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CONFUSED ABOUT DREAM AND FERTILITY STATUS'
The year 2019 I do have s#x in the dream.... In that dream it will be with my husband . I was TTC ,a neighbor of mine who has been trying to conceive for 5 years after their first child. The husband was listening to a radio station. Advert was now playing about a herbal doctor.
He copied the number. My neighbor and her husband went, he did test for them and said it infection /low sperm they paid 135k and started treatment and within a month she got pregnant.
I told my husband about the place. We did the same test said its infection/watery sp#rm. After a month nothing. He said hubby is free but I still have infection, we paid another money 135k. After everything no pregnancy.
My husband said he is not going back. This neighbor of mine referred like two persons and they got pregnant. I went back there behind my husbands back and I explained everything to him. He called his father that taught him the work. The father said I have a spiritual husband and some person from I and hubbys side did something that I won’t get pregnant.
My people, I burrowed money to add to the one I have. All what I spent again was 400k. They said that if I sleep things will be revealed to me. I slept and I had a dream where a strange image was trying to have s#x with me. I fought and struggled with him, I pushed him and he fell down.
After all the money spent and time,still no pregnancy. I lost all hope and I dedicated my life to Christ, Stopped masturbating,prayed in the night , begged GOD for forgiveness but I still have s#x in the dream .
The way I and my husband make love in reality is the same way in the dream. And it is my husbands image. Any time I wake up from the dream, I will be sad and broken and I will curse the dream. It’s hard to resist because it is my husbands image. But if the thing comes in another image. I always resist and win.
Please how can I stop having s#x in my dream? I have prayed and prayed and i Am so exhausted and Scared to even sleep. I need a solution to my problem because it killing me slowly.
We went to the hospital to run a test Only to discover my husband is the one with issue. The gynecologist said IVF is our only solution. We don’t have that kind of money. ( all hope is on GOD) I am now a debtor because I was desperately looking for a child. ( God please change my story and wipe my tears). I thought spiritual husband starts from birth? Many things running through my mind. But the herbal doctor said he is fine. People that went to collect medicine from him got what they want. Why is mine different?
Herbal Doctor told you that your husband is fine but real doctor did tests and told you that your man is the cause of no baby... So whose report do you believe?
You have a spirit husband that comes to nack you when you are asleep? Let me leave those who know something about this to comment on it....
I wish you all the best, please do not lose hope OK? Stop going to the herbal doctor and ask the doctor what can be done aside IVF.
Check for people that help pay for ivf and try to go for it ASAP
ReplyDeleteI read something today, you need to edify your mind with what is pure, whatever we see, or hear has a way of renewing our minds.
DeleteTry and stay away from things that put sexual thoughts in your mind and whenever the “spirit husband “ comes in your husbands image try and resist it.
Secondly you just have to keep trusting in God, not only because you expect a child from Him, because you believe He is God. When you pray, thank God for the child even before the child comes.
Thirdly, start saving little by little for the IVF, you’d be surprised you do not even need it in the end. I will put you in prayers.
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I 'm battling same issue, I have been married since 2020, still waiting on the Lord,,, it comes with my husband's face and its difficult to resist , I was also told its spirit husband,,,I am undergoing deliverance presently....What God cannot do does not exists... God will surely deliver me and I will birth my babies in Jesus mighty name..Amen
DeleteGod bless you push up for this. Dearest poster please try not to watch or think about things that would pollute your mind e.g
DeleteWatching porn, watching erotic scenes in films and music etc
I used to have spirit husband visit me in my dreams but mine couldn't stop me from giving birth but hinders hubby's or my success so I decided to always listen to pastor Joshua Selma's messages while I sleep and surprisingly it stopped. Just connect your ear piece and listen to his messages or prayers while you sleep every night. Continue praying and cleanse your heart of every form of impurity and come back with testimony.
Start midnight prayers, go on three days fasting and prayers and stay awake till 12midnight and pray. You will overcome the spirit husband. Stay away from sin during this fasting, leave social media and stay indoors. Also, for the doctor's report, ask him what other options are available asides IVF. God will answer you.
DeleteI'm a mature stripper, a whore in my dreams, but in real life I'm a mom of 4 undergrads and a cwo leader. Your mind is already troubled and groomed to believe the dreams are responsible.
