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Wednesday, October 05, 2022
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Wife wey sabi. Now, you can attend to the pending commitments
ReplyDelete😊nice one.
ReplyDeleteGood for you Actor Deyemi, congratulations 🎉
DeleteCongratulations
ReplyDeleteWhat a fine actor. I always look forward to watching his movies. Thank iya Dayemi for coming through for him
ReplyDeleteObi for President
Wizkid FC
Proudly TIV
Wife wey sabi.
ReplyDeleteImagine if he had commanded his wife to sit at home and do nothing,the tori for different.
Not even sit at home sef. Imagine he was the bad belle,enemy of progress kind of husband who competes with his wife by monitoring her money or the type that insists on equal contribution to the house expenses whole doing the barest minimum. Those kind of guys don't know what is waiting for them in front.
DeleteI love reading things like this. Coming through for each other. Nice one
ReplyDeleteSo sweet of her
ReplyDeleteYou have been a good husband
ReplyDeleteAnd she understands that you deserve it and more.Every good spouse deserve a good treat.
I agree with you dear, every good spouse deserves a treat.
DeleteBetter wife.
ReplyDeleteSo sweet of her
ReplyDeleteBetter wife. God bless her.
ReplyDeleteWife wey love and cherish her husband! God please give me plenty money i want to do more for my husband.
ReplyDeleteNice one. God bless your wife.
ReplyDeleteBetter wife
ReplyDeleteWell, I don't know if his wife is among the exception,. Cos me I'll advise men here in Nigeria married to Nigerian ladies, if stuff like this happen, nice, but when your money enter, pay am back the money oh, add interest on top sef if you can afford..
ReplyDeleteI don talk my own✌️
Seconded
DeleteFunny but true!
DeleteNot surprised. He's come across as a man who can't do without the financial help of a woman. I remember one group podcast/interview he did where he took it personal that most of responsibility is on a man. Not saying it's good or bad but I've noticed cons when it comes to marrying a stingy man or a man who gets offended by being the main provider
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 12:07, Zukwenuike!!!
DeleteThen we should continue heaping responsibilities on him because he was created to be the main provider okwaya? So at what point do you begin to be his support system?
It is irritating when a few women become so entitled, because they believe there's a manual to how marriage must be lived. That's how "their" marriage has been working for them, and neither has complained to you.
As long as it's not your money, let her be.
We really have to chose what we want, feminism or not. Equality or not. Equity or not. Traditional or modern marriages.
DeleteIf you work as a woman, why hold back when the ‘family’ needs your financial support.
I do have a problem with him blabbing to the whole world though, why was that necessary?
Mystic
Anon 15:02 oh stfu. It's not irritating when men are entitled to a woman cooking n doing house chores and being submissive? Those are gender roles. Accept it. Even dante has told u the raw truth. There is NOTHING Natural about a man who has his hands out willingly accepting financial help from his woman. Rather he should allow her the luxury of saving up for rainy days. But no he Is inconveniencing her and dipping into her finances. And stop this nauseating b.s. of shaming women or calling them golddiggers for wanting what is a Natural desire= a man that PROVIDES. there Is nothing shameful in a woman desiring that. . Just cus naija is a patriarchy does not mean one gender must enjoy marriage alone while flouting responsibilities. If u know u wanna flout traditional roles do that wholeheartedly. Nigerian men are fond of twisting narratives to suit themselves and it is disgusting and irritating. That just screams manipulation and LAZINESS on the man's part. Nigerian men u cannot eat your cake n have it. If u know u want to run away from your provider role then be ready to do house chores and share child rearing. Simole! A lot of naija women married to themselves cus their man is just a figurehead at home. I'm sure when it comes to side chicks he will have the money. Why not when the wife has pitched in and helped him to save up for them. I can bet he doesn't help out with house chores as the average Nigerian man is coddled and babies by mommy and expects same of his wife
DeleteAnon 15:02 cus he is lousy. With his wide nostrils like bucket. Noone needs 2 know what u do in ur home financially. If he is Shamelessly collecting money from a woman under the 50/50 scam yet doesn't pitch in domestically he should have kept that to himself. It's not really the desired arrangement for a lot of women..even the women agreeing with him here wish they had a provider husband if they don't already. But pressure to Marry makes people settle and call it happiness..any way I read somewhere that that's how men from a certain part of the country operate. Their wives are usually not the envy of the women as they are overworked, underpampered and have no choice due to their stingy husbands. I now see why that person said that. Oh well. Couldn't be an onugbu -loving man sha. Part of taking care of your wife is also ensuring she can rest in her femininity and feminine roles in the home and not looking old due to stress. She will have her own business or job but u bringing the bulk and don't stress here with financial. Oh well. If his wife loves it, I love it for her. Not everyone can marry a provider. I see why Africa was so easily conquered by oyinbo. Mentally stronger and know their masculine roles. You'd hardly find an oyinbo man complaining about having to foot the bill but African men have fallen so far
DeleteWow!!! Anon 15.53 you really had a lot on your chest. It's good u let it out before u implode.
DeleteHow I wish una get blog id's,
Delete@16:31, 😊. Honestly it’s good he/she let it off their chest. Must be going through a lot.
DeleteMy comment is in response to the somewhat disapproving comment by 14:07. There is absolutely nothing wrong with pitching in to help your home. Why does it have to be ‘he can’t do without the help of a woman’ why?
Traditional role mama @15:53, I hope if you are asked to sit at home or take lesser jobs or work less hours just so you can focus on the kids, you will not kick up a storm? Women steady delegate their traditional roles to give focus to career then balk when they are asked to spend some of the money at home. Who is fooling who?
Better realize all fingers are not equal, and not all women will marry the man of their dreams. What ever is your lot, make the most of it and give yourself a peaceful home.
I won’t even give time of day to the domestic work argument, if two adults can’t organize their lives and work out a formula for themselves, then shame on them.
Mystic
So sweet to read
ReplyDeleteGood for him
ReplyDeleteOne day soon I want to be that woman who solves her hubby's cash issues.He's an excellent provider and would do my Ego some good.🙈😂
ReplyDeleteNa so
DeleteGood on you. Don’t listen to misguided people who will tell you otherwise. If he has been a good man and you find yourself in a position to lighten his load, do it, without holding back.
DeleteMystic
Nice of her
ReplyDeleteNice one.
ReplyDeleteGood wife
ReplyDelete