''Contrary to the story that has been circulating about the woman who died while chasing her husband’s side chic. Here’s the Truth.. The man closed from Church, dropped the family and went straight to meet up with his side chic. Someone sighted them at the location and snitched.
The location was a Spar, the wife hurriedly got there. On sighting her, he drove off speedily with the lady in his car. The wife chased after them but unfortunately lost them. She decided to go to their scrabble club, where he normally sits out with some of his friends. Knowing fully well that the probability of meeting him there was high, she planned to report him to his senior friends.
Unfortunately for her, he sighted her and took off again. This time, he was ALONE. She gave him a hot chase and in the process she lost control and crashed. The man was in a relationship with his therapist. He just survived stroke and was going through therapy. I guess that’s where the relationship started from. According to our source, he was a family oriented man and has been happily married for years. Himself and his late wife were sweethearts and there was never an incident of him, being caught with other women.
Who should we blame? Him? The side chic? The Wife (RIP)? or the source who informed her?'' From a reliable source.
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Now that he has successfully kill her. He shud burry her n marry his therapist. I don't know why is so difficult for one to respect ones partner. That place he sent her too. He is also going there. He won't live forever.
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DeletePolygamy should just be legalized. All these "wokeness" go stop. It's strongly recommended that every woman should have a mind set that your husband/boyfriend is cheating or has a side chick. He will still love you same way but kindly leave a space for another woman. This advice is from the Surgeon General's office and it's good for the heart. Accept this and know peace
DeleteIts like iv watched too much crime and Investigation channel...i just know dis kind of shit never ends well. When u want to confront a side-chick ehn,emotions are high, ur enraged, anything including an accident or murder can occur. Better i wait at home for the b@stard instead of doing wonder woman allover d streets of Lagos.
DeleteMen is being faithful an impossible task for you lot.
Why chase him when he would still be definitely coming home? So after chasing him and let's assume she caught them, is she going to be fighting the man or the side chic publicly? Seriously, in my own opinion she shouldn't have chased them, now she left everything she ever worked for. May her soul rest in peace
DeletePolygamy should be recognized so that men can enjoy abi
DeleteWhat about the woman? Doesn’t she deserve two men, doesn’t she deserve enjoyment?
Why don’t you say everyone should do what they want?
The woman must have followed him because she’s not used to such
I blame the man
Push up (original)
And how did he kill her, did he put a gun in her head or he stabbed her with a knife? Absolutely No. He respected his wife and that's why he was seeing the side chick outside and didn't bring her into his wife. She should have maintained her space. No one is happy that she died in the process
DeleteSee the way this one respects his wife, by cheating with a side chick outside 😂😂😂
DeleteRespected his wife? What a joke! If only the wife returned the respect exact same way, she would still be alive.
DeleteNow the man will rest or continue after killing his wife.
DeleteThe story is not that different
DeleteEveryone saying polygamy should be recognized should remember that the term means women too can have multiple partners. If you only want it for men the polygamy is not the right battle
DeleteMay God not allow me meet men like baba Muhammad
DeleteStill the same story sha. Na side chic issue. May her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteHuman beings sha if not what kind of rubbish is this? I wanted to say na wa for men o but isn't the therapist a woman too if this whole story is true?
ReplyDeleteI blame the man 100%
ReplyDeleteIf he did not stray, if he had self control, if he was God-fearing, if he was faithful to his marital vows, we would not be reading this.
Yes. When Satan beckons them, they just answer immediately. No form of resistance. I bet he will never forgive him self
DeleteStupid men. Your wife was there when you had stroke. You had to pay her back with side chicken. Go and bury her
ReplyDeleteI blame all of them. She should have waited for him at home.
ReplyDeleteThe side chic enabled the idiot!!! If nollywood movies are real na to flog two of them together as ghosts
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace 🙏, am sure has learnt her lesson where she is and the hunband too.. It's well
DeleteShe died chasing her hubby! Her ghost will continue from where she stopped physically! The man is a dead meat!
DeletePeople are focusing on blaming this woman for her death but they forget the root cause of the issue. Cheating. Cheating kills! Cheating destroys! Cheating causes a lot of harm that takes a long time to fix.
ReplyDeleteSit ur useless ass in ur marriages or don’t bother marrying at all.
Will u also blame those that died of depression or HBP due to cheating?
He cheated with a LADY.
Deletepolygamy is the only solution to this side chick issue.
Just like Yul's brother posted yesterday, Africans like lying to themselves.
Embrace polygamy and embrace peace of mind.
And who told you people with two or multiple wives dont cheat. Once you dont have self control, you keep looking for what isnt lost.
