Hailings......
The day isn't bright but its beautiful!
IN HOUSE MEMO
How una dey? had a great weekend? I did!
I want to quickly introduce some of you to email marketing to help with your businesses..... get good photos of your business, get good text ready and make a compose with all your email addresses and send to them, those interested will contact you and buy... trust me its the new way to advertise and most big companies here are always in my email cos people now steal email addresses and sell them to those doing email advert...
Do it today and let us know what happens... your photos and your text should be clear and if you are ding sales, show the original price and the new price....
You understand?
BV Kevin that edo boy (Stellz cousin) please mail me, orcall me on whatsapp later, i wanna ask you something for someone business wise oh..ehen!
Have a nice day!
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THESE BVS NEED TO SEND ME THEIR ACCOUNT DETAILS TODAY UNFAILINGLY
One of your gang member football wise wants to gift the four of you surprise cash for mineral....
send account oooooo
Black Slimzy
Cynthia Iyede
Fidel
Jos Shopper
The geng member will share shoki as well for her birthday in a few days....
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When I was living with big sis and her family, we attended her husband's colleague's traditional marriage. We left very early so that big sis can assist with the cooking, her hubby too being very close to the colleague and head of the planning committee. We got there and preparations were ongoing.
The invite says 12pm, but trust us na with our African time. When the ceremony finally started with guests still arriving, especially those coming in from far distance, Naso weather change. Like, the weather that was bright with no much sun, just normal, just changed.
The invite says 12pm, but trust us na with our African time. When the ceremony finally started with guests still arriving, especially those coming in from far distance, Naso weather change. Like, the weather that was bright with no much sun, just normal, just changed.
The cloud turned dark, locals like me just know sey monkey hand dey inside soup. Big sis just gave me side eye, we understand na. Some people for this life, no dey ever like better thing or use eye see better thing happen to another person, Ndiala ndiala in Zubby Michael's voice.
Before we say Jack, there was heavy downpour, it kept raining nonstop for hours. Occasion wey no kuku start on time, na him rain come dey fall for hours, so what time will the visitors leave. My in-law being the head of the committee who also understands what's happening insists the ceremony should go on in the rain. They entered the rain and arranged the chairs that were flung to different directions by the wind, not minding their outfits getting wet.
My big sis that put to birth recently used to tell me to always be ahead of the devil or evil personalities. If they come one way, follow another direction and escape them. Na her slogan be this. The people understood that someone somewhere didn't want the marriage to hold, they had to enter the rain to prove the person wrong.
As all these drama was going on, bride to be was crying her eyes out, 'they' want to spoil her big day. Her brothers were really upset about the whole thing and seeing their sis crying her eyes out when she's supposed to be happy, they armed themselves with cutlasses and set in to the bush. After about 30 minutes, the rain stopped, next thing we saw them dragging one man with them. He was in the nearby bush projecting the heavy downpour and to think this said man is also their neighbor. Thank God the marriage held just that it ended late. umu uwa na njo
Actually events like this don't look new or surprising to locals like me. If one wants to have a successful event, na to settle those 'rain makers', all of them, even if they are 10 in a community before the D day. Because by the time you go to one or two of them to 'helep' prevent rain from spoiling the event, the others will be jealous for not patronizing them and no be small Wahala be that. These things happen often and not new to us locals, so it's either you're willing to comply, or have your event during the dry season, or be fully rooted in Christ so that when they send the evil arrows, you'll either wage or send back to them.
These so called rain makers see themselves as gods, like one must seek permission from them before holding an event.
Before we say Jack, there was heavy downpour, it kept raining nonstop for hours. Occasion wey no kuku start on time, na him rain come dey fall for hours, so what time will the visitors leave. My in-law being the head of the committee who also understands what's happening insists the ceremony should go on in the rain. They entered the rain and arranged the chairs that were flung to different directions by the wind, not minding their outfits getting wet.
My big sis that put to birth recently used to tell me to always be ahead of the devil or evil personalities. If they come one way, follow another direction and escape them. Na her slogan be this. The people understood that someone somewhere didn't want the marriage to hold, they had to enter the rain to prove the person wrong.
As all these drama was going on, bride to be was crying her eyes out, 'they' want to spoil her big day. Her brothers were really upset about the whole thing and seeing their sis crying her eyes out when she's supposed to be happy, they armed themselves with cutlasses and set in to the bush. After about 30 minutes, the rain stopped, next thing we saw them dragging one man with them. He was in the nearby bush projecting the heavy downpour and to think this said man is also their neighbor. Thank God the marriage held just that it ended late. umu uwa na njo
Actually events like this don't look new or surprising to locals like me. If one wants to have a successful event, na to settle those 'rain makers', all of them, even if they are 10 in a community before the D day. Because by the time you go to one or two of them to 'helep' prevent rain from spoiling the event, the others will be jealous for not patronizing them and no be small Wahala be that. These things happen often and not new to us locals, so it's either you're willing to comply, or have your event during the dry season, or be fully rooted in Christ so that when they send the evil arrows, you'll either wage or send back to them.
These so called rain makers see themselves as gods, like one must seek permission from them before holding an event.
