Hmmm...
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
A NARRATIVE THAT LEAVES YOU CONFUSED
She saw my body and screamed. Immediately asked me to stop cooking and follow her home, I refused at first, and she called my brother, and they were dragging me out.
Hubby was home too, he tried to stop them, my brother pounced on him, they fought, he is 47, my brother is 40, the blows they exchanged hurt me to watch until he knocked my hubby out cold.
I love him so I stayed back after they left and revived him.
When he woke up, he ordered me out of his house, it was dark already, I refused. He went out, dunno where he slept and sent a message that he doesn't wanna meet me at home in the morning else he gonna kill me.
I didn't want to leave....
My mom and bro have destroyed my home, they refused to apologise.
It was a marriage of 1 year and I didn't know I was already pregnant. That's how my marriage ended, I begged but he refused to take me back, that he doesn't want to kill me so I shouldn't return.
I have my baby boy now, and hubby is yet to file a proper divorce. So we are dating other people, pending when we get back together or divorce properly.
My family crashed my Marriage.
*You should be thankful that they crashed that marriage else you might be dead today... You owe them an apology and a thank you and not the other way round...I am really shocked reading that you were begging him... Do you like to be abused or is beating a normal thing for you in marriage?
Go and make up with your family, no one will apologise to you!
LEAVE TO LIVE!!!
Some people don't deserve to be saved. Reason y I no dey put mouth for husband and wife matter.
ReplyDeleteInstead of you to he thanking your mum and your brother.
I blame them for not allowing you to suffer very well.
Yes some people deserve what they get. I can bet you that she will go back to the man and cut her family off. You see this chronicles? Some women that will comment here are still being abused but will remain with their abuser after commenting. Poster forgive your mother and brother for saving you. They won't Try it again, go back to "hubby" inugo?
DeletePoster i don't want to abuse you,but you make it hard for me not to do so. Instead of you to be grateful your family stood for you,you are here talking trash. Madam file for the divorce. Same thing happened to my cousin, but unlike you,she was thankful and got married to someone else that loves her and her daughter. The husband she left remarried and beats the 2nd wife,till she left after he almost killed her.
DeletePoster Don't make me say what you would not like this hot afternoon..Are you okay? How many parents will fight for their daughters who go through domestic violence? Who should apologize to you? I wish your brother comot 3 of him front teeth I for like am...You better thank God they saved you instead of this yeye rants...Mtsheeeww
DeletePoster, watch the video of Bimbo's sister and brother after her death, you will understand the anguish they are going through for not being able to save her from IVD, then genuinely repent and apologize to God for not valuing His sacrifice on the cross as you are ready to throw away your life for marriage, also apologize to your family. Move on with your life and foolish no more.
DeleteYou are an ungrateful human and I feel sorry that your brother took blows and defended an ingrate. Who damaged your self esteem to this level? May God bless you mum and brother for saving that child of yours from being raised in a violent home and continuing the cycle. Ode
DeletePoster, I wish I had a family like yours… na wa
DeleteI guess that's not the first time. If he's aware of his son and refused to come. Move on.
Delete17:47, don't wait for your family to come and save you. Leave to live!
Delete"I Had a brawl with hubby. He punched me in the eye, used belt on me, as I'm very fair, the marks really showed ..."
DeleteUntil a clarifying update, this here appears as a case of "two fighting". And Poster's after conduct also appears to support that inference.
The Poster's family acted rightly in getting her out of a domestic violence situation no matter who the aggresor / fight starter was - whether Poster, or her husband.
But they went about it the wrong way. What if the brother had died? What if the Poster's husband had died? What if the husband seeing that he was being overpowered, weaponised the fight in one sudden flash move against the Poster or her mother being the weaker persons at the scene.
If any other person had died at the hands of the husband in the brawl instigated by Poster's mother, the husband would likely go scot free. He could easily claim they came to attack him in his house and would be believed. Violence is not supported by the law. Retaliatory violence several hours or days after the first is even more abhorred. Those of us supporting the Poster's brother or wishing for such brother to violently intervene in our marriages should know this.
By the way, how does a woman stay in a marriage and wish for her brother to come beat her husband after each time her husband beats her? What kind of poverty of the mind or pocket wish is that?
The Poster is clearly from a pro-violent family. First, she was brawling with her husband. Second, her mother was using force to drag her out. Third, her brother came to drag her out and ostensibly prepared for a fight.