Delete12:16, e sure me say u be Igbo man 🙄
DeleteEven if he cheated with a tree, is cheating still not the root cause? You people don’t like responsibility at all.
DeletePoly what? See men with numerous wives still cheat
DeleteLol, polygamy indeed. Go to the north and see men with 4 wives and multiple side vultures. They will divorce one and add one of the side vultures...and the cycle continues. If you don't have self control,discipline then you don't because there will always be beautiful, sexy women around. Last last,you are the one deceiving yourself
DeletePolygamy or poly anything can never give anyone peace. But people will continue to deceive themselves. A cheat will cheat regardless. All the wives will be competing and striving along with their kids and the man will still go outside and may decide to add more wives. Keep lying to yourselves. The man las las will be stressed out. Is that peace or greed?
DeleteHmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteIt's well
It's just too unfortunate 😭😭😭
ReplyDeleteVery, very unfortunate
Deleteis true then ladies never ever do this....don't waste your time at all there are many ways to deal with this men.. Rest on peace ma'am and to the snitch, till you meet with your God ✌️
ReplyDeleteI will blame all the parties involved in this unfortunate incident. The husband for not honoring his marital vows (though we know shit happens and you can fall in love with someone else while still very much married to another). The therapist for having an affair with a married man and causing emotional pain to the wife. The wife for letting her emotions get the better of her, leading to this unfortunate car chase and her death. She obviously knew or suspected her husband was having an affair with the therapist. She should have handled her emotions better as a matured mother of three children. catching them red-handed would have served what purpose exactly? That she had to risk her life chasing the man up and down the streets of Calabar like a teenager. May her soul rest in peace and may God grant her motherless boys the fortitude to bear her loss. As for the husband....i leave him to God and his Conscience to Judge.
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DeleteAll grounds covered.
Sane comment. All parties are to blame here. Instead of her to put herself together and confront him later on she enter F1 race. Let her goan chase him in hell
DeleteTherapist will help her raise her kids.
DeleteAnon 13:26, men are funny creatures, i can assure u he will hate that therapist for the rest of his days, except if she wud jazz him, otherwise he would want to have nothing with her again. May be another woman, but not that therapist.
DeleteHmm..mm!
ReplyDeleteI see patience will always be a virtue.
ReplyDeleteThe ability to wait for something without getting angry or upset is a valuable quality in a person.
I dont see why she went all Michael Schumacher on him? When he'd eventually come home.
Her uncontrollable anger brought about her untimely death, not her cheating husband, not the therapist, not the car brakes either.
She truly killed herself.
DeleteWhat happened to walking away from the marriage if she can't share.
Only God knows how she use to attack and abuse the man at home that made the husband to run when he sighted her.
The man is evil, if he knows what he is doing is good why run?the woman is dead now, let him continue no one will pursue him anymore.. the thing is you can predict how people react when angry or pushed to the wall,I am sure she didn't set out to get killed so sad it happened that way.
DeleteWho sets out to get killed before??? See talk
DeleteExactly 13:42. Many that have not experienced emotional trauma are trivialising her reaction. Everyone reacts to things differently. She didn't set out to kill herself, it is just unfortunate. So singles try to do your due diligence before marriage. If you can't tolerate cheating and you find your partner is a serial cheat and liar, run!
DeleteSelf control is so important, not blaming the victim, it applies to all the parties involved. The children will suffer from the loss of their mom. Google the story of Clara Harris, a TX dentist on death row for running over her husband with their Mercedes’ at the parking lot of a Hilton. She was dubbed “the Mercedes’ killer”. She did cosmetic surgery to look like the side chic, tried her best to no avail & allowed her emotion get hold of her as she trailed him and his side chic to a hotel with the stepdaughter in the car. TX has the death penalty and crimes of passion aren’t so easy to prove. Sadly her kids were babies when she was jailed decades ago. Only the side chic went unscathed. It’s not worth chasing a cheating spouse. Leave if you can afford to. There is no marriage in heaven other than that of Christvand The Church.
DeleteLord have
ReplyDeleteMercy
DeleteNa same story jare, I don't know y some people will never mind their business for goodness sake! Why telling the wife ?
ReplyDeleteI Wished she stayed back
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nfidelity is now a norm abi,no one is saying anything about the man's actions.All of a sudden almost every woman on this street is no longer chasing after their husbands side chick. Even the ones that fight over ordinary boy friend have become analyst and Judges.Abeg you guys should allow this woman rest in peace, she died chasing her husband and side chick it's unfortunate it ended that way. People react to situations differently,she handled it the way it seemed best to her at the moment. Stop Judging you might do worst if confronted with such situation.
