I dont get it... Did the late actress Ada Ameh tell anyone that she has no family members? NO she did not, she just decided to keep them private as it should be!
The way some Nigerians use their social media to attack and troll is beyond shocking......
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This is a family matter
ReplyDeleteGod bless you for saying this, Stella. Nigerians on social media are just stupid. Because she didn’t speak about her family on social media never meant they had issues. People are just barking that where was the family when she lost her child. Such nonsense. How many of them know what goes on in her family?
DeleteAda sister Is wicked she even unfollowwd empress on Ada instagram.only express is following Ada but Ada noot following empress
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DeleteSome people are just jobless by carrying other people’s wahala on their head. They should leave her family alone to mourn her in peace, what is all these dragging here and there just to pull traffic.
ReplyDeleteShe lived her life mostly with friends.
DeleteThey’re indirectly yabbing Empress because she opened a condolence house and people were going there to pay her condolence visit as per bestie.
ReplyDeleteWhile I’m not really in support of that as she’s not a direct member, Ada’s family members are doing the absolute worst!!
Using her IG page and making her a collaborator to promote their ministry, sharing lessons from her death on her page!!
Who does that?!
That’s the absolute height of insensitivity and the need to use people.
The pastor is actually the sisters husband and he’s now the chief coordinator with his next like peacock 🙄🙄🙄🙄
There is NOTHING like condolence house. There is only condolence register.
DeleteIf people are opening condolence register in honour of your family member who has passed, you should shit up and be HONOURED instead of complaining as if they are siphoning money from you.
NOBODY needs to take permission to open a condolence register.
Nobody attacked her for mourning her sister. She started using Adah's page to promote her pastor husband that was why she was dragged. Keep resting in peace Adah, one death that hit me hard.
ReplyDeleteTHE FACT THAT SHE HAS HER SISTERS PASSWORD SHOW THEY WERE CLOSE; PLEASE LEAVE HER ALONE:::IT IS NO ONE BUSINESS WHAT SHE DOES WITH HER SISTERS PAGE; SOCIAL MEDIA PEOPLE HAVE NO RIGHT AT ALL TO TROLL THEM!
DeleteBiko Sdk what are you saying? Even if you must promote your husband must you do it now? Biko it is insensitive,
DeleteAgreed its not our business, but what the sister did seems insensitive. Haba, the lady just died na
DeleteStellz, it is very wrong to use Adah’s page to promote her husband. If you think it’s right, I have a question for why. Why wasn’t he promoted on that same page when the deceased was alife? That she has her password doesn’t mean anything. She can always request for change of passwords if she has access to Adah’s phone. If they were so close, why was Empress her sole caregiver rather than the sister? Abeg take style de reason matter through. There’s a lot left to be questioned.
DeleteFINNY HONEY its family matter and its nobodys business at all......nobodys knows the story and nobody should even come out to yarn any trash, she is gone, let it be so......
DeleteNigerians sometimes over do it and this is one of them...
PS. that person that commented about not liking me and derailing the topic with your dislike for me, i deleted your comment and know also that i dont like u too and will keep deleting your trash.... go to instagram and stay there ah ah!!!
At least you read the persons comment that should be enough for the person
DeleteWHAT IS WRONG IS WRONG !!! People need to stop reasoning from their anus? Ho can somebody die and they are using the person's instagram to promote husband's ministry? What stupid,senseless, shameless unfeeling audacity.
DeleteWhen people are wrong, do well to correct them. Have you seen any mention of the husband's ministry on her page when she was alive?
What rubbish!
Issa family affair gbuo gi you there.
Hahahahahahah @Sdk your haters no dey tire ni.
DeleteOmo i don see useless family before so i understand the plights and anger of Netizen.
Some family members wont give a rat ass about you when you are alive until you die. instantly they will begin to chase clout with your demise and fighting over your property.
I dont have a problem with her taking over her sisters account but its damn to early for her to be promoting her husband on her late sister account.
Meanwhile Give us your haters handles lets drag them small on Instagram. I get time and energy today.