A young man dedicated his baby in church and the after church party was held in his house, before the dedication, one rainmaker in the villa was asking him if he'll not come to pay homage. The man thought 'na we we' matter, you can't hurt a fellow villager na. That Sunday as soon as they got back from church to start the house party, rain destroyed everything. And the evil rainmaker was absent, all fingers pointed at him, and na still near by bush they caught him. Don't know why they're always in nearby bushes cos all the many times they were caught, na for nearby bushes. Some people just don't like stress, they'll rather settle and have their event jejely and wayoly
Hmmmm that means most of these floods destroying places for Naija na the rainmakers nau....lol
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PAINFUL UPDATE OF CHILDBIRTH AND SURGERY GONE SOUTH
PAINFUL UPDATE OF CHILDBIRTH AND SURGERY GONE SOUTH
Hi Stella , you remember me. I am the one with fourth degree tear that required surgery. I have been giving you update on my journey. This makes it two months after I went for the surgery and i am ready to tell my story.
I went to the hospital on the fourth of August and preparations were made which include bowel preparation ( removing all the contents in the stomach through pumping and stooling medicines).
On the 8th of August, after the spinal anesthesia was applied the surgery was conducted. I went well and after some hours I was wheeled out of the theater. The effect of the anesthesia stayed throughout the day. It was the next day that pains set in but it was manageable because of the pain relief I was given.
I remember asking the matron about the guaze used to cover the surgery area and she said that it will be removed by Wednesday. On that day, I called the nurse again and reminded her about the guaze. She now removed it. The doctor came and removed the catheter. That was when my problem started.
I couldn't easy myself, was in severe pain. Whenever I feel and urge to urinate I will be having contractions. Sleep was far from my eyes. My BP became so high. I complained the next day and the doctor said that it's spasm that I am experiencing not contractions. I was told to start eating pap, agidi or anything light. By Friday and Saturday I was in another level of pain.
Any urge to stool or urinate comes with contractions and nothing will come out except a little Black water thing. This contractions came frequently thereby soiling the whole place. My sister had to help me and clean the place every 15 minutes. On Saturday evening I begged a nurse there to give me the number of the surgeon that conducted the surgery.
I called him the next day and begged him to check me even if it was once to determine why I was not getting better. He insulted me on the phone for calling him during church hours and later sent a message to back it up. In the evening a female doctor was sent to check me. While she was about to check, the contraction came and that watery dark thing came out. When she saw it she started reprimanding me that I don't know how to wash my vagina well. I tried to explain that I washed it about 10 minutes ago.
She left and didn't check again. I was later sent to do scans, X-rays because of my complains. Nothing was found. For more than a week going to 2, I couldn't pass stool, BP was high and I was becoming worse and worse. Later my surgeon came and he said I disturb a lot. That in Abuja the surgery costs millions.
He checked me and discharged me. When I complained about being worse than I came. He said I should go that some people get better when they get home. How I got to anambra from Ebonyi was a long story. Getting to the park, my family saw my condition and immediately took me straight to another hospital. After scans and tests nothing was seen. The doctor put the catheter so that I can urinate. Tried pumping so that I can Poop but the machine gets blocked. This went on and on for three days.
I was given stooling medicines but for where. My stomach was swollen and I was at the point of death when a nurse suggested putting her hand inside my anus to bring out the stool. When she did that she said she was touching something, I was in pain so I urged her to bring it out. She drew out a big gauze that was blocking all the feaces for almost a two weeks. Immediately she removed it, feaces followed splashed everywhere. The contractions stopped.
It happened that the surgeon forgot a guaze inside of me during the surgery. I still ask myself why me? Of all the people that did the surgery. Why will life treat me like this? Am I depressed? I think about death every night before I sleep. Is it a crime to give birth? Nobody knew what I was going through, I then opened up, many ran away. Now all the sufferings of the surgery is now a waste because of the carelessness of a doctor.
Thanks be to God i am alive but will I live like this all through my life? I don't want to go through knife again........
FROM SATURDAY SPONTANEOUS POST
''Had a squabble with a friend. She brought bean cakes yesterday to the house. After she left, she called to ask if they were tasty, I said I haven't had them. She called back few hours later, again and again, told her point blank that I didn't eat it, too oily, she dropped the call.
FROM THURSDAY FAQ ON STELLAS BLOG
''What can one do to a supervisor who always collect cleaning items from the cleaners and take it home, leaving the cleaners to clean with little or nothing. I am in charge of the cleaners in my location, they have a supervisor who is a female.
This is really sad but with the way things are now, be happy that you are alive!........ I dont know the way forward for you but there must definitely be a solution... I am just imagining how the site of the surgery looks now.... OH GOD PLEASE HEAL YOUR DAUGHTER!!!!
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''Had a squabble with a friend. She brought bean cakes yesterday to the house. After she left, she called to ask if they were tasty, I said I haven't had them. She called back few hours later, again and again, told her point blank that I didn't eat it, too oily, she dropped the call.
When she left, my elder sus told me to trash it, that it's not normal to share bean cakes or candy out of the blues. I now remembered when a BV said someone should fry it and share to appease her dead parent. And this my friend is orphaned. I called her, she ignored. A week, no response.
I went to her place and asked her if it was fair to offer me sacrificial food, she said she was following prophet orders that others she gave ate and nothing happened to them, I said no, something has changed in their lives spiritually, and I cannot truncate my destiny over akara.
Pls those of you who do this, if it is a nice thing, give to your children or relatives, don't spoil the future of others for selfish reasons''
My mouth is still hanging loose from reading this, so they use Akara to steal peoples destiny? Nigeria we hail thee!!
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My mouth is still hanging loose from reading this, so they use Akara to steal peoples destiny? Nigeria we hail thee!!
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FROM THURSDAY FAQ ON STELLAS BLOG
''What can one do to a supervisor who always collect cleaning items from the cleaners and take it home, leaving the cleaners to clean with little or nothing. I am in charge of the cleaners in my location, they have a supervisor who is a female.
