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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
IN LOVE WITH A CHEATER
I Caught him some days ago with a call girl in our street!!
He said she's owing him cos He sells ladies wears but I later confronted her and she confessed that they actually had s#x in her room and that she collected her money for the s#x. Did I blame her? Hell no!! its her business she is doing, its my yeye boyfriend I have issues with!!!
I threatened to end the relationship cause of that and he went to drag her out of her house and almost beat her up with his belt! he is an ex cultists, so he still has it in him....
He tried to make it up to me, took me out, bought me things, gave me money, promised his unending love for me. He's generous and Knows how to spoil me but his problem is women!!
Please advise me cause I'm a woman in love, and age is not on my side!! I am in my Late 30s and I'm helpless!!!
You see the red flags already but you want to marry because age is not on your side? It is better to marry late or not marry at all than to marry someone like you described up there cos you will regret it later.
You may be in love now but your eyes will clear out later in regret...
Dont waste your time on him and dont marry him!
My dear be wise for once.
ReplyDeleteTake a walk and don't write yourself off
1. Womanizer
Delete2. Sleeps with prostitutes
3. Beats women, with belt!!!
4. Ex-cultist!!! You are still asking if you should take him back!!!? 😒
She should have asked how to cure her greed.
DeleteYou want to marry a cultist because age is not on your side?
DeleteA man who could beat a girl he just had sex violently because she spoke the truth will do the same to you.
You are obviously dickmatized so nothing we tell you may actually make you leave.
If you decide to leave please just disappear, no need breaking up with him because I don’t think he will let you go easily, also inform your family members should anything happen to you.
Dear ladies, how do you people date cultists both ex and present?
Push up (original)
Dear poster, please marry him!!!
DeleteMadam pack your two left legs and leave that relationship, read the hand writing on the wall before it's too late.
Delete@push up,didn't your "person",the gospel crooner marry a cultist/pastor?
DeleteDo you! Our advice would be invalid
ReplyDeleteYou really get am. Cos I don't know what else you want to hear since you're already seeing the signs.
DeleteShe is too desperate and scared of tomorrow for her to listen to any advice, she knows the truth but love the immediate gain she is getting from him.
DeleteYou get, I said same up there, she should marry him and let us rest.
DeleteSee the ashewo CV naa, plus ex cultist. Do you have a penchant for suffering?
ReplyDeleteE reach to ask o
DeleteI tire oooo 🙄🙄🙄
DeleteSuffer no dey tire her
DeleteShe would come and write another chronicle in 3yrs ..#O
DeleteDear Poster, what you tolerate in relationships tend to be worse in marriage.
ReplyDeleteI hope you make him understand your deal breaker and do the needful
You even try dating an ex cultist.
ReplyDeleteMy dear
DeleteMy sister help me talk ooo... Ex cultist should marry Ex cultist oooo...
DeletePoster first off Let me laugh abeg 😂😂😂😂 I think you just want to make us laff to ease the tension...Please upgrade yourself I beg...For you to date a guy at that level speaks a lot about you...You can do better and you know it...I have no advice for you; you know what you got yourself into and you know how to get out...Peace and All the best!!
ReplyDeleteAll these foolishness on age is not on my side nonsense makes you all write chronicles all the time.
ReplyDeleteKwantinu in buharis voice, shebi you go still write more chronicles. Am hear to read and shake my head
Very cheap chronicle. An ex cultist that get down with an olosho any chance he gets plus a woman beater. My dear nothing like ex cultist here, he's still one. At your age, it's a pity. Sit down in front of your mirror, do some reflection, recall your dreams and aspirations and talk to yourself.
DeleteWhat do you mean age is not on your side? You better use your tongue to count your teeth.
ReplyDelete
ReplyDeleteI threatened to end the relationship cause of that and he went to drag her out of her house and almost beat her up with his belt! he is an ex cultists, so he still has it in him........a cheater,a manipulator and also woman beater.This one will use cane or koboko on you when you have issues because he got it in him!Think am well sis!
Some people see fire and they rush to put their entire being into it. Poster,I have no words for you. Bye🚶♀️🚶♀️
ReplyDeletePoster please forget love now and use your sense,he will still cheat when you marry him.
ReplyDeleteLove will find you sis.
You're a woman in love? In love with what dear? Because I'm not understanding.
ReplyDeleteEx cultist? sleeps with call girls?
Okay oo.
Or are you still there because of his money?
Patronizing a call for that matter. Poster think well. It doesn't look good at all.
ReplyDeleteWhat's there to advise you, poster? He's not hiding anything for you but you hide under your age, him being generous and love to accommodate his excesses. What do you even want to hear from us? Stay?
ReplyDeleteAs a married woman, do you think you will accommodate and be forgiving as you are now? Or will you keep forgiving him with the same reasons you gave? Or you hope to change him?
Anyways, bible says forgive 70×70 in a day. Wait till he does that as much times in a day before you think of what to do.
Can you promise to send us another chronicles in future if you guys marry?