If your husband is beating you, use your legs to walk away and return with a court order and or the police (or social welfare officers) to pack out. If your female relative is beaten or is being beaten in a marriage and you do not want the marriage to continue, lure your relative to you and go pack her things with a court order and or in the company of the police (or social welfare officers)..
All said, Poster go look for another husband and stop blaming your family, especially as you have "bodily and physically" moved on. You and your husband caused the break-up of your marriage.
Stella, this comment may not be line line with general comments, but please post. Thank you.
Poster, so upon all the shouts of "leave a violent man so you can live" that we shout on social media, with all the women that died as a result of beatings from their horsebands, you were recieving beatings and not ready to leave? You love him? You love a man who beats you like a thief? I'm not sure you are ok mentally, I wish I knew your brother, I would tell him to take you for mental evaluation.
DeleteI'm sure there are still some of your comrades reading this blog regularly and yet still receiving beatings from a man they call horseband and opening legs and birthing more babies for him. We are too much in Nigeria, since you people want to to die young as a Mrs, your death is a welcome development.
Anonymous 22.26 has said it as it should be in my opinion. Thank you
DeleteThank God for your family cause that first beating would have led to a fully omesticated violent home.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, what are you saying? except you hit your husband first, he has no right to give you a black eye or even use his belt on you. You are seeing other married people and feeling you lost your home.
DeleteMy dear, there are better men, I now understand how you got married to him in the first place because you don’t rate yourself enough.
Your family did not end your marriage, they thought they were saving you and if he attacked your brother first, he has nothing to apologize for since he was defending himself.
If you really wanted to keep your marriage you should have stayed back, so you’d have been dead and gone by now.😡
Yes, I am angry
Push up (original)
I'm trying to understand the essence of this chronicle.
DeletePoster what are you trying to get at?
Dear Poster,I perfectly understand your plight.Some people don't actually get it that some women like being dehumanized in every form and everyway.For some women it shows pure love from their men,while some women actually demand it so their brains can go back to factory setting.How dare your family come in between you and what makes you human,how dare your elder brother punch out your destiny killer!They don't understand you babes,but we understand and we are rooting for your return to the one that death would do you part.
DeletePoster please return to your destiny destroyer as Disco properly named him, even if he threatens to kill you die there since your placenta was buried in his house and you can't breathe without him. God bless your wonderful family.
DeleteWhat a wicked family. Instead of them to leave u to get beaten up and probably killed they ended ur marriage to such a nice man that knows u have a son for him but still hasn’t come to meet his child. Such a sweetie pie that used a belt on u and punched u in the eye. Kai. See what ur family did to u. By now hubby would have killed u and they would have trended. I guess that’s what U wanted.
DeleteMiss Ess who told you it was the first beating, she didn't say that, she only said they had a brawl. He might have been beating her even when they were dating, for her mum to tell her to leave, it was surely not the first time. The beatings has twisted her brain , she needs brain treatment.
DeleteThanks God your family rescued you from the wrestler 😮😂😎😂
ReplyDeleteDear Poster, Ęrere wę magba, ozuor dan
DeleteDon't leave the marriage pls, your husband is a nice man. continue to beg him, have you tried lying on the floor to beg him with tears in your eyes? that might work.
Don't dare leave that marriage o, make sure he knocks the life out of you and gets you a Toyota casket that you will ride in Heaven while bearing "Mrs" with swag.
Best advice ever@kidjo👏👏👏
DeleteThanks God your family rescued you from the wrestler 😮😂😎😂
ReplyDeleteStella's e-slap would have done justice to this chronicle, you need a slap that will reset your brain.
DeleteWhat a chronicle! Thank your stars that you came out alive. What if he had killed you while you stubbornly remained in the marriage? Your mum and bro are your saviours. Go thank them for helping you stay alive.
ReplyDeleteDon’t mind her now, at least she would have died as “mrs ogbanje” since she loves marriage more than her life
DeletePush up (original)
See hennn! Some of these shameless men that hit their women can't face their mates when they see face to face. He could hit his wife but a man younger than him did a mortal combat on him. 😂😂😂. "Don't leave me" hehehehe
DeleteAs for you, poster, no let me say wetin I go regret later. How dare you say this about your family? It could have been worse you know? Stay alive for your child jare. Is this how low you think of yourself? Smh.
Your family didn't crash ur marriage. This is the kind of family other people should pray for.
ReplyDeleteBut I will advise u to keep begging him so he will forgive u and let u back in so he can kuku finish killing you.
One less dumb person in the world.
🤣😂🤣😂
DeleteHonestly, very dumb, stupid and foolish. Its bad enough that her brain thinks her family destroyed her marriage, the audacity of her to come on her and tell all of us her family destroyed her marriage is so annoying!