Due to the way she share and take our stuffs home, the auditor came to my location and asked me to stop handling her over the items when i received. She said i should distribute it accordingly and allow them sign off on my book.
I started doing that, each time i want to distribute it, i will invite one of the cleaners to join me just to avoid i shared alone and maybe i took some home. But i suspected she collect from the cleaners after i have given them.
Abeg do what you have to do to clear this before they tag you as thief that takes things home...
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Divine Health Confessions!!
ReplyDeleteThe light of God’s Word prospers in my heart. With that light, I see and grasp my glorious life in Christ. My path is filled with light, and I walk in righteousness, prosperity, health, success, and victory at all times. Glory to God!
Amen.
DeleteAmen.
DeleteAmen 🙏
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DeleteAmen 🙏 🙏
DeleteWhen someone posts a very sad update on social media, you will hear Nigerians:
ReplyDelete"I am in tears right now", "My heart is bleeding", "I can't eat", "I can't sleep",
"I feel your pain", etc... 😂😂😂
Omoh, MOST of these people nor really care the way you think o. They will sleep and snore sef. Liars!😂
Una Gud Afternoon....#ALiSpeaks
Not all. Some are sincere sha
DeleteSo true. Nobody really cares, na you and you alone.
Delete😂😂
DeleteDo you know that I used to ask my self same, wether they were truly crying.I smh abeg
DeleteTell them brother mi
DeleteHow did you know that MOST of them do not really care about the person? How did you do your survey? You should have used SOME instead.
Delete.
You're in their minds to see that they don't care, someone posted a very sad update I felt the person's pain,and sent her comforting words,so they shouldn't sleep and snore because of another person's pain?say na them inflict the pain? sometimes read your quotes twice before posting.
Delete14:29 this your comm makes me laugh walahi very funny
DeleteNot true in every case, people have contributed money for people because they felt their pains. Some have sent comforting words, others have learnt a lesson or two. Some even go into praying spree just for God to help heal the world. Just as some don't care, there are those who would do anything just to be there for others in time of need.
Delete14:39 I also feel sad even reading sad comments and posts here on the blog. I shed tears here sometimes.
DeleteThis is absolutely not correct
DeleteWe are humans and have feelings
Some are real😀
DeleteVery narrow minded judgemental comment.
DeleteIf you truly had balls, you should have dropped this on Rico's or Bimbo's post, make people give you the kind word wey go belleful you.
Ali B you fail this one my brother. Anytime I read a sad story like this woman's own up there,I put myself in their shoes and when I type that I shed a tear,my brother true true the tear dropped.We are humans with emotional feelings too.
DeleteSmoh smoh, I say smoh smoh you don dey reveal yourself. 🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏼
DeleteAlli right now 🧟🧟.motigbetional gone wrong. Pele, some days are like that🤣
Delete16:45 he cant relate. Sorry.
Delete17:16 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you no well
Oh bvs🤣🤣🤣🤣 🤣🤣
DeleteNo matter how they hail you, just make small mistake like this, dem go gather for ya head
And on today's edition of 'I Really Should Have Kept My Mouth Shut.'🤣🤦♀️
DeleteUna good afternoon ndiulo!
ReplyDeleteWe welcome IHN.
A blessed and prosperous I wish us.
Amen and you too dearie. Greetings
DeleteAmen moma
DeleteGood morning.
DeleteThe same to you.
Good afternoon.
DeleteThe same to you.
good afternoon all
ReplyDeleteThe woman that did surgery,so sorry you're going through this.
DeleteThat supervisor takes them home to resell,there will come a time that you just have to speak up.
Surgery woman need to sue that doctor
DeleteSave the text he sent and all your medical records. Pls pls sue him I beg you. His next victim may die. Sue him and the hospital
So sorry Poster that went for surgery. Please keep hoping on God for total healing. God will fix it. This too shall. You are in my prayers.
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteHow u dey now
DeleteGood afternoon
DeleteIf you put 100 red ants and 100 black ants together in a jar, nothing will happen.
ReplyDeleteBut if you shake the jar, ants will start killing each other.
Red will believe black is enemy.
While black will believe red is enemy when the real enemy is the person who shook the jar.
Same is true in our society. Before we fight with each other, we must ask ourselves: Who shook the jar?
~ Davesh Lalluwadia on Quora
As political campaigns have kicked off and elections are drawing closer, Nigerians should please take note
Peace.✌️
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Nice.
DeleteThis is very deep
DeleteFood for thought!
DeleteSo true
DeleteI agree
DeleteGood afternoon everyone.
ReplyDeleteHolla 😘🥰
DeleteThe sun in gidi na wah!
Fidel, Ak, the latest episode of HOTD was hot. No be small war dey come. Did you guys see it?
ReplyDeleteNo ooo... You must love your LOTR! I can never forgive you for comparing LOTR with HOTD. You need to formally apologize for that thing😡
DeleteI like Aemond🤦... Why do I like bad people sef🤦... I just wish Aemond can kill Aegon and be the king. And somebody needs to tell Alicent that she can never be Cersei Lannister. What is wrong with that queen?
😁 calm down Fidel, both are interesting.
DeleteI don't like Aemond, he looks like a heartless fellow; as for Aegon, that one no go last for that iron throne, even he confessed that he doesnt want to be king. I like Alicent o, she still get small conscience, she didn't support killing the princess & also adviced Aegon not to do so when he becomes king, and she's matching her wicked father fire for fire. Na that soldier I dey pity (the one the princess slept with when she was younger) hes just acting out of hurt, dem go just use am dump am one side.