Sorry the way I sounded but the red flags are as red as red and you're asking us to tell you what color is red.
A man who is capable of assaulting a lady will one day do it to you. Not only is he violent but also a cheat. Sis, please run for your dear life cause age is just a number. I already fear for what he will do to you when you say you are no longer interested. A leopard can never change its spot. Ex cultist indeed. Is he in Christ? of course not.
ReplyDeleteMarry him make we rest abeg! I could have bet a teenager in love wrote this
ReplyDeleteSame
DeleteAsin
DeleteMy dear eh. I was thinking a teenager wrote this
DeleteDem no dey advice person wey dey in love. 😂
ReplyDeleteBut madam, like this now you Wan make we put mouth for cultiss matter? Haaaa!!!!!!!
Abeg help me greet Oga, extend the greetings to the call girl.
I'm obidient
😳😳😳
ReplyDeleteex cultist lonlon...
To what end? Why have you refused to see the plain truth before you?
ReplyDeleteDid you just say that you are in love with him? Someone that disrespects you at any chance he gets?
I am all time shook that there are still people like you in this time and age
Smh!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Did I hear you say an ex cultist? Abi na read I read am ni?
ReplyDeleteDo I have anything to tell you?
No.
You are old enough ma, if at this age you don't know what you want then devil is a liar.
We move
Poster at your age you should know red flags that is inbuilt...if you know you can't stand cheating better leave the relationship now cos he's not going to change in marriage
ReplyDeleteYou are dating a cultist (ex indeed) and a cheat and u are still asking questions. Please don’t disguise Abeg
ReplyDeleteI guess you are bored
ReplyDeletethat why you send this chronicle .
You and I know that you won’t leave your cheater of a boyfriend.
Something-light
Marry him dear.
ReplyDeletePlease.
At least let us know one less beast is off the streets to torment an innocent soul.
You don't need anyone to tell you that you need to quit that relationship NOW for your own good. The signs are so glaring already, if you continue with him, you're doing so at your own risk. Borrow yourself sense or have yourself to blame if you decide to do otherwise.
ReplyDeleteIn your late 30s and you don't think you deserve better.
ReplyDeleteWhat's it with ladies with he buys me food as if no one was feeding you from birth, if you check the food now, it won't pass Shawarma, Pizza, and all these over seasoned spaghetti with chicken laps they sell for 1k.
You need to find a job and add value to yourself, marry him, and be prepared for beating since you said "it's still in him".
It's not like she doesnt think she deserves better, she doesn't have common sense.
DeleteWhen it comes to common sense, age is also a number.
Poster I saw this quote somewhere and I had to share it so you can decide for yourself
ReplyDelete"Ignoring RED FLAGS cos you want to see the good in people will cost you later"
#nuffsaid
Stella has said it all. You are seeing the obvious signs but your head and heart is still telling you to go ahead. An ex cultist my foot. Marry him an regret all the days of your life. You better run! now that you can.
ReplyDelete,so u even know he's an ex cultist yet u wanna shook head because you're in your late 50s abi, sha ready to be sending west chronicle if you marry him,and buy plenty Shea butter in advance to serious beating you'll be receiving after marriage. It is we with you
ReplyDeleteNot late 50s dear, late 70s.
DeleteRUN
ReplyDeleteMarry him
ReplyDeleteYou like him. Just cause people say don’t Marry a cheat doesn’t mean you should break up with your man. What’s doing them is not what’s doing you. Marry hun and face front of you hear of him with any woman
Which age isn't on your side abi it's because of his money. Wo do whatever you want
ReplyDeleteA man that dragged a woman out and threatened to beat her up with his belt will also beat you one day
ReplyDeleteWhat do you want us to do now? you said you're helpless and inlove and the love is carrying to where you don't know,try and date another man while you're still with him first, I want to check something.
ReplyDeleteWent to drag her out of her house and almost beat her up. He is an ex cultist and still has it in him.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm.
Hmmm,dear poster please don't pressure yourself into disaster,the right person that adores you will come,even if he doesn't come,find what you love doing best and soak yourself in it.
ReplyDeleteI feel serious pity for you.
ReplyDeleteYour kind of mumu need hug on a regular and not advice.
😃😃😃😃
DeleteChai
DeleteHe cheats
ReplyDeleteHe flogs women
He is an ex cultist and still has it in him
I see you
Well he went to beat her for lying that he slept with her
DeleteAbi are we to assume that the girl is telling the truth
Plus he sells ladies wears. I hope it's not those ones that sell second panties and bra you are dating o. Your matter too get k-leg abeg.
DeleteSome of you like suffer sha! you’re seeing an okpo man with a touch of aye but mba, greed no let you see road
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ReplyDeleteYeye smello advise.
Delete🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️
ReplyDeleteSister, you are on a highway
ReplyDeleteto no where. He will soon add u beating. Only u, ashawo customer husband, cultist, add woman beater and many more after marriage. My dear your future with him no bright at all.
