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Dear Bvs please help me out on this dilema,
I met a guy on a dating app, we clicked and we met up. he checks out on almost everything he told me except for some very vital things.
He told me straight up that he just wanted the cookies and me too I also wanted the gbola too because I haven't had it a very very long time, So I badly wanted it with someone I have no attachments, so we did the do (in Stella's voice.) but my problem now is I have this uncanny feeling about him.
My question is do I just ghost him or tell him via chat that I am done with the adventure?.
Please I don't want to be disrespectful to him, he has been such a sweet and loveable person. though I have voiced out my fears to him before, he keeps reassuring me its because of the platform we met, that I am just being careful. I don't want to do irrational things just because of gbola. please advice me like your friend and dont judge me oo.
You go around on social media apps meeting men and sleeping with them? AHEWO!!!!
Take this slap....
Nne you try maidia
ReplyDelete😂 😂 😂 😂 Stella ooo
DeleteI have noting to say.
ReplyDeleteSame here oo
DeleteYou have done very well for yourself maidia!😂 I wanted to ask you to kneel down, raise up your hands and close your legs, sorry eyes! I now remembered pe you are an Adult.
DeleteHaba which one be ashewo again?
ReplyDeletePoster abeg if you are not interested in anything ro do with him again tell him straight up you are done.
There is no way around this, just say it the way it is
You wanted a fling without the attachment. You got it,and now you done. Kindly tell him since he wanted same. No hard feelings.
DeleteI agree with you Lifted, just tell him
DeleteShe be proper ashawo abeg.. I am 51 years old and old school..in our days we no get mind to fuck anyhow. even the person you are dating before e touch pant e go try small. You children of these days are too dick and pussy hungry. Even if you meet on a dating site why allow a guy tell you that kind of nonsense..ladies value yourselves please...just don't bother contacting him again and please close those legs and build friendship. I have been married 18 years now and trust me marriage is sweet when you meet the right man. Fucking anyhow will not help you in the long run..
DeleteHope you're using protection? Hiv is real.
ReplyDeleteHiv better oo HERPES na worst pass no remedy
DeleteKonji na bastard.
ReplyDeletePeople don't even fear this thing called HIV?
ReplyDeleteHeard of condoms before?
DeleteTruly
DeleteKokolet, herpes cannot be prevented by a condom.
DeleteIt may not be life threatening but it has no cure and has very distressing and painful symptoms.
Imagine living your life with painful genital sores that reoccur again and again.
So a condom isn’t just the answer to sexual laxity.
16.54, preach it.
DeleteLater them go treat "infection" tire.
And it can affect the carrier's baby.
I was looking for a word to use until I read Stella's comment🤷♀️ Collect what Stella gave you pls😋
ReplyDeleteStella's slap makes me to smile here 😊
DeleteWell, since u are tired of the relationship and considering the platform u both met.u can ghost him and be firm about ur decisions.move on to other things important
ReplyDeletePlease don't mind stella. Nobody should judge this lady. We have all been there.
ReplyDeletePoster, tell him you are no longer interested in him. If he tries to guilt-trip you, then ghost him by blocking his calls and also on all social media platforms.
Also don't think about the good sex you had so you won't miss him. Move on to another dick and enjoy your life. Life is too short baby girl.
Aunty YOU have 'all been there.'
DeleteSpeak for yourself.
The smelling audacity to speak for all women as if they use their bodies like you.
If you go around sleeping with random people you meet, speak for only yourself dear.
Phrizzles , we all have not been dear please! You people can call sex with strangers fun but not "we all". Sin your fun sin in peace. Some of us are that decent and yes I brag about it.
DeleteYou have been there, not "we all". This is the same way runs girls say "we have all done it". It will pain u abi? That's exactly how silly u sound when u generalise on behalf of all others. Just speak for yourself.
DeleteBy the way, this is not judgement. No one is perfect but some ppl have higher standards, principles & morals than others and it's wrong to paint them with the same brush
Thank you Anon 15:41. You saved me time to type. Nsime!!!