DeleteFor the first time ever, I wish her husband had beat her more. Idiot person!
Exactly see what she is saying...If I wooze you ehn
DeleteEka 😂😂😂. Too savage
DeleteDon’t let a victim frustrate you into speaking to them like that
DeleteTrust me the devil in their mind is already saying such and if they find confirmation from humans they may end it all
Poster don't be an unfortunate somebody. Are you normal? You went and married John Cena as a husband and your brother and mother saved you and you are here talking tales by moonlight. Don't let me insult you this afternoon! Ewu Gambia! Go back so he will beat you like goat!
Delete😂😂😂you never disappoint
DeleteNawa.....
ReplyDeleteYou better apologize to your mum and brother.
SMH I wish I had words for you
ReplyDeleteThat's why I don't pity people experiencing DV.
DeletePoster beg him well, he will take you back and kill you because it's obvious you want to die.
Maybe his dick game is lit 🥱 and she can't think about not having it anymore. I guess d Reason why most women don't leave their abusers is coz of penis! There's nothing anyone can tell me.
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂
DeleteI think if she shed more like on the brawl she had with her husband we'll understand better.
She might have been the one that started the hitting and the man responded back you know.. that's the only reason that can explain why she's refused to leave and was begging him, cos she know whe was the cause and he didn't deserve the knockout from her brother..
Just saying
I concur
DeleteI agree with you Boss Dante.
DeleteI concur with Dante's comment
DeleteFor those that concurred the rubbish argument from Dente don't know how DV works. Go and sit down in divorce court and then you will realise that animals do not need any reason to be violent.
DeleteSMH
The man and woman are both damaged people, you cannot cure him
DeleteYou need deliverance yourself
Simple prayer
Madam ask GOD to separate you from self destructive behavior and improve your self esteem
22.10
DeleteEmotional creature 🤣🤣
I have attended divorce sittings more than you'll ever attend in your life.. if you're had some sense, you'll know that brawl means two fighting, so the both of them were guilty, but of course someone started it first and it might be the poster cos she didn't provide us with that information..
Cry cry😁
Yeah better they crashed your marriage instead of having to bury you.
ReplyDeleteSeems you don’t love yourself. Is this a form of masochism??? Like you were begging someone that almost blinded you and used BELT on you. Wtf!!!
You should be very very thankful the type of family you have.
And thank God for your hubby too being wise enough to send you away irrespective of your foolishness instead of him ending up in jail like Osinachi’s husband. It’s a win win for you both. Guess you provoke him too much and he se he doesn’t trust his temper around you.
Now, take time to Focus on your self, you actually have a LOT of work to do on your self. So you have to be very intentional about personal growth.
Pls start by reading TD jakes “A woman, her Lover and her God” (hope I got that right)
Hopefully your family will be able to support you in raising your boy till whenever you’re able to stand on your feet and when your ex comes around and is ready for peaceful coparenting.
Good riddance to toxic marriage
Oh, you hope on getting back together…. But both of you are fucking other people pending that. Lol
ReplyDeleteWhat a mess…
😂 😂
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂..
DeleteSoldier, you no go apply to fvck your own too pending whatever?? 🤷😂😂
How old are you Mr man?
DeleteJust read what you wrote here, is this how you fvck indiscriminately?
Bbm pls keep ignoring this type of comment abeg. SMH
😂😂23.58
Deletesomething is really paining you but I don't care.. continue crying under all my comments😊
See mumu! Instead of you to go to church and do Thanksgiving for your family, you are here speaking Spanish. Mtcheww.
ReplyDeletePoster you are not serious that your family destroyed your marriage. Is that one marriage that your husband was abusive to you till the extend he left marks on your body that your mum saw .
ReplyDeleteYou better go and file for divorce and forget that man before your son's becomes a motherless child.
Brother way sabi. Well done mama. Poster thank your family. That's all i have to say.
ReplyDeleteNa wah ooo... Family that you should be grateful to. This is the reason people stay away from family member undergoing DV. Now you are singing your family crashed your marriage..so they should have left you till he beat you to death..women make una value una life naa... the man does not complete you na.. are you not alive now without him? are you not living?
ReplyDeletei just want to send you a lot of slaps.
ReplyDeleteDon’t waste your slap Abeg e no worth am
Delete🤣🤣🤣😂🤣 You want to add more injury to her body.
DeleteHmm some women and this Mrs of a thing. So even with all the beatings you are still willing to go back. You should be thanking God for thé intervention of your mum and brother
ReplyDeleteYou are stupid.