Please explain, did the king actually name Aegon King before he died? What was he mummuring to the queen before he died?
I loved how that princess declared war on them before flying away with her dragon.
Ghen ghen!
Ghen ghen! Fidel yaff vex🤣🤣.. Sandra you must appease us oo. You actually committed an abomination in the world of TV,to compare LOTR to HOTD. Bring the items before the next market day😁.
DeleteFidel, you like Aemond? You must have been a fan of Joffrey and Ramsey Bolton then😥. Aemond is just starting. He and Criston will unfold sooner than we expect.
AK she must apologize abeg abeg. And I like Aemond oo😭😭
DeleteSandra, Viserys the weak😏 on his deathbed thought he was speaking with Rhaenyra when he mentioned the first Aegon the conqueror's dream of making her the heir. Not this foolish Aegon. Alicent is just clinging to nonsense hope of her masturbator Aegon's son. How can anyone look at Aegon the masturbator and make him king?
I actually Aemond a little bit because he is the original villain who was actually bullied and the truth is that his father was partial, so I get his anger
DeleteHis death will be a sweet one to watch.
I am excited about the way this last episode ended, can’t wait to know what’s next.
Push up (original)
Exactly Ak, that Sir Criston is so pained.
DeleteItems shall be brought, no worry.😎😁
😄Fidel you finish work. Viserys the weak? Aegon the mastubator?😆 Thanks for making me laugh, I needed it.
DeletePush up, how was their father the king partial, please explain.
Have you guys read the novel about house of the Dragons?It is a must read. just that since i read the book, i seem to have lost the urgent desire to watch the series. I tell myself that i am only waiting for them to fish the series so i can watch it all at once but i just dont know if thats it. I know i will watch it at one point cos i love everything GoT. I dont know G.R Martins refused to finish the book since 1900. lazy man.
DeleteAnon, I have read the books oo. Unlike you, it is exciting to watch the series cuz it puts a face to each name in the book. That's why I keep telling Sandra to be patient. She doesn't know what's coming.
DeleteI agree with you. Martins is a very lazy man. We still don't know if Jon Snow really died or he warged into Ghost. At this point, all I pray for is that he doesn't die before he completes the book. D&D ruined the entire GOT series for me.
On a side note, I wish they started with how the Targaryens left Old Valyria, the destruction of Valyria and how Aegon,Visenya and Rhaenys conquered the seven kingdoms with their dragons. Now that would have been epic. Imagine Henry Cavill as Aegon! Delicious
DeleteBV Hydrogen please send a mail to my boss Sdimokokorkus@gmail.com as soon as you read this....
ReplyDeleteHow's baby doing. Gudpm pa
DeleteGood afternoon Jewelu and bvs,very sunny day here.
ReplyDeleteTerrific day to you all Bv's . The sun in Lagos is scooching and hurts the face.
ReplyDeleteScorching**
DeleteAsaba's own is giving headache.
DeleteIlorin own too dey hot but rain fit just follow sha
DeleteIbadan own can fry egg
DeleteAbuja own be like boys quarter for hellfire. 😏🚶♀️
DeleteGood afternoon
ReplyDeleteHow do you like your egg(s)?
Boiled or fried?
Enjoy!
Is it everyone that loves their given names like me? I have a very beautiful Yoruba names that I so much love, and I don't like people using my child's name to call me, I don't want to lose my own identity.
ReplyDeleteThank God I'm not weird. I love my names too, though I've not given birth but I do think about it at times how I'm going to be telling people not to use my kids names to call but continue with my own names. Is that even? possible especially with Yoruba people? 😑
Delete😂 @loosing your identity
DeleteYour children are now your identity now o, whether you like it or not
@Game mistress, same here o!
DeletePearl they are not. Yoruba people like that thing. It’s not so common in other parts of Nigeria
DeletePls tell them to call you by your name
YOU HAVE YOUR OWN IDENTITY.
DeleteYour child's identity is not your identity.
Learn to develop your identity and remain furmly authentic in its regardless of marriage and motherhood.
Many of you women do not know who you are, and are incapable of defining or exploring your self.
That is why you eagerly subsume your identity under your children.
At the end of the day, your fulfilment is tied to your husband's and children's growth/identity.
Nothing for you.
Have you ever heard a man complaining that he will loose his identity because of his kids???
DeleteAnony 17:01
DeleteHmmmmm.
Valid points there though you didn't sign off gladly.
If you develop your career or your business line and make your self a Brand, you can never lose your identity.
17:04 men easily tell their friends and others what they want to be called
DeleteYou ladies too dey fear
Your business/career is NOT your identity.
DeleteYour PURPOSE, your VALUES etc etc are part of what make up your identity.
It's a bright and sunny day here..congrats to the mineral receivers or how do I put it 😄😄.
ReplyDeleteKai! So sorry you had to go through such pain, oversabi of some of our Drs cause more harm than good, may God heal you speedily.
Medicine and care work generally is a calling
DeleteIt demands passion, interest and curiosity. It does not demand those who read to pass exam or answer title to make their egos or that of their parents happy. At best they would be just good enough , at worst they would be harsh and mean
Make sure you’re not the weapon formed against yourself, that’s causing you not to prosper 👍
ReplyDelete~Steve Harvey ~
The woman that went through surgery after childbirth, may the Lord heal you completely.
ReplyDeleteSuch a painful experience! 😳 I am sad and wowed at the same time for you had to go through.
