Hmmm...
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SNOOPED!!!
I checked my fiancé's phone and saw nudes (about 6 pictures of a girl). He doesn't know I know his password.
I NEVER EVER EVER EXPECTED THIS!!!!
I am disappointed but not heartbroken.
I have snapped the pictures with my phone and I am considering doing the following:
1. Send the girl her nude pictures on Whatsapp, (I copied her number) and tell her that 'our boyfriend' asked me to send it to her'
2. Send the pictures to his office/professional whatsapp platform where the girl belongs through his phone.
I am confused.
Please confront him and do whatever you want to do but you NO RIGHT to distribute her photos, thats a big crime. Dont even stoop so low.
You are not even married to him and being engaged to him is not a sure banker that the wedding will hold....
You dont even know the stories he told her about you to make her comfortable about sending him her photos...
Why are you dsiappointed? You went snooping because something is wrong right?
Confront him and leave her out of it...
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ReplyDeleteYou had better shut up and sit tight.
DeleteIt's too early to show hand.
Treat this like a game of chess, one that you must win.
Continue gathering all your evidence until it is plenty.
Have you ever played mind games before? The person will almost run mad with fear.🤣🤣🤣
But this one you are already doing like jelly, you won't even have the mind for it so make sure you gather all your evidence sha. That your husbands fuckmate is neither the 1st nor the last.
You just took a minute to pull your neck out of the sand to see what bas been infront of you all along.
Also, go and test yourself for HIV/AIDS and other diseases.
When the evidence is plenty, come back and I will tell you what to do.
In the mean time, make sure you have your own stream of income. I do not believe in joint account because some Nigerian men are incredibly stupid. Money you are saving together they will be using it to flex other street dogs like them.
Also avoid intercourse with him before he gifts you disease that has no cure.
No show your hand o!
Remember say u be girlfriend o. So if u come be wife wetin u go do?? Hian!!
DeleteSo despite all the whip men receive from the hands of some female Bvs here, being married to a man, any man, is a big plus. If not, why should poster worry her head and mind with all your recommended actions over a man at all and this one.
DeleteThis man has no respect for women. Two timing on poster. And carrying another woman's nudes about. Yet you are giving poster chess moves. What for?
By the way I am a man and not a feminist.
Hmm...you see this relationship matter ehn, shame no dey gree some people open up and tell the truth on sacrifices they have made. Fear of being judged.so if a person says they want to revenge in a certain way, I no dey put mouth. A man can date a lady for 4months and have her womb destroyed. A man can date a lady for 8years and his only crime could be not marrying her. Before taking a 'scatter everything' decision, make sure at the end of the day, you will walk away unharmed and not affected. Most importantly, do it with clear eye, no drink alcohol or sniff something and no let anybody advice you o! Do it with your fullchest, so that when you look back, nobody is to be blamed or praised but you!
DeleteExactly Marco'Mooma, let her play the game very well. But before then she needs to gather all the evidence needed otherwise the goat can flip it against her, because e no get any lie wey Nigerian men never use train devil.
DeleteWhy must you put the ladies nude on display, face your man sis? For all you know, she also thinks that she is the only one. Let me tell u, pray u don't meet a crazy lady, after losing that man, she will drag u from police to court so hold your money. Don't try releasing that nude.
DeleteFace your guy and leave the lady alone. Ladies like wahala. Good afternoon
ReplyDeleteSeriously, you should be thinking of exit nor planning what to do with pictures, if by mistake those pictures leaks from your phone & either of the girls get plenti plenti werey you go pay with your time behind the bars.
DeleteThe poster doesn't even sound like she's ready to exit the relationship. Let her die there,chronicles go opor.
DeleteYou want to release the girl's nudes,for what? Is she your partner that has d wandering dick?
This poster. You are being shown the signs now before you jump the broom. So watcha gonna do? Because now you are aware of his philandering. Prepare yourself to be sending chronicles after marriage because I don't know how you will stop him from jumping upandan.
DeleteYou want to distribute her nude photos to shame her so she will leave your fiancé?
ReplyDeleteTry it and suffer for the next 600 years.
Maggot!
Women bring down their fellow girls , why not tell him directly what you saw and leave the girls alone . Fight who you get fight with and leave who no sabi you , afterall engage is not husband and wife.
ReplyDeleteI would've said, mess with her a bit. Show her the nudes, best believe me, you relationship will crash. You trusted your fiancée before? Lol. Only Jesus cannot fall your hand.
ReplyDeletePoster,of what advantages would these two options do for you...Nothing.