ReplyDeleteVery stupid.
Your family saved your life, anumpama. You need to buy a drink for your brother.
Are you the first person with a crashed marriage? Stop crying over spilt milk and go and be busy. Are you insane? You want to die inside that marriage. Have men finished on earth? Won't you remarry if you want to ? They saved your life and you are here blabbing.
If that man had punched you to death, your son will lose his mother. You better thank God that you have just a kid for him.
Your brother and your mother are the best.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
With the comments on yesterday's post, Some Nigerian women marry rubbish just to be called Mrs and what some of them tagged as good marriage is just a trash.
ReplyDeleteYou're one of the reasons some families don't help their siblings in domestic violence marriage because you are crying out here that they destroyed your marriage, I do advice family members to ask their child what he/she really wants before acting as a saviour except if it's life threatening.
So, your husband was keepingthe marriage when he beat you right? this must be low self esteem, what will you teach your daughters?
Some Nigerian men are not mentally prepared for marriage just the society pressuring them because of age and to see them have kids.
Felicity
When it comes to comments you don’t know it all, allow others air their view the same way you did yours. You all should stop silencing others, what you think is stupid might be a solution to others. I hope you are not part of the Nigerian women you wrote up there.
DeleteAs in can you imagine...This poster just dey annoy me...
DeleteThank you Anon 16:29.. everytime Nigerian women yen yen, you will think marriages are perfect in other parts of the world, yet divorce rate is still very high, like this is a blog with many people with different personalities and opinions, but no.. let’s all reason the same way, tchewww
DeleteToxic societal expectations wrapped in dead customs , traditions and norms then evil translations of religion are everywhere in Nigeria
Delete🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteThank God for your family ,I which other women being abuse have people like your brother ,idiotic man,but you said you people are dating different people why are you saying your family ruin your family
ReplyDeleteApologise to you for what?
ReplyDeleteDon't get me started this afternoon
Why do some of you hold brief for your abusers?
Moce the heck on
Move*
DeleteAs you spoke as a normal human without disjointed English is it not good?
DeleteAm really surprised at this poster. I won’t say anything. Na wa o
ReplyDeleteSee how her husband left her on top just one small beating her brother gave him yet women will continuously allow their husbands to keep beating them until he kills them.
ReplyDeleteMen are actually very smart. Just one small beating and the man left you yet you wanted to die there.
I tire o.... .some women are just so shockingly daft mehn
DeleteThank you, just small beating he collected from his younger one ,he refused to marry again,but had the audacity to beat the wife with all manner of weapon.
DeleteShinkili beating oo
DeleteAnimals
Lolll Abi ooo. As in tiny beating that knocked him out small ma ni oo. Ode oshi disappeared🤣
DeleteI am really confused.
ReplyDeleteSo poster, you are not happy and grateful to your family for saving you from the monster you call husband,?🤷🏾♀️
so with all these DV flying everywhere and people loosing their lives, you still dey speak English? you should be thanking God that you are alive to see your child maybe his next blow for help you miscarried that child. make una get sense
ReplyDeletePoster you need to get your head checked. A man punched you in the eye and used belt on you,beat you blue black and you said your family crashed your marriage.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry
I'm sorry
I'm sorry
I'm sorry
I'm sorry
I'm sorry
I don't mean to sound rude,I'll stop here.
Poster get therapy, that last beating knocked sense out of you and you need to replenish
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Thank your Anthony Joshua bro for me for knocking him out 🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂😂🤣
DeletePoster, don't you know that God used your mum to saved your life.
Marriage wey dey toxic follow be Marriage?
ReplyDeleteNo they only saved your life from that toxic thing you saw as a Marriage.
Stop enabling your abuser.
Receive sense and be careful not to get in a brawl with people. I mean be a better person to attract a better man.
Gbam
DeleteRe u ok?
ReplyDeleteU should thank ur families for standing by u...
This happened to one of my aunt,I was told the story,my father and his brothers dealt with the man, after all the settlement he never lay his hands on her again..that is why people don't like getting involved in couples fight,see how u are blaming them.
Live ur life and let the mad man be,do something meaningful
I'm ashamed of some women. People are praying for family like yours, yet you're busy yarning dust. The useless husband of yours cannot defend himself from your brother, but could hit you. The idiot man still has the effontery to do shakara on top beating you.
ReplyDeleteNow, I know that some women cherish abuse and are very foolish when it comes to this marriage issue.