I just believed that you wanted us to have a good laugh. But if you are for real you better take a walk. May God help you o!
ReplyDeleteWhatever we say now, might mean nothing to you, after all, you're in love and he is generous.
ReplyDeleteThe signs are there and your still asking questions..
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm
Do whatever you want,l wish you all the best.
Fear a woman beater aunty
ReplyDeleteFear a woman beater aunty
Aunty fear a woman beater
Runooooooh
How will we advice you? Them no Dey advice a woman in love. If we ask you to leave him now, you will still eventually marry him, then tell him sdk and her blog visitors are haters of beautiful things.
ReplyDeleteYou see the many red flags but you are still looking for advice. He will marry you and his cheating will double cos by then he has already married you, And I’m glad you know he is an ex cultist so u are completely powerless to him.
If you talk too much you will collect wotowoto beating😏😏 with belt and cane. All those things he buys for you now to make you happy,all those goodies will end,and he will buy more belts for you.
Marry him my dear,he might change because he loves you.
I no Dey advice you Abeg.
Hmm poster that is how he will use belt to beat you one day.
ReplyDeleteThis kinda man is the kind of man that abuses women and he is a cheat , all the red flags are clearly showing but you want to marry by all means.
Alright, just know you were aware and don't send in chronicle later on.
Ndo
What advice do you want? You said he's a womanizer and ex cultist and you still have intention of marrying him. Break up with him before it's too late.
ReplyDeleteWear your running shoes, carry your bags and get out of that relationship RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteThe problem with my gender type with this personality was summarised in this paragraph: "He tried to make it up to me, took me out, bought me things, gave me money, promised his unending love for me. He's generous and Knows how to spoil me but his problem is women!!"
ReplyDeleteWhile there's nothing wrong if anyone chooses to spoil anybody, when someone predicates their reason to stay or continue on such premise. Such a person is naturally a glutton, who doesn't have self worth.
Sorry poster, this your weakness will be the bane of your happiness. You can't have this mindset of eating your cake and expect to still have it all with you. There's always a catch, and it is in how cheap you have sold your value. There's no better way to be discourage you
and not sound soothing way, but to be blunt. You are in a situationship with this emotional battery.
You don’t have sense and it’s very obvious.
ReplyDeletePlease go ahead and marry him since your age is letting you close your eyes to a woman beater , a cheat and other undesirable behavior.
Women work hard to earn your own money so that you won’t be impressed when a man spends measly on you to compensate for his bad behavior.
How do you people even use love in such context ?
Lady MorgiannE
Poster
DeleteWhy do you hate yourself soooooo much?
Why?
Poster pls leave this guy right now.marriage is no joke,so u should be prepared for it.u shouldn't let society push u into marrying the wrong partner cos u will live in regret.
ReplyDeleteBut you're in love, you're one of the wrong set of people to advise in life. My sister, do wetin your mind tell you. Las Las you go dey alright
ReplyDeleteThe handwriting is clear on the wall. Poster, pls dodge this bullet o.
ReplyDeletePlease just forget this guy,and move on,you can see the flags and you still want to stay because of the benefits
ReplyDeleteAnd one day he would remove one or two of your front teeth with punch coz he is an ex cultist and he still has it in him. Wo aunty do whatever makes you happy jare.
ReplyDeleteYou dey mind am. Money/gift don blind her sense of reasoning. Poster you better start saving aggressively from the money he gives you if you don’t work and leave when you’re ready. Don’t wait too too long sha. Give yourself a set date and don’t tell him your plans please. Open the door of your heart so other men can get to know you. As far as I know, you are NOT married yet, only dating. Worse thing is getting married out of desperation. You will so so regret it that money no go matter at that point in time. There’s a reason why you sent this chronicle. It’s heavy on your heart and you know deep within you, you’re in a wrong type of relationship. Na your cross to carry if you decide to stay, not ours.
DeleteMy darling, love with your heart and reason with your head too,you don't love him, you're just there cos you think he is your last option but trust me thousands of good men are still available for you only if you realize it..... it's just matter of decision.
ReplyDeleteHahaha abeg make I laugh in relationship abeg...ngwa die there na since time is no longer on your side
ReplyDeleteNothing to advise here.
ReplyDeleteYou dont have sense.
At your age.
And if you dont still have sense by now, you can never have sense.
Nothing to advise here.
My own thing is, sha be careful when you finally have the balls to break it off with him. He can hurt you when (praying you will) you finally decide to end the relationship. He seem intense and emotionally not balanced. Break it off and watch what might happen. That’s when you go see the real beast in him. You’re seeing how this man dragged out a woman like you, wanting to flog her and you don’t think he’ll do the same thing when all the euphoric feelings don calm down and marriage reality sets in? Please break off this crazy relationship, change your location and address completely. I’m Worried on your behalf! Goodluck oooo hmmm. You go need am.
ReplyDeleteRed flags everywhere, cheat, liar, woman beater n cultist
ReplyDelete