Thursday In House News...

 Hailings ooooh

IN HOUSE MEMO.

Hey guys!

Sorry fr misinforming you yesterday, i dont have the pneumonia and actually meant to type Bronchitis but i also dont have it so so call me doctor in the mud...heheheheheheheh

Thanks to all those who prayed for me and wished me well.....

I have decided that if Angel Pee does not indicate on the giveaway again i will do it with my own money..  *wink*

Enjoy the remaining of the day and dont let anyone or anything stress you out...

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IJEOMAS GIST CORNER

So yesterday morning, I heard in the news how P-town people woke up to some scaring sacrifices on some major junctions. Was really not paying much attention to it, not until I got to work and my babe came to ask me if I've heard the latest gist or saw the sacrifice on at the junction close to the office. True true, there was something like that, but wetin concern me, it wasn't a  new thing. She said the incident happened at the back of her street, say fear dey catch her and wants to come stay at my place till they settle the matter 

Babe said, the day before yesterday, a woman went to her farm and noticed a shallow grave, she was scared and started screaming. People came out and saw that someone was actually buried in her farm, they suspected it could be the cult boys disturbing the area 

The matter got to the community youths and chief, they set out and in the process of walking round they saw plenty blood in a church (ministry) close to the farm

 And my babe told me she and the rest of the people in the street saw plenty ram in the church few days back, they thought the church was preparing for a harvest. 

 And yesterday there were sacrifices made with ram heads at every junction, they are suspecting this ministry oh and today na their church day, abi service day. Some people are saying they may not hold service today being Thursday.

My babe and the rest of the street people are afraid because police may go for mass arrest, make person no enter Wahala for wetin him no know

And they're also suspecting this church have a hand in the shallow grave at the farm. 

 

We don enter ember months and people need to be careful and prayerful too

I go bring update

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FROM WEDNESDAY CHRONICLE POSTER


Hi Stella,
Thank you so much for posting and big thanks to BVs for all the advice.


I would like to answer some questions BVs asked. I was 100% truthful with all I wrote earlier. There was never a place where I said I took a loan from my brother to get a car. Things were not this bad with us, we were not doing great but we were able to take care of our basic needs, I was getting more baking jobs than now. The whole problem started when my husband got a land through his cooperative which left him with very little salary to cater for the home.


When I took in with my 3rd baby, movement was quite hard for our family, transport is quite expensive in the city I live in and getting a car for a family of 5 was more economical for us, so I jokingly told my brother who has been promising to get me a car to ease my stress. I told him we wanted to get a car, Nigerian used for 500k or less and he said no that it won't be befitting, that he'll get a better one for us. We ignored him as he has been promising for years and my husband didn't like the idea of his inlaw getting a car for him. We actually got a good Honda for 450k, he became angry that my husband was too proud, the issue even brought another quarrel and I tried to settle the issue and told him, if he's ready to buy the car, we'll sell off the Honda.


He then told us to sell it and send him the money, which we did, and he added to it and got us a Toyota Camry. Mind you, we weren't feeding once a day then, things were still slightly affordable in Nigeria. During my Dad's funeral, I took a loan to meet up with my own part of the expenses because my brother kept telling relatives that he cannot buy a car for me, cater for my mum and still bury my father singlehandedly. When I heard all these, I called to know why he said that, because I never told him or gave him the impression that I would let him do everything. He said it was because I had not come to discuss with him about the burial, sth that we discuss everyday on phone and I was heavily pregnant then, my edd was 2weeks from that time.


Well, we resolved the issue and my husband volunteered to do all the running around for me, since I was heavily pregnant. He kept calling my brother to know how the movement will be but my brother kept posting him. I heard from relatives that he said it has to be me because "it's our father that died and not my husband's father". This is someone that we talk on phone everyday but he prefers I travel for 3hrs with 8+months pregnancy and another 3hrs to the village with him. My uncle called my husband and was angry that he had not seen him regarding the burial and he apologized stating that he had made effort to come to the village but my brother has not been available (he was always telling him that anytime he wants to go, he'll call my husband, but he never did, he went on his own).


My brother heard this and became angry that my husband had no right to tell my uncle he was the cause of his absence in the village. With this, he stopped picking my calls and completely blocked me. We successfully did the burial, my hubby even went to him and told him they should go aside and resolve the issue like men and he embarrassed him in front of his friends.


Fast-forward, after the burial, we returned to the city where my mum and hubby's family lived and we were about to travel back to our own base, so we decided to pay a visit to my mum, we were even hoping to meet my brother and resolve the situation. Unfortunately, we didn't meet him at home, we were chatting happily until my brother came and started displaying from outside the fence when he saw our car parked outside. He stated that he had made a law that nobody should allow me or my husband into the house and that they(his wife and my mom) flaunted his orders- (this is a house my mum singlehandedly built on her own land and roofed, he only did the aesthetics and built for tenants when he came into money).