Post surgery winner
DeleteThank GOD for HIS mercy over you for that nurse, Glory to HIS Name , get trauma counseling
Ndo
That surgeon didn't try and may God bless that nurse. God will perfect your healing. That surgeon should be called and threaten to sit up.
DeleteIjay, they thought they are gods,but God pass them. I like the fact that God disgraces them most cases.
People should be careful in what they eat. That your friend is evil 😈
For that supervisor, gather evidence even if it's voice recording from the cleaners. Tell that person collecting from them that the Auditor will hear about it if she didn't return them that day. Inform the auditor about it. Try be neutral nd protect the cleaners' job
Ahn ahn!! Who's that surgeon?! Thank God for you o madam! Hah!!!
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile see us ooo💃💃💃... Support Chelsea o... You go dey drink mineral🤭🤭. Thanks to the giver❤️
Also, if you've not seen HOTD new episode, please do.
🤣🤣 na so. Congrats dear
DeleteThanks Fidel for your reply on SP , I wi check
DeleteLol. I am an avid Chelsea fan but their matches dey give me chest pain. So I just pack one side. That time wey we dey make mouth don pass. Meanwhile,we need to ask Arsenal for their soap oo. See them see top of the table.
DeleteHOTD is 💣. Aemond reminds me of Ramsey Bolton. Still team Daemon sha.😁
Congratulations, Fidel.
DeleteWhen your team loses a match and still on top of majority of the teams on the league table, your bragging rights should be louder.
Congratulation sis. But I no go support Chelsea o.
DeleteCongrats Fidel👯🏾
DeleteYour first sentence, first words should be thanking the giver. Not giving a negligent thank you in between garrulous words as if it is a normal everyday thing and so much more profound things to share.
DeleteYou wey even dust no dey fall from your hand..
Anon,you are a hater. Wetin concern you with the arrangement of her thank you? If e sure for you, talk this thing with your Blog ID.
DeleteIf you want giveaway, come out and stop cutting thru the corners 🙄
Lovely day everyone 💖
ReplyDeleteSunny afternoon. Greetings everyone
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your pains @bv with a 4th degree tear after delivery. I pray that God comes through for you.
ReplyDeleteI still remember your chronicle, I had tears in my eyes while reading that day.
You delivered vaginally and you still passed through this, some delivered through CS and are fine but our people will make it seem like it is an abomination to deliver through CS. We should always thank God for safe delivery no matter the method used.
Her story was so painful to read. That Doctor will definitely reap his reward. God will complete and perfect your healing.
Delete1617 the docs next victim may die
DeleteShe should sue him or report him to the medical board
Good afternoon everyone 😊😊
ReplyDeleteToday is going smoothly ☺️☺️
God bless you my fellow football geng. I'm grateful
Congratulations
DeleteThank you ☺️
DeleteMy body aches from having to go fetch water from the next compound. Pumping machine has packed up.
ReplyDeleteInteresting stories up there.
The way I detest this chore errmmm.
DeleteRain water is what is helping us now. See me always praying for rain. Wahala.
DeleteChai! Sorry dear. I pray your pumping machine is fixed asap.
DeleteGood afternoon people
ReplyDeleteWelcome IHN 🧡
ReplyDeleteGreetings everyone
Loaded IHN
Good afternoon everyone 🥰🥰🥰
ReplyDeleteMy darling Starr💚Ehugs to you🤗🤗
Poster with fourth degree tears, may God perfect all that concerns you.
Typed my encounter with a rain maker during my grandpa's burial, the whole comment just disappear,my uncle engaged the services of this junkie looking rain maker during my grandpa's burial,lasted for 7days,rainmaker comes with his tools plus Bible,my uncle gives him his demands+cash,he turned my uncle to his money bag,I disliked the rainmaker and was secretly praying for his fall, one of the days, junkie looking rain maker came as usual,suddenly cloud changed, heavy thunder from nowhere shook the whole building,as he was chanting his incantations, thunder was replying him, everyone scampered for safety,it was so serious that my siblings and I were screaming and telling God that it was Onyeisi (our uncle)that brought the rain maker,see disgrace, Oga rain maker couldn't hold rain and thunder again,we laughed and was happy God disgraced him.
DeleteBC with the tear Sorry you had to go through this, maybe God heal you completely, our doctors in nigeria can neglet their patients and thank God you went to the other hospital
ReplyDeleteHave faith God will strengthen you
*bv
Delete*May God
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeletePoster with surgery gone wrong, I pray that God will give you divine healing in Jesus Name. Amen
Una good afternoon.
ReplyDeleteMay God heal you totally madam that went for surgery.
I.j your gist is hot.
Thank you so much for the money, may God bless and replenish you..
This is the second time you are shocking me with gift on this blog.
Happy birthday in advance sis.
A lot of love from me.
Jeweluchi Stella, I am still short of words, this family that you created have helped me a lots. Thank you so ma'am.
Congrats dear.
DeleteCongrats to you.
DeleteNow I’m wondering if this women group (don’t want to mention name but it’s the most popular one in Nigeria) on Facebook are actually there to help women or for the financial gain.
ReplyDeleteToday, I saw a post on a lady that found out that a 49 yr old man was sleeping with a 15yr old girl and some indicated that it was not rape because the girl acted like she gave consent.
This was my response, copied and pasted, word for word
“ Most of these girls that do these are actually groomed to be like that. She’s a minor and a victim and we should always desist from making comments like these. She needs help not any form of blame”
And then I got a notification that an admin deleted my comment.
I’m still in shock. Abeg, what’s wrong with that comment?