Upon everything that has happened recently, there is someone with fish brain such as yours. Taah! Gbaafuo!
You have a good family,if your brother didn't beat your husband back you'll be enduring abuse in the marriage. He'll never lay finger on you again if both of you get back together.
ReplyDeleteFor the daft women here who lie to their families and friends to cover up destructive behavior labeling the animals they are married to as "good man" and I am the one causing it
DeleteSTOP COOPERATING WITH THE devil and his servant you married
Pity yourself, you are worth living for
For those with family and children live because of them
I am actually confused 😕🙄. Hubby punched you and flogged you like pikin but you didn't send us a chronicle. You sent this chronicle because your family defended you and gave hubby double dose of his own medicine. Abeg make I wait for the wise ones. The sun don beat sense comot from my head this afternoon 🚶♀️🚶♀️.
ReplyDeleteGo & thank God for using your family to save you.marriage that almost destroyed your life.
ReplyDeleteOracle of God
Wow you would have stayed? To what end?
ReplyDeleteOne year and he did that to you, by now he would have probably plucked out your eyeballs, crippled you or killed you. My dear, the real enemy was/is your husband not your family o. Had it been all wife beaters end up being beaten up and knocked out by in laws the rubbish would have reduced since
All I see is a family that love you really care for your well being, imaging the impetus I believe the signs were there. Poster thank God and never stop thanking your mother and brother on timely intervention if not you could have been dead meat by now. Look for a good lawyer and file for divorce. Shalom.
ReplyDeleteHuh!! Waiting person no go read for this stella's blog, your husband punch you for face and flog you with belt like thief, and your family came and drag you out of his house, and all the thank you you could give to them is to blame them for destroying your marriage, huh!! You strong oo, you even went ahead to beg your husband to take you back, wallahi.. Poster you are a disappointment to your family.
ReplyDeleteA 47 years old man was beating you! All you care about is that your family destroyed your home???
ReplyDeleteYou really deserve the beatings cos you don't have any sense. With all the sensitization going on everywhere on social media, do you still want to remain with an old man that would have killed you? And allow your family to cry over your death!
You need to go and apologize to your brothers and mum. And also thank them cos they saved you!!
You are not serious at all, blaming your beloved family for rescuing you!
Abeg Poster send me that your brother account details make I send am money for one bottle of Henessy! Na MAN him be! I need that kind of man to defend me ooo.
DeleteOzuor nohua. Go and knee before your mother and brothers, crawl with your kness crying and beg for forgiveness. If you did this trash to my mother and sisters they would have bundled you out that house . You wan die for yeye man house
ReplyDeleteTufiakwa with your mentality this poster!
ReplyDeleteLol, see this one you get better family u dey follow yeye man.
ReplyDeleteYour husband wants to be beating you constantly in the marriage, but your family has set the record straight. If you want to marry our daughter don't beat her, if you beat her will treat your f**kup the way we did before. And 100% this is not fine with your husband, he wants to be pummeling u at will.
So quietly find another man.
I like this kind family, no need for long family meetings. You messup, u collect.
Gbam. And he collect big time until brother knocked the shit out of him. Now he knows how it feels when he beats women. Low self esteem and idiotic oshi poster and husband.
DeleteYour family did the best they could. I'm even happy it ended this way. Had it been you died there,would you be writing this stupid Chronicle by now. Ifuro onu ya ka odi ka " they destroyed my home"
ReplyDeletePoster, I am not going to heap the blame on you but as Stella said, first apologize sincerely and seriously to your mum and brother! Do you know why some abusers go unpunished? Because their victim do not have anyone to stand it for them or something to stand with. You didn't send your mother a message but she came and saw the injuries. Your husband would have respected your mum and allow her leave with you, then go to her respectfully to allow 'his' wife come back. What did your husband do? He resisted and showed his beast power. Well, I would have said it is your life but since you brought it here, you needed a neutral person's opinion. I don't care what let to the quarrel but anybody who beats his/her partner is a beast. What type of man did you marry? Even, after the birth of your son, he never changed his mind. Must you marry him? Does beating gives you satisfaction? Are you mentally stable? You NEVER had a family in that marriage. Mark it someone, except God renews and restores your marriage, if you go back to that man, your son will become motherless. Why do you feel guilty about the whole situation? Was he blackmailing you? Did you lie against him? Did you marry him to 'shame someone that you are married? Do you suffer from masochism? Woman! You need to examine your life and choices. You can leave and love your family, die and leave your son, make your husband a murderer or live the rest of your life, a lady who prefer to be a 'mrs' abused. Death might not always be the end, he might paralyze you during another round of beating or you 'mistakenly' kill him in self defense. Stop sulking and apologize to your mum and brother! Kai! Some are praying to have a brother like yours!