ReplyDeleteIt's very obvious you can't put up with a cheating man,I would say ghost him and move on,but for posterity sake,Confront him and shove his F##kups to his face.
Things are happening sha.
Exactly, it's not necessary doing all of those.
Delete👍
DeleteThat reminds me, my uncle was telling my cousin many years back when virginity was a bigdeal, to wait. The guy she was dating pretended to be waiting. Until she picked his BlackBerry phone and saw messages dropping of one aunty with 'numerous bwess'. He swore on his life that the lady was forcing herself on him. Naive cuz believed him until one of his friends during an outing got drunk and jamtalked about the guy being a pro with prostitutes. Na head my cousin use waka come house! We no gree sleep! Full buckets of premium tears! Her mother whisked her to the abroad! Before naija boys go destroy her angelic pikin!😂🤣 that was in 2012 o. She don marry, born twins twice. The guy married thesame aunty that was sending him numerous bwess! He's still patronising upgraded versions of prostitutes till date! Moral lesson? If it is his hobby, then he's not your hubby!
Delete@18:04
DeleteThat's what good men or "bad" male friends do. The friend wasn't drunk. He wanted to free your cousin or payback her boyfriend (his friend). He faked drunk to talk. That's how men report wives to husbands who trust their wayward wives beyond trust.
But why do some ladies feel comfortable sending their nudes to someone? Odi kwa egwu! Poster, please be careful with your decision so that the outcome will not backfire on you. If I were you, I will go with Stella's advice.
ReplyDeletePlease don't send her pictures to any WhatsApp group,please be careful not to do things you will regret later.
ReplyDeleteConfront your guy and decide if you want to stay or move on,don't try to revenge or hurt him,he is not worth your stress please.
You are a wicked woman. You want to send her nudes to his professional/office watsap group cos she sent it to your “Una fiancé” I’m sure his own nudes are in her phone.
ReplyDeleteWill that make you feel okay? Have you thought of the implications of that? What if it affects his job?
Who knows, you just might be the side chic.
Sluttychic.
Why the 'wicked' nah? That woman that sent her nude is not normal at all. The poster is pained and being in such situation is painful too.
DeleteShe should make up her mind on the outcome of the relationship when confronting her immoral man.
If na me, I won't send her nudes to any platform but will like to see her physically and tell her to stop downgrading herself.
Another thing, when a man demands for a nude, he's been lying to that chic. Poster, find out your position.
The word "wicked" is a strong word in this application. What the man told the woman for she to have sent her nudes is unknown to her and she contemplating making the nudes public is marking her territory. What if the owner of the nudes is in the know that the man has a woman he intends to marry? What if the owner of the nudes wants to be a side chick and doing all within her powers to actualize it?
DeleteWicked is an understatement based on the facts narrated.
DeleteShe is wicked. Why can't she face the man. What if the stupid idiot sending nudes does not know about her existence? Why does she want to send her pictures to a company whatsapp group forum? I hope she does and learn her lesson.
DeleteConfront the wandering dick and nip this in the bud cos I'm sure you will still marry him.
Posting her nudes in her office/professional watsap group to shame her and possibly ruin her career is marking territory?so you think of actually goes ahead with her plan, there’ll still be a territory to mark? Like I said, she is a wicked human being. She should try it and see where she ends up.
DeleteSluttychic.
Sluttychic is right!
DeleteThe poster is extremely wicked. So, because she is pained, she should damage another person's career?
All these untop man's personal prick? Na wa oo!
Considering to do something bad but stop isn't "wicked".
DeletePoster is very wicked infact! What are u ppl saying?? So it's okay to destroy someone's career ontop a cheating dick? Chances are that she doesnt know he's engaged sef. Even if she does nko? How's it okay to punish her instead of the person who owes u loyalty? Haba women!! God forbid
DeletePoster how sure are you your fiancé’s side chick knows about you. It’s possible she’s living in the dark same way you were.
ReplyDeleteConfront your man, he’s the culprit here!
Dear poster,
ReplyDeleteDon't do anything that would cause you your peace of mind.
Confront your man and call off the wedding if u so wish.
Thank goodness you got to know the kind of man you wanted to marry.
Poster if na you person wan distribute your nudes she you ho happy?
ReplyDeleteNa wa o.
Abeg confront your dog of a fiance & leave that girls nude out of this matter
Poster Is this fight really worth it? With a guy who has no self-respect and any from you...Baby Girl Choose your battles wisely..You can't combat with swines and expect yourself to come out clean...If you distribute her nudes then what do you gain? To what end? Choose between eating watery beans in Kirikiri or you walk out of the relationship with your head up high?
ReplyDeleteHey Phoenix. Good to see you here.
