Popular Crooner Oritsefemi and his wife Nabila Fash have parted ways again and it looks like this time it is for real....
She hints on Domestic Violence and cheating that fathered a child...
The Football entrepreneur and Doctor of humanity has also reportedly thrown out Oritsefemi and his two daughters.............Sad story
Nabila : Marriage to me is sacred, i became someone else in marriage because at some point I was even out of order. when you get to this place of pain where you can't even control yourself. So I remember last year February I was at work, I got a call that there's a strange woman in my house.
I remember driving back to my house which was like 3 to 4 minutes drive from the office. The only thing I picked from my office was my Mobile phone. I remember calling my daughter, I don't have my own biological child but I went into the marriage with kids from other women which I honestly embraced as mine. I was so happy to be their mum.
I remember calling my daughter, someone picked up the call but she wasn't the one. I was hearing him say
" You want to break my marriage". I could hear her crying, saying "Daddy you are beating me, don't hurt me, she was saying don't hurt me." I was driving as fast as I could.
When I got home I didn't see the person, but my daughter was shaking
The first thing I could do... I was mad, upset.. It was a Monday I'll never forget. I picked my phone and wrote rubbish on my story. I was like "whosoever was the woman that came to my house to do the do while I was at work, you are lucky I didn't catch you,it would have been a different story". I can remember some people coming at me saying,
"your business is not with the woman, its with the man who brought her to the house. "
I remember giving him another chance, some people thought I was a fool. Being raised my a single mum,.. The normal Nigerian mentality that you have to make your marriage work.. And I really wanted my marriage to work.
What broke the Carmel's back was that, I was living a life with someone I was madly, deeply in love with, and I thought that was my happy ending.
I have done fertility, we had issues having our own kids but I was a loving mother to two wonderful girls from two different women that I do not know but this person sees it like they are doing me justice by having kids outside without my knowledge.
It became important for my sanity and mental health to take a decision that wasn't easy, a decision that made me here today, and I can say my story.
If i didn't make that decision who knows? Bimbo didn't get a chance to tell her story..
Q: The abuse in your marriage was it psychological in your opinion or physical? Did he lay his hands on you?
Nabila: I think they were times this person was being physical... Physical like twice but the most abuse I had was more of verbal and emotional abuse
Q: The cheating was it just a one off, or it's like "Nigerian men can cheat but they love their wives" or was it a constant part of your life?
Nabila: I had to deal with it constantly, at some point they told me it came with a job, it came with the his industry.
.. Like it is normal. I had to deal with it. People said " Just have a child then your concentration will be on your child not the man"
And I'm thinking how does that make it go away?. You have a child and the cheating goes on....
For me at some point I became numb to the cheating. I saw it as normal, like I said I could take anything but having a child on me without telling me, I felt really betrayed. The person will say " I love my wife" how do you love someone and then hurt them so deeply.
Q: So where are you now in the relationship?
Nabila: I have filed for a divorce
Q: When did you file?
Nabila: Three months ago
Q: What did he say, is he accepting it?
Nabila: He's not accepting it. I guess he feels like its one of those days where you'll come out and say something and everything will be under the carpet. And we will have to take pictures and form couple goals again for the gram. But no, I think women need to know where to draw the curtains
Q: What if he was only trying to have a child of his own?
Nabila: After he already had three from three different women?.. He had two before we got married. The third one was when we were about to get married. I told him I'll accept the two but that third one don't bring her into our home. You can look out for her from afar. This is really funny because by my calculation, the time he came out to tell Nigerians to beg his wife to come back home, he already got another woman pregnant so how could he do that. How could you tell Nigerians to beg your wife to come back home when you know you've done something crazy."
Sorry Nabila you married low
ReplyDeleteAsin low low....i know her on a personal level and was shocked d bones when she was marrying dis guy. I know d type of guys she use to date; what went wrong?
DeleteHow do u expect marriage to Femi will last ???
Dear ladies, this is a clear case why you should have deal breakers and never marry below your deal breakers, or you end up accepting rubbish.
DeleteYou end up losing yourself in the process, in the name of compromising several thing without your partner doing anything to compromise.
I am so happy she got the courage to walk away, rather than die of hbp
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I remember people saying she married low. Eyah pele. Pressure to marry will make u marry rubbish
DeleteWomen!! She had to wait until the guy's career took a nosedive and he went broke before she filed for divorce. Infidelity is only a problem to them if the man is broke.
