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TROUBLESOME PARENTS

Hello Stella,

 Please pardon any error, My story is long and If I start narrating you will get tired so i will try to break it down....

 My parents are so troublesome. They can be nice and lovely but with their troublesome character you won’t see the good in them. 

My dad is the manipulative one.

 My father own two houses. Tenants occupy one while my parents occupy the other. Thank GOD for blessing us the children with wisdom. For example my dad will call me and say some Bad things to me and say it’s was my brother that said it . Which is a lie because we know his kind of person, we will laugh over it. 

He joins peoples heads together. Assuming he has more than one wife, we the children will be fighting each other. My father will badmouth a tenant to my mom and My mom will carry the matter on her head . She will be seen has the bad person. 

We have warned her severally she will say she will change. The worst is my mom attends a church and all they preach about is enemies and seed. If she is quarreling with someone at home or on our street. She will go and tell her pastor.

 The pastor will tell her what to do. let me give an instance, the pastor will tell her to fast and be using broom to sweep the compound She is hypersensitive and has ulcer. Don’t know if it’s coincidence before you know the person will pack out. 

My siblings and I believe that church is a yahoo church. They don’t preach about salvation, Our mom is getting worse. My dad is her sponsor. Gives her money for transport, seed and money for fake battles. 

When she is broke and needs money she will complain to we the children. We have stopped giving her money Because she will give it to her mama(pastor). 

My parents expect you to join them in their battles. Which we never did. If they are beefing someone, they will expect you to help them to beef. People around respects us a lot and thank GOD none of us has their dirty character. 

Presently they stay alone We don’t stay with them because we are all grown and married. I hate to visit them because of this their attitude. They will be begging you to visit but you will be afraid because you want to avoid one quarrel or fight.

 Something happened recently, My father gave a man house to rent. People around said the guy is a debtor and womanizer. My father still insisted that he will give the guy the flat to rent. The man has been a debtor can’t pay his rent. I told my mom not to get involved and she agreed but before you know it, My father asked my mom to go to church to tell her pastor that he wants to give a tenant quit notice She should tell her pastor. 

My mom now asked my dad for money He gave her the money. My sister went to visit them and she said early the next morning She heard voices Only to see my mom and the debtors-wife exchanging words. According to their explanation my mum went to their flat by 6a.m to sweep” you victor leave my house I don’t want you in my house. (Yahoo pastor instructions)

 So the wife came out to challenge her why will you be sweeping the front of my house? Blood of Jesus Before you know they started exchanging words. The girl insulted my mum and My father was my mum hype man.

 My sister called me I told her not to come out that she should ignore them. Because if you go there to calm the situation. My dad will insult and embarrass you. they expect you to help them to fight. Told her to pack her things and go. My parents are angry that a girl not up to my sister is insulting them my sister did not join them to fight. 

They are the trouble makers, old And have lived their life they should stop giving us the children bad names.

 Please how can I handle my parents behavior? am I a bad child for not getting angry that my mum was insulted? I feel she deserves it. We the children can only react if she was minding her business and the lady came to insult her. This one she went to their flat to look for trouble. We all are angry and ashamed of their character but can’t hate them.

Na wah oooooh.......

I am happy that you are do not take sides with your parents when they start their problems.

Since you are all grown up and no longer dependent on them, why dont you have a meeting with them? Not at their home but invite them to a venue and talk to them and tell them of their behavior and how embarrassing it has become.

Talk to them!

They may be too old to change their ways but they can adjust..

If they refuse to change after the meeting then you all can boycott them and stop picking their calls or visiting, they will get the message.