DeleteHello Phoenix....
DeleteWelcome Phoenix
Delete@ Baltika @ Candix @Stella Maris Hello guys I have missed you guys so much. Thanks..Hope you guys are good.
DeleteConfront your man and leave the girl out of it. So many things men tell women to sleep with them. So many things. You can let the girl know you have her nudes but not making it public. Can you predict the out come of the confrontation? Can you deal with it? One thing obvious here is your man is into women. Brace up.
ReplyDeleteFace your man and leave the girl alone.
ReplyDeleteExcuse me! You want to confront another woman over a man who is not married to you? In the name of fiance? How do you even know she's not the main fiance and you the side fiance? Madam, respect yourself. You sound so insecure. Instead of you to move on and dump the cheat, see how low you are willing to descend over a community d*ck. Smh.
ReplyDeleteThis over a man not married to you is nonsense
DeleteYou are in a committed relationship. Married or not, she has every right to be annoyed. Is she supposed to be ok just cause they’re not yet married? What are some of you saying
Anon 17:31, so because she is not okay with it, she should expose the other Babe's nudes bah??
DeleteSo her fiance cheated and lied, why not confront him , isn't that the okay thing to do first??
Bee Hill you are talking about something else
DeleteHow some of you ladies make simple thing difficult is what I don't understand.
ReplyDeletePoster after doing any of the 2, you will still go back to your boyfriend and you think he won't cheat again.
How many ladies will you fight or send their nude to her office WhatsApp?
E be like say jail dey hungry you ?
Abi person never give you correct beating or pour you acid before?
For your mind now you are wise and making sense.
As in, very dumb idea.
DeleteI don't even get it,did she just sent it or ur guy asked her for it..
DeleteSo between both of them now,it is the lady that needs to be punished?why??
Send the picture to the girl to pepper her but don't send it to his office wasap biko your guy will not do anything just stay one side to laugh it off nonsense and ingredient
ReplyDeleteHehehehe. Pepper who? If that girl is like me then be rest assured she's going to jail after sending those nudes.
Delete15:53 it will pepper her to know the nudes are with somebody else.
DeleteShut up which jail?...I saw a pussy picture on my ex husband,s phone. I sent it back to the girl and talked to her like a stupid child...I guess the preaching touched her and she sent a message back apologising that she was sorry. I told her not to allow any man treat her like trash. Some of these girls have no iota of self worth or respect to be sending nudes to a man. No home training whatsoever....as for the husband he is now an ex. Women place value on yourself and don't let any man treat you like trash...
DeleteYou saw nudes on his phone…do something else but don’t send it to his work WhatsApp platform as he might lose his job and you might go to jail for revenge porn depending on what y’all laws are in Nigeria.
ReplyDeletePoster, you need confront your Boyfriend about it. Leave the Girl out of it.
ReplyDeletePoster please don't send any nude pictures that is not your own to avoid stories that touches the heart.
ReplyDeleteConfront your man and leave her nude pictures alone..
Your man is the problem here, he asked for it so deal with him.
Very dumb idea.
DeleteI know you are hurt, don't go hurting others.
ReplyDeleteFace the man you had an agreement with.
U have no right to check ur hubby's phone not to talk of boyfriend.he's not yet married to u so y do u feel so much pain?....if u were married,I would have given u a better advice.for now,let me stop here
ReplyDeleteHahaha should she have waitec till marriage to check and be in nonsense
DeleteNa wah o. So, partners have no right to check each other's phones? What happens to two shall become one?
DeleteNa real wah
Ross you don't check your partner's phone ? Stay there until they dash you HIV/AIDS. With the kind of randy men we have out there, you are sleeping on a bicycle
DeleteFace your man abeg , there is fire on the mountain .. if you don't gerrit forget about it.
ReplyDelete#Beamlite
Your Fiance is the Master culprit here. Confront him to let him know he messed up big time!!! Pls Dont send the girl's pix to the group. It won't solve your problem. You don't have any business with her!!!
ReplyDeleteYou don’t have any right to share someone else’s nudes,confront your man and leave the other lady alone.He knows what to do if he really wants you.
ReplyDeletePoster don't stoop so low by sending the nude to his office Whatsapp group,that will be extreme for someone you're not even yet married to,that might affect his job and shows desperation on you own side...confront him and leave the girl out of it,who knows? You might even be the side chic
ReplyDeleteAunty make this your fiancé no carry you go where you no know o. Hmmm
ReplyDeleteCall her and speak to her. Don’t text her. Don’t create a trail cause that’s what hit her in trouble in the first instance. She may or may not know about you. Learn from her. Don’t text drama
ReplyDeleteIs the bite worth the belly ache?