DeleteHappy for her. To marry a man that you are feeding is not it Biko. It’s not something I wish for any lady. And e go dey cheat and beat u on top just to prove back that he is a man and get back some of his masculinity. At least she got out alive and in a financially dominant position. So it’s a win. A woman is not made to give and provide. She is made to be provided for. Argue with your keyboards. At least if a man is feeding a woman she will assume the feminine submissive role. No problem for many women they are fine with that arrangement as long as they also can have means of making some small money of their own here and there.
DeleteAnon 15:03 are u okay at all??? Can’t you see that she was the breadwinner in that home. It’s this same mentality you preach to women like her that made her manage with the man for so long? She has fed him enough and he is not even grateful. O ti to. Enough is enough. Broke men always defending rubbish
DeleteMany married women that have been marrying rubbish woke up to the truth this October o. I hope this will prevent any single ladies from jumping in without looking well. Face it, a man that cannot prove himself to be financially successful is not husband material. Man is the provider and God made it so. Even if u want to be financially independent and successful as a woman, marry a man that is more successful and can even teach you more financial tips. Man is the head. Woman is the neck that supports the head. Stop reversing roles in the black community. Stop adopting grown men in the name of marriage
DeleteFinally. Cheating without remorse.
ReplyDeleteYou got it, 'finally', I'm not even surprised at all. Nabila, move on and may God bless you with a better person. Oritsefemi, this one don pass you, enjoy your endless oloshos in peace.
DeleteNawa. See his face sef.
ReplyDeleteyour mental health is very important and should matter to you than anything, broke guys who will never be faithful. You are cheating on your woman when you don't even have shishi.
ReplyDeleteThis is sad. I wish you all the best Nabila.
ReplyDeleteYou even stoop too low by marrying him. This one is dog in human cloths.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you Nabila,
ReplyDeleteThose that wants to marry serial baby daddies, i hope you can see that getting married can't stop a community prick,
Ndi ogo David that were happy that Chioma and David are back, hope Chioma can ensure whatever she sees.
There’s difference between death and sickness. Oritsefemi abi wetin doesn’t even come close to Davido ezigbote ogo! It’s a huge insult to measure them. What that young man Davido has done, Nigerian government has not done yet in history. How can you mention Davido here? Biko nwanyi oma fichie onu
DeleteFan Emmanuel
Chioma doesn't problem with Davido's cheating as long as the money is there. Not all women care about a man's cheating because they are with the man for what they benefit frm him
DeleteShe doesn't have problem with his cheating but she pushed him down from staircase when he got Larissa pregnant,
DeleteAnnie also doesn't have problem with the community prick she married but she is always disturbing us on internet.
So, the cheating is not the problem here. The problem is Femi no blow as Nabila expected.
DeleteSome of us like to write Nigerian women down and then we complain about the quality of all Nigerian men.
Truth is some Nigerian men are like some Nigerian women, or vice versa.
Nice one. pls change the locks to your house so he won't be able to gain entrance with his former keys.
ReplyDeleteA woman is feeding, housing and clothing you, instead of you to be grateful, you re still bringing different women to her house.
broke cheat.
You did not include taking care of his kids , nonsense and oritsefemi
DeleteBut how come she is the one that left the other time if its her house
Delete@femilicious fear of what stupid close minded people will say must have made her leave. They would have called her “wicked proud feminist that chased her husband out” but enough is enough Biko. I bet she doesn’t give a shit anymore. Those fools that will talk don’t live with her or in her heart. Or experience the pain she does. Any woman in her position that does what she just did, I support because Nigerian men don’t take half the nonsense they dish out to women. A rich man who discovers his wife cheating will chase her out na. Abi? Ehn he so let her chase her cheating husband out too. Good riddance 👋
DeleteAsin the kids part! You could tell she adored those two kids but this man still chose to be unfortunate!
DeleteNabila see shege
ReplyDeleteShe is tired of covering up for him
You threw your friends under the bus remember.
Femi,when you knew you were not ready for commitment you should have dey your dey.