You sss that " I see you group" dey are just there deceiving themselves, they don't like the truth. How can a sane person,women for that matter think a 15 years old is having consensual sex with her Fathers age mate?
DeleteThe society has gone bunkers. Thr truth is one day this minor will grow and ask herself what she thought she was doing. She truly has no clue of the damage.
DeleteNothing is wrong with your comment. It's the admin and all those that see nothing wrong with a 49 years old taking advantage of a minor that are seriously moving mad. Another women supporting women in the gaddam mud. Smh
DeleteThat " I see you" group people, na cruise Dem dey o. I don't even bother about them again.
DeleteEka Joy you didn't say anything anything wrong maybe they were looking for money
DeleteJust negodu.
DeleteAge Gap is 34 whole years, secondly she's a 15year old minor.
Then you dropped this comment and it was deleted and I'm won't to ask you Eka,what are you still doing in such a group?
Me got no penchant for stupidity because I worked for decades in the children's Ministry of Anglican Churches, if I smell that you're an "Aunty Ijesha", I cut you off, straight on.
The pain many mothers bear till they die is half the disgrace their daughters bring home from the Corridors of Promiscuity.
Many of these beautiful ladies(young and old) disgracing themselves on Instagram and Tiktok were groomed like this, abused, molested,violated,all what nots.
Si kwa there kpaliputa.🥺😏
They should eat their group, a misleading bunch they are.
#hiss
Xp, I posted it again and they didn’t delete it. Let me just conclude the first deletion was done in error.
DeleteOh good. Many will learn from it.
DeleteStick to your morals, don't get pushed over by their antics
Good afternoon SDK family
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to Fidel and the football geng
Report the supervisor to the management before it turns on you.That's stealing now.
Please someone should explain the email marketing better,where do one source for emails???
Surgeon from hell
DeleteSo sorry you went through all this
May God complete your healing and make you whole again 🙏
I need to know too, where do I get emails from?
DeleteThanks o fab mummy💙
DeleteGood afternoon all
ReplyDeleteYou did the surgery and everything went well except for the excretion part, what went wrong again after they removed the gauze and poop came out? I'm not understanding
ReplyDeleteThe gauze was blocking her stomach
DeleteThey made a mistake leaving in inside during surgery and it was trying to get out
If they had bothered to check well this whole time she was complaining they would have found it
God bless the nurse that found it
Men are scum : this word came to my head when I heard about what happened.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmm
Women should always get an award for managing us oooo, we mad gan oooo
Pinky, not all of you are mad, please. I have men with better heads on their shoulders, so next time 'some' or 'most' should be in your words. T for tenks
DeleteGood afternoon Stella and bvs, have a nice day
ReplyDeleteDuring my maternal grandfather's burial,my uncle the eldest in my mum's family patronized this particular rain maker
ReplyDelete@ Bv that the doctor forgot gauze inside her:
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear about your predicament.
I pray you will be miraculously healed but please fight to have a positive outlook.
I know its not easy.
Just take each day as it comes.
Imagine a so called doctor abusing a patient in agony.
A doctor inside church, e own spiritualist no dey come outside the church.
This morning I read of the former Aviation minister's brother in law whose brother in law died due to complete medical medical carelessness in Abuja.
According to him and I quote '...Nigeria's healthcare system is very weak." I'm sure there is so much more he wanted to say but because of his position he had to caution himself.
But here, one clueless clown will be garrulously arguing about Nigerian healthcare system because he was admitted in one 3 star hospital and nurses were petting him because he knows the MD. Mtshewwww.
The sooner we tell ourselves the truth, the sooner this country can start its journey to recovery.
That is if it even wants to recover.
Anon 14:44 they think that by calling out incompetence of everything Nigeria, you're being un patriotic. Until it happens to them... Human life worth's nothing here. 98% of death cases in Nigeria hospitals are avoidable cases and deaths. Do not ask me where I got the stats from.
DeleteMake I sha no put mouth. That said person really has to experience how these things are done in said environment then he will understand that he’s been spitting nonsense.
DeleteThis lady probably knows if she even sues him without her achieving any positive result. In a sane society, that particular doctor and by extension, the hospital, would be in hot seat by now
Imagine a doctor telling a patient she is disturbing him, abusing her on call and still sending her a text to abuse her again???
DeleteEhn a doctor for that matter? But you moving mad idiots will go abroad and be behaving like pussy cat wearing chickenfeathers. Why dont you try that rubbish abroad so that can slap you right back to the trenches in that hole you call your village?
This lady will not sue. Na dem leave it for God people. Leave it for God, leave it for God, na im make the country dey as e dey nau. Rubbish.
PS: @Eka Joy It has always been spitting nonsense, always sounding like a crack head.
The most annoying part in the ministers case and other us the hospital giving the dead body to the wife to take to the morgue
DeleteWhy is a lay person handling a dead body
17:07 you read it too abi? They didnt even allow him into the hospital. The wife was holding the dead body in the car.
DeleteThe doctor only came out to give her a form to fill and told her to take the body to the morgue like that.
As in she should carry dead body to the morgue.
Have you ever heard such brain sucking stupidity?
And no be yau yau hospital o. The former Minister its their family hospital.
So imagine what those akara and boli hospitals will do.
What did I just read? I can imagine the pain the lady is right now. May God heal you completely in Jesus name amen. Why are some doctors careless like this? And to think he was insulting the lady for calling him. Na wa o.
