Crooner Oritsefemi's Wife Nabila Throws Him Out Of Her House And Files For Divorce, Hints On DV And A New Baby Mama

Popular Crooner Oritsefemi and his wife Nabila Fash have parted ways again and it looks like this time it is for real....

She hints on Domestic Violence and cheating that fathered a child...

The Football entrepreneur and Doctor of humanity has also reportedly thrown out Oritsefemi and his two daughters.............Sad story

She was on Instagram live with on air personality Freeze and two others...

Nabila : Marriage to me is sacred, i became someone else in marriage because at some point I was even out of order. when you get to this place of pain where you can't even control yourself. So I remember last year February I was at work, I got a call that there's a strange woman in my house.

I remember driving back to my house which was like 3 to 4 minutes drive from the office. The only thing I picked from my office was my Mobile phone. I remember calling my daughter, I don't have my own biological child but I went into the marriage with kids from other women which I honestly embraced as mine. I was so happy to be their mum.


I remember calling my daughter, someone picked up the call but she wasn't the one. I was hearing him say
" You want to break my marriage". I could hear her crying, saying "Daddy you are beating me, don't hurt me, she was saying don't hurt me." I was driving as fast as I could.

When I got home I didn't see the person, but my daughter was shaking

The first thing I could do... I was mad, upset.. It was a Monday I'll never forget. I picked my phone and wrote rubbish on my story. I was like "whosoever was the woman that came to my house to do the do while I was at work, you are lucky I didn't catch you,it would have been a different story". I can remember some people coming at me saying,
"your business is not with the woman, its with the man who brought her to the house. "


I remember giving him another chance, some people thought I was a fool. Being raised my a single mum,.. The normal Nigerian mentality that you have to make your marriage work.. And I really wanted my marriage to work.


What broke the Carmel's back was that, I was living a life with someone I was madly, deeply in love with, and I thought that was my happy ending.

I have done fertility, we had issues having our own kids but I was a loving mother to two wonderful girls from two different women that I do not know but this person sees it like they are doing me justice by having kids outside without my knowledge.

It became important for my sanity and mental health to take a decision that wasn't easy, a decision that made me here today, and I can say my story.

If i didn't make that decision who knows? Bimbo didn't get a chance to tell her story..


Q: The abuse in your marriage was it psychological in your opinion or physical? Did he lay his hands on you?


Nabila: I think they were times this person was being physical... Physical like twice but the most abuse I had was more of verbal and emotional abuse

Q: The cheating was it just a one off, or it's like "Nigerian men can cheat but they love their wives" or was it a constant part of your life?


Nabila: I had to deal with it constantly, at some point they told me it came with a job, it came with the his industry.
.. Like it is normal. I had to deal with it. People said " Just have a child then your concentration will be on your child not the man"
And I'm thinking how does that make it go away?. You have a child and the cheating goes on....

For me at some point I became numb to the cheating. I saw it as normal, like I said I could take anything but having a child on me without telling me, I felt really betrayed. The person will say " I love my wife" how do you love someone and then hurt them so deeply.


Q: So where are you now in the relationship?


Nabila: I have filed for a divorce


Q: When did you file?


Nabila: Three months ago

Q: What did he say, is he accepting it?


Nabila: He's not accepting it. I guess he feels like its one of those days where you'll come out and say something and everything will be under the carpet. And we will have to take pictures and form couple goals again for the gram. But no, I think women need to know where to draw the curtains


Q: What if he was only trying to have a child of his own?


Nabila: After he already had three from three different women?.. He had two before we got married. The third one was when we were about to get married. I told him I'll accept the two but that third one don't bring her into our home. You can look out for her from afar. This is really funny because by my calculation, the time he came out to tell Nigerians to beg his wife to come back home, he already got another woman pregnant so how could he do that. How could you tell Nigerians to beg your wife to come back home when you know you've done something crazy."