The free food was too good for him to pass up. I know a young couple in similar situations that just got married. I pity the girl because I know the guy very well , hungry opportunist that just latched on to a rich man’s wife and he cannot stay faithful for one second. Someone that will camp at my friend’s house back then when they were dating and just come to eat free food, never brings any gift or anything at all. I laugh in Spanish . He have seen mumu. His new wife is very far from the spec he goes for, it’s very clear she is into him more than he is her. But oh well at least she don marry abi?
DeleteWOMEN STOP MARRYING DOWN!
DeleteBroke opportunists and mean cold users full outside
Cannot provide
Cannot protect
Cannot keep prick one place
Dirty men sticking their shriveled thrash into every willing space
No fear of diseases
I felt really bad for her when she said been raised by a single mother made her to keep pushing for a better marriage .Like, she wanted her marriage to work.
ReplyDeleteLol..she wanted her marriage to work but she went and married igbo-smokee Oritsefemi? A serial baby daddy with no history of a successful relationship? She try well-well. Even me that is a regular girl won't marry Femi if you dash me 50 million join am.cos it was a recipe for disaster. She married nonsense.
DeleteSo this marriage has finally packed up. Oritsefemi you no try at all.
ReplyDeleteI’m not surprised
DeleteThis same guy came to YabaTech to perform some years back
He called a girl out of the crowd to the stage and they left the venue together while being married o..
It is well with you Nabila
You’ll find happiness soon by Gods grace..
Bv Yosola
My sister, good riddance to bad rubbish. Tueh
DeleteBut D-one of kennis music told her she will get cheated on during her wedding day. So she should not later on come and complain later that he's cheating.
ReplyDeleteSo she's okay with cheating but not having a child on her.
Better she leaves, Adopt a child and move on.
So she should have stopped the wedding?
DeleteShe knew deep down the kinda man, she just wanted a wedding. Most Nigerian think or wedding not marriage.
DeleteA lot of women will take a man back if he cheats but if he has a child outside,especially when they are TTC?it’s bye bye o
DeleteChai, I really feel for this woman. Imagine battling fertility challenges, cheating spouse, DV and emotional abuse all at the same time.
ReplyDeleteI wish you all the best ma..
I see hypogamy at play here.
ReplyDeleteNabila you are an asset, how did you jam this type of man? I hope you won't run back like you did before. I only pity his daughter, you found a woman who took your children as hers and the best way to repay her is ridiculing her.
You need to run far from those that gave you that deadly advise of enduring a cheat because it comes with his nature of his job, they way they excuse bad character you will think the marriage benefit them more.
Felicity
Many naija women in naija practicing hypogamy in marriage and more even entering hypogamous marriage with clear eyes sef just to bear wife. It’s really a pity. Sadly. Not a lot of Nigerian men have a lot to offer Nigerian women anymore. It’s more of patching up, packaging . a lot of those women are only married on paper but single in reality. It’s evident in the way women are shamed to rush and marry low value men and by how broke Nigerian men wail on blogs. Don’t forget Nigerian is patriarchical so will always favour men. Women cannot win in Nigeria. If u want to be a feminist, u will work that job and do house chores and raise the kids all while having a husband who hardly helps out. If u want be a submissive stay at home mom u risk financial abuse and being at the mercy of a wicked man. I feel bad for Nigerian women in Nigeria with no access to a wide array of men from different cultures because Nigerian men have failed you. They just camp on comment talking everyday about “responsibility of a man” meanwhile men have never had fewer responsibilities in history than they do now. Women are empowered to work and don’t need to depend wholly on their husbands . So it’s not like there is clear role division. Men do not face age discrimination, there is no onus on them to nurture and raise their kids. There is no onus on them to even bring in money to the home at this point
DeleteEntitled promiscuous low IQ and EQ low self-esteem angry lazy creatures crawling around as parasites and users
DeleteThis celebrities sef,,are they allergic to condoms? Jeez! Nabila na love do you this one abi na Mrs title because you open your eyes korokoro and enter this mess.
ReplyDeleteFemi wey em head dey spark? Nawa o
Dog 🐕 of a man. Oritshe is a bingo who can't control his third legs. Shebi she put carol under the bus when she tried helping her.
ReplyDeleteWomen with fish brains. Once Debe will always Debe. No excuse that it came with his singing so he must cheat.
We have musicians who don't cheat. Nabila try another line. Stop encouraging bad behaviours.