ReplyDeleteRainmaker gist, something like this happened years ago when my hubby went for his grandfather burial. But his uncle who was a pastor then, challenged the rainmakers with the Bible and the rain stopped immediately. All through the burial of 3 days, no rain. It was the day we were leaving that he started raining. God pass those rainmakers.
Lol,the rain maker my uncle engaged during that period,had Bible as one of his tools for holding rain,plus schnapps and other fetish things,God still dealt with him and disgraced.
DeleteThis is your longest comment in this life. Come come🤗🤗
DeleteYou try😂😂
Which kind rainmaker be dat? Dat one no fit draw tears sef. Maybe e don waka street tire, e no see job.
DeleteAwon Kallistus people.
Congratulations to the football fans.
ReplyDeleteRain maker wahala. God please help your children.
Never knew akara is used for sacrifice. What I don't know does not know me.
So so sorry to the woman that did surgery. God is the master physician. Let the blood of Jesus speak for you in all the areas you need healing.
Report the supervisor or you set trap for him/her.
Why did the akara person not just tell her that the akara is nice or that it's just there, then you went to confront her, so what were you expecting after the confrontation,,? Kisses or hugs? Some of you just like to fight
DeleteThe akara is not ritual like syed saying. It’s called “Saara”
DeleteThey do it for twins and also for open doors etc. I’ve never heard of any destiny taking attached to it. My coworker did it when he was looking for child. He didn’t tell me and the other non Nigerian workers but I knew that’s what the surprise candy was for
Reddish akara especially,there are hideous human beings everywhere but you need to fortify yourself with prayers always, that's what makes you a CHRISTIAN!
DeleteDo you know why moimoi sellers always sell from a roundabout?
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Rain maker...I've watched some of them from the balcony in the villa,it's pure native science: some dry leaves,devil's pepper, abakiliki salt, a black stone, match box and some other dry condiments in a small mortar.
Once it goes up to a certain radius, mmili ana ezo.😂
That rain falls only within that radius.🤷
Surgery gone wrong...this is horrifying. Ndo nne.
Jehovah is Rapha!
The 4 degree tear poster,so sorry for all uve been through.. quick recovery
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone....Ijeoma Baby I enjoyed your story...Congratulations to the SDK football geng God bless the mineral giver...
ReplyDeleteThursday FAQ Please report the supervisor to the management...This is called pilfering...If you continue to keep quiet, you will be roped in and nothing you will explain will be tenable by your management...Do the needful....
Poster with 4th degree tears I am so emotional right now...Did you go to the same hospital you had your baby to do this surgery? Thank God you sought a 2nd option and I dunno why healthcare practitioners are so careless, it is high time they are being sued....Please just focus on your health, don't feel depressed okay you will be alright....Everyone whenever you have health challenges, always seek 2nd or 3rd options and opinions...
Hmmm, @ the surgery woman,shouldn't that doctor or hospital be sued for such carelessness? haba,sorry ma,I wish you quick healing
ReplyDeleteIjeoma ,sometimes I don't understand you, you claim to be a good Christian,a Sunday school teacher,yet you're always do deep in tradition. Stella please post,I need clarification on this.
ReplyDeleteThat's because she was fully groomed by either her parents or her grandparents. Chic is Versatile.
DeleteSome of you need to get a sidestool,sit beside your elderly relatives and learn a whole lot.
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie used to greet her father specially when he was alive,a 85 year old Professor in a school environment, "ekene mii,kenekwazia ifve na ejelii ozi"(I greet you and also greet the THINGS working for you).
So,who or what do you think those things are?
And they're staunch Catholics?
She takes the pain of drafting what tradition means and the neglect thereof,find her page or check BBC Igbo, they're there.
Just tap into IJ's knowledge and embolden your own horizon,if possible.
I'M NOT IJEOMA by the way.
Thanks.
May you receive permanent healing poster of child birth that went south.
ReplyDeleteYou can't sue in Nigeria and get compensated for damages. The pain can't be imagined.
Looks like quality and intelligent doctors have all traveled out remaining those that were forced to read medicine. And in very few private hospitals.
Sorry.
🤣🤣🤣 your last paragraph but that's the truth.
DeleteYou can get compensated
DeleteIt just might take a while
We’ve sued successfully
15:18 You CAN sue in Nigeria and you WILL be compensated for damages.
DeleteMany of you will stew in ignorance and ignorantly share that ignorance thereby influencing people negatively.
Test the court.
Test the system.
The people who have been awarded in court dont have 10 heads.
Get a good lawyer who knows what she of he is doing, not those carrying wig and gown for fancy with absoltely nothing upstairs.
Surgery poster sorryoooh eeeyah
ReplyDeleteIt's well with ur soul, i can feel ur pain chai, i pray for permanent healing upon ur soul
Just did HIV test and its positive😢😭, be careful out there. What next now?? I don't know, I'm dumb, how do I inform my boyfriend and my former boyfriend??? I know one of these2 gave me
ReplyDeleteDon’t inform them
DeleteJust tell your current guy to get tested. Find a reason to give him. If you tell him and doesn’t have hiv, he might tell other people you have it. I have warned you now
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DeleteYou'll be fine. Try and check your cd4 count to know if you can start the ARV drugs already. Please tell them.
Take it easy fam❤️
Ijay your gist is always hot. Nawah for these people with spiritual powers.
ReplyDeleteChronicle poster, I pray for total healing for you. So sorry.
Hello ihn 😘
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone.
Congrats to our football lovers geng,my mummy Andre and co.
Chai,madam so sorry for what you're going through. Some doctors are just from hell I swear. May God heal you.