DeletePhrizzles, I’ve not been there please. I’m not going to condemn her or call her an ashewo because I know how difficult it is to eschew sexual immorality in ALL forms (yes, including solo stuff) without any end in sight as a mature red blooded female.
DeleteBut please don’t make the mistake of thinking all women give in to these desires whether randomly or in a monogamous(?) relationship outside of marriage.
Before you come for my head, we’re not condemning those who do. We’re just saying we don’t and would prefer not to be lumped together with those who do.
Phrizzles na ONLY YOU dey there.
DeleteAs you dey brag with your promiscuity, I dey brag with my morality.
If you like say I dey untop high horse, na you sabi.
You go around having sex with random people and saying ‘we’ve all been there’. You and who? Inukwa
You and who?
DeleteGod forbid,speak for yourself please.
Phrizzles, speak for your self. Keep justifying immorality in the name of woke. Call a spade a spade. Stop encouraging her.
DeleteThank God you know life is too short. Also, remember you will account for all your action one day...
E say 'move on to another good dick and enjoy yourself'
DeleteAs if na grilled meat at a buffet.
Some of you are beyond disgustingly lousy.
Just ghost him. Don't Tell him anything.
ReplyDeleteWho knows, he may have feelings for you too, some people meet their better halves via dating apps. If he has feelings for you he will reach out and press for a relationship
Stella this your slap must reset her brain 🧠🧠 if not , please fix a time here for her deliverance.. The devil is a lair. RECEIVE SENSE 👋👋👋IN JESUS NAME 🙏
ReplyDeleteAny woman telling her not to ghost him, I think your character/attitude should be checked.
DeleteGhost him period... What if he's married, a spirit or whatever
Ashawo and their unhealthy love
ReplyDeleteThey can love hard eh, very toxic and unhealthy kind.
Poster I want to ask why do all ashawo smell the same??? U guys smell one kind, street guys can relate...
Back to the topic, it's not love, I've seen it with some of my guys so many times.
It will soon fade, the guys too wud soon get tired. I guess the pu$$y is sweet as probably u gave him for free or cheap, and u know how free/cheap this can be...
Take care.
How were you able to smell ashawo? Are you close to them?
Delete🤣😂🤣@how were you able to smell ashawo
DeleteSee this pro. You even know how they smell. Oga how do we call those who patronize them? Ahewo customer!
DeleteAshewo and im customer na one and the same, infact the customer case worse because e dey deceive imself hypocritically say e better pass
DeleteStella,na somewhere person dey meet person o. You for nor get adickted, but don't ghost him yet,something might still come out of nothing
ReplyDeleteIt is true,you meet somewhere
DeleteExactly!!! And this day and age, especially abroad ...meeting people online is becoming the norm!!!
Delete.
Men know what they want irrespective of how you meet. If a guy tells you he is only interested in catching cruise, best believe him.
DeleteTo the poster: I cannot advice you. Maybe a lesson in self-worth would be a good place to start.
No need beating around bush, just call him and tell him straight up you are done. Simple!
ReplyDeleteStella, ah I felt the slap from here🤣
You can meet anywhere and it works.
ReplyDeleteI think you have feelings for him,so why ghost him if he is not a bad person according to you.
Just keep an open mind Incase it goes south.
You have satisfied your cravings na, what again🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteWell Ghosting em will be the option...though He ll in all capacity try to reach out in diverse ways....but just kip silence dat is if you really don't want to continue wot u guyz had....my view
ReplyDeleteTrust your intuition. You have a bad feeling about him. You have scratched the itch by having sex after a long time, let it go.
ReplyDeleteAct like a man, detach yourself from
this situation. You do not have to give any excuses or explanation as he’ll try to manipulate your decision. Ghost him!
Just like he had no problem with putting his own needs first when he met you, you should always and also put yours first and don’t feel bad about how it will come across.