Problem is people lacks fear of God Almighty
I'm telling you, too many people do not have the fear of God in them. They can sing or preach about loving God, but wickedness is what they manifest, when you talk about their evil acts. They will say nobody holy pass.
DeletePls, I l'm not judging anybody na only comment .
I am waiting for My Marriage will work geng 🙄 These people take pictures to form couples goals??? Real definition of Fake!
ReplyDeleteJust move on, u will be ok.
ReplyDeleteJust wow ! After doing all these yet his randy self couldn't sit and think to be better? Kai! Some men will stain your white..I sincerely wish her happiness and love going forward
ReplyDeleteThese ones should swerve. What was she expecting when she went ahead to marry “agbero oje nga”. I thought they had gone their separate ways since.
ReplyDeleteBoth of Una fit unasef..
ReplyDeleteYou sef date married men in your single days so no use cheating as your reason..
Every other reason is valid tho..
But you sef no get sense, I remember how you were shouting that day that your wedding is a carnival ABI na festival, how many cows and dollars that went down, billboard advert and all.. it only showed how you're so shallow and concerned about trivial and material things as compared to real things..
What you were doing with a bleached man is what I didn't understand, yea, I know say you send dey bleach but I can still overlook it say you be woman so the common sense to expect from you no suppose dey high, but man wey dey bleach! Haba.. is it cos of money or what? A razz agbero for that matter..
Una go follow MC oluomo and co with all these silly socks wearing yahoo boys and then come to cry after, like what were you expecting really?
Mehn, gerrout from my face jare..
Both of Una dey useless
BOSS DANTE, you forgot to add Portable Zazu to the list.
DeleteMy Bro! @TEFLON
DeleteI don tire for their matter.. but I no dey surprise, when you see their comments glorifying money over love, ready made over a coming up Yung gee, people husbands/sugar daddies over a single guy because of long throat.. it'll end in tears las las.. and I'll keep collecting award for the most judgemental BV, cos I go judge them tire, them think say I no go talk after them insult me and my advice earlier😌😌
Don't blame the victim KO,. When they where all insulting me, was I not the victim of their insults too,. Abi I'm not a human being 🤷🤷😂
You are correct.
DeleteDante
DeleteSomehow you have to twist it and blame her. Can you confirm she dated married men in her younger days? And what if she did? Does it mean she should not demand faithfulness in her marriage.
She married that man clearly out of love. Unless that man jazzed her.
What has bleaching got to do with character?
KING XOXO MYSTERY
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DeleteThis female king again..
Fada lawd🤦🤦
Girl go and find solutions to whatever is making you act up before it gets too late
Another Simp Down !!!
DeleteI repeat Another Simp Down !!!
Roger🤞
Dante you don’t have point here sorry. And I notice u like twisting words to suit your narrative. Anyone that says Nabila married Oritse for money is a big fool. Even blind people can see that she was the one feeding him. So what are u trying to say exactly? 🤷🏾♀️ No dey shift narrative. Her marrying down instead of looking for an already made man is what caused this divorce. Take it like that. Women looking to marry for resources are the smart ones and their marriages will last. No broke man’s prayers is going to change that or make them end up divorced . So moving on. Next caller!
DeleteOther men in the world : *fighting actual wars and stabilising their country’s economy after facing hardship.
DeleteMeanwhile Nigerian male association of Danteism and perpetual victim hood : *always the victim, never the ones in control of your destiny. nobody suffer pass Una. Nigerian women that like money are behind all of Una frustrations and delays in life.
Lmao. Abeg go and rest. This your victim Mentality and wishing bad for people who are on their way to a better life gets you nowhere. Women that actively pursue well to do men are in charge of their destiny and taking it as is their right. Because a man is made to be the head and the provider. Yes!!. They don’t sit typing hoping for a better life they make it come to them. You have a right as well to make something of your life and pursue your desires. Don’t you? Victim hood and blaming poor Nabila gets you nowhere. This is a woman that took charge and made a good life for herself. Unfortunately she was unequally yoked with this man out of fear that husband no dey . And all this bad advice of building with a man. Sorry but e no dey work. And it has caused her so much pain and wasted years. Instead of guilt tripping women into settling for lesser men become a greater man yourself so you gain a sense of fulfilment in life. Just an advice
My dear. Now is not the time for emotional victimhood of the bitter Nigerian Male diaspora. No amount of "sleeping with married men" will give u the kind of riches that Nabila and all these women have..gbagbe e. Even if they do sleep around with men, they got rich by investing it. You may stand to gain some financial expertise from them actually. Instead of criticising them day in and out. They can teach u a thing or 2 so u can finally settle down and stop pretending like "feminist women" are the reason you are unmarried.