ReplyDeleteIt takes an evil man not to care about his son, do you want to be with such a cold hearted creature?
DeleteYou're ungrateful...How can you say your family crashed your marriage, did you read through what you sent at all.. you're writing and thinking like a child...your family saved your life, you should be thankful to them..
ReplyDeleteYou're ungrateful...How can you say your family crashed your marriage, did you read through what you sent at all.. you're writing and thinking like a child...your family saved your life, you should be thankful to them..
ReplyDeleteWomen who do us like this now, thank your stars your have a good maybe your so called hubby would have killed you by now sef😡😡😈👿😈
ReplyDeleteYou see why i don't and won't pity anyone is an abusive marriage. They don't like themselves in the first place. If anyone dies, I'll type RIP and move on
ReplyDeleteMarriage chronicles dey sweet too nah, haba.
ReplyDeleteThe signs or traits of violence or extreme anger are always visible, if you are not driven by attractions in your relationship. But for the child, you have no reason to stay a day more in that relationship because the beating has started and it will not end. The fact that your brother threw a good KO, is even the more reason you ought to have gone with them after reviving your combative "ex" husband.
Please mend ways with your family and leave this man, that child deserves a peaceful love not this sprouting violence. Apologise to your family, the reward is sweetest.
Some body should just tell me a sensible person didn't sit down to write this to Stella.. nothing person no go read for hear..
ReplyDeleteYou should be thankful that you have a good family. They didn't crash any marriage jare.
ReplyDeleteIt wasn't a marriage
DeleteIt was 2 boxing partners sleeping together PRETENDING TO BE MARRIED
That was not marriage
Na wa ooo, what did I just read.
ReplyDeleteSome women are really gently and meek.
A man will punch me in the eye and use belt on me and I will still beg that man on top.
May I never raise my daughter to have such low self-esteem.
I reject it for generations upon generations upon generations upon generations upon generations.
Amen🙏
DeleteAmen. Such a sad tale. Woman go ask your families forgiveness and move the heck on. Haba
DeleteNot meek or gentle
DeleteJust UNBELIEVABLY DAFT AND DRIPPING LOW SELF ESTEEM
Poster pls keep begging ur loving husband OK, u can fast and pray join, as for ur family hate them and distance urself from them for breaking ur peaceful home. I pray u heal, u need serious brain check, what in God's name is this crap,pls do everything possible and get back to him, so that he will finish u off.
ReplyDelete***paprika ***
15 liters of coconut oyel after abi?
DeleteSome women actually enjoy domestic violence in marriages.ur marriage is only one year old yet ur hubby has turned u into a punching bag.pls wake up poster,u better stay alive than dead.
ReplyDeletePoster you actually deserve better than being beaten believe me
DeleteChai poster how can you be this weak na.
ReplyDeleteCan't you see your husband is a monster beast? See how they saved you? You wan die before your time? Which kind love be that?
Just a year you don dey recieve blows for eyes and marks all over your body?
You need to tender apology to your family, your mom and brother saved you.
That was bandage not marriage abeg.
I pray you find a man that treats you better, you need to experience love and respect to know that this husband of yours is not good for you.
You didn't start from the beginning, what happened that he beat you with belt and punch in the eye? Haven't you been reading of other domestic violence that led to death of a spouse? Why didn't you write sooner so we can help beg your husband to not send you packing? Hope your son is doing well? I come in peace ✌️
ReplyDeleteBeg what?
DeleteYour brother saved you from untimely death. Bullies don't like being stood up to. If you guys ever get back together, he never lay his hands on you again.
ReplyDeletePoster, your family is the type other people going through dv should pray for. You should thank them for saving your life.
ReplyDeleteI think what you need is mental evaluation. Your husband does not want to take you back because he knows he can't stop beating you, unfortunately for him you have a brother that will always retaliate and beat hell out of him. So there is no point, the marriage can not stand. I'm very sure that this your husband got married late because of his nasty attitude of beating women. You are lucky to have a good family. Please go back and beg your husband till he listens, maybe when you loose one of your eye or you leave in a body bag, your brain will go back to factory settings. Osinachi's case is not enough for you! Bimbo IVD's case is not enough! people like you will still crawl back regardless of what we say. I wish you RIP in advance.