ReplyDeleteMe I am enjoying my dream life and real life. Anyday I don't rock the pole in my dreams, I'd be sad, but once I do it and service some customers, I'd be happy in the morning. Don't want it to stop anytime soon.
I pity you
DeletePity yourself, I have lived half of my life in bliss 😄. Don't worry about me. Dream life and real life don't clash.
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DeleteEyah anon it is well with you as long as you’re happy in both lives that’s all that really matters ❤️
DeleteIncredibly refreshing! Rock that pole mama!
DeletePeople put too much stock on their yeye dreams. ‘Christians’ are something else. Scared of every little thing. See how they are admonishing a woman whose everyday life is probably mundane and subconsciously living adventurously via her dreams, doing things she daren’t in reality.
Poster, I bet your sex life is boring which is why you are having hot relations with your husband in dreamland. Your subconscious is manifesting your deepest wishes. This is not the reason you haven’t had a baby. The gynecologist has told you the reason. Else why wasn’t the herbalist that claimed your husband wasn’t the problem successful? Start saving up for IVF. Focus on that. Don’t give your sex dreams a thought anymore, instead, find a way to spice up your sex life in reality. Thank God everyday for your babies. Before you know it, you would have saved enough for IVF and also be in the right frame of mind to conceive.
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DeletePlease oh, what is cwo leader?
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Poster you need to divorce your spiritual husband so you can be delivered. Whenever you pray, declare it out loud and in your heart nothing less than three times that “ I divorce you spiritual husband” keep praying this prayer, also declare and pray “ I disown you spiritual children” pray these prayers until you see results. Also separate yourself, renounce and denounce spiritual husband and children in the spiritual and physical realm while you pray. Pray until you are liberated. Purify your mind and hearts. Have faith that God has answered you and you will see permanent results. It worked for me. Stop going anywhere and pray to God cos the Holy Spirit is in us all. This is my testimony. It worked for me. Cheers. All the best. P.S know you can’t stop having these dreams until you divorce your spiritual husband. Divorce is rejection, abandonment and separation in the physical realm and so it is in the spiritual realm.
ReplyDeletePoster always declare Isaiah Chapt 54 believe it, meditate on it and tell God to help you live a holy life and empower you to conquer your enemies always. Victory is yours
DeleteMan's mind , once filled with new ideas cannot regain its original dimension. Go read about the power of insinuations in phycology. The herbal person manipulated your thought process and you fell because of your desperation. Stop going to see the guy. Go to a teaching hospital, sperm cannot stop you.
DeleteThank you Alexander.
DeleteMy dear there is nothing like spiritual husband. Stop wasting your money, you are been deceived.
ReplyDeleteGbam
DeleteSee you need to totally get your mind off the spirit husband ish. The more you worry and fret about it, the more depressed you'll become.
ReplyDeleteYou have prayed about it, now is the time to praise and be thankful. After the dreams, tell God you are thanking Him in advance for what He'll do because the devil can never win the battle against God.
The enemy wants to see you constantly sad 😢 and downcast 😓 because of a dream/dreams.
Please shake it off and appreciate God for His mercies. Stop running helter skelter and just trust God. He'll come through for you.🤗🤗🤗🤗🎈🍾🧬
Hmmm!
ReplyDeleteI don't even know what to say
So all the period you were TTC, you never took your husband for test as well, or it never revealed it to you people then?
ReplyDeleteForget about the spiritual husband, erase it from your mind, start looking for money to do IVF. It's your mindset that's bringing all those dreams.
You said you don't have money for IVF, but you paid someone 135k twice and another 400k? That's almost 700k, if you put it in mind, you can save money for a period of 1yr or so to get the IVF done. You can also share with family that you can trust and can afford to help you.
Just relax your mind, be free and happy, live a healthy life and eat well, don't let your situation weigh you down, before you know it, everything will work out positively for you. Wishing you a healthy twins soones
*Larry was here*
This is the comment I was looking for. You get money to dash herbalist . You’re still asking about spirit husband while your main problem dey front dey look you. I have a friend that once told me she experiences that sex in the dream thing occasionally. But she doesn’t let it bother her cos she knows she’s with Christ. She has kids, she’s doing well for herself. Stop dashing spiritualists money una no go hear.