DeleteTypical black male pathology at its finest. Spoken like a truly conquered man. Women are to blame for any inconveniences you face in life. A woman housed and fed a grown man and is finally done with his ungrateful mess. and all you have to say is how she slept her way into get her riches. Who do Una this thing? No wonder oyinbo conquered you for centuries and still are. You’re banned from their countries. They give you grief when you do get into their countries and have started snatching your women, the same women you claim not to want and treat like garbage 👍 bravo! The strong African black man blood is really working
DeleteWow. Just when I thought it was virtually impossible for you to find fault in a woman who did not marry a man for money but in fact housed and fed him. Na wa o. Broke men are really scary o. This is why women should marry financially stable men and include as part of their husband criteria o. See as this one managed to turn Nabila into the villain. God punish poverty . Women just do you o. To some men, nothing you do will ever be good
DeleteWomen are not the cause of your frustration . I repeat women are not the cause of your frustration. All this online ranting you do every day cannot be profitable to anyone but the owner of this blog, another rich woman that made something of herself by creating a platform.are you going to accuse her of making her money by sleeping around too? Or is that just reserved for famous celeb women u want but don’t have access to. See the problem with men like you is that you like to break down but you Do not know how to create. Black male pathology. What have you created that will leave a legacy? Let’s start there maybe we can help you out of your frustration to empower yourself financially. because to dey see your baseless pained rants everyday don dey tire me.
Deleteif you ask Nabila and other women like her to cut soap for you, you won’t die I promise. The difference between you and them is that they have ownership of businesses, they create employment. What do you create or own exactly if I may ask? Other than grammatically and factually incorrect comments that do not even inspire. I really want to know.
DeleteThe only time you can ever talk down on women like Nabila is from the safety and comfort of your keyboard dear. So have at it. It’s good to let out frustrations to avoid depressions. You can’t speak to women like her in a conference room, not in a seminar, not in an interview. Not even on a zoom call. So Stay simple minded, small and pained. The world still needs the small people too. Don’t worry You still matter. In your own tiny way
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteWho is this pained anon dropping a million comment under my post..
Omo,. I said what I said.. choke on it😌😁😁
Seem like you're the bleached runs girl that married the agbero😂😂, saying the only time I can talk to you is at the comfort of my keyboard 😂😂.. aunty, with the kind of guy you married to, it shows your kind of spec and the kind of person you are.. what do I want to do with someone like you.. you and Caroline who left a billionaire for late tagbo, bird of a feather..
Aunty stay with your agberos abeg..
You want me to blame only the fvck boy, but because I insulted him and also blamed you for the part you played, you start wailing under my post..
You're not serious.. you think I'm among those that'll come and tell you only what you want to hear and deceive you..
You fvcked up big time.. level up of continue crying ✌️🚶🚶
Nigerian man, baby daddy for that matter with 2 children for 2 different women.
ReplyDeleteYou still chook head.
You were engaged to him, ABOUT TO WED and he got ANOTHER WOMAN PREGNANT at point of engagement. Meaning he was sleeping around even when married to you.
You still chook head.
Inside your warriage, your horseband stil dey do kerewa kerewa with different women, some that you were even aware of.
You still chook head.
Inside your marriage, he will still bring that diseased pri.ck that he has inserted inside God knows where, you will be battling STI's, STD's, spiritual strongholds, transferred spirits and only God knows what else while shining teeth like chimpanzee.
You still chook head.
Inside your marriage, he beat you several times, was mentally and emotionally abusive.
You still chook head.
Inside your marriage, he impregnated ANOTHER WOMAN.
Is that all? Beht na Nigerian man, bottom barrel waste, what exactly were you expecting? And see the one you even picked.