Don’t mind them. If this man hadn’t cheated, none of this would have happened. Who he cheated with, whether man, woman, tree or animal is inconsequential. Stepping out on a marriage is a terrible sin. Whatever consequences that follow that decision to step out is on the adulterer’s head.
DeleteThis is what cheating can cause.
ReplyDeleteBut why will the therapist be having a relationship with his client? Isn't that against their ethics?
I hope the man and the therapist will be able to live with the guilt. Self control is very important.
DeleteHer license must be revoked cos I'm not sure it's ethical to have anything doing with your patient and a married one at that
DeleteIt’s the same story na.cheating and chasing .
ReplyDeleteTutu
I can never be caught fighting for a cheat,instead let's fight for the money and properties involved in the marriage,that's actually more important to me.
ReplyDeleteI concur!
DeleteMy dear, only the wise will understand, I smiled when I saw the lady of yesterday post she is getting married for the money,Secure and invest your self and kids first with your money and his, them no dae carry man matter for head, if anything happens OGA moves on before anyone spells JAck. Most importantly "women love thy sef first"
DeleteThe man respected his by running away with his side chick, the woman should have return home to wait for the husband to come home, what if she have catch them?
DeleteFighting for a cheat is truly a waste of time.
DeleteMay God not allow me die untimely leaving my innocent precious babies alone in this cold wicked world.May God rest her soul. I really feel for the innocent children she left behind. That side chick and the useless husband will both suffer for six hundred years.
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace....will this her husband ever forgive himself? Will the children ever forgive him for causing the death of their mother,I will not blame the death woman cos we react to issues differently....
ReplyDeleteBut why were he running the second time even when he was alone in the car when you will still go home to meet her? Very unfortunate,rest in peace madam
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThe wife over reacted. Can a woman police a cheating man? She fit follow the man everywhere? Unless she wan go spiritual for the matter.
ReplyDeleteReminds me of a story I heard when I was in the university. Dem say the man dey cheat...him wife come to lock him thing spiritually. Anytime bros wan 'muke' another woman, him thing no dey stand. But him thing dey work well when him dey meet with him wife.
Bros confide in him mama. Na him bros mumsie come confront him wife...say 'madam release my son thing'. The wife deny...say she no know anything about the issue. Case close and end of cheating for bros.
you do not even need to go spiritual for that kind prayer. my hubby had an affair and he was pretending...denying korokoro and making me look like i was just imagining things..i started to fire prayers and scatter the relationship...i told God if i was faithful then i demand he also be faithful. as long as he refuses to stop let him not have peace with any other woman, let him become impotent with any other woman. it worked, relationship scatter. oga has become more serious with God and has been faithful since..i prayed for my marriage because i knew i married a man who was a good husband but was not wise enough to cover himself...as a Christian do not think you are too strong to resist temptation. you must remove yourself from situations that can make you fall. self discipline is key to resisting adultery. if you open eye korokoro go marry he goat ma you sabi
DeleteI will not blame the informant nor the Side Chic, my blame goes to the wandering dick of a man and then the wife, especially the woman. Now you have seen them, why not go home, wait for him there and then trash the issue. Why chase him around. what do you intend to prove? Seriously I so wish she didn’t die so that she can take correction but the deed has been done. May her Soul Rest In Peace
ReplyDeleteAda Agu
She killed herself
ReplyDeleteSuch a beautiful woman decided to leave this way. Chasing a cheating husband, to what end? Smh
ReplyDeletePatience is a virtue! This is not the way to die at all
ReplyDeleteI pray the man doesn't commit suicide, the grief will be too much for him to bear, had I known go surplus.
ReplyDeleteThat man should live with the guilt throughout the rest of his life. Dem associations of my prick cannot stay one place
ReplyDeleteInability to identify our emotion is a huge problem. Often when we believe we are angry, we are not . Before rushing to act you should know what you are going through. Is it sadness, anxiety, self hostility, guilt, fear, disgust, shame, contempt, surprise, worry etc. Life is short, please don't allow the actions and words of others control your life
ReplyDeleteOkay.
DeleteThank you!
There have been men whol killed themselves after catching thier wives in infidelity. There have also been men who killed the wife's lover after he caught them. In both cases the wives generally moves on with her life to the next man. All the advice you women here gave then come and give it here and stop making it seem like women don't cheat as well
ReplyDeleteLol… you’re wasting your time. If only you know the level of double standards displayed by some of them here.
DeletePeople are reacting based on this story. No be everything be gender war.
DeleteYou have deep seated issues because I have gone through this comment section more than once looking for those making it seem women don’t cheat.
Delete@Anonymous 1551..its the man own you read about, the woman own might be calming down somewhere right now
DeleteThis story is really sad! I just feel for the kids,may God have mercy on her soul.
