Some in relationships quarrel so much that it heads all the way South....
Some couples/lovers do not speak to each other and they live in the same house and maybe sleep on the same bed.....
Some gossip their partners/lovers with their family members and friends and cannot seem to stop the badmouthing....
The strife between some is so thick that you can use it to make a Blanket.
Some couples/lovers do not speak to each other and they live in the same house and maybe sleep on the same bed.....
Some gossip their partners/lovers with their family members and friends and cannot seem to stop the badmouthing....
The strife between some is so thick that you can use it to make a Blanket.
Why are you not speaking to your spouse/lover?
What made you not speak to your spouse/lover? Was it a petty reason or well grounded reason?
Why do you gossip your them to others? Why not discuss their flaws and mistakes with them instead of turning them to a laughing stock?
Are/ Were you a victim of spouse/lover Malice, gossip, strife? or you were the one who kept malice and did not talk to your spouse or lover? Wetin happen?
Lets gist!
Make I sit down here with my cold kunu dey wait comments cuz me no dey this level.
ReplyDeleteSo far we've always ironed out our issues privately. Even when tempers go high, we have never gone a day keeping malice with each other. It's a no-silent-treatment team and I'm grateful to God for that
ReplyDeleteNaso jare....me wey too like play..if I no see my wife play with na war,,so why I go kan dey keep malice
DeleteMy ex can gossip for Africa eeh, and it is with women. I in other words can keep malice for long 😁😃. The marriage was so toxic that I quit for my mental health
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DeleteI keep malice when I'm pained. I prefer to keep quiet and avoid you till I'm calm enough to speak to you or just let the whole issue to fizzle out on its own.
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DeleteI don't know how to keep malice, but my partner can go days without taking to me. Most times I ask him for anything I want during those period and he will respond with straight face. Wetin concern me, na him dey keep me malice I no dey keep malice with him. When He is done he will free himself.
ReplyDeleteCarry go jare, na him sabi
DeleteI use to keep malice with my hubby and this could go as far as two weeks or more. He makes the first move for reconciliation each time am in my malice zone. One day I gave myself brain when he started parking his clothes into a travelling bag saying his leaving the house for me.My heart melted and i started begging him.
ReplyDeleteEyaa. I hope you e learnt from experience.
DeleteChai, eyah
DeleteSo you mellow down🙄malice is a no in relationships especially that of husband and wife.
DeleteStella I no for once dey happy with my spouse o,na so so malice and strife,I no hide my pikin from him wen we met,we come marry finished he lock me nd my boy outside,he no even Wan see/hear abt the boy,he graduated yesterday from pry,no single congrts from him,him no go ever find my favour
ReplyDeleteSorry poster, this is so hard for any mother. Have you also checked yourself? Some men can be so jealous, especially when it's not their kids. They might feel you are giving the boy too much attention instead of them. It happens too even if it's their child when the baby comes it's hard to balance things because everything tends to revolve around the baby no longer the Man. I will advise you to use your head and handle the situation wisely.
DeleteMy husband can't do without talking to me in a day,even if we fight,he will still look for a way to talk,if I give him food,no matter what I do,he will still murmur thanks, or sorry if he sees something fell ,but he won't tell me sorry for offending me. I
ReplyDeleteAtimes I feel lucky married to me,and at times I feel the other way
Sorry is overrated
DeleteUp and down of life.
DeleteI hate malice but some situations call for it.
ReplyDeleteI stopped speaking to my lover(ex) because of how emotionless he was,I was always the one begging for reconciliation,most times I thanked him for coming around and speaking to me after several days and weeks have passed.I used to walk on eggshells around him;"let me kuku zip my mouth,before he vex for me again"
I rolled my emotions all in,so that peace could reign.Until I finally received sense and flee.
I wouldn't say I gossied my partner,I just presented our constant issues to my friends to see if I was at fault and also for advice.
Eating my popcorn and siping my juice for comments
ReplyDeleteAs I no get lover / spouse, lemme read the comments of those that have
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ReplyDeleteMy husband keeps malice a lot. I always go to him to make up whatever issues which her mostly his fault. He can go 1 month without speaking to me. He has never said sorry for eight years since we got married.Right now i have no feelings for him. We are even currently keeping malice, this d ,2and week running. I've given up on loving him
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Why didn't he marry someone like me so that we will keep malice for years. I can keep malice for Africa. Hubby is always the first to talk, he can't keep malice for two days🤣
DeleteAnon.17.06. That's the irony of life. I can keep malice for years too. Men with such trait no dey jam pipo like us....the marriage go dey too toxic.