Why you run na? Never run. Ahn ahn "What is your husband impregnating another woman that you cannot tolerate?" . "Do you know if God wants to bless you like this?" "Don't you want to be a virtuous woman?" "Don't let the other woman win sis." "What is small impregnating and sleeping around that you cannot tolerate ". " He will change, keep praying and fasting for him". " Go and watch war room and drinking coconut oil" yadi yadi ya Ikwawawawawawa🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nigerian women fighting to possess utter absolute trash.
Pitifull lot.
I don't know you but I recognise and applaud your comments! Thank you for being so blunt!
Deleteyou are cruel and this is not necessary at all ..why beat someone who is already down but has picked herself up
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DeleteOritsemafemi thanks
ReplyDeleteThis one na one chance marriage. It shall be well with you nabila fash my sister
ReplyDeleteShe endured a lot.
ReplyDeleteLet her take time to heal first.
She will be fine.
If possible can she still be a mother to those kids? I kinda feel for them.
The things we see in marriage
ReplyDeleteThe Nigerian version tolerated by society is suffering and smiling
Delete“ODDLY PAIRED COUPLE” , in d words of SDK, in her Encomium days, concerning a former beauty queen, who married a very wealthy but married medical doctor “who looks somehow ,not appealing to look at , but for his education & profession. Hers was even better bcoz he was liquid with cash, educated , connected , had his hospital & more. Now for Nabila, u are educated , talented, connected, beautiful & more, where & how did u meet ds militant , razz looking husband of yours ,that u are proud to say u fell madly in love with. My people sey na who river Niger see e leg, na e go swallow. What on earth were u thinking when u saw him & then started a conversation with him? Yes, he’s talented but has no biz crossing ur part at all, talk less of a relationship that ended in marriage (even if he was/is decent in character), like minds vibe ,but I don’t see u as being in d same page of any category of life with him. Were u charmed? I’ve been holding my view on ds ur marriage for a while ,bcos u were still going back & forth , but now that u have taken d right step , I have to voice it out. I can bet my life that u never & still don’t lack men coming to u , so why him? Do u know there are a whole lot of ladies of ur class that would rather remain single than settle with d one time love of ur life? Honestly, it’s been disturbing & still is to me ,bcoz u deserve more. Best wishes.
ReplyDeleteYou said my mind.
DeleteWelcome Caroline Ekanem
DeleteThinking of it now, perhaps she was charmed o. Cos i dont even know how OritseFemi toasted her and she agreed. Even age or desperation shld not make u go there, better u pick a decent guy dat isnt rich and then polish him with her money than dis thing called Femi.
DeleteYou are referring to the famous doctor and Ms. N Osi....
DeleteThere's no comparison AT ALL. He was an older but very classy man. He just liked fine "wine ". This Oritse whatever is a no breed.
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WOMEN YOU CANNOT BUY / FORCE LOVE!
Women marrying nonsense in the name of marriage. Like what was she thinking. Mtchew.
ReplyDeleteWomen there are men below you
DeleteIn character, not matter how much money or looks
Character is EVERYTHING!
Desperation only produces nonsense
DeleteStop making decisions in ignorance and desperation women
Na single you single you no kill person
Nabila if you had adopted prayerfully, e for be better use of your time than this korofo ungrateful charity project
Kai! I really pity this lady, it's painful. Was it desperation that made her settle for that person? She married really low, God have mercy. I pray she heals & picks herself up.
ReplyDeleteThis isn't low
DeleteNa below ground
So she doesn't have any children of her own? Never knew
ReplyDeleteVery sad
ReplyDeleteObviously charmed.
ReplyDeleteOnce it is not renewed or the person or there are greater spiritual forces at play.
Imagine someone so cerebral sitting down to try to 'discuss' with this kind of person.
Like how will the conversation go??
As in?
Nothing like charm o. Sometimes as a woman you go dey sit down to think about your life, no suitable man coming and you see a man that at least is supposed to have some influence Cus he is a celeb . And u think. Wow. Good enough. Probably he packaged for her and by the time she knew the real him. It was too late to go back
DeleteKai, kaya mijin
Delete18:42 you can't package trash my dia. Even if it looks good, e go still dey ooze.
DeleteDoes Oritsefemi look like a responsible father or husband to you Nabila? Thank God you are free from his manipulative way.
ReplyDeleteUrrrrrrrrrhh long over due, goodmorning nabila, welcome to freedom. The nerve of that agbero to cheat recklessly on a successful woman like nab is alarming, omo nabi u need serious therapy cos ur mental health have been badly damaged, femi is a deadly disease that nabs have been suffering from for years now. Finally she's back on her feet, nwanyioma welcome back to good health.