ReplyDeleteSend the girl her pics and let her know u got it from the community penis phone.Secondly, confront the man.Above all,just know that he isn't stopping at this
ReplyDeleteAre you seeing women smh ! you saw nude pictures in your boyfriend phone but you have left your boyfriend to go and fight the lady. Mtchew you are not serious he is going to continue cheating on you cos you don't have sense.
ReplyDeleteShe doesn't have a tiny sense like this. If it was the man that saw another man's nudes on her phone, he will keep quiet and go share the nudes on a WhatsApp group abi send the nudes to him? Senseless women
DeleteDear poster it can be very hurtful to see such stuff and been vidctive is the first response that comes to mind sometime. Please don't send the nudes to his work platform because ahe might be unaware of your relationship with him. If you are certain she knows you are both dating and she is still tagging along, then you can taunt her with the nudes but be very smart. Act like you are informing her just in case she decides to report you.
ReplyDeleteYou can send the nudes to her advising her to be careful of sendng her nudes to men especially another ladies man because it can be used to hurt her. Her mind will prick her as she wonders what you are up to while you just lock her up and block her.
Confront your man and ask him if he is cheating. Tell him your findings and see his response. Don't stick with a cheating man for any reason! Either let him know so he is aware that you are not been fooled or simply ghost him.
If you are not certain that the lady knows about you, then you can confront the girl maturedly (via call and do well to record it) about dating your man and if she denies and tend to be saucy, send her the nudes (ensure you snap them with the conversation she had with him to show it's from their chat). Don't threaten to do and undo with the nudes. Simply tell her to have some integrity and keep her nudes to herself. Tell her the dangers of sending nudes and advice her to do the needful with the nudes she sent to your man.
She will be traumatised and keep guessing what you are up to with no proof to nail you.
Only do this if it is worth the stress to you and you really want to stress her.
I will personally do the above (depending on my mood and analysis of the situation) because I sometimes like to be vindictive but not at the detriment of my peace of mind. In all stay away from a cheating man!
All these unto man matter? You guys play too much. The Poster has no business with the lady. Period
DeleteThe poster clearly has eliminated the option of having a conversation with her fiance probably because she lacks the common sense of communication or she knows she's engaged to someone that is a pathetic liar.
DeletePoster blame yourself for your low standards.
Shame on the lady that also sent her nudes.
Bee Hill, I agree with you. I sense the poster knows her man Is a cheat and this isnt the first time, that's why she has no guts to face him. They are the type to always blame the other woman.
DeleteIf dem born u well poster, release those nudes. I hope the babe is a sharp, mad woman. She will so treat your f**k-up till u shed bloody tears and learn some sense. Some of you women are beyond stupid
Don't try that, he is not even married to u self.
ReplyDeleteAunty the girl is not your problem, your man is. Besides shes not the only one hes chatting with. Which is easier, dealing with one person or a bunch of ladies you have no idea about?
ReplyDeleteIf your man hears about your plans and is wise, he would review marrying you. Obviously he is not. So congratulations.
ReplyDeleteLOL @ "our boyfriend". Leave the girl alone and face your man biko
ReplyDeletePoster just confront your fiance and leave the other woman out of this, what if you carry out your plans and she comes back for you by pouring you acid or something,all because of a man!.
ReplyDeleteJust confront una guy, you might even be the side chick.
Poster don't do anything to tarnish that girls image. Resolve whatever issues with your/una guy.
ReplyDeleteAnd be very careful, it's not everyone you tarnish their image will let you go scot free. Don't ruin your life because of what you don't even own.
I agree with Stella, you have no right to distribut her photos, leave her alone. Face your guy and check yourself...
ReplyDeleteYou are either dumb to think out such a plan over community Penis or you are too hurt that you are not thinking straight.
ReplyDeleteSo nne, confront you public Penis and risk him terminating the marriage plans(I believe that's all you care about)
Or
Go fight the other girl and also risk terminating the marriage plans by your community Penis because the other lady will definitely tell him, he would be mad at you and most likely will stop talking to you.
Then you go about pleading with him and doing anything to get him back while he is busy apologising, pleasing loving up and pacifying the other babe due to the mess you made while ignoring your calls and chats..
Hahahaha.. any which way, you are royally fucked in this marriage if you go ahead with it.
Stella, i support your red pen 100%.
ReplyDeleteSo poster, your only plan is to shame the girl abi. What did she do to you, if I may ask?
Poster I know you are angry, not easy to love someone,and feel disappointed, but never ever trust anyone, Girl the world is filled with evil, trust only in God.
