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Hello SDK, After reading Sunday's Chronicle, I was touched in a way to drop mine, which has something to do with another past chronicle or so, posted some months back. 

Where the posters made reference to dating a guy she meet on singles and mingle who she thought was struggling only to have come to realise that he is actually comfortable. And she severed ties for 3 months while the guy begged for reconciliation, until he couldn't take it anymore and broke up eventually with her. So I'm getting married in October to this same man - a man of my dream. 

Well dear poster, I already asked your permission to post this and thanks for granting it. As we happened to have met each other trice before your break up, and introduced you as his girlfriend and I, a friend. And the first time we met also happens to be my first time of meeting him in person, we laughed about this too when we got talking. 

Understand that I only started dating your ex months afterwards but we have always been friends from an edition of the single and mingle 3 years prior to the one that connected you guys. Just like you, I wasn't comfortable with his disposition in the friendship we shared. So when he asked that we get into a relationship I declined because I wasn't comfortable either. Like what manner of guy doesn't see anything wrong in calling a woman he is interested in. And yes I understood your fears and reservations with him - I had more of those too until we fell off from being friends who chatted everyday to once in a while. But we never blocked each other. 

I had more reservations honestly about him than you did - at least I shared this with you in one of the 3 times we met. And I also remember telling you that I had come to understand him better and realise he is a good man in and out. That if only I could turn back the hands of time to when he asked me for a relationship, I would jump at the chance if the opportunity ever presents itself again. Because he is a very good guy, such time any right thinking lady would decide to get married to. And you acknowledged that you have a great guy in him. 

Which we laughed to as you told me you already know that. I'm sorry you guys broke up. But like they say, one man's disappointment might be another's blessing. Indeed he was struggling when you two met, we talked about that as friends prior. Although he doesn't look like someone who is struggling, but like the husband of Sunday's chronicle, he too is a laid back guy but also very smart. He has this uniqueness of not being overwhelmed by the struggles around him.

 Being a distant friend with him, made me see some of those qualities I didn't realise he had. So when he told me you both are done with the relationship, that you refused to forgive him from finding out he lived comfortably. That he is done and will need to heal, then see if there's any reason to still search for love or go on a sabbatical. For 2 months we didn't exchange any chat/message. 

Until I reignited my interest in our friendship again, and the rest has now become history

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