Also, note that he was disrespectful to you when he approached you for just sex, ask yourself, would he want his sisters to be treated that way. NO! And he is Only being lovable because you are currently dancing to his tune.
Ps: I hope you used protection and also get regular checks with such meet ups.
I don’t think he was being disrespectful. He was straight up honest. If she wasn’t up for his deal she had the option of declining and moving on instead of him being deceptive.
DeleteDon't ghost him, just tell him pleasantly that you are done. He can be of help to you in future.
ReplyDeleteMy dear forget Stella and all others calling you names abeg🤣🤣 I wish I have your courage like I chop clean mouth too koor.
ReplyDeleteTell him you have found someone and wants to concentrate on building a relationship with him so you will need him to stop contacting you. He might try to sweet talk you into going into a relationship with him but stand your ground.
Go with your instinct and drop him.
ReplyDeleteIf you do this again with someone else, be sure to see test results to make sure he’s clean
How do you feel okay by sl**ping with someone you don't know? You really deserve the slap.
ReplyDeleteMy flesh crawls when I read stories like this.
ReplyDeleteDo you know this person?
As in really know this person?
Are you not afraid of diseases, soul ties,serial murderers etc?
What's the difference between you and those that stand on the street?
So after this one, what next? On to another one, another one, and another one?
Even if you cant wait till marriage, how about you wait and give it to someone really deserving?
99.9 percent of men who hang around those kind of public sites are men looking for free sex, regular stream of sex.
They view women as cum buckets, something they can release inside and move on.
Hopefully you value yourself a little bit more.
I weak for her. There's no difference between her and Ashlewo. No self worth or respect...
DeleteHope he doesn't know ur house?
ReplyDeleteAre you really sure you are done?? When I read "uncanny feeling" I just smiled, cos really, no one is actually done after having their cravings just once! It's a web, you get sucked and drawn in. Also, just like a "booty call" hope you won't turn him into a "dick call"(whatever that means).Remember you don't want to make irrational decisions because of gbola. If you are done, then you wouldn't need people here to proffer solutions to you. Are you really done??If yes , then just move the heck on!
ReplyDeleteYou have a point.
DeleteMM you are wise. You just hit the nail on the head.
DeleteStella that your way of thinking is old.Dating apps are for people to meet and date or nack and people countless people have met their soulmates and lived happily ever after there so don’t talk like that.poster I no get advise for you.
ReplyDeleteTo treat your body with respect and yourself with the highest levels of honour can NEVER be 'old'.
DeleteBut ofcourse you cant relate.
Poster has been gbolarized🤣
ReplyDeleteTake a walk now,with your shoulder held high joor.It was an agreement and that's what it will remain.
I'm sure you're hunting for the next prey already,Goodluck.
Sin has no name it is sin no other name continue till you get Hiv
ReplyDeleteI pity you and your likes that go around doing shits with strangers, there are diseases that even condoms can't prevent if your partner is a carrier, diseases like Hepatitis B&C, Herpes, Staphylococcus aureus, HPV(Many Nigerians have this but re not aware of their status yet).
ReplyDeletebetter cut him off and go run some tests on yourself.
if na so the conji hook you, you nor know where dem dey sell dildo or vibrator?
Rate of cervical cancer is projected to increase
DeleteEverybody in the world has herpes. If you collect head, you have genital herpes cause the one on the mouth does infect the vjayjay too. Hepatitis is also very very common in Nigeria. HIV is worst.
Delete19:24 you have herpes not me.
DeleteEven if I'm the only exception in the world that's fine.
@19:24 Stop trying to console yourself dear, you and you alone have herpes, I don't have it. Go for your test & treatments to help your life inugo and stop spreading it around, God bless you.
DeleteWas it not supposed to be a one night stand?
ReplyDeleteYou've satisfied your cravings, so what else do you want? It's better to end things now and move on. If he wants to take things further(which I doubt he would), then let him make the first move. Anything else, na breakfast you wan serve yourself.