ReplyDeleteNow since the girl in question didn't attack you in anyway, do not share her nudes, you fiance is also lieing to her, you do not exist to her dear, so she's just like you, until she finds out about you too.
As for your fiancé, show him the damn nudes, and take every action you want with him, but if you end up marrying this guy, goodness, just know that you will share him with a lot of women, that's for sure. Udo!
Of course she will marry him and keep fighting girls off him and keep treating STDs and wetting her pillow with tears and smiling in photos.
DeleteYes o
Delete"Mrs" title is the goal
Ofcourse she's marrying him. That's why she cant confront him instead but looking for who to blame.
DeleteThink before you lift.
ReplyDeleteDistribution of naked photos is a crime and I pray you stupidly distribute the pictures and I pray the girl gets you arrested you stupid dumb bxtch!
ReplyDeleteOrdinary boyfriend you want to die on top of his matter. That’s how I know most of you don’t learn anything from the experiences of the chronicles sent in here.
Idiot!
Lady MorgiannE
Like... I actually want her to release those pics so that she can be taught a bitter lesson in having sense. Ive had enough of women's dumbness. They keep taking women backwards so let them suffer bitterly for their stupidity. Mumu girl
DeleteWhat will you gain from embarrassing him?, he will NEVER forgive you, if can't take it, simply work away!
ReplyDeletePoster, to add my 2 cents. I saw nude pictures on my hubby's phone 6 years ago which was the first time after 8yrs of marriage. I sent the girl's nudes to her phone with insults, and family on facebook. I also confronted my hubby and asked for a divorce. His family memeber who I sent the pics to called to beg and his boss at work who he confided in also begged. The lady insulted me but it's been one spirual battle after the other. She was just a one night stand at the hotel my hubby visited in another state for work. They wanted to make it permanent but I caught them on time. Choose your battle poster, it is well with you.
ReplyDeleteSo you have powers to make someone to have spiritual battles and you cannot use it to better you and your husband's life, for instance, to make him faithful to you even if he travels. Mtcheeeew
DeleteSome girls are actually very foolish
ReplyDeleteA man who proposed to you went on to woo another woman and possibly slept with her and collected her nudes on his phone, the solution your foolish brain could suggest are the above? Like seriously? Instead of you to face the dog you call finacee, you want to put another girl's career on the line?Jeeez! I'm sure you will still marry the dog, how many girls nudes will you share? Ewu!
If the reverse was the case? Like if that your dog sees another man's nudes on your phone, what will he do? Ask yourself this question maybe you will have sense.
ReplyDeleteAt last! Word!!
DeleteThis style I want to learn and master.
Thank you anon 20:08. Women really need to love themselves. Poster,incase you haven't figured it out, if reverse was the case,that your fiancee would dump you like rotten potatoes. I know you won't leave him but know that you saw the signs . Ire o
DeleteDear poster, one word of caution. Distributing such content is a CRIME in Nigeria. If the lady decides to take you up legally, hope you are ready for the outcome?
ReplyDeleteWhatever you decide to do with your decadent fiance is up to you.
Poster you don't have any business with the babe but your man, please confront your man and leave the babe alone.
ReplyDeletePlease just move on.... It's too early to carry on with this kind of baggage. If you guys get married eventually, there's no guarantee he would change so why give yourself unnecessary headache.
ReplyDeleteLeave fire!
DeleteDoes that chronicle sound like she wants to leave? Somebody that has already screenshot the style of her wedding dress? It's like you don't know that marriage is the life of Nigerian women. She won't mind using jazz to keep the randy man and marry him. Any side chick that pops up in future, she will fight them, treat any disease he brings home and keep peppering her single friends. Shior!
LEAVE the girl alone and CONFRONT your fiance.
ReplyDeleteIf you really want to play games as you have said. Make friends with the girl and then stop all communication with this this your guy. Let him wonder what he did wrong.
ReplyDeletePoster, it is wrong to always make excuses for a grown ass man. A man offended you but you want to fight a lady that may not know you. This is a sign of bad things to come. Either you carry your evidence and take a walk, or you confront him and let him know yours on infidelity. Remember, if you allow anyone treat you with disrespect, then they will think it's ok
ReplyDeleteDistribution or transmitting of nudes is a CRIME
ReplyDeleteOnly stupid useless people send or ask for nudes....shameless humans...no responsible man will ask for nudes and no responsible right thinking woman will snap her nude self and send to a man. . How stupid can people be
ReplyDeletePoster, the man hasn't gotten married to you yet, thus, doing any of this actions may likely end everything. Discuss with him about it.
ReplyDelete