We are all 'gossipers' one way or the other but there some people you should not gossip about......
There are also types of gossips.
I have a friend who is a head jammer. I didn’t know she is that type until she did it to me and I discovered. You meet people and then the next time you see them they will ignore you or just block your contact not knowing that someone has gone to spoil you before friendship kicked off.
You see this my friend is fine and classy so she attracts friends but the problem is, once she enters your circle she will jam all your heads together. She can’t keep one tiny detail to herself she will always tell and when those ones now sort out their matter they will throw her out of the circle.
She always has the same issues with everybody and I realized she was the problem. One time she took me to meet one of her rich friends and the babe and I clicked immediately, we gisted like we knew ourselves all our lives. My friend started texting her rich friend on that spot to be careful of me, that one was too happy and tipsy to open phone that time.
On our way back my friend started telling me all the rich friend was saying is a lie that I should be careful of her and not pick her calls before she will now use jazz to collect my remaining destiny. hnmmm
We were in traffic so we connected her phone to the car Bluetooth to play music next thing rich friend called and was asking her about stuff she forgot as they were talking that one just asked about the text she sent and why she should be careful of me. She shock, I shock. Then she said they will talk about that later she meant something else.
Me wey my mouth sharp. No o we will talk about it now. So I asked her while her rich friend was listening what she meant about using people’s destiny? Wicked girl no fit talk. Rich friend just told her to be careful about how she spoils people and that she is not surprised because we are all humans but she should please return the money she borrowed before she will use her destiny too .LOL
She tried to apologize to me and twist the matter like I am a 10 years old abi? Abeg go joor everybody dey do amebo e reach your turn na head you dey jam
Lol your last paragraph. So true had a friend that does that even add pepper and salt. Thank God for growth and life sha
ReplyDeleteSo good she was caught right in the act. Ya'll should be careful of her.
DeleteSee better gist😆
ReplyDeleteMost times these head jammers don't know when they do it.
When something is deep-rooted in you,It becomes part of your whole being,like toxicity😏
O ti di baraku niyen
DeleteThey call that type of people 'green snake under the green grass '.
ReplyDeleteYou got that right.....'green snake under the green grass'.
DeleteIt is: green snake in the grass, ladies.
DeleteGrass is usually green.
Nothing goes under grass. It just stays in between
I don't know why I find this funny😂
ReplyDeleteIt is inferiority complex that causes that.
ReplyDeleteThis type will like to brag but will be unhappy when good things are happening to her friends. That is sad.
DeleteI have one like that she comes to me and goes to my neighbor, after she will come back and narrate everything to me... na so i🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
DeleteSo friends are evil
ReplyDeleteSome friends are not worth it. You can imagine trying to jam your head with that of her rich friend. I wonder what she was trying to achieve with such behaviour. hnmmm
ReplyDeleteSome female are like that.it best to choose your friends wisely
ReplyDeleteMy MIL is comfortably sitting on this table😁😁😁😁
ReplyDeleteHead jammers terrible people to be friends with.
ReplyDeleteGod,may i not meet such people o
ReplyDeleteSome so called friends sha
ReplyDeleteThis type of people should be kept at arms length. They are dangerously dangerous. 😳
ReplyDeleteI swear o @ golden mummy. Very dangerous. I have one like that. The worst part is that she will still be smiling at me
DeleteThem plenty... jealousy inclined type of persons....when I encounter them i zoom zoom zoom!
ReplyDeleteI have a neighbor like this,the day I confronted her when she jammed me and another neighbor head she die stand,she go come my front behave like saint ,then she will go that Oda nebor house jam our two heads,Las Las she and that nebor wey she spoil me give fight tear head,as of now if she bring matter come I dey turn to deaf and dumb, very stupid jobless woman
ReplyDelete1,2,3...oya let it be officially known that there's no head jammer in this our ogbonge blog. Lol. Funny people. I'm sure sef that the head jammer in the narrative above is a BV but na she go curse head jammers pass
ReplyDeleteAnd how would you know? Are you a head jammer yourself?
DeleteThat head jamming thing is a branch of witchcraft.
ReplyDeleteVery wicked people
Head jammers association. What do you people gain?
ReplyDeleteI avoid head jammers like plague. One of my rules is, the way you talk about someone to me, I believe, it's the same you will talk about me to someone. So, whenever I see you tarnishing someone's image in my presence, I avoid you. It's my default settings now.
ReplyDeleteStella, this is called triangulation. I had one like that. Gosh! She will introduce you to people and finish you when she sees they are liking you. Gosh! I cut off a whole 5 years from my life because of her. It all made sense when i caught her! The attitude of everyone towards me. I think the day she started gossiping about her husbandand inlaws to me, I knew there was NO HOPE. Man wey pick you from scratch, give you foreign pali arrange your broke life. You reach there, you no get work, you begin carry phone dey gossiping and he and his family. How they no even get money, na packaging. Meanwhile, na you dey feed your papa since I know you. Your papa no get any plot of land for the whole Naija. Na package you package marry the guy and he dey try. Not too rich but okay. We contributed for you to buy your wedding outfit - you no get 1 naira. Yet you dey abuse person wey try. You reach there, carry your gossip begin slay them. I didn't say a word but the inlaws found out. They treat her like a plague now and she goes around telling people that "marriage isn't worth it" while positing on social media to praise her husband.
ReplyDeleteSome people are not mentally okay. Tufia!