Subsequently, he pulled off his clothes and said he'll kill my husband. His wife locked the guard and told him he's behaving childishly. He then started insulting my husband and I citing every penny he had given to us and said we wouldn't leave the house without dropping the car he bought for us. My aunt came around and tried to salvage the situation, all this while, I and my husband were inside the house hiding our heads in shame. A lot of people came around, begging him to calm down, he refused, they even got angry with him and went to their various houses. My aunt got fed up with all the insults and public display and asked us to give him the key, let him sell it and give us back the money we sent to him, that was how we were able to leave in my aunt's car without being maimed by my brother. Tell me, if you were in my shoes will you collect a dime from this same person?


To those trivializing my situation, because they're probably living better, I don't pray for you to be in such situation. Yes, my mum has recurrent cancer and honestly it is terminal. When I was single and before my brother ever made money, I was the one caring for her, though it was not this bad. I have made sacrifices, I've sent my whole salary for a month when I had nothing in my home. God knows my heart, I feel terrible not been able to do what I want to do because of financial constraints. The only crime I committed was marrying a man that wasn't as rich as my family wanted because they felt I had better choices. My brother has constantly ridiculed my husband because he's "just a civil servant". The story is long and I can't tell all. I'm not trying to paint my brother black because I stand to gain nothing, this here, is the truth- unfiltered, he was helpful to me "OCCASIONALLY", especially in my business, he wasn't feeding me like some people assumed.


I do not feel entitled and I have never felt that way and yes I'm NOT having another child. I and my hubby are still paying off loans we incurred due to the situations I mentioned above that's why it got to this level, my hope is still alive though.


To those who are willing to help, God bless you, I'll provide any proof you want through Stella. I've resolved to go, if I can source for funds, even if it is a day I spend because I really don't know if it'll be our last time, I don't want to live in regret.
Thank you Stella, you're a blessing and thanks to BVs.

Hmmmmm....

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PINKYS CORNER


I have never wanted to talk about this for once but the TWINZ LOVE issue has pushed me to do this.


Note: I don't toy with my father or Mother, so be careful with what you type on here about them.


I was so tender and never knew what went wrong between my mum and my dad but when I got to a certain stage in life(age 6-10) or so. I realized the man taking care of me wasn't my father but sincerely, he did well and may his soul continue to rest in peace

I got to know my dad one good afternoon, he came to my mum's shop at Lagos Island(story for another day). Then I realized he has remarried, so also my mum.

 One thing Led to another, I started going to my father's house at Onipan. I will abscond from my mum's place and straight to dad's house and after spending 6months or there about, I will run back to my mum's place again. this affected my education which I know so well.(Then I was so small but smart, I can travel on my own without any adult leading me).


During those years, my mum will always sit me down to tell me so many bad things about my dad, trying to make me hate him. Each time I get to his place and remember what my mum said about him, I feel so sad then I will run back to my mum's place. My dad also, will sit me down at different occasions telling me several atrocities committed by my mum and not only that, he will lay curse on her and my mum will also do the same. It went on for years to the extent that, they send me each other text messages laying curse but one thing I noticed is, whenever a party wants to report to me, he/she won't say they responded also.


When I got to a stage in life, I began to think and sat myself down, I gave myself a REBORN THOUGHT and promised never to hate my father or my mother, no matter what both parties tell me about one another and this has been helping me.

 One thing I noticed is, parents are too selfish once they are no more with one another, they tend to spoil and destroy one another just to make sure their children dont love the other party(Women especially). I got to know that, my mum has a lot of fault and my dad also has his own flaws which are so numerous but they both failed to adjust which led to both parties going on their separate ways.


Parents or single parents needs to do better and stop planting wrong things into their kids life all in the name of "I suffered alone and I will enjoy alone", don't forget that, without one another, you can't give birth to that child. Twinz Love issue has really made me see more reason why we need to stop putting everything on shosho media.


Lastly, I won't blame their Twinz mother but will blame the twinz for allowing their mother to plant those bad ideas into them and also allowing Netizens to curse their own father. This will be a long time regret for them but they are blindfolded to see what can actually happen in future. Go and watch the BBC Yoruba interview with their father then you will know that the woman was promiscuous right from day one. Their mother who said the man dumped those girls has now come out to say it wasn't so.


Have your own reborn thought in order to have peace and don't allow your mother or father to lead you to sin.

we move

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