ReplyDeleteThose innocent daughters u have introduced to wealth go hearam, i pity them
I applaud you for leaving, your peace of mind is important never judge her why she stayed or fall for him because this type of guy can be very manipulative.well-done girl God will send you a man that will love and cherish after you've healed
ReplyDeleteI watched the interview. I tuned off when she said no matter what he does outside he still has to give it to her and give her good i.e sex. So she knew he was an active philanderer and was still having sex with him. Na wa o. Even Freeze was shocked.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, the guy's d... game must be strong! Very strong! I also fell victim to someone like this Femi guy. Me that I am very principled but anytime I see the guy, I will start shaking. I had to run.
DeleteYou see that good in bed thing or bad boy appeal. Don’t judge Cus any woman can be a victim. I almost was one. Thankfully I was going off to school abroad and the guy sef pitied me and knew I was just too good for him and told me the honest truth that he is a bad guy and we can’t mix. I wanted to do anything for this guy. Now I look back like wtf was I thinking. Thank God. Some women are not that lucky. Maybe they still force the relationship or manage to escape and still stubbornly cling on. For me the distance and meeting new guys helped me regain some of my senses. He also started toasting my friend and I was like ….nah.. some boundaries are too much to cross. I think he just wanted my mind off him completely. Which in his own bad way was a nice thing to do, because I could feel myself getting obsessed, craving him and all. It really can be like a drug if you’re not careful and destroy you
DeleteSee these guys like Oritse Femi know that they are not good enough for women like Nabila so they try to misbehave to let her know not too get her heart too deep into it. But he also wants to enjoy the perks . That’s why he was fighting to have her back all those times. She need to get far away from him as possible. A hungry man is an angry man they say. But The only thing worse than a hungry man is a hungry man that doesn’t genuinely like you.
DeleteAnon 14:28, really? Honestly I wanted to type may be d guy is a maniac, as in good in bedroom antics, could be her reason of staying put. However, my question is for a high flyer like Nabila & looking at d guy, what exactly attracted her to him. Is it his height, cute face & physique, spoken English ,bank account , family background, crib , paper qualifications & more questions? What was it that swept her off her feet , as to grant him that attention of standing face to face & be discussing relationship? Can I even remember d elaborate & expensive wedding that was published on d billboard? As in “Nabila weds Femi?. She has left d marriage but can d stigma of him being her ex husband , ever wear out, as in Zazzu being ur ex?
ReplyDeleteLol@ Zazzu being an ex. She really married low, maybe she was jazzed
DeleteDon’t overlook the psychology of women being attracted to bad boys. Only mistake is that she got lost in the sauce and the one wey she suppose use do boyfriend or one night stand
DeleteShe turn am to husband
Reading the comments and saw that almost everyone saw this coming. Even Dante was surprised she settled for him.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is too sacred to just settle for any available person.
Anyone who reads this blog regularly especially the chronicles and posts like this and still take some foolish steps about some life-changing decisions needs to be flogged.
This woman done too suffer for The man hand.
ReplyDeleteLet her leave and never look back.
Kaị!
ReplyDeleteThe scale has finally fallen off her eyes.
They are so so odd.
Odi egwu.
This one no follow for husband nau babe. I guess we find love in strange places. How do you get married to someone you have nothing in common with in all areas of life? Oh well, I respect you for taking a walk.
ReplyDeleteThe Lord will give you a child, all the best.
Gosh I remember them celebrating wedding anniversary and Stella posted it here. I was so angry in my spirit and saying God free this woman! Finally!
ReplyDeleteI always wondered how they met and even got married, cos this man no follow at all. This one is even a bad choice for a one night stand how much more for marriage, as a classy lady with good and quality taste for men.
ReplyDeleteWhat was she thinking?
Was she under a spell or hypnosis? Cos this one no look like ordinary eyes to me. Well ThankGod she is finally free from whatever attracted her to that man. She must have had better men seeking her hand in marriage then,but she chose to make this tout her husband. Says a lot about her kind of person with a very poor choice of man.I wish you well Nabila.
She married Agbero
ReplyDeletemarried low indeed. most of you are not serious. who is perfect?
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