Chai sometimes the way SDK can be objective they pain me Sha, Stella let's say the truth it is wrong! They are taking advantage of her death and yes even though they are family does not mean we can't say the truth when we see things that aren't right!
DeleteAnon 12.16 haf vex🤣🤣
Delete12:16, I understand that what Stella said is wrong but that does not justify your last paragraph. E never reach like that. Take it easy in cursing people.
DeleteStells, I still think it's wrong and highly insensitive to do that on Adah's page. Which one is 6 lessons to learn from Adah's death? That's clout chasing at it's finest.
DeleteMiss Aboki, no be everyone wey stand for 2 legs dey normal na.
DeleteI remember when my loved one died.
How to even put one leg infront of the other was a daily challenge not talk of arranging epistle and opening someone's social media page to draft content and then dive into comment section to answer questions and gist with commenters.
When you are genuinely Morning someone that is the last thing you would think of, infact basic common sense should tell this so called sister that THERE IS A TIME FOR EVERYTHING
Thank you sdk. She respected them enough to keep them off social media that doesn't in any indicate that she didn't have family. People should take a chill pill. Don't cry more than the bereaved.
ReplyDeleteDont know if my comment went through. She was trolled for using Adah's page to promote her pastor husband and not for mourning her.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you Stella for saying it as it is.Nigerians are so emotional.i went through Ada page and saw her mother's pictures as well as the sister.So she still recognises these people as family .She seemed like a private person who doesn't talk much about her family.Even her daughter wasn't really out there till she died. I feel Empress could have just collaborated with the family on the even ( Empress might have her reasons and we don't know the details)
ReplyDeleteShe has since deleted some of the videos and locked the comment section. Using your sister's death to clout chase.SMH
ReplyDeletei don't know why it looks like, Nigerians natural want the dead to be buried with someone before they can justify that death is compulsory for everybody.
ReplyDeleteThis is a family affair, I will not interfere......🚶🚶
ReplyDeleteExactly..we should learn to mind our business sometimes
DeleteOk. When next you see a man raping his sister or a husband beating his wife, do well to remember your words. 🙂
DeleteAbout the mourning houses...I'm surprised Ada's family wasn't contacted before they started it.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmm family matters on ground
ReplyDeleteThey don’t have to be contacted na… Empress was her very good friend. Anyone can put that up in respect to the dead. My friend put up a condolence register for my mum in her house and I didn’t know about until later. (That was thoughtful)
ReplyDeleteEmpress already said she will bring up the real tea but not now.
I’m sorry but her sister is a clout chaser!
They are shading Empress, but Empress also has a right to mourn her friend and set up a condolence register cos a lot of people knew they were very close and will have wanted to be by Empress to comfort her after the demise of her friend. It’s not much of a big deal and it’s also very thoughtful,it doesn’t mean Ada didn’t have a family or the family is ignored. Why are they using her page to do lessons on her death,cos it seems more like a promotion for the pastor and not mourning. May her soul Rest In Peace.
ReplyDeleteMay the dead RIP. Make the living continue to drag the dead property.
ReplyDeleteAsk what are u saying? E be like say u never chop today.what Ada's sister and her pastor husband is doing is very wrong.Madam call a spade a spade and stop lording your opinions over us.if we leave this blog for you,only you fit stay here? You are just too bossy,tueh
ReplyDeleteAnyperson in Benue State bearing Ameh dies Ada will claim it's her brother or sister. The lies were too many.
ReplyDeleteThen again how can a 33 year old young lady in the domitilla film of 1996 claim 47 years in 2022. Too much lie lie abeg
You be mumu.Thank God say death go reach everyone
DeleteRest in peace you this Anonymous.
DeleteSo they're indirectly shading Empress,after everything. Everyone knows how close Empress and Ada were so opening a condolence register isn't bad infact Empress was the family Ada portrayed ( she said Empress was more than a sister to her few day ago before her death).
ReplyDeleteThey're using Ada's death for clout..simple.