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DeleteMadam Mb ivf is still an option when wife is not “ok”
DeleteYour write up is confusing on this point
@poster. I wish to give you a deep hug and whisper to your ears that.. ALL WILL BE WELL. Keep your hopes alive.
ReplyDeleteI don't wish ttc to my enemy. Herbs works but God works better. I have seen things in this life that made me say bye bye to herbs.
Despite the result of your husband, God can still do miracles. Don't come to a point where you find it difficult to pray or give up on medicine
The three Hebrew boys Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego did not give up even with the furnace of fire staring at them. If they did not endure to the end. We will not have heard about them. Pray. Pray and pray again. Ask some family members especially your parents to join you in prayers. Engage in midnight warfare. Cry to God. Spirits don't marry. Any spirit husband that wants to sleep with a woman should go and pay bride price. Rebuke him with everything in you.
Congratulations in advance.
Been hearing about this spiritual husband/wife. Don't know how true it is. Poster, I feel your pain and honestly wish God comes through for you.
ReplyDeletePoster I am talking from a place of experience
ReplyDeleteMy mom had spiritual husband which she didn’t notice until She got married. That’s when it began to reveal itself to her ( sex in the dream) the spirit tried to destroy her marriage. My mom went through it very evil spirit.
The period she gave her life to Christ the real war began. She almost lost her pregnancy at a point but she was determined to win the battle, which wasn’t easy o.
She would pray and fast. MFM was the church she belonged to, bought books related to spiritual husband and read scriptures. It took awhile but it left and she became free, She said it tries to attack her from time to time but she fights back and wins as God is on her side.
My own nko? I never experienced it but she felt there was a possibility it would affect me.
I opened a portal for it when I innocently started masturbating at age 16, never knew I was opening a way for them to attack. Most time I masturbate it would use females to sleep with me in dreams. I told my mum I was suspecting I had it, she introduced me to a scripture Galatians 3:13-14 and prayers. Then I genuinely gave my self to Christ and prayed my way out, it’s not an easy battle but with the help of God it’s easy. First step i quit masturbation which I advice you to do poster(not easy) as I went back to it countless time but like I said God is always there to help.
I Genuinely seeker God by the help of Apostle Joshua Sleman, Oyedepo via YouTube. In my house where I created an alter of prayer, fasting and reading the scriptures my life changed. Today I can boldly say God is with me and helping me, that portal I opened I have closed. The devil still tries to persuade me to masturbate, I fight battles in my head but one thing is I belong to light so they can’t win.
Poster start by giving your self to Christ genuinely, make up your mind to stop masturbation and seek God. I tell you it’s only God that can help you. Stop spending money on people to see vision for you. You belong to God so u have access to Him too, download apostle Joshua Selman teachings on mystery of deliverance and follow his teachings I assure you that your life won’t remain the same. As you keep on seeking God He will direct you to other men of God he wants you to listen to. Midnight prayer and fasting is key too.
The journey will not be easy when you start but trust me I have being there, it gets easier as God will show you things that will make the devil scared of you because the devil thrives on our ignorance. The moment he is exposed he flees, as for the IVF God will make provisions but first conquer the spiritual then the physical too will be conquered.
God bless you for this
DeleteThe Lord preserve your salvation
DeletePoster listen to this advice, quit masturbation, give your life to Christ and as you engage regularly in prayer and fasting you will surely overcome that evil spirit.
DeleteYou didn't mention your husband joining you in prayers and dedicating his life to God and asking for forgiveness.
ReplyDeletePlease keep your faith strong, stop visiting charlatans whose source of power is uncertain.
Look up to God with your husband, visit the doctor and keep hope alive.
It is well with you.
Sex dreams are a natural part of life but you won’t believe that. You also won’t believe when I say the best solution to your problems is to stop stressing. The stress is not even good for fertility. Relax, drink plenty of eater. If you dream, just let it be. Don’t wake up and pray. God is not deaf. God has heard your prayers. The Bible says having done all, STAND. Stand still and see the hand of God.
ReplyDeleteI don’t even want to talk too much. Poster is married and masturbating , why won’t she have sex with her husband in the dreams. Poster, try sleeping with a fertile man and see how you’ll get pregnant with Triplet . Una too dey give power to nonsense spirit husband.