ReplyDeleteMoral of the lesson is; don't ever as a woman, overdo yourself because of a man. Another one is; don't ever make decisions out of anger, it never really ends well.
ReplyDeleteShe could have handled things differently. Surely the man would come back home and she could finish him up at home. Why even drive a car in a state of anger and bitterness? It's like driving while drunk. She no try at all, she fall hands. And now, she has paid with her life. What did she plan to do if she had caught up with them, fight them and then cause a scene? God forbid that I ever disgrace myself in public because of a man. Men that stain white from time to time? Chukwu aju. She allowed her emotions to get a better part of her, sometimes it's best to act like a fool honestly.
Yes the man cheated, it has happened. Chasing them will not turn back what happened, neither will it make him to stop cheating. The deed has been done. Why risk your life for a cheat? Cheating is a deliberate act, you can't' mistakenly' cheat. So why kill yourself because an adult intentionally did a stupid thing? Sometimes, silence is GOLDEN.
I'm not trying to be tribalistic, but that's why I love some of my Igbo women. Fa ga eji nkiti gbagbuo gi, I bata zia n'uno, I fu nke toro bishop.
Too bad,died for...........sake.
ReplyDeleteNo matter how the narrative goes . She is dead because of an avoidable situation
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteBecause of d*ck? That was how a 8-month pregnant lady traced her hubby from Osogbo to Lagos. She actually caught them in the hotel, booked a room in the same hotel and took pictures. That's all. Unfortunately for her, the hubby died a month after her delivery. She is the only one catering for 3 children now.
ReplyDeleteSo, what's the moral of your story now?
DeleteNa wah ooo
DeleteThe coast is now clear for the side chic.
ReplyDeleteMumu woman
Both Side chicken 🐔 and the man
Deletewhich coast is clear? na that stroke go kill am last last
DeleteWhere's my comment? 🙄
ReplyDeleteStill he wasn't worth the chase.
ReplyDeleteSometimes you choose peace,
Now she's no more
My pain with cheating partners is that they should not get married!!!!! We should stop pushing people with wandering dick and roving pussy to marry. When marriage and children are involved it deepens emotions in cheating cases. And can turn anger to something else entirely.
ReplyDeletePregnant innocent women are passing through alot with infections gathered from husbands, you see some men complaining things are hard no money to do test and treat infections with their partners but prefers Agbo.
I asked, a single girl out there with infections can sleep with 3 or more married men to raise money to treat herself without caring the ones she is giving out to these men to take home to their wives.
Babies are born with infections these days, some survives while some even die in the womb.
What sort of 20 minutes enjoyment that destroys most important things for humans.
Any woman supporting polygamy just needed a name of a man to bear for she knows, she too cheats.
Cos No woman wants to share.
I found out men are always talking about polygamy like even Bible didn't frown at it, that only thing most African men know about Bible.
They hardly talk about a man that cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel.
And a man loving his wife is in the Bible also.
POLYGAMY CAN NEVER END CHEATING!!! INFACT IT BREEDS THE DESIRE TO WANT MORE!!!
Nice comment @15:26.
DeleteShe killed herself by herself
ReplyDeleteYou have seen them red handed why didn't you go home and awaits his arrival no but you want to disgraced them now, you lost your life and leave your innocent children to suffer.
Let the side check and the man marry already.
Just feeling for the innocent kids involved..
ReplyDeleteLet guilty conscience kill the man and side chick.
May her soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteI do not understand what this woman did. She should have waited for him to get back home.
How can she lose her life in this manner? Now the side chick has him for keeps. Madam you didn't think straight. The one who cheated is alive while you who was cheated on is dead.
Women, get a grip and put your emotions in check.
In my early years in marriage, I saw my husband's car parked by the road side with a girl inside. Immediately my instinct told me it was his girl friend. I parked opposite them, he took off and I pursued him like a mad woman. Luckily my friend was with me in the car and she kept telling me to stop so that we don't have accident, she calmed me down. It was such a stupid thing to do but as at that time, my brain wasn't working. May that woman's soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteEyaaa. Sometimes when things like this happen rational thought flies outta the window. So unfortunate, may the woman finally have some rest peacefully.
DeleteThe snitch that didn't mind his/her business.
ReplyDeleteSo sad to read about this. This reminds me of the biblical injunction, about fearing God and keeping His commandment, since the man just came out of the church, why playing such game again? Eccle 12:13-14 says ...Fear God and keep His commandment, for this is the whole duty of man, For God shall bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil........... This advice will keep you away from many troubles, if you adhere to it. May the soul of the departed rest in peace.
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