Friday In House News..

 Thank God it's Friday!

IN HOUSE MEMO

The face of in house news competition will be posted by the end of the month. We have just three participants, the other photos did not met up..... I dont understand why some of you dont care the kind of photos you send and want to be left Online...... Find a good spot and ask someone to snap you...If your phone camera is bad then ask someone with a good phone to snap and send to you.... Na wah.

Spontaneous Blog boo i saw your comment this morning and had a good laugh....

If you sent me message on WhatsApp and i have not responded, i will later, I am transferring my details to a new phone and it will soon be over....Started the change over this morning.... I am actually tired a bit of iPhone and want to go back to my good old Samsung where i could do lots of things without stress... My Bambinos are laughing at me that i like cheap phones.... How is a phone that costs 380 euros cheap? And I am changing both my iPhones .....  calculate 380 X2 to naira , so how is that cheap? 🤣🤣🤣🤣..... Dem no fit understand.

Enjoy the rest of your day and try to find laughter in everything that life throws your way today...

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.


A new school session has begun and my social media pages are flooded with videos of parents sending of their wards off to the boarding house.

I was in the boarding house in secondary school and always vowed that my kids would never attend one because of the kind of things I witnessed and I used to castigate parents that sent their wards there.

Now as a parent, seeing things from a parents point of view, it’s all different now. I understand why parents send their wards to boarding school. Sometimes it’s a sacrifice you have to pay to be able to give your children the best life they deserve.

Working hard to make money to give your kids a soft landing in life is applauding and I feel every one should do what works for them. If a parents feels sending the kids to a boarding school is a good thing then fine.

All I know is that my kids eill not go to a boarding school . I have seen a lot of damaged kids damaging others kids without caution and that is what I am scared of.

To be truthful boarding house didn’t hurt me but I was one of the few lucky ones, my sister was battered so badly by seniors she had scars. Yet she considers herself to be lucky because beating was the least of all the evils done by her seniors in school then.

So boarding house is a major no no for me.

I dont like boarding house because the kid would be too far away from home at a time when you need to instill certain into into their heads, so if you aint doing it, someone else will....

My late elder sis went to a boarding house and she grew up there with her own strong mind and very stubborn nature, there was nothing my parents told her her that shook or scared her...She learnt things in boarding house that shocked me. She was the reason my dad never sent anyone to boarding house again.. Imagine how many years ago and compare it to now.. The system is still not good...

I know someone who lives in Lagos and put his kids kids in boarding schools in Lagos, they are always going to check every weekend.....LOL

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PINKYS CORNER

 

I am putting this up for the bv who said she is depressed and doesn't know what to do and hope to get herself out of the shell of what her Separated Parents put her through.


It will interest you to know that, aside from the things I wrote about my life story, I would love to tell you that, I was rejected and called a bastard each time I call my father to seek for help at every point of life. He is bent of reminding me of what my mum did to him and with this, I never get any support from him but curses to my mother and also to me(Thank God he is a changed man).


I could remember when my dad told me point blank that " I will be the one to stop me my mother to death", I got home and started crying, I cried for hours but thanks to a good friend who encouraged me. I later found out that, the more he say bad things about my mum, the more the love I have for my mum increases. Vis a vis. the more my mum reminds me about my dad's bad attitude, the more I love him. The question is what are those things that helped me?


*Be focus and look up to God.
*Wake up everyone and pray for both parties.
*Have it in mind always that, no matter what happens, they are your small God
*Always engage each party to a child-parent discussion (provided they will key into it). but as for me, I never had the opportunity to speak to my dad because he is always too rigid but I was able to speak to my mum.
*If you are married, focus on your wife/husband and your children. in doing this, the love you have for your children will always make you forgive your parents because no one is perfect and you as a person doesn't know what might happen in few years to your marriage, we all are just trying our best.


I could remember the year I wanted to sit for my WAEC, my mum called my dad for the payment but he refused and it led to curse , my mum then faced me and told me that, she will not pay for the WAEC, which means I have ended my education but all thanks to God and my Late Step Dad, who called me around 11am, when I was asleep, he too me outside and gave me the money, telling me not to tell my mum. WAEC has just two days to close down before my mum gave me the money then I laughed and told my step dad, then he told me to use the money for anything I feel like. I WILL FOREVER LOVE YOU Pa AJAYI .


I am putting this here because I want people to learn. this brief history of myself has damaged me alot and has stopped me from getting to where I wanted in life due to negligence and pride of both parents. Had it been Mr Ajayi was alive, I wouldn't have been here because he is always ready to help out. Their are so many times have got chances to get a good job and pay which I needed my dad to sign for me but he never did.


Thanks to God, I'm alive and forging ahead, thanks to Stella and some intelligent bvs I have learnt from their constructive post in here and the courageous Stella who in one way or the other has been lashing and encouraging me whenever I fumble. though I have not gotten to where I'm going to and I'm not rich but I'm so happy and the grace of the Lord has been helping me.


The above has made me strong and has also made me love my dad and mum like never before. I want my children to always love me , reason behind forgiving both parties because I'm sure they don't know the damage they have caused.




we move

Keep it moving and focus on your wife my dear!

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FROM FRIDAY MORNING SPONTANEOUS POST


''Good morning all... I DNT know if I should be happy or not, there is this my neighbor, she helps me drop my son in school and also pick him up in d afternoon, she made it easy for me when I wanted to learn tailoring cos when they close from school she drops him at daycare for me bcos he attends d same school with her children..she has been doing so since 2020, but one bad thing about her is she gossips alot..she gossipped abt me to someone and d person called me and told me what she said that I should be very careful of her. I decided to distance myself a little from her cos I don't want anything dat will cause quarrel btw us but we still greet and talk if there is anything to talk about..

My hubby has been out of Job since January and we have been finding it very difficult to feed..infact he had to sell his car to pay some debts. She asked abt d car and I lied to her dat it's faulty...only to be hearing from people dat we have sold our car to eat..she has noticed dat we are down to nothing...now they are moving out of the compound tomorrow but I am feeling somehow...DNT know if it's jealousy or guilt...

I DNT know if I av done her bad by distancing myself from her or being an ingrate cos I sincerely appreciate her helping me drop my son in school...Should I meet her and beg her or I should just let her be''




Excuse me? You should beg her that what? Did you also gossip her to the person that came to tell you that she gossiped you and you think she may have heard? You can go and thank her for all the times she helped you but dont beg her!







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