ReplyDeleteYou are very daft for thinking you family destroyed your home.Chai..You need to keep thanking God for the kind of family you have..Or didn't you not reason you would have died in that marriage??Abi you no hear osinachi another women's cases??May God give you wisdom to decipher good from evil.amen
ReplyDeleteI cannot believe what I’m reading; why are some Nigerian women like this please!!!!!
ReplyDeleteHatred of themselves
DeleteLow stardards
Zero self respect and esteem
@08:15 Gbam. You’ve summarized it all.
DeleteYou are alive that's why you still have mouth to Misyarn. Thank God and Keep thanking your family my dear.
ReplyDeletePlease go back let him kill you finish so that your heart will be content.
ReplyDeleteGo back you hear?
Thank God for your family, they are amazing and God will bless them. you better file for the divorce yourself as God just saved you from blindness and whatever else you would have suffered with your ex..your family did not destroy anything
ReplyDeletePoste you’re a victim
ReplyDeleteI’m sorry about the abuse and the loss of your marriage. Things will get better
Poster is no longer a victim. She is a volunteer.
DeleteShe’s a victim and this is exactly how most victims respond. If you want the perfect victim, there’s none
DeleteMarriage of 1 year?
ReplyDeleteHusband is 47? What did he use his youth to do?
How old are you?
What were you fighting about?
Please make sure you go back inugo?
Sebi a dead married woman recieves extra 1 yard of ankara and Hollandaise in Heaven than a single dead woman, you hear?
Make sure you go back.🚶♀️
What is your business with his youth
DeleteThat question of his youth is a valid question. What did he just get married to her at 46? Does it mean he has been previously married or women dey avoid am since. E reach to ask oh.
DeleteIt’s his business
DeleteMany lose out on good people because of all these parameters y’all impose on yourselves
Focus on what he is and forget distractions
Everybody's journey in life is different. It's none of your business how come he got married late. Stop age shaming people.
DeleteHe married late and still an arsehole
DeleteHe doesn't have the excuse of youthful foolishness, he is an old fighter
I'm very angry reading this. God bless that your brother and your mother for fighting for you. You're complaining that they destroyed an already dead marriage. You want to remain in a marriage where you're a punching bag, tufiakwa umu nwanyi. I'm very angry here
ReplyDeleteDear poster, please ma'am, it's like you are not well ma. I'm not sure.
ReplyDeleteIs like pe, your family should also come beat you up, and knock you out cold. Boya when you wake up, you will become alright.
Poster to slap you dey hungry me . 👋👋
ReplyDeleteSo you would have preferred your family left you in the marriage to die abi? Wow.
ReplyDeleteThese are the type of women that will endure marriage with voilent partners , to the extent of endangering the lives of their kids, imagine the man that beat his child’s hand with hanger and still did not allow the woman take the child early enough for treatment.
ReplyDeleteThe woman beater no even get power, he jam him fellow man faint, hahahahahahahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I am seriously laughing. He obviously will kill you if he sees you because that's where his power lies, beating a woman. Shame sef no go gree am wan face your family again plus he knows that any repeat of the beating will bring back your brother to knock him out again, LOL.
ReplyDeleteAnd remove 2 teeth join
DeleteJesus!! If no be say Stella go vex I for abuse this poster small.
ReplyDeleteThem fry your brain? Go and apologise to your family and then pray for God to heal you because something is wrong somewhere.
Help me greet your brother.
Na this post I miss Saph..
ReplyDeleteGirl read "The Secret"🤨🤨..
LMAO
DeleteYour brother save you from death and you want him to apologise to you,
DeleteYou deserve Ten hot slap.
Your horseband man will meet his March !!!!!!
At 47 he don't have sense , I thank God that your brother beat the hell out of him.
Nonsense and Buhari.
🤣😂🤣Dante
DeleteEverybody advising poster to leave the marriage, while deep down the poster knows truly well what transpired, which the faults might be from her and might not even escalated to this level.
ReplyDeleteBirds of same feather🙄🙄 you and the poster re in the same WhatsApp group, i.e domestic violence enablers.
DeleteDear KIDJO i am not and will never be.
DeleteShame on you enabler of evil
DeleteChampion of violence
DeleteSenu
So angry after reading this,me that like myself and don't like seeing mark on my body,I will allow a man beat me because of MRS know that marriage is not a Must ,you are even dating someone and you still want your EX back.NNE enjoy your life and go for Thanksgiving
ReplyDeleteYou are very stupid, your brother crashed your marriage. Imagine the nonsense talk. Ekpa,man wan they beat you like armed robber wen they catch.
ReplyDeleteYour brother, help you show shege, you open your useless mouth dey talk. Your brother for leave you,if for don be painful exit.
