplyDeleteSorry about your marriage, pick yourself up and make the best of it.
DeleteMarrying that kind of person is a disaster. Na that kind pesin sem dey mold head like hot eba, because they know e mouth no dey stay steady everywhere cho cho cho like a jabberwocky and he will believe anything.
I once dated someone like that,this man will even jam two heads together..Apart from the one you told him,he will add his own and garnish it properly and tell whoever cares to listen.A grown up man oooo,I had to take a walk,abeg I no fit deal.End of situationship
ReplyDeletemy own talk alot and can lie....another problem be say he has no shame and can even quarel in front of visitors...yeye ego problem
ReplyDeleteI have a friend who talks like that too. Once we get into a bus going home from work , she starts conversing about things we had discussed earlier before getting into the bus. I try to just nod my head or give her a stare to stop. Funny enough, she did never shut her mouth. On one fateful day, we got into our usual bus and she commenced discussion, the bus conductor just quietly switched her from the seat beside me. That marked the beginning of silence in the bus that day. Yours truly felt relieved and happy.
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