DeleteAgain @poster , why will you compare your infertility to other women?. What if theirs was just infection? Or just low sperm caused by infection?. Or partial tubal blockage?. What if they’re not ovulating properly and mr herbalist adds clomid to the drugs . ???. Causes of infertility are quite numerous.
Free yourself from the spirit husband connect with pastor Jerry Eze
ReplyDeleteIt's well with you. I pray for deliverance and answers to prayer for you
ReplyDeleteSpiritual husband is real but since you are married physical and is taking your husband face you need to join hand in prayer with your husband so that the spirit can go without your husband help in prayer it may be difficult that is why he is having problem start praying before sleeping with him everyday and soon he will leave your husband alone,Don't let people who are spiritually dead convinence you that there is nothing like that because the bible even said spiritual things to them is foolishness to them that are perishing.Your husband is been attacked that is why the spirit is coming with his face that is what devil does, deception but once he is with you in prayer ,the spirit has no other option,he paid the bride price and your husband is the only one that has right of intimacy with you.But if your husband is not interested ,go to a church with born again pastor for deliverance,and you have to give your life to Christ if you are not born again,I will be praying for you,you have a good heart and desire to be free and you will be free in Jesus name .amen
ReplyDeletePls in addition to what I wrote before go for deliverance first before Any IVF otherwise it will be effort in futility it won't bring result because spirit rules over physical,things happens in spirit world before it happens in the physical
ReplyDeleteGo and settle your spirit husband. Don't mind people who say nothing like spirit husband. For 15 years i had sex in the dream. Went for church deliverances, nothing changed. Settled spirit husband. No more sex in the dream. Don't mind all these ignorant people who know nothing about spirituality. Jesus won't save you. Only settling your spirit husband will.
ReplyDeleteLook for a good spiritualist.
The audacity for me on Jesus won't save you!. Na wah.
DeleteIt’s in your mind. Be it onto you according to your beliefs
DeleteSpiritualist? Like seriously? Jesus can save you my love
DeleteObviously your husband is the problem.
ReplyDeleteDo another test in the hospital and compare results.
Poster I advice you hand everything over to God. Pray like your life depends on it. There's nothing impossible for God, nothing. Just believe he alone can make it possible and you will see it happen sooner than expected. You can join NSPPD prayers every morning. It worked for me.
ReplyDeleteYou for do medicals first. Sorry about your ordeal.
ReplyDeleteGet a second opinion from a specialist then know the next thing to do.
You Sha love sex with your hubby that's why you see it in your dream.
Next te tilhe dream comes, grab your hubby and f the shit out of him.
Poster stop visiting the herbalist, talk to the real doctor if there is any solution to your husband's infertility issues , ask God for solutions. And please stop stressing yourself out about this ttc issues.
ReplyDeleteSpirit husband exist.......and if the husband allows you to marry in reality that's where the real war starts.
ReplyDeleteSeek God genuinely and command that spirit to break off from you (with seriousness u can raise a strong division voice against the spirit and it will free).
Trust me any problem you have related to marriage they’ll blame on spirit husband.
DeleteJesus is the answer you seek.
ReplyDeleteI'll say this and say it again. There's nothing like spiritual husband. I don't believe in it. Wet dream is natural and happens once in a while. Worship God and enjoy your life. Let ur mind be free ..I'm 27 unmarried and 2 times now two prophets are saying is spiritual husband lol.
ReplyDeleteMe that I'm unbothered ,me that I av ppl asking for my hand in marriage ,but I'm declining because I'm trying to take my time and not to rush into marriage because of desperation. I steady av ppl who are ready to settle down ,but the problem is I know I'm not ready emotionally and the people I av met so far are not right for me that is why I'm unmarried. So anytime they say it's spirit husband I'll just laugh , because me myself I know the reason why I'm not married yet.
The prophet said the wet dream is because of the spirit husband me myself I know the reason why I get wet dream. Cuz how person way don sex last since 2019 no go miss sex lol
Plus sometimes then if I watch erotic movies and it played in my mind,I end up wet dreaming.
Abeg no be everything be devil
mumu mey u dey deceive yasef.
DeleteE dey sweet u now marry first den go show u shege.
The solution is in your hand. @poster
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