Ndi I must marry by fire by force. Madam gather your village people and beg him. He must not leave you o. Some women sha.
ReplyDeleteWhat did I just read. I'm so pissed. As in you were beaten like a common thief, yet you begged to stay. Are you OK? May God deliver you poster.
ReplyDeleteIt seems you don't blame your husband for hitting you in the first place. It's because you think you deserve it. Why? It's either because you blame yourself as many victims of abuse do or because you were actually really to blame as in you are also troublesome or hit him first.
ReplyDeleteYou need to collect a hot slap, ozuor
ReplyDeleteYou are an ungrateful human for blaming your family for saving you from that beast. If I were your family, we will disown you. A man abused you, you still went on to defend him because you want to answer Mrs. They should have left you there so he can deal with you the way he likes. You dont deserve your family and their love.
ReplyDeleteYou still dont want to move on. You waiting till you reunite. I shake my head for you.
So many years ego, my elder sisters hubby beat her and she came home crying, while she was at home crying our last born who was about 18yrs old and my younger sis who was about 24yrs old took some of my brothers friends and went to my sisters house to beat up my elders sisters hubby....as in they beat him up mercilessly and came back home to tell my mum what they have done.
ReplyDeleteThat was the first and last time the man ever touched my elder sister until the marriage eventually packed up after some years.
Poster thank your God that your family saved you from untimely death. Nah marriage end no be you die which means you can still marry a good person. Move on dear nothing spoil...its all gains on your side.
That's why I blame Osinachi brother. He couldn't organise some people to touch Osinachi husband small. Reset his stupid brain with small beating. Nonsense.
DeleteDear poster I feel like giving you a proper beating, hotter than the one ur husband gave you.
ReplyDeleteSo many victims of domestic violence can’t leave cos no one to support them, no family to recieve them back home, they have no where to go with their kids so they stay back and bear the abuse looking for an escape route.You have a family that has ur back and doesn’t want to see u pass through pain and u dare say they ruined ur marriage? I no blame u na because u survive his beating. Abi is it ur family members that asked him to beat you??
Some people protect their abusers after a long time of being abused, theirs is different they might have gotten used to the abuse and see it as normal cos they have stayed too long with their abusers...but u only 1 year of marriage,no kids, black eyes,Anthony Joshua husband and u are still here fighting for that same marriage and still wanting him back. U need help!
One year na belt and beat
DeleteGOD forbid longer imprisonment in that caricature marriage, na door he go take beat her as per hulk Hogan
Be grateful to your family abeg, maybe you for don die.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to say when a man is above 45 and still single, check that man well. Some carry enough baggage.
ReplyDeleteAnd a 45yr old single woman nko? Stop the gender bashing.
DeleteThey have deep issues
DeleteLet's stop shaming people about their age, you don't know their story, you may not be better than them. If the person were to be your brother or sister, will you be asking the same question.
DeleteIn a culture where men mostly do the chasing and proposal
DeleteMan after 45 REQUIRES INVESTIGATION AND CLOSE SCRUTINY
Super V, I'm not gender bashing jare. I know the angle I'm coming from.
DeleteYou are insane? Thank your mum and bro whenever u see them
ReplyDeletePoster you should be grateful for your family for saving you from that beast you called a husband and that sham you called marriage.
ReplyDeleteShe wants to die in abusive marriage and go the hell. Mumu dey worry her.
ReplyDeleteStella, Most of these women are very sick upstairs, imagine a man pregnated both daughter and mother they reported him to the appropriate authorities, he was arrested waiting for trial. the wife gave birth and the daughter gave birth with 3 months difference, the case is still ongoing, wife said she's not interested again that her husband should come home. please what is the fate of her daughter that had a son for her husband? Crazy women who has lost their priorities and the essence of their being.
ReplyDeleteInfact the devil has possessed a lots of people's mind with different abominable acts to the extent that a man will be molesting his little kid that's not up to a year old and the wife is afraid to confront him, l read it here and people were advicing the woman to leave the house.
DeleteHonestly, l dey fear people more than satan.
When people misuse the strength and brain gives them
DeleteHahahahahaha shey poster dey whine me ni?😂😂😂poster just wan catch cruise with us jare, don't think she's serious. This shld be added to Saturday laughs or funny comment section 😂😂😂
ReplyDeletePoster YOU ARE A BUFFOON! Negodu anu mpama.
ReplyDeleteYour family should have just left you to die in that marriage. Mumu squared. Mtcheeeewwww...