@ HAHEWO really cracked me up Stella. See me laughing out loud
ReplyDeleteIya boys slap must be hot ooo choiii
ReplyDeleteOkay na,
ReplyDeleteThe way ladies sleep with men they don't know these days is Terrible . Ife anna sokwa unu oyi ? Odiegwu oh .
ReplyDeleteUka
Poster I love your guts, just tell him plainly okay 💋
ReplyDeleteWhat if he was a serial rapist and killer.
ReplyDeleteGod forbid that any inordinate feeling take over me and control me to the extent of putting my health and life at stake for 30mins satisfaction.
As in. No self control or ability to say NO....
DeleteOboy sdk don finish work.
ReplyDeletei wanted sending you more e slap but make i face my front.
But poster why don't you give him a chance nah,,,abi you no read Stella's meeting point ni? It doesn't really matter where and how you meet your other half o. Good people is everywhere.
ReplyDeletesabi na you say you want only the gbola, since you don chop the gbola come belle full make you kukuma control delete or control varnish.
ReplyDeleteSex with a guy just for sex never ends easily one person must catch feelings especially if it’s not transactional.(free) the guy go wan kpai there.
ReplyDeleteI believe Stella's slap will reset your brain automatically...
ReplyDeletePlease move on poster.
Ghost him and block 🚫 him
Stella mama, you have done well. Good afternoon
ReplyDeleteAh Stella Idikwa harsh ooo. as far as I am concerned the poster is not an Ahewo like you said. you didn't read where she said she hasn't had it a long long time. A dating app is where you meet people to date right, but that does not rule out the fact that you Poster you need to be careful with strangers. Don't ghost him rather tell him plainly you are done. Ghosting is not good for anybody no matter what. just imagine that he is the one that ghosts you, na cry you for dey cry now. so tell him that you had fun while it lasted and that you are moving on.
ReplyDeleteShe wasn't looking for a relationship, she wanted to fcuk. That's all. Same way men chop and clean mouth.
DeleteSmall sex now you don dey fall in love. I pray you don't chop breakfast from this guy oo. Or who knows he might also later have feelings for you later on. Just be careful and reduce your communication with him.
ReplyDeleteStop communicating him, move on and if he now want to date you let him come plain
ReplyDeleteDon't tell him, Ghost him!
ReplyDeleteMy dear ghost him
ReplyDeleteUve got what you wanted
Noting more
Sometimes we find things we didn't know we needed in places we never expected. Yes, I'm talking about love. You both had an understanding that it is just sex and so far so good. You're a mature adult female, tell him you're done and move on.
ReplyDeleteP.s. I'm not a supporter of sexual immorality because that's exactly what you did here but you need advice and that's it
met a guy on a dating app, we clicked and we met up. he checks out on almost everything he told me except for some very vital things.
ReplyDeleteAnd you still slept with him even with the vital things missing???
Lolll.
E don tey we reset someone with slap sef.
ReplyDeleteUna Sabi talk Una intentions, but no Sabi end am.
HOW?
Babe if gbola dey hungry you why not go back to your old ones and enjoy yourself instead of person you don't know you fall hands oo abi dey don marry finish
ReplyDeleteWhat?
ReplyDeleteWhether you fuck random person or person wey u know for 50yes just for fun no mean say you be ashewo. Is it right maybe not but no one here can say dey have not masturbated with another woman or man who is to someone else ... Na the same sin. Madam poster tell him no more sex and u have to stick to it. Sometimes na when u say no more the thing fo dey hungry you. Make Una relax even some naija pastors dey send dick pic.
ReplyDeleteAudacious of you think you judge everyone by your same bottom barrel standards.
DeleteSo in your little tiny world, everyone sleeps around, everyone masturbates, everyone blah blah...its a pity that many of even from birth have never had the opportunity to associate with people who've earnestly pledged to higher standards, so it must seam appear like rocket science to you.
It just gives some of us an idea of how terribly society has degraded and how we can protect our children.
Pity.
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