Deleteand you are happy at your bad behavior. thanks to the men u both have in your lives. you keep malice with me for one week, find yourself another partner.
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DeleteInteresting topic 🤔
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ReplyDeleteYou can't keep malice with me oo,I no sabi keep malice if am mad with you I will give you wot wot straight up and forget it the next minute, and if I offend you I will say sorry we move ,I don't have time for malice oo
ReplyDeleteSometimes it is better to ignore than give wotowoto. Most people don't forgive negative words.
DeleteWhen we just got married I discovered my husband is kind of person that likes to keep malice this really made me sad and affected me a lot as I am always this lively and talk talk person. This man would keep malice with me for like 2to3weeks at a point I got fed up of his childish behavior and started carrying face for him too I no send him again at all, I stopped cooking him food when he comes home from work I won't even tell him welcome just open door and turn back. When he see all of these he started forming friendship telling me cock and bull stories without apologizing I said Oga hold it there, are you tired of keeping malice? Oga if you are tired me I just started my own thank God I am working no be you kuku dey feed me this vawulence you started I am beginning to enjoy it and I don't ever want it to stop .before he replied me I don walk away from him, Chai see as oga body dey vibrate😁 he pain am he sweet me😛. When Oga saw that the malice and silent treatment is no more affecting me , one night he just held me and said "I am very sorry " and that was the end of keeping malice in our home.
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DeleteI know a couple,he made his wife a complete housewife.The wife used the opportunity of being a housewife to pop cute lil kiddies,in 7 years of marriage she had 5 of em.Four years into marriage her darling hub decided to take a second wife as per Sunnah things.Fast forward now,the hub keeps malice with her almost every week,and she has to beg and beg and beg,meanwhile na him dey always wrong her o.I was with them a certain time and I asked why she keeps begging the man when it's obvious he is at fault,she said he would stop sleeping at home and spend his time with the other wife,but the one that troubles her is he won't drop food money.He can drop 2k for a week to feed the five kiddies because them dey keep malice. So she has to beg so they can feed proper,the lady is a shadow of herself,looking malnourished and sad.
ReplyDeletePlease ladies,always always have something doing, especially when you want to pop plenty babies.
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DeleteGod go help us the single with the best marriage.🙏🏾
DeleteBabados
She needs to add 5 more kiddies
DeleteShe allowed herself to be backed into thrash
DeleteNa wah
DeleteIf I see someone that I am keeping malice with. My heart will skip. I will be praying for the person to talk to me😰
DeleteIn fact just dont pop out plenty babies...unless you are independantly VERY wealthy!...2 kids is ok!
DeleteMy ex never apologized for anything until he sees a strong reason to,thank God i dodged a bullet,i can count how many times he said sorry in over five years of dating.
ReplyDeleteGuy man can carry face ehhhhn and wait for me to beg him,good radiance
Omoooo we de quarrel shaaa and it’s usually me that doesn’t let go easily because I feel he is too carefree with a baa kwomi attitude 😩 When the quarrel sele, everyone go dey him Dey until we tire. Next thing be say one of us go pick phone buzz the other for WhatsApp,” Babe Howfar? 🤣 Civil war don end be that.
ReplyDeleteMy own husband would always find every lil thing as reason to pick a fight. Always telling his friends and family bad things about me, most of which are lies or exaggerated. Right now, he hasn't been home for three days now bcos of an argument we had. He just left. I am just tired. Current thinking of a divorce.
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DeleteWow,this is a new forte for me.i have not spoken to my elder brother in over a year.The last time I spoke with him was my traditional wedding day.Our mom is late and her younger sister couldn't come because of distance.My brother wasted our time, waiting for him to come,my bride price was paid in the night, ceremony that was slated for 12 noon.My dad came and was full of apologies, everything proceeded well,all our family members were present.My brother was just making trouble downstairs,I was upstairs getting my make up done.My brother got into a physical fisticuffs with my uncle because he wanted them to give my mom's dues to the strange woman he brought.i have never met the woman in my life.it was so embarrassing.Na jean trousers he wear come hin only sister traditional wedding.After he finished fighting,he took his wife and two kids and went back to where they came from.The wife called me on phone and Insulted me very well,them never pay her own bride price o.after having grown up kids for my Bro.The little kids also insulted me through sms.None of them attended my Church wedding the next day.i was very sad but life went on.That day I cut ties with my Brother.He has gone to report me to family members everywhere.he never said what he did,na me no do this and that.me,I have resolved not to speak with him till he apologizes to me.
ReplyDeleteYou have time for rubbish. Even after the so called apology you are waiting for. The kind of distance I will keep ehn. Australia and Nigeria will be too close. Broad ko, Bonla ni.
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