Ij baby with the saucy gist,this rain maker story is also common in my place.If you want your occasion to be uninterrupted by rain you better settle them if not OYO is your case.
Bvs I salute you all.
E go surely be ✌️
Bring cup lemme turn small mineral for you😪
DeleteHa God oo. May Nigeria healthcare system not happen to us. Ma, thank God you are still alive. May God perfect your healing and restore you.
ReplyDeleteMay God perfect your healing @bv with 4th degree tear. It is well with you. Our doctors hardly listen to us or try to understand how we feel. That lack of empathy is just annoying. I work as a manager in a big pharmacy and it takes all my time because all the clients want me to attend to them. Just recently, one told me that it's because of how kind I am. I listen to them and never judge them, I empathize with them even though I'm heavily pregnant. Some even go out of their way to buy gifts for my son coz of how they say I treat them. I'm so glad I took on this job, I'll keep trying to make a difference no matter what it takes. I hope others can do same too.
ReplyDeleteThumbs up Erika! The world needs all the kindness
DeleteWelldone Erika
DeleteKeep up the good job 👏
Weldone Erika😍, we should be the difference we desire.
DeleteWell-done ma'am,God bless ur kind heart.
Delete❤️❤️❤️
DeleteAs you take care of others remember to also take care of yourself, in your condition rest too
DeleteWell done Erika! Not these foul , aggressive, rude nurses and doctors that are festering like rotten wounds.
DeleteI also know of a polite guy at a particular neighbourhood pharmacy.
Infact, this evening when Igbo to purchase items I'll make sure I commend him too.
Thanks everyone and yes Anon, I'll definitely take care of myself too. I'm off today and resting that's why I can comment 😁. Thanks once again.
DeleteGood one👍
DeleteMy sister japa joh
DeleteGod bless you Erika, keep doing what you do...may God strengthen you
DeleteSigh...this woman has suffered a lot. Stella is there a way we bvs can we donate money to help her? Child birth doesnt have to be this hard.
ReplyDeleteSunny day!!! Madam that Akara no jig if you say you eat am I for nod you
ReplyDeleteJeeeez!!! what type of forgetfulness is this pls . Putting somebody's lfe in danger. Sorry dear poster
ReplyDeleteCan't imagine the kind of pain you must have gone thr. Day has been going smootly and the weather is Muah😁.
Congratulations... Blackie, Cynthia, Fidel and Jos shopper
Good afternoon everyone,God healings to the woman who had the surgery,may God deliver us.
ReplyDeleteJesus!
ReplyDeleteDear surgical patient, May God's name be praised in your life, amen 🙏
Pls be strong as many had gone this way but God used that nurse to save your life.
You will heal completely, amen 🙏
Really @ many have gone this way? Many doctors have forgotten gauze inside patients abi what?
DeleteTell us something, biko.
May God perfect ya healing. Amen
ReplyDeleteSunny Monday in d Fct
Lagos weather is letting me know that my best season in the year is approaching. I loveeeeee Christmas!
ReplyDeleteNaija! Eating anyhow is not permitted at all. Make person no go use him/her hand by market. God dey!
Wow! Thanks for picking me, Angel just by loving United sooooo much and football in general. God bless you.
Congrats 👏
DeleteThis ihn dey loaded with gist, ma now I jus get time to come o line.
ReplyDeleteUna doh o
Good Afternoon Beautiful People! Iam so sorry about the ordeal you went through in the hand of the surgeon,may God perfect your healing,may God come through for you.
ReplyDeleteDear surgical patient,u r healed in Jesus name,careless stupid surgeon.i had fourth degree tear too,till today after a year I gave birth I still feel pains in my viginal if I stand for long,I saw heaven during delivery,to get belle now is sacking me,at times I wonder if I would ever take in again cos delivering a baby is like going to heaven nd come back.i saw shege..God bless all women...
ReplyDeleteVagina no L
DeleteGood afternoon IHN, CHILDBIRTH AND DUSRGERY poster, though
ReplyDeleteI don't really understand some terms in your write up. But am so sorry that you are going through this due to carelessness from a doctor, you will be fine. Stop thinking negativity but do things that will keep you happy😊🌹🌹🌹
The woman that delivered and had tears, I am crying as I type this. May God heal you completely and restore your body to normal.
ReplyDeleteOh the pains of bringing another life into the world! It reminds me of my own ordeal after my last delivery. I left baby at home and was going for treatment after being discharged. Neighborhood people were telling me sorry, thinking that I lost my baby as there was no money left for big naming ceremony, just parlour something. Also, they saw me passing everyday without holding a baby. I was nursing my baby in pains.
God bless all mothers and all supportive husbands. Hubby was so supportive.
I don't even want to imagine the pains this lady that had surgery went through. I kept having goose bumps while reading her update. Please get all the help you need to over come the pain.
ReplyDeletePoster for the surgery so sorry you had to go through all that, it ll never be well with any medical practitioner that feels or sees 👀 himself/ herself as Most High God.
ReplyDeleteMay God grant you speedy recovery that you ll forget all that you pass through.
God bless the Angel Nurse that took it upon herself to assist you bring out the gauze . The Lord is your strength Ma.
The poster that did surgery, I feel for you. Sorry for the pains. I pray it ends in praise soon.
ReplyDeleteStella, you mispelt the surgery you wrote on your heading. You wrote dusrgery
I am so sorry to blog visitor that did surgery🤗🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteGod's healing hand rest upon you 🙏
Rainmaker be troubling villager doing burial, traditional marriage etc but God pass them.