I wouldn't be surprised if it was the same empress that gave the so called sister the Instagram login details. Secondly, Ada while alive didn't promote her in-laws church on her page, why are they doing that now that she's gone. Lastly jeweluchi, family isn't only by blood . T for thanks
ReplyDeleteTo me, the way the 'family' went about this whole thing is not the best.
ReplyDeleteReason: Adah lived as a known actor, who was loved.
As a result, she endeared to fans from across the country, and even beyond.
Posts from her Instagram page (where most of her fans visit) indicate she had her values and clearly showed her perspectives.
She used her platform to showcase what she believed in and showcased what she wanted to showcase.
Likewise, she kept private, what she wanted that way (for reason(s) known to her)
My point, therefore, is, for her 'family' to intrude on her platform immediately after her demise, (as e dey hot), and instead of continuing with her ideals...or better still allow it that way, they choose to transform it into something else. Using it as an avenue to give motivational talks about death, is what I think is Highly Insensitive and questions their intention.
Personally, as a fan, the first place I went to after I saw the news of her passing was her page.
I wanted to see if she would debunk it as false news.
Then, after a while, when it was confirmed that she had passed, I simply wanted to go through her page to remember her via her posts (pictures and videos).
Sincerely speaking, I found it totally OFF and insensitive when I saw something else there.
That was not necessary.
Why didn't the sister use her OWN Instagram page or her husband's to share whatever they wanted to??? She could've done that (can still do that) and use a hashtag to connect.
People still want to connect to Ada through her page, her legacy, and what she is remembered for. Not go there to start seeing a TOTALLY different person (in the name of in-law), using it to promote their ministry. I believe if Ada wanted that, she would have used her page to promote that when she was around. But she didn't.
The issue is that we don't know how to respect boundaries and to respect other people's perspectives and keep that memory alive.
We jump into any opportunity to channel it ourselves instead (chasing clout with every opportunity).
YES, Adah was your sister and family, but she was more than that during her lifetime.
She shared her life with other people as well, through her talent.
These people have the right to remember her for what she was, during her time here with us.
We want videos of her moments posted there, as a memorial.
Brother-in-law and sister can open their page and use this period to promote it.
Not HIJACK the deceased page to promote their business.
Worse is using it as a weapon to settle scores with people (blocking off Empress)
If Adah were around, will you (SISTER) try that???
Do you think this is what she wants???
Respect her friendship with Empress and other colleagues.
You are FAMILY, but she shared her life with others as well.
All together, made her the Ada Ameh we know.
You don't have to agree with everything, draw your PERSONAL/ UNIQUE-YOU boundaries, but when it comes to your sister Ada, respect that she has others in life who equally lost and miss her.
I think there is a need to set up a committee for her funeral, comprising family, friends, and colleagues.
Condolence registers can be opened at Empress's, another at her resident ah Ajah-Lagos, another at the Actor's guild office, yet another at the family house in the villa, or anywhere else.
Fans, Colleagues, and friends will choose the nearest one to them and visit.
Services of songs can equally be conducted in Lagos, where she lived most of her life and started her acting career.
This is so that those who can't go to the village for internment (for one reason or the other) can have the opportunity to pay their last respect as well.
Another service of songs can be held in the Village, before burial.
Y'all should come together, keep your differences aside, and plan a befitting funeral for ADA Ameh.
Family, friends, and colleagues.....KEEP ADA's MEMORY ALIVE BIKO!!!
Thank you. You said it all...
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DeleteOh wow! You have written the truth so beautifully. I wish they’d read this.
DeleteThank God for your wisdom. This man that called himself and his wife had better pick up the lessons in your post.
DeleteYou nailed it, totally on point.
Delete👏 👏 well said
DeletePerfectly said . Thanks and I wushu they will read and adopt .
DeleteJossy
It is wrong to keep the SM pages of a deceased open and keep posting on it. Some siblings are worse than enemies while some friends are closer than siblings, it’s in the Bible. I wrote globally accepted norms & truths as I don’t know the specifics of this case but globally the convention is to close the SM pages of a deceased, not use it for